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MichelleLacy @michellelacy.bsky.social · 15/01/2026

Guess I am back on here now with spicy content!

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MichelleLacy @michellelacy.bsky.social · 02/11/2025

Just want someone to take me away for the weekend and stay locked and chained to my floor. Is that too much to ask?

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MichelleLacy @michellelacy.bsky.social · 29/10/2025

How I see myself. How my subs see me. ( @DirkHooper ) Who I'm compared to the most in day to day life.

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MichelleLacy @michellelacy.bsky.social · 29/10/2025

A reminder that you don't need terrible subs. You're worth more than that.

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MichelleLacy @michellelacy.bsky.social · 29/10/2025

What books did you blow through on train commuting in the days before cell phones? Dark Tower Series kept my commutes fast. All Anne Rice novels. Consider Phlebas Def crushed Dune a bunch

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MichelleLacy @michellelacy.bsky.social · 29/10/2025

Make time for yourself. Its important.

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MichelleLacy @michellelacy.bsky.social · 29/10/2025

The other best aftercare was reading all the thank you cards, emails, texts and letters 🥰

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MichelleLacy @michellelacy.bsky.social · 28/10/2025

Jan 2027 is my 20yr Dommiversary. I just realized that now and my brain is exploding.

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MichelleLacy @michellelacy.bsky.social · 28/10/2025

Just a reminder that you don't have to stay in an M/s relationship that isn't nurturing you, helping you grow, and giving you great experiences.

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MichelleLacy @michellelacy.bsky.social · 26/10/2025

@MissLoreleiLee "Brians" want to put swers in a corner so they feel afraid. They look at you like a caged animal with a sick grin. His "paper" is his lame cowardly excuse to stalk and harass you. Don't allow this. Ignore.

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MichelleLacy @michellelacy.bsky.social · 24/10/2025

The thank you, cards and letters are overwhelmingly beautiful

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MichelleLacy @michellelacy.bsky.social · 24/10/2025

I slept 11 hours when I arrived at home and had a wonderful massage from a local massage therapist sub that we all adore yesterday afternoon and took the rest of the day to relax. I had takeout delivered. Still tired but feeling so happy, grateful and overall in awe of you all.

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MichelleLacy @michellelacy.bsky.social · 13/10/2025

The happiest bday ever to @MissIsobelDevi! One of the most amazing human beings on the whole planet. ❤️ I'm so grateful for each day that she is in my life, and she better be spoiled rotten for her birthday!

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MichelleLacy @michellelacy.bsky.social · 11/10/2025

@MissIsobelDevi always made sure that the servants were useful objects.

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MichelleLacy @michellelacy.bsky.social · 10/10/2025

@sfDomme @GretaVDT Findoms also sometimes do real-time and the confusion for folks can be pretty common. Still, people should always do research as a more classic dominatrix usually doesn't do this at all.

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MichelleLacy @michellelacy.bsky.social · 08/10/2025

@mistresstess1 They may not tell you this but try to not bend down to the floor, that puts a lot of pressure on your eye.

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MichelleLacy @michellelacy.bsky.social · 27/09/2025

@Hoodman2nd @8GypsySoul My vanilla friends didn't even get on a plane. Too overwhelming for them. Instead 20+ scene people loved and supported me. Not every domme is a character. Not every sub knows them as that character.

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MichelleLacy @michellelacy.bsky.social · 27/09/2025

@Hoodman2nd @8GypsySoul When my husband died and I was sick on my death bed, my SW friends and subs came to my rescue. They nurtured me, supported me. Asked for nothing in return. Not bc I'm a domme but bc they got to know all of me and love all of who I am over many yrs. We are all very close.

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MichelleLacy @michellelacy.bsky.social · 24/09/2025

I deserve to be spoiled. Where am I?

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MichelleLacy @michellelacy.bsky.social · 23/09/2025

Currently cleansing myself after this weekend before I get too evil and powerful.

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MichelleLacy @michellelacy.bsky.social · 14/09/2025

Being a man eater is a great gig 👌

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MichelleLacy @michellelacy.bsky.social · 29/08/2025

@BdsmOxy Are you using Ai to get more eyeballs on your brand? Bc its pretty horrible lol. Are you even reading what is happening??

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MichelleLacy @michellelacy.bsky.social · 19/08/2025

Allowing people to attend an event who are not in the right place bc you want to "take the money" will only create a problem at the event you now have to take care of, a problem that might ruin the time of others who waited all year OR YEARS for this. Don't do it.

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MichelleLacy @michellelacy.bsky.social · 18/08/2025

@QuinnHelix It might be time to hang up the whip and figure out what will make you feel happy and fulfilled. Walking away from something that isn't serving you, that is not working out for you, is the best thing you can do for your mental health.

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MichelleLacy @michellelacy.bsky.social · 17/08/2025

@IndomitusBD Isobel didn't hear from you right away. She thought you were sleeping in maybe. Or perhaps you were just trapped here: x.com/QUEEN_JASMINE88/status/195715…

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MichelleLacy @michellelacy.bsky.social · 15/08/2025

and lifestyle scenes. I hope you get to experience it before we no longer have it. Are you attending our 10 year Anniversary?

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MichelleLacy @michellelacy.bsky.social · 15/08/2025

Events just did not exist like that. We broke the mold. We took an antiquated concept and smashed it and put it back together better. Many of our Pros and servants are in M/s situations after meeting at our events. One pair got married <3 Despite happening at the famous Clubdom

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MichelleLacy @michellelacy.bsky.social · 15/08/2025

We not only promoted Pros, we HONORED THEM FOREVER by leaving their bios and links on our site permanently, a site which at one point, when we had ads in all 50 states, had an unheard amount of traffic.

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MichelleLacy @michellelacy.bsky.social · 14/08/2025

@Mo_C_86 But the difference is findom is based on largely having clients where this is so, with few exceptions.

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MichelleLacy @michellelacy.bsky.social · 14/08/2025

@Mo_C_86 cruelty. Which is why most findoms are so harsh and cruel and never show nicer sides. They can't even if they feel compassion etc. Occasionally that mentality is also in femdom clients. We show compassion, they'll never rebook. They want the cruelest person.

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MichelleLacy @michellelacy.bsky.social · 13/08/2025

@_TRNTY_ (In other words, its merely a marketing tactic)

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MichelleLacy @michellelacy.bsky.social · 13/08/2025

@_TRNTY_ At least, I hope that is what the poster is merely doing, by posting a line which attracts their clientele who enjoys role-playing their lesser role. A roleplay might offend others but it isn't meaning it is true or actually deeply felt by the dominant.

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MichelleLacy @michellelacy.bsky.social · 11/08/2025

We are connected via the internet more than we ever were before. Instead of making cute tik toks in sexy outfits perhaps make tik tok (or other platforms) stories on positive changes you made in someone's life through your work. Perhaps share why your work matters. Break down

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MichelleLacy @michellelacy.bsky.social · 04/08/2025

I'm so good at the Edge-O'Matic calibration now, its absolutely criminal and I should be stopped.

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MichelleLacy @michellelacy.bsky.social · 02/08/2025

@DominaSnow I am giving them both a huge discount to my school in the Spring bc I'm so disgusted by this.

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MichelleLacy @michellelacy.bsky.social · 02/08/2025

@DominaSnow I have not 1 but 2 ppl in my inbox who went to a school that just wrapped up by an educator who has a fraction of the exp they do and taught them nothing.

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MichelleLacy @michellelacy.bsky.social · 29/07/2025

@Hoodman2nd @chicagomistress People also did not think "buy" their mentality was "rent" and back then when things were within reach, some should have and could have bought. Not everyone was wise with their income. Most blew it as soon as it was made, as if it would have never ran out.

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MichelleLacy @michellelacy.bsky.social · 29/07/2025

@Hoodman2nd @chicagomistress Most of those spaces are gone now. LSDS was an entire top Penthouse floor aith slylights and roof access. And what a shame it was never built out by the owners to actually make good use of the huge space we had.

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MichelleLacy @michellelacy.bsky.social · 29/07/2025

@Hoodman2nd @chicagomistress When I was a NYC domme there were lots of dungeons. We had LSDS, Nutcracker. Phil's place with the strap-on bust, Jasmines, Hidden Chamber, Fortress, Pandoras. Run by dommes you had Parthenon, Arena, Alexa Complexa's huge place. Individually small spaces, plenty.

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MichelleLacy @michellelacy.bsky.social · 28/07/2025

Its been a wild past 2 hours in SOBE already. I have a nice captive pet in my room who is underfoot while I do work on my laptop and eat bougie snacks.

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MichelleLacy @michellelacy.bsky.social · 26/07/2025

Thank you for the battery @tiff52575 and for the bikini @Steve3Boston

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