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Mette Hvied Lauesen

@mettehl.bsky.social
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Writing about little things, small things, leadership things, grief things. I don't interact with anonymous profiles. Be transparent. I am. And single men don't need to send me "How are you" messages, thanks. Happily married with no plans to change it.

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Mette Hvied Lauesen @mettehl.bsky.social · 15h
Why is it only the women going through unpleasant surgery?
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Mette Hvied Lauesen @mettehl.bsky.social · 16h
Yeah - funny how he's against the ICC.....
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Mette Hvied Lauesen @mettehl.bsky.social · 10/10/2026
People say resilience is easy for me. It isn’t. I got it wrong for years, then changed habits, patterns and people. Resilience isn’t something you have. It’s something you do, again and again. E-book with 10 ways to reduce stress: www.mettehl.dk/10_ways_to_r...
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Mette Hvied Lauesen @mettehl.bsky.social · 09/10/2026
What? The great orange peacekeeper and war-stopper didn't get the Nobel Peace Prize? I'm guessing there's huffing and puffing on Penn Ave at the moment....
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Mette Hvied Lauesen @mettehl.bsky.social · 09/10/2026
A study said when women are angry, they're considered hysterical and out of control and reacting due to something internal. When men are angry, we see them as confident amd strong, and responding to external situations. And you wondering why women don't react loudly when stuff happens to them?
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Mette Hvied Lauesen @mettehl.bsky.social · 08/10/2026
I'm in
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Mette Hvied Lauesen @mettehl.bsky.social · 05/10/2026
Do you know ANY women who haven't had unwanted sexual attention or contact? ANY?
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Mette Hvied Lauesen @mettehl.bsky.social · 05/10/2026
About mansplaining: Men what do you get out of explaining stuff to women that they basically just said? And in addition: if the women are talking from their own experience - and you weren't there - why tell us what it was like for us? It happens all the time and I really don't understand.
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Mette Hvied Lauesen @mettehl.bsky.social · 26/09/2026
Our pleasure and wishing you all the best!
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Mette Hvied Lauesen @mettehl.bsky.social · 28/08/2026
Busy renaming Mar A Lago Mette's house. And Florida is henceforth known as Canada's appendix.
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Mette Hvied Lauesen @mettehl.bsky.social · 31/07/2026
Not so much blowing up boats but killing people - just because... Isn't that murder?
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Mette Hvied Lauesen @mettehl.bsky.social · 23/07/2026
I'm confused. Who's the bad guy here? The guy who abused government helicopters so that his kid could have a golf lesson or the guy who told about it? edition.cnn.com/2026/07/22/p...
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Secret Service agent on Vance’s detail suspected of leaking information is put on leave amid internal review | CNN Politics
A Secret Service agent on Vice President JD Vance’s security detail is under internal review and has been put on administrative leave after being suspected of leaking information for a news story that...
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Mette Hvied Lauesen @mettehl.bsky.social · 23/07/2026
Videos of David Beckham proudly showing off his produce, his chickens, his gardens - all while wearing a tweed cap - reminds me a little bit of Marie Antoinette's mini village near Versailles. And I'm quite sure he's a nice guy....
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Mette Hvied Lauesen @mettehl.bsky.social · 20/05/2026
You know how some pimps tattoo 'their' girls? Please tell me what the difference is to this? www.huffingtonpost.co.uk/entry/mar-a-...
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'Mar-a-Lago Face' Is Everywhere — And The Reason It's So Popular Is Kind Of Sinister
It's a caricature of femininity, and a must for any woman who wants to climb the ranks in MAGA world. But there are deeper reasons the look is so in demand, experts say.
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Princess Tabi 👑💜🌈+ Dezi @chieftabi.bsky.social · 11/05/2026
To all the people I love and care for…please know this is the absolute basic price of admission for self-care. Your excuses you made for past behavior inflicted upon you are simply defense mechanisms. You are minimizing the longterm impact of not choosing YOU. 💜
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Mette Hvied Lauesen @mettehl.bsky.social · 03/05/2026
One question: Why are we allowing him to get this much attention? He feeds off it. Just ignore him. The more attention he gets, the bigger the trouble he creates.
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Mette Hvied Lauesen @mettehl.bsky.social · 25/04/2026
He could at least have made the effort to have a different picture taken. But no. All AI. When he talks about fake news- he means his own, I guess.
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Mette Hvied Lauesen @mettehl.bsky.social · 16/04/2026
Isn't it sort of stooping to their level?
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Mette Hvied Lauesen @mettehl.bsky.social · 11/04/2026
I'm not a fan of her at all, and please mind your language
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Mette Hvied Lauesen @mettehl.bsky.social · 07/04/2026
At this point, I'm sure the people of Venezuela, Iran, Cuba and other places might have the opinion that they're paying as well....
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Mette Hvied Lauesen @mettehl.bsky.social · 07/04/2026
It's not often that criminals declare ahead of time where and when they'll commit their crimes. Anyone has the phone number for Hague?
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Mette Hvied Lauesen @mettehl.bsky.social · 01/04/2026
So I understand that the American government is furious that Europe and other NATO allies won't step in and help the US get out of the illegal war they started for no particular reason and with no warning to NATO. Well - what would it have looked like if it was the other way round?
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Mette Hvied Lauesen @mettehl.bsky.social · 31/03/2026
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Mette Hvied Lauesen @mettehl.bsky.social · 27/03/2026
I'm a feminist and quite happy
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Mette Hvied Lauesen @mettehl.bsky.social · 16/03/2026
So I saw this clip where Melania whatshername called herself a 'visionary'. Enough said.
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Mette Hvied Lauesen @mettehl.bsky.social · 16/03/2026
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Mette Hvied Lauesen @mettehl.bsky.social · 10/03/2026
High-achieving women don't burn out from doing too much. They burn out from performing too long in a register that was never quite their own. And the cost follows them home. I wrote about it
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Mette Hvied Lauesen @mettehl.bsky.social · 08/03/2026
So I'm thinking. The attack on Iran is illegal in that Congress never approved it. Does that mean that the many many people involved in executing it will be liable? Thinking Nürenberg trial and how obeying illegal orders IS illegal?
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Mette Hvied Lauesen @mettehl.bsky.social · 01/03/2026
Right - so oil prices will rise as a consequences of the attack on Iran. That means the His Orange Greatness will benefit even more from the oil he's stealing in Venezuela. It's all business, baby...
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Mette Hvied Lauesen @mettehl.bsky.social · 28/02/2026
And let's not forget that the US is doing their best to influence elections in Europe.....
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Mette Hvied Lauesen @mettehl.bsky.social · 28/02/2026
Would anyone have compiled a complete list of crimes comitted during the second presidency? And a complete list of crimes until then?
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Mette Hvied Lauesen @mettehl.bsky.social · 26/02/2026
What they don't tell you about stress. It's a serious change to your system. Here's what happened to me: mettehl.substack.com/p/long-term-...
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Long-term effects of stress - what they don't tell you
Stress does not always disappear without consequences. Discover the hidden long-term physical and cognitive effects of chronic stress and how it impacts you.
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Mette Hvied Lauesen @mettehl.bsky.social · 24/02/2026
I'm curious about how it would go for a service provider if Karoline Leavitt was in charge of customer service.
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Mette Hvied Lauesen @mettehl.bsky.social · 22/02/2026
Two things make this ridiculous: US hospital ships are in docks in Alabame. And there's free healthcare in Greenland. Oh and an American crew member on US submarine was just evacuated to go to hospital in Greenland. Good thing he didn't have to wait for one of those ships to arrive....
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Mette Hvied Lauesen @mettehl.bsky.social · 22/02/2026
And what with the demand to deliver a FIVE year social media history - with LinkedIn only going a year back - nope not going. I went to Canada, though. Lovely place.
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Mette Hvied Lauesen @mettehl.bsky.social · 21/02/2026
I would think King Charles has norms, values, integrity. Just a thought.
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Mette Hvied Lauesen @mettehl.bsky.social · 20/02/2026
Think mobster methods. What has forced her?
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Mette Hvied Lauesen @mettehl.bsky.social · 17/02/2026
New leader? Don’t forget to take care of yourself! In my latest article, I share 5 reasons why leaders burn out—and how you can avoid the same traps. If you’re new to leadership or feeling the pressure, this is for you. mettehl.substack.com/p/5-reasons-...
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Mette Hvied Lauesen @mettehl.bsky.social · 13/02/2026
I'm not saying you're the frog in the boiling pot of water, but... mettehl.substack.com/p/why-high-f...
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Why high-functioning professionals often recognise mental health strain too late
How sustained responsibility and cognitive load delay recognition
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Mette Hvied Lauesen @mettehl.bsky.social · 12/02/2026
So yes - you can be loud as an introvert. For different reasons. One is masking. And it all comes at a cost. Read more: mettehl.substack.com/p/you-dont-l...
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"You don't look introverted!"
The hidden work of adapting to an extroverted world
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Mette Hvied Lauesen @mettehl.bsky.social · 12/02/2026
How come nobody calls it out for what it is: The undermining of democracy?
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Mette Hvied Lauesen @mettehl.bsky.social · 08/02/2026
Do you want a sustainable life? Read about the ten rules of the IKIGAI. They can serve as a blueprint for a career and a life that can carry pressure without collapsing, especially during stress, grief, or transition. Think structure, repetition, quiet habits. open.substack.com/pub/mettehl/...
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The ten rules of IKIGAI as a blueprint for sustainable success
A practical framework for building a career and a life that can actually hold under pressure
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Mette Hvied Lauesen @mettehl.bsky.social · 07/02/2026
About THAT video! By posting it, you're helping spread the hate. The thing is: We all know how vile the orange soandso is. We all know. And you're playing right into his game when you spread this video. For crying out loud, please take it down!
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Mette Hvied Lauesen @mettehl.bsky.social · 07/02/2026
Please take it down. It's not helpful and very rude.
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Mette Hvied Lauesen @mettehl.bsky.social · 06/02/2026
Would you please stop spreading it and take it down. Thank you.
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Mette Hvied Lauesen @mettehl.bsky.social · 05/02/2026
I’ve guided people through grief for many years and I’ve seen too many people wait for time to fix their grief — and they end up living in gray for years. It doesn’t have to be that way. Read what I’ve observed: open.substack.com/pub/mettehl/...
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Grief and time – and why we cannot just wait for it to pass
Not about moving on — but about moving forward, with grief as your companion.
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Mette Hvied Lauesen @mettehl.bsky.social · 31/01/2026
Are you too tired at the end of the day? Do you feel drained often? Here's what might be behind it and what you can do: open.substack.com/pub/mettehl/...
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When you're environment is what tires you
Why visual environments can exhaust the mind even on “quiet” workdays
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Mette Hvied Lauesen @mettehl.bsky.social · 28/01/2026
We knew they really like to hit, shoot and be abusive to people - mainly brown people but others will do just fine, too - now they also start international incidents. CONSULATE'S ARE NOT US TERRITORY!!!!! What is the lowest level of school acceptable for DHS?
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Mette Hvied Lauesen @mettehl.bsky.social · 26/01/2026
Hitler was awful. But he didn't have any convictions for sexual assaults....
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Mette Hvied Lauesen @mettehl.bsky.social · 12/01/2026
Ventesorg - ja, det er jo nok kun noget for andre... Hvis det nu ER noget for dig, så holder jeg webinar om det onsdag aften. Læs mere her: www.mettehl.dk/webinar_vent...
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Webinar - ventesorg - når livet er sat på pause
Webinar om ventesorg med viden og konkrete tiltag
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