iiinova — where your digital self keeps evolving

Meowskies @meowskies.bsky.social · 26/09/2026

My therapy isn't for free anymore nor is my time. People can adjust as I have done endlessly for them or not, either is fine, but one I will no longer show up for. My peace of mind is far more important than worrying about being excluded at events/get togethers or because of people issues.

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Meowskies @meowskies.bsky.social · 26/09/2026

As someone who has heard so many stories from so many people in the kink world one major piece of advice I'd say: Practice what you fucking preach and bitch about. That extends beyond sex as well.

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Meowskies @meowskies.bsky.social · 26/09/2026

And I can say with certainty it's more than what I've been getting. It's always interesting seeing who shows up when you stop feeding emotional support. I expect & deserve more from people, I won't settle for being a last option or a forgotten option, and I certainly won't put in 100% anymore

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Meowskies @meowskies.bsky.social · 26/09/2026

I've had many friendships come and go, many life experiences that stray far from the norm, many times adjusting, each shift has helped me learn about myself, what I accept, how I view things. It's been a long year and an even longer 36 years but I have more of an understanding of what I deserve

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Meowskies @meowskies.bsky.social · 21/09/2026

Giving a friend a bath while he was in puppy brain was not only super endearing, cute, and intimate but also hot as fuck. 🫠 Made for a lot of fun.

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Meowskies @meowskies.bsky.social · 18/09/2026

If tomorrow goes well & melts away a year of stress for a minute I'd be so happy. May my bday gifts be well received, ez day/night w/ a best friend, good food, good movies, and if we can both fuck the stress of everything away may my dick please work and the loads flow plentifully. Gaymen🙏

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Meowskies @meowskies.bsky.social · 24/08/2026

No apologies, grieve, heal, let the process be what it is. Remember even in the worst moments it's still important to give your body what it deserves, food, water, a warm bath, and rest. This year has been shit for you, no one handles a year of shit & smiles genuinely. Hope things 180 for you soon.

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Meowskies @meowskies.bsky.social · 24/08/2026

I just got back from Magic Night :D Wishing you the best starting hands in your upcoming games 💜

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Meowskies @meowskies.bsky.social · 20/08/2026

I know it may not feel true right now but down the road you'll see it's better not having someone like that in your life. Whatever their reason, it's not a reflection of you, you're not a nuisance. If people are fake/disrespectful that's on them. Gives you more space for ppl who deserve your time. 💜

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Meowskies @meowskies.bsky.social · 12/08/2026

All of the frustrations, crap moments, worries, YOU pushed through the bullshit and kept going. I'm proud of you. I hope everything goes well/smoothly and I really hope this helps bring some more peace to your life/mind because you deserve it. Keep moving forward, one paw in front of the other. 💜

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Dipper 💫 BFC, CAP @dipdiphooray.bsky.social · 05/08/2026

1. I am building my own world. 2. I’m my own CEO. 3. I will always be enough. 4. I mean a lot to all my friends and I will never give up.

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Meowskies @meowskies.bsky.social · 30/07/2026

Literally fuck guns and people for forcing me into this fucking bullshit, things were going fine and on an upwards path for once. Everything is fucking fucked now because people can't just not shoot guns at one another. I need 6 more therapy sessions a week to figure this shit out.

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Meowskies @meowskies.bsky.social · 30/07/2026

What do you do when both people don't want to lose what is but you both know, for whatever reason, this isn't long term & you're unable to meet one anothers needs fully? How do you live in the present moment w/o fear knowing what the loss/change could feel like? What do you do without answers?

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Meowskies @meowskies.bsky.social · 30/07/2026

Venting into the aether because f it. It really hurts when you know at some point something you have w/ someone will end or change. Experiencing an event with them that forced the feeling "they could have been gone" has unraveled me & how tf do I feel safe knowing that feeling is unavoidable.

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Meowskies @meowskies.bsky.social · 26/07/2026

Who knows where things go. I'll keep figuring it out and hopefully it leads to a little log cabin in the woods someday. Beautiful views, peace of mind, and maybe with someone who wants to share a space in life with me. And coffee, lots of coffee. 😊

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Meowskies @meowskies.bsky.social · 26/07/2026

I never wanted to be involved in something that put sex/physical attraction first, to be a 3rd, 7th, etc wheel at events because no one wants to fuck me while everyone else fucks in other rooms, and to be the one always get met with inconsistencies with plans.

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Meowskies @meowskies.bsky.social · 26/07/2026

I've been burnt out on people and esp the kink community for a while and I don't believe there is anything currently that will change that. It's sad to see a shift in something that once brought me immense joy, a sense of belonging, community, turn into the thing that's made me feel most alone.

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Meowskies @meowskies.bsky.social · 26/07/2026

I think some events can fundamentally change a person's outlook or views on life. I have no idea how things have gotten more complicated and how distant things have become/felt. Unfortunately I just can't muster up emotion, for better or worse, to care.

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Meowskies @meowskies.bsky.social · 14/07/2026

Unhinged? Maybe. But I didn't write the events outside of my control in life. I swear to god the next dick that fucks me better fuck the trauma out of my brain. If the bed doesn't break, I don't want it. And I better be treated like a king and queen after. Where tf are the service tops at.

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Meowskies @meowskies.bsky.social · 06/07/2026

🥴 Now that's peak good dog behavior and sexy af.

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Meowskies @meowskies.bsky.social · 28/06/2026

😮‍💨 Sometimes it's finding the importance in the small things and just letting that be okay enough to get you by. The sun always rises tomorrow.

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The Coochie Poochie @phor.bsky.social · 21/06/2026

Babyfurs whenever you say "like taking candy from a baby"

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Meowskies @meowskies.bsky.social · 15/06/2026

Taking time for yourself and stepping away in areas where you need to for a time is needed tbh. Find ways YOU need to rest, recover, and regain enjoyment in life. You're not alone but it's okay to take time for yourself. Hope things turn around for you and you just get one extra smile today. 💜

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Meowskies @meowskies.bsky.social · 15/06/2026

Sometimes you just need a good CNC scene to sort out a bunch of bullshit. Probably something about regaining control. Hot friend, shared trauma, was fun fucking it away for a minute. Back to the day to day grind. Also get rid of guns or make it v hard to get them. Or make my cost of weed cheape.

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Pup Harke 🔞 @slut.dog · 02/06/2026

Some of the most esteemed events and brands in the gay community will still only hire twinks to be in their promotional material and we wonder why the fuck gay men struggle with body image issues so much.

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Meowskies @meowskies.bsky.social · 02/06/2026

Such a good boy 💜 You did amazing and good lord look at those muscles 👀 Going to need you to do more than stick a straw in my coffee cup.

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Meowskies @meowskies.bsky.social · 02/06/2026

Go today! Do what you can, listen to your body, but you're progress has been amazing and keeping that routine helps it feel easier. You've got this you hecking stud. 💜

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Meowskies @meowskies.bsky.social · 31/05/2026

Holy validation, random guys flirting with me at the bar last night was a mood bump I needed. Not used to that yet but I wouldn't mind it happening again. 😁 I should have totally boned the hotty talking hot dogs with me.

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Meowskies @meowskies.bsky.social · 29/05/2026

🥴 Having someone you can go from degenerate horny brain to after care cuddles and laughs with is very nice. Needed tonight so bad, such a good mood bump. Ugh physical touch is so fucking nice esp with someone you actually care about.

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Meowskies @meowskies.bsky.social · 26/05/2026

Life fucking blows for pretty much everyone in every way right now. Focus on today, not the past, not the what if's and worries of the future. The right now is all that's in your control. Spend time with the people/things that make your heart feel full and be in the present moment with them. 💜

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Meowskies @meowskies.bsky.social · 19/05/2026

This has become a long run of emotional exhaustion. I spent so long pouring myself into others, I'm just tired, drained, exhausted. I keep the bulk of my shit to myself or let it out in therapy but life is lonely as absolute fuck right now and nothing has been fixing it. Tired of being the adult.

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Meowskies @meowskies.bsky.social · 15/05/2026

🚨 we've got a cute waddler alert, I repeat, cute waddler alert. As per the new crib rules and guidelines remember to place your stuffies in cozy spots, your toys in their boxes, and balance your waddle to work ratios by peeing while unpacking, saves time and increases waddlage.

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Meowskies @meowskies.bsky.social · 29/04/2026

Godt damn I'm about to sell my post weight loss body to the fetish market on OF to cover the cost of groceries and gas at this point 😵‍💫 Need automotive, housing, and groceries, to come down %50 so I can at least feel like my struggles CAN obtain something and that's setting the bar on the floor smh

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Meowskies @meowskies.bsky.social · 28/04/2026

These are acceptable reasons to miss games. Looking sexy, stud. 😘

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Meowskies @meowskies.bsky.social · 25/04/2026

They definitely highlight one of the many sexy parts of you. That ass looking so good 🤤

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Meowskies @meowskies.bsky.social · 13/04/2026

🤭 and the cookies turned out good af

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Meowskies @meowskies.bsky.social · 12/04/2026

The day was everything I needed it to be. Told myself I'd be getting/making chocolate espresso cookies if it went well and I got validation in all of the physical ways I needed. If the cookies are even half as good as the day and sex was then I'm set for the rest of the month.

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Meowskies @meowskies.bsky.social · 10/04/2026

There's also a lot for me going into this Sat hangout so the stress was already in overdrive. On the flip side, find me a hook up like me. If someone cooked salmon/dinner after a movie night and hangout and genuinely cared about me, wowee that'd be hot af. I'm sure It'll be fine.

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Meowskies @meowskies.bsky.social · 10/04/2026

😩 Did so much prep to try and feel sexy/good/plan for a potential FWB day Sat. Bought salmon for dinner, groomed, picked out some gear/clothes, and then I got a cursed haircut. I just want to feel that hit of desire from someone and now I look silly. 🥲 Too late to cancel?????

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Meowskies @meowskies.bsky.social · 07/04/2026

All I'm saying is if this week keeps going well AND I get laid I'm celebrating. M A N I F E S T I N G

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Meowskies @meowskies.bsky.social · 05/04/2026

But you've got a beautiful smile and I/many others will be so happy to see it whenever you are able to show it and you have people who care about you far more than any bad brain thoughts power over you. Stay strong, rest when needed, I'm in your corner, & I'm really proud of you 💜

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Meowskies @meowskies.bsky.social · 05/04/2026

Amount of time you feel good, okay, or content. Bad days/thoughts can happen a lot so those moments you are able to be yourself, uninhibited, not running off of bad thoughts, that's you. Life and being a person is hard but you're a beautiful person, bad brain days or good -c

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Meowskies @meowskies.bsky.social · 05/04/2026

It is more than something. With how fucked up life/the world if ATM it's almost impossible not to slip into a less than ideal mindset. That 2 hours of "good" brain is authentic, someone able to exist in a crazy life, and to feel okay. Let that 2 hours be a good 2 hours and remember to enjoy any -c

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Meowskies @meowskies.bsky.social · 03/04/2026

Man I really miss having someone to do conventions with 🙃 One day I'll get back into the search and swing of that. Be safe to those enjoying the weekend conventions. Have a lot of fun. 💜

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Meowskies @meowskies.bsky.social · 02/04/2026

😆 are you kidding me? Doms that can have fun with it are the best. 11/10 domming skills.

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Meowskies @meowskies.bsky.social · 27/02/2026

I'll end this resentful rant into the void with this, making connections, meaningful ones, happens when it extends beyond temporary validations of sex/gear. Care about the person, ask about their life, lend a shoulder, find/make time to cultivate something with THEM, not what they wear, skin or gear

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Meowskies @meowskies.bsky.social · 27/02/2026

If you have comments of "you can make good connections from sex/kink" or "not everyone" I'd take it elsewhere. It works for some, I'm just tired of seeing the opposite & then lending a shoulder/ear when I've been struggling to find my place/person in/for kink for years. Otherwise my rates are 60/hr.

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