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Melissa Brooks

@melissa-brooks.bsky.social
7.9K followers 76.3K following 176 posts

A memoir writer, writing about my experiences and childhood as a form of personal therapy.

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Melissa Brooks @melissa-brooks.bsky.social · 14/03/2026
Part 2/2: many months. Doing it this way would have taken about a week. It is a moot issue at this point though, because the bug is still a factor and is preventing me from unfollowing anyone else. Until that gets resolved my hands are completely tied.
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Melissa Brooks @melissa-brooks.bsky.social · 14/03/2026
Part 1/2: What I was going to do was unfollow everybody and then refollow the people who follow me because there are two separate lists. In the unfollow list, there is no way of seeing who also follows me back. Parsing through all those accounts one by one would take
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Melissa Brooks @melissa-brooks.bsky.social · 14/03/2026
Part 8/8: I wish you all the best in your own mental health struggles, and in your lives in general.
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Melissa Brooks @melissa-brooks.bsky.social · 14/03/2026
Part 7/8: literally required to do, it will be better for my mental health if I just leave. I appreciate the thoughtful responses that people have posted here. I have a lot to work with going forward with all the recommended books and helpful suggestions. I will do my best to follow them.
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Melissa Brooks @melissa-brooks.bsky.social · 14/03/2026
Part 6/8: about an inch away from jumping off a bridge and I was hoping to find some support here. I did from a lot of you, and I am thankful, but if I am going to start getting inundated with angry messages because of something I have no control over, and something that I am
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Melissa Brooks @melissa-brooks.bsky.social · 14/03/2026
Part 5/8: from anyone that I followed. I have however, started getting hateful messages from people for UN following them. If this is what is going to happen going forward I'm not going to be able to keep going with this page. I started it because I'm already
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Melissa Brooks @melissa-brooks.bsky.social · 14/03/2026
Part 4/8: team in order to reinstate my account. And I was going to follow through with this until tonight when I checked on my page. Although the Bluesky team has informed me that following too many people is considered bothersome, I had not received one single complaint
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Melissa Brooks @melissa-brooks.bsky.social · 14/03/2026
Part 3/8: stopped allowing me to continue with that task. I've been in contact with both the moderation team at Bluesky and with the technical support team in an attempt to deal with the bug, but this is going to be a long process. Unfortunately this is what is required by the Bluesky
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Melissa Brooks @melissa-brooks.bsky.social · 14/03/2026
Part 2/8: this annoying behavior. I have been told that I have to unfollow the vast majority of you in order to get my page reinstated. I began that process and unfollowed a number of you yesterday, but there is some kind of bug in the code of the site because partway through it
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Melissa Brooks @melissa-brooks.bsky.social · 14/03/2026
Part 1/8: The full story of what is happening with this page: My page got listed as a spam account a couple of days ago. I contacted Bluesky to find out why, and apparently it happened because they feel that I am following too many people, and apparently they consider
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Melissa Brooks @melissa-brooks.bsky.social · 14/03/2026
They're requiring me to unfollow. If you read my recent post you would know that. I'm going to have to unfollow most of you guys unfortunately. I'm still talking with Bluesky about this.
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Melissa Brooks @melissa-brooks.bsky.social · 13/03/2026
Thanks, that means a lot to me :).
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Melissa Brooks @melissa-brooks.bsky.social · 13/03/2026
I will. I'm in contact with them now. They are requiring that I unfollow a bunch of people, apparently they don't like it when you follow too many accounts. I feel guilty about unfollowing people but I have no choice. 😐 I don't know how many I'm allowed to follow. This may take a few days.
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Melissa Brooks @melissa-brooks.bsky.social · 12/03/2026
Well, I've been listed as a spam account for some reason. I'm currently appealing, but if it doesn't get lifted in a few days I will have to end the page. No point posting if nobody can see. If I do leave, know that I value your advice and will follow it moving forward ❤ Thanks you guys.
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Melissa Brooks @melissa-brooks.bsky.social · 12/03/2026
I really encourage you to go to therapy if you can afford to do so. It may really help you.
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Melissa Brooks @melissa-brooks.bsky.social · 12/03/2026
It is mind boggling the level of insensitivity parents show to their own children. Absolutely insane.
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Melissa Brooks @melissa-brooks.bsky.social · 12/03/2026
So apparently someone reported my page as spam. Was it because I blocked scammers and they are retaliating? Who knows?? 🤷
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Melissa Brooks @melissa-brooks.bsky.social · 12/03/2026
For real. It took me way too long to realize that. There is a grieving process in cutting people out, but it is still less painful than continuing in the same old pattern of abuse.
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Melissa Brooks @melissa-brooks.bsky.social · 12/03/2026
I've seen that documentary. Horrifying stuff. That girl was so brave for escaping. I've also watched a lot on the whole Ruby Franke / Jodi Hildebrandt thing, it is a good reminder that just because kids come from a wealthy family that they are not immune to extreme abuse.
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Melissa Brooks @melissa-brooks.bsky.social · 12/03/2026
You are good. Don't let abusers in your life tell you otherwise.
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Melissa Brooks @melissa-brooks.bsky.social · 12/03/2026
It takes me a long time to lose forgiveness for someone, but when I do it is gone forever. I feel like I'm at that point now.
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Melissa Brooks @melissa-brooks.bsky.social · 12/03/2026
I have so much respect for that guy. I'm sad his show is ending but I can't wait to see what he does next.
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Melissa Brooks @melissa-brooks.bsky.social · 12/03/2026
Doing okay so far. I've had a couple of good days in a row which is nice. I'm feeling the negative emotions creeping up a little again but I've been watching a lot of comedy to try and boost my morale a bit. How are you doing?
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Melissa Brooks @melissa-brooks.bsky.social · 12/03/2026
What a great resource. Thanks for linking this.
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Melissa Brooks @melissa-brooks.bsky.social · 12/03/2026
It's surprising isn't it, how much a nap can help.
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Melissa Brooks @melissa-brooks.bsky.social · 12/03/2026
I genuinely believed I would never eat again half an hour ago! I have an amazing capacity for food! 😆😆😂 This guy is great lol.
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Melissa Brooks @melissa-brooks.bsky.social · 12/03/2026
I love it when he was creeping outside the window lol.
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Melissa Brooks @melissa-brooks.bsky.social · 12/03/2026
You are welcome!
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Melissa Brooks @melissa-brooks.bsky.social · 12/03/2026
😆😆😆
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Melissa Brooks @melissa-brooks.bsky.social · 12/03/2026
I suspected as much, but I if you scammers out before they say or do anything egregious, they have plausible deniability to fall back on.
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Melissa Brooks @melissa-brooks.bsky.social · 12/03/2026
I've never heard of Eddie Izzard before. I'll check him out.
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Melissa Brooks @melissa-brooks.bsky.social · 12/03/2026
Comedy algebra is a great term! Conan is indeed the best 🙂
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Melissa Brooks @melissa-brooks.bsky.social · 12/03/2026
Thank you, that is an extremely nice thing for you to say.
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Melissa Brooks @melissa-brooks.bsky.social · 12/03/2026
I remember Paula Poundstone! I didn't know she was still around. I'll look for her podcast.
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Melissa Brooks @melissa-brooks.bsky.social · 12/03/2026
What a cutie! What kind of dog?
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Melissa Brooks @melissa-brooks.bsky.social · 12/03/2026
Thank you! It was just kind of pouring out of me. It took a couple of months to write, but it really helped get a lot off my chest.
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Melissa Brooks @melissa-brooks.bsky.social · 12/03/2026
The Haiti thing was wild. He really blew me away. Those people were angry, and it could have ended really badly, but he turned that whole group around and they ended up smiling and laughing, and if I recall he got one of them to hug him. That is a superpower.
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Melissa Brooks @melissa-brooks.bsky.social · 12/03/2026
I understand how you feel. I'm over 40 as well and have many of the same thoughts. My body is also failing and I have been putting a huge effort into trying to improve my physical health. It is a slow process. Don't give up, you still have many good years left. Hang in there.
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Melissa Brooks @melissa-brooks.bsky.social · 12/03/2026
Talking with people and getting advice on here is helping. I hope that others feel comfortable posting their own feelings here as well. Maybe we can all help each other.
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Melissa Brooks @melissa-brooks.bsky.social · 12/03/2026
Ich spreche kein Deutsch und Google hat mir eine sehr merkwürdige Übersetzung gegeben.
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Melissa Brooks @melissa-brooks.bsky.social · 12/03/2026
Anything you need to say can be said right here.
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Melissa Brooks @melissa-brooks.bsky.social · 12/03/2026
I don't have watsup. Bluesky is my only social media.
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Melissa Brooks @melissa-brooks.bsky.social · 12/03/2026
Thanks for your kind words. It is true that so many others are struggling. I feel like we are going through a global mental health crisis right now. Things are just going so badly absolutely everywhere.
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Melissa Brooks @melissa-brooks.bsky.social · 12/03/2026
I've been going for walks recently and it has been helping. Even in the bitter cold lol. Can't wait for warmer weather.
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Melissa Brooks @melissa-brooks.bsky.social · 12/03/2026
I respect the hell out of that guy.
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Melissa Brooks @melissa-brooks.bsky.social · 12/03/2026
I'm considering meditation. I've never tried it before, but at this point honestly I'm willing to give anything a shot.
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Melissa Brooks @melissa-brooks.bsky.social · 12/03/2026
For real. People I've known for decades are suddenly showing their true colors. It's shattering. I feel like my life with them has been an illusion up to this point. I can't help but feel inside "Holy shit, were they always like this? Has my relationship with them ever even been real?"
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Melissa Brooks @melissa-brooks.bsky.social · 12/03/2026
I totally agree. I'm loving the longer format with his podcast, and I love Mat and Sona as well. Honestly, when he was hosting late night television I used to tune in for his monologue and shut the TV off once the guests came on (unless the guest was someone I really liked).
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Melissa Brooks @melissa-brooks.bsky.social · 11/03/2026
The flexibility of that job must be nice. If I had a car I'd consider it!
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Melissa Brooks @melissa-brooks.bsky.social · 11/03/2026
I definitely need to get out more. I've been walking, and with spring coming hopefully it will get more hospitable out there.
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