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Let's face it: There's no real rulebook to these kinds of things, and why should there be? The adult industry is ever changing, with boundaries varying from person to person; I can't (and frankly, I won't) speak for anyone else in regards to what is 'standard', and it would be an impossible task to attempt to write a rulebook that encompasses the procedures of how everyone operates. Even still, I can't help but feel that there are plenty of things that are general enough to touch upon that can