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Melissa

@measi.bsky.social

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50 y.o. married mom to one. Owned by a horde of cats. Pagan, cross stitcher, snail mailer, fountain pen addict. Trying to survive the next four years in the USA by focusing on hobbies and my family. Formerly Measi on that old bird site. 💙💙

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Melissa @measi.bsky.social · 19/12/2025

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Gratitude for Quiet

It’s about 11:30 pm. I’ve been puttering all evening between my journal, some Witchy class catchup,

Melissa @measi.bsky.social · 19/12/2025

Quiet evenings are the best evenings. #TheDecemberGratitudeChallenge - Day 18

A screenshot essay titled 'Gratitude for Quiet Body' by Mel. The essay reflects on a peaceful evening spent journaling and engaging in a Witchy class. The author expresses appreciation for quiet moments, especially during the holiday season with soft lights from the Christmas tree and decorations. There is a mention of a partner, Erich, who has fallen asleep on the couch, adding warmth to the serene atmosphere. Mel shares insights about creative writing in the dark to avoid distractions and looks forward to the comforting company of their cats. The writing concludes with a wish for peace and a good night. The essay includes a note about participating in the December Gratitude Challenge.

Melissa @measi.bsky.social · 18/12/2025

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Gratitude for Furbabies

My husband and I are crazy cat people. We’re THOSE PEOPLE in the neighborhood.You know - the ones th

Melissa @measi.bsky.social · 18/12/2025

Day Seventeen of The December Gratitude Challenge...

A screenshot essay titled 'Gratitude for Furbabies' expressing the author's love for their cats and other animals. The text describes the author's life with seven indoor cats, feral animals in their yard, and the joy these creatures bring. It highlights moments of companionship like cross-stitching with a cat in their lap and waking up to purring cuddles. The essay reflects on the unconditional love pets provide, their quirky behaviors, and the author's lifelong bond with animals. The author mentions their intention to participate in a 31-day gratitude challenge in December, indicating a focus on appreciation and love for their furry family members.

Melissa @measi.bsky.social · 17/12/2025

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Gratitude for Reflection

I can count about how many days I’ve missed journaling this year between my fingers and toes.Some en

Melissa @measi.bsky.social · 17/12/2025

Day 16 of #TheDecemberGratitudeChallenge, in which I appreciate what turning 50 has given me...

A heartfelt reflective essay titled 'Gratitude for Reflection' that discusses the author's journey through journaling and self-discovery after turning 50. The essay expresses the author's realization of the importance of reflecting on life experiences, motherhood, menopause, and personal growth. It highlights the liberating feeling of reaching 50, prompting a reevaluation of life goals and happiness. The author shares insights on handling challenges like hormonal changes and diabetes while emphasizing the value of gratitude and embracing one's dreams. The piece concludes with a note about participating in 'The December Gratitude Challenge.'

Melissa @measi.bsky.social · 16/12/2025

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Gratitude for Solitude

I feel a bit better today after yesterday’s venting. Still uneasy, but I remind myself that being di

Melissa @measi.bsky.social · 16/12/2025

Day 15 of #TheDecemberGratitudeChallenge

A screenshot essay titled 'Gratitude for Solitude' by Mel reflects on the author's feelings of unease after a day of venting. The text discusses the comfort of working from home on a Monday, allowing for introspection and less stressful tasks. The author expresses gratitude for solitude, noting the freedom to move around, listen to music without interruption, and take longer breaks. They acknowledge the need to recharge and mourn the present circumstances while metaphorically putting on a 'Big Girl Mask' to move forward. The essay concludes with a note about participating in a 31-day gratitude challenge in December.

Melissa @measi.bsky.social · 15/12/2025

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Struggling with Gratitude

Yesterday afternoon as I was getting my nails done at my neighborhood shop, I watched the TV on the

Melissa @measi.bsky.social · 15/12/2025

It’s hard to find gratitude when tragedy strikes your city, but I’m trying to find some today for #TheDecemberGratitudeChallenge.

A heartfelt personal essay reflecting on the author's experience and emotions after learning about an active shooter situation near Brown University. The essay begins with the author recounting the moment of receiving news while getting nails done. There is a sense of fear and sorrow as the author expresses a protective sentiment towards the university community, despite not being an alum. The author strives to find gratitude amidst the turmoil, listing various things to be thankful for, including the quick actions of students, volunteers, and first responders. The essay concludes with a poignant reminder to cherish loved ones, emphasizing the unpredictability of life. Written in a reflective and emotional tone.

Melissa @measi.bsky.social · 13/12/2025

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Gratitude for Fellow Women and Weekends

I missed a day of the Gratitude Challenge to attend my company’s annual holiday party last night. Wh

Melissa @measi.bsky.social · 13/12/2025

Days 11 and 12 of #TheDecemberGratitudeChallenge.

A screenshot of a personal essay reflecting on gratitude for women and weekends. The author shares their experience of attending a company holiday party, dining alone afterward, and receiving a complimentary ice cream sundae from a friendly server. The essay highlights themes of womanhood, support among women, and the importance of kindness. The narrative emphasizes the need for self-care and gratitude, especially during the busy holiday season. Additionally, the author expresses appreciation for weekends as a time for rest and relaxation, mentioning plans for holiday shopping and hopes for cozying up indoors if it snows.

Melissa @measi.bsky.social · 11/12/2025

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Gratitude for Community

At 9 pm U.S. Eastern every Wednesday, I get together with a group of journal writers via YouTube and

Melissa @measi.bsky.social · 11/12/2025

#TheDecemberGratitudeChallenge Day ten

A screenshot essay titled 'Gratitude for Community' by Mel, exploring the impact of community connections on personal growth. The essay highlights the author's participation in virtual journaling groups 'Journal Party,' 'Artist Morning,' and 'The Sisters Enchanted,' and shares personal reflections on the struggle of connecting with others as an introvert. The author expresses gratitude for the warm welcome received from these communities and emphasizes the importance of having connections with others who share similar interests. The essay concludes with a note about an upcoming participation in 'The December Gratitude Challenge.'

Melissa @measi.bsky.social · 10/12/2025

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Gratitude for Inspiration

December 9, 2025Today is Day Nine of the December Gratitude Challenge…For the past few months, I’ve

Melissa @measi.bsky.social · 10/12/2025

Day 9 of #TheDecemberGratitudeChallenge

Screenshot of a written essay titled 'Gratitude for Inspiration' dated December 9, 2025. The essay discusses the author's journey of self-rediscovery and reconnection with their Pagan faith, highlighting the joy of journaling and embracing creativity after a long period of repression. The author expresses gratitude for the inspiration that has reignited their writing passion, mentioning their commitment to drafting a novel and participating in writing sprints. The conclusion shares the author's excitement about the upcoming 'December Gratitude Challenge,' committing to 31 days of gratitude.

Melissa @measi.bsky.social · 09/12/2025

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Gratitude for Rest

December 8, 2025Today is Day 8 of the December Gratitude Challenge.It was a day of recovery for me -

Melissa @measi.bsky.social · 09/12/2025

Day Eight of #TheDecemberGratitudeChallenge

A screenshot of a blog post titled 'Gratitude for Rest' dated December 8, 2025. The author describes Day 8 of the December Gratitude Challenge, reflecting on a day of recovery spent sleeping in due to feeling under the weather. They express gratitude for the ability to recharge and share insights on adjusting to a slower pace. The post concludes with a hope for improved health with a good night's sleep and includes a note about participating in a 31-day gratitude challenge. A relevant image is included, showcasing a soothing or peaceful scene that complements the text.

Melissa @measi.bsky.social · 08/12/2025

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Gratitude for Coziness

Note: Written yesterday super late, so I posted to Substack but forgot to crosspost. There will be a

Melissa @measi.bsky.social · 08/12/2025

Day 7 of #TheDecemberGratitudeChallenge

A screenshot of a heartfelt essay titled 'Gratitude for Coziness.' The author reflects on their day of cross-stitching and decorating a Christmas tree with their family. The post mentions the tree being adorned with a variety of ornaments, some made by the author's parents, their son, and even exchanged among friends. The author describes feelings of nostalgia and warmth as they reminisce about childhood memories associated with Christmas. There's a profound sense of gratitude for the joy and peace that the Christmas tree brings amidst life's chaos. The image includes a photograph of the decorated tree, encapsulating the festive spirit.

Melissa @measi.bsky.social · 07/12/2025

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Gratitude for My Written Voice

My journal entry skipped around with different topics, some of which I am not comfortable putting on

Melissa @measi.bsky.social · 07/12/2025

Day Six of #TheDecemberGratitudeChallenge

A screenshot of a journal entry expressing gratitude for the author's writing journey and reflections on a meditation and journaling community called Artist Morning. The entry outlines the author's North Star theme for 2026, which is 'Commit.' It highlights plans for writing a first novel, nurturing relationships with a community of writers, and aims to become a published author. The author articulates feelings of excitement and fear associated with this commitment, emphasizing the importance of stepping out of their comfort zone. The entry concludes with a personal statement of gratitude for the ability to write and a plan to undertake a December Gratitude Challenge.

Melissa @measi.bsky.social · 06/12/2025

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Gratitude to a Long-Ago Teacher

I’ve focused on some basics outside of myself for gratitude during the work week, but this weekend w

Melissa @measi.bsky.social · 06/12/2025

Day Five of #TheDecemberGratitudeChallenge

A screenshot essay titled 'Gratitude to a Long-Ago Teacher' featuring personal reflections and gratitude towards a 5th-grade teacher, Mrs. Arnold, who inspired the author to pursue a stitching hobby. The essay discusses participating in the December Gratitude Challenge and mentions a stitching project for a class with The Blue Flower. It conveys a sense of nostalgia, holiday spirit, and personal significance of the hobby over the past 40 years. The author expresses gratitude for the journey rather than the finished product. The essay is dated December 5, 2025, and includes a note about supporting the author's work through subscriptions.

Melissa @measi.bsky.social · 05/12/2025

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Gratitude for a Supportive Boss

Day Four of The December Gratitude Challenge... translation of my scribbles below the photo.December

Melissa @measi.bsky.social · 05/12/2025

Day Four of #TheDecemberGratitudeChallenge

A screenshot capturing the text of an essay titled 'Gratitude for a Supportive Boss.' In the text, the author reflects on Day Four of the December Gratitude Challenge, expressing appreciation for their supportive boss during a potentially difficult work meeting. The author shares feelings of empowerment and gratitude for being respected and heard, highlighting the importance of their boss's support in a stressful job. The piece emphasizes the author's long-term commitment to their company and concludes with a note about the December Gratitude Challenge, inviting readers to join in on the journey.

Melissa @measi.bsky.social · 04/12/2025

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Gratitude for Cozy Nights

The temperatures are dropping, and I’m doing my evening journaling huddled under a quilt. Handwriti

Melissa @measi.bsky.social · 04/12/2025

Day Three of #TheDecemberGratitudeChallenge

A screenshot essay titled 'Gratitude for Cozy Nights' features a cozy evening scene where the author, Mel, is journaling under a quilt. The text discusses the author's gratitude for comfort at the end of the day, including a comfortable bed, warm sheets, a familiar comforter, and her husband's presence. It highlights the joy of restful sleep made possible by a c-pap machine, emphasizing appreciation for life's little comforts. The essay notes it is Day Three of the December Gratitude Challenge, dated December 3, 2025, and encourages readers to support her 31-day challenge. The image background depicts a warm, inviting atmosphere.

Melissa @measi.bsky.social · 03/12/2025

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Gratitude for Stitcherhood

Day Two of the December Gratitude Challenge, as written this evening in my journal. Transcription f

Melissa @measi.bsky.social · 03/12/2025

Day Two of #TheDecemberGratitudeChallenge

A screenshot of a handwritten journal entry for Day Two of the December Gratitude Challenge, dated December 2, 2025. The text expresses gratitude for the author's monthly meeting with the Tudor Rose Sampler Guild, highlighting the inspiration found among fellow cross stitchers. The author reflects on their journey over five years in the guild, appreciating the supportive community and diverse interests. The text humorously notes a misspelling of 'grateful' and concludes with a commitment to the 31-day gratitude challenge, encouraging readers to participate.

Melissa @measi.bsky.social · 02/12/2025

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The Little Things in Marriage

For those who may have difficulty reading my handwriting, I’ve transcribed below the photo of my jou

Melissa @measi.bsky.social · 02/12/2025

#TheDecemberGratitudeChallenge Day One

A screenshot essay titled 'The Little Things in Marriage' containing handwritten text. The essay details the author's first day of a 31-day journaling project called the December Gratitude Challenge, dated December 1, 2025. The author expresses gratitude for their husband, Erich, who surprised them with a Bonne Maman advent calendar, which they had wanted for years. The entry conveys warmth, appreciation, and excitement for trying the new jars inside the calendar. The author's handwriting is clear, and the tone is heartfelt, emphasizing the little joys in marriage. The screenshot shows personal reflections and an invitation to subscribe for more content.

Melissa @measi.bsky.social · 07/11/2025

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The start of a new chapter in my life: the empty journal

Today is a special day - I have filled my journal that I started back in August, and I now sit looki

Melissa @measi.bsky.social · 07/11/2025

Embracing the slower, analog path...

A personal reflection on the author's journey with journaling, describing the joy of starting a new journal. The text outlines the significance of journaling in reconnecting with oneself, listing criteria for the ideal journal, and detailing the author's writing process which combines free writing and guided prompts. The piece emphasizes the emotional connection to each journal filled with dreams, experiences, and self-exploration. The author plans to read through past entries on New Year's Eve, symbolizing growth and closure. The essay captures the excitement and vulnerability of chronicling thoughts in a fresh, unwritten journal.

Melissa @measi.bsky.social · 04/11/2025

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Melissa @measi.bsky.social · 31/10/2025

I'd love to get recommendations for my to-read list in 2026. Please share your recent reading lists!

A screenshot essay titled 'My Three Favorite Books I've Read in 2025' detailing the author's reading journey after a chaotic 2020, where they struggled to maintain a reading habit. The author set a goal to read 20 books and shares their top three favorites. The first is 'This Inevitable Ruin (DCC #7)' by Matt Dinniman, praised for its engaging series and audiobooks. The second, 'The Ravenswood Witch' by Jenni Keer, noted for its atmospheric qualities and cozy feel despite some flaws. The third, 'The Last Million' by David Nasaw, recommended for its personal connection to the author’s family history and insights into post-war politics.

Melissa @measi.bsky.social · 30/10/2025

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6 Simple Quotes That Will Remind You To Always Hold On To Compassion

The political tension in the news often leads to feelings of hopelessness, but it is more important

Melissa @measi.bsky.social · 30/10/2025

We only will get through the dark days if we support each other.

A screenshot essay titled '6 Simple Quotes That Will Remind You To Always Hold On To Compassion.' The text discusses the importance of compassion in challenging times and includes reflections on six quotes from various authors. Each quote emphasizes different aspects of compassion, such as its necessity for humanity, the importance of equal relationships, the need for action, self-compassion, commitment to practicing compassion, and the balance of giving and receiving. The essay conveys a hopeful message, aiming to inspire readers by promoting the power of compassion in both personal and communal contexts.

Melissa @measi.bsky.social · 29/10/2025

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Why Autumn Feels Sad: The Season of Transformation

Autumn in New England starts off slow every year. The greens of summer leaves begin to dim, and the

Melissa @measi.bsky.social · 29/10/2025

Autumn feels like an ending, but it's just the beginning.

A screenshot essay titled 'Why Autumn Feels Sad: The Season of Transformation'. The essay discusses the slow transition of autumn in New England, describing the gradual change of summer greens to vibrant hues of red and yellow before eventually dimming into browns. The author reflects on the beauty of nature's display and the somber feelings that follow as the leaves fall. Themes of death, mourning, and cultural practices related to honoring the deceased are explored. The essay contrasts the sadness of autumn's decline with the hope of renewal as days begin to lengthen after winter. It emphasizes the cyclical nature of life and transformation, likening the inevitability of death to the potential for new beginnings.

Melissa @measi.bsky.social · 26/10/2025

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Weekend Thoughts about Making It Count

Late October in my household is a wonderfully chaotic blend of school, Halloween happenings, Samhain

Melissa @measi.bsky.social · 26/10/2025

How are you living intentionally?

Screenshot of an essay titled "Weekend Thoughts about Making It Count" discussing the busy activities in the author's household in late October, including school, Halloween and martial arts preparations. The author reflects on their son's black belt testing and his involvement in the school Demo team for an autumn tournament. They share their experiences as a parent watching classes and engaging in personal writing. The essay highlights a memorable moment at a school event where the assistant teacher, Mr. D., is honored and expresses gratitude, followed by the lead instructor, Mr. R., encouraging the children to live with purpose. The writer feels inspired to make their life count, closing with a question for readers about their own lives.

Melissa @measi.bsky.social · 25/10/2025

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What NOT to do when you start journaling...

I feel like there are so many folks out there advertising journaling programs these days - for heali

Melissa @measi.bsky.social · 25/10/2025

Don't want to sabotage your attempt to start a journaling habit? Here are a few tips:

Screenshot essay titled 'What NOT to do when you start journaling...' offers insights on effective journaling. The author discusses the importance of not stressing over the choice of journal, expressing that both cheap and expensive journals serve the same purpose. They emphasize that there's no singular way to journal and suggest trying various styles. The author encourages utilizing free online communities for inspiration before spending on courses and reassures that it's okay if a journal remains unused for a period. Conclusively, the author highlights the joy in journaling, advocating for a personal, cozy space to write.

Melissa @measi.bsky.social · 23/10/2025

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How I Learned My Stitching Was a Way of Journaling My Life

When I was thirty-one, I sat on my couch and stared at a completed cross stitched piece that had tak

Melissa @measi.bsky.social · 23/10/2025

What we create collects the memories of our life journeys. Here's one of my creations:

Screenshot essay titled 'How I Learned My Stitching Was a Way of Journaling My Life'. It reflects on the journey of completing a complex cross stitch project over 12 years, from high school to adulthood, despite naysayers. The author recounts various personal milestones and emotions experienced during the stitching process, emphasizing perseverance and self-belief. The essay includes a photograph of the completed cross stitch piece taken in 2006, symbolizing the hard work and memories stitched into it.

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Melissa @measi.bsky.social · 22/10/2025

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Melissa Krueger | Typeshare

Middle-aged married mom of one reclaiming life's joys after fifty. Spirituality, journaling, lessons from work experience, and way too much cross stitching incoming.

Melissa @measi.bsky.social · 22/10/2025

You do not need to be wealthy in money to live a wealthy life. Finding richness in your life through personal satisfaction, helping others, and friendship is worth as much, if not more, than money. 5/6

Melissa @measi.bsky.social · 22/10/2025

#3 - Spiritual connections Whether you are strongly religious or casually agnostic, there are people out there who follow a same moral code to you. Not sure about what you believe? Connect with a few different communities and learn from them. 4/6