may @maysuser.name · 12mthis is where i reveal myself a hypocrite as someone who never really liked graduation to begin with 120
may @maysuser.name · 13mobviously it can recontextualize an artist's work—i'm a lot more critical of rowling's naming choices given her proven bigotry, for example—but you don't have to absolve your guilt from having connected with a work from someone you had no idea had done something bad by pretending like you never did 090
may @maysuser.name · 15mi hate the tendency people have to go "oh everything they made was always terrible actually" every time an author or artist is revealed to have done something bad. bad people can make good art! 4193
may @maysuser.name · 31mif you have an existing relationship w a therapist it can help bc they can put that in the letter but ik plenty of people who haven't who had no issues w insurance 020
may @maysuser.name · 32mthere are therapists that'll just give you a letter after one appointment 120
may @maysuser.name · 40moh yeah 100% my point is that it's more vibes based than anything you can strictly define 020
may @maysuser.name · 45mimo it's an incredibly slippery slope to try and strictly define sexuality by who you're fucking, labels are vibes 1170
may @maysuser.name · 49mnot entirely sure what instigated it this time but something something can a person call themselves a lesbian if they sleep with men 020
may @maysuser.name · 53myou'd think trans women would understand how someone could have sex with someone without necessarily being attracted to them given all of the sexual pressures we face 3230
may @maysuser.name · 1hgetting every frame of lord of the rings on a poster and flipping through them as an innovative new visual medium 120
Reposted by mayEla Bambust 🏳️⚧️ (alleged transsexual) @ela-bambust.bsky.social · 1hIt's only a Collector's Edition if it comes from the "Includes The Game" region of the store, otherwise it's just sparkling Merch. 39623
may @maysuser.name · 1hyeah it's absolutely a massive if and I'm not sure I've seen a game meet it so far 230
may @maysuser.name · 1hcollectors editions not coming with games is totally fine as long as they're clearly labeled and you can buy the game physically 180
may @maysuser.name · 2hstarting to think that some of you don't actually like metroidvanias as much as you like the idea of them 2150
may @maysuser.name · 2htrans spaces are not representative of trans people at large by virtue of selecting for people who want a separate space focused on transness to begin with 1423
may @maysuser.name · 2hfetishizing other trans people's bodies, presuming sexual availability because of their transness, encouraging/discouraging surgery based on personal sexual preferences to the point of cutting women off after getting bottom surgery are just a few I've personally seen and/or experienced 2100
may @maysuser.name · 3hI posted this before seeing the whole thread but I do still think that the way that straight romance and the women who read it are talked about is incredibly reductive and unhelpful 100
may @maysuser.name · 3hngl the way that chaser behavior is frequently excused and even venerated when it comes from other trans women is incredibly depressing 2323
may @maysuser.name · 3hthere's a lot of straight romance with incredibly fucked subtext don't get me wrong but also plenty of straight romance without that subtext, and "these poor women don't even realize what they're reading" is the kind of take that would be rightly lambasted in any other context 1110
may @maysuser.name · 3h"llms could generate a romance story less regressive than straight romance" is this really the angle you want to take here 2100
may @maysuser.name · 3htalking about other people's transitions and especially surgeries in context of you wanting to have sex with them about it is incredibly fucked behavior ngl 3303
may @maysuser.name · 4hi think if your response to sexual abuse coming to light is to go "i always knew" you're an absolutely terrible person and perpetuating the exact social structures that enabled said abuse in the first place 1253
may @maysuser.name · 4hit would be cool if men didn't seemingly have a 60% chance of turning out to be rapists and a 90% chance of being okay with the men who are 0646
may @maysuser.name · 11hit's still genuinely wild to me that patient zero wasn't intended as a tie in for verity, like what do you mean the music video has a similar aesthetic, plot, and also stars dakota johnson 060
may @maysuser.name · 12hngl it makes me deeply uncomfortable how many trans people view (for lack of a better term) cisnormative gender presentation as intrinsically less authentic and honest than visible queerness 213015
may @maysuser.name · 13hI have more thoughts but if I spend any more time writing up a review my sister might kill meboxd.itA ★★★★ review of Verity (2026)Movies don't have to be good to be fun and Verity is an absolute blast. I've long professed my unguilty pleasure for Colleen Hoover's work and their adaptations—Watching Reminders of Him was the most ... 010
may @maysuser.name · 13hthe critics once again do not understand Colleen Hoover; Verity is the most fun I've had at the theater all year 130
may @maysuser.name · 13ha movie doesn't have to be good to be fun and I was giggling my ass off through most of the film, Colleen's done it again 030
may @maysuser.name · 13hthe final shot of verity might be the funniest thing I've seen all year oh my god 120
may @maysuser.name · 16h"I'm gonna start telling people that you're my daughter, [deadname]" - my dad 1180
may @maysuser.name · 17htrue, for me it's more for a game this long constantly switching things up is what makes it work for me so if you're going to bring everything together for more than a few hours after I've already dumped so much time into the game I get burnt on it 110
may @maysuser.name · 17hI'm of the personal opinion that if you're going to release a deluxe album all of the new tracks should be on a separate disk 080
may @maysuser.name · 17hthe thing is as an octopath traveler fan i'm objectively here for this it's just when you get to the second half of the game and they go lmao no there's a whole ass other thing going on here that i'm gonna get burnt out on it 130
may @maysuser.name · 17hhearing that the new fire emblem might've had eight routes at some point instead of four and as damn everyone wants to be octopath traveler now don't they 1100
may @maysuser.name · 18hthis + the automatic expectation of availability if you are into girls bothers me so fucking much 2171
