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⚧︎ruwe/james☭

@marxistphan.eurosky.social
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they/them | ir/irs white, late 20s tme nonbinary lesbian ──── ⋆⋅☆⋅⋆ ──── posting about phan and my bad mental health ──── ⋆⋅☆⋅⋆ ──── doomed 25/feb/2023 tit 6/feb/2025 hard launch 25/jan/2027! ──── ⋆⋅☆⋅⋆ ────

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⚧︎ruwe/james☭ @marxistphan.eurosky.social · 20h
look we're totally matching
Selfie of me in bed under the blanket. I look pretty sleepy.
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⚧︎ruwe/james☭ @marxistphan.eurosky.social · 23h
someone save my wife shes really cold!!
Phil with his hair messy sitting and his head resting against a pillow as he sits on the tour bus cosied up under a blanket.
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⚧︎ruwe/james☭ @marxistphan.eurosky.social · 23/10/2026
dan and phil this is a lot idk if you realise this because it's probably like second nature to you but it's a looot
Dan and Phil just staring kind of intensely at each other and standing close together. I'm being dramatic.
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⚧︎ruwe/james☭ @marxistphan.eurosky.social · 23/10/2026
good morning 😴😴😴
Phil not wanting to wake up as hes laid down in his tour bus bunk bed with his eyes barely open and clutching the duvet.
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⚧︎ruwe/james☭ @marxistphan.eurosky.social · 22/10/2026
what the hell sure
An auto-suggest option in AO3's additional tags field for "Cum Slut Joe Biden".
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⚧︎ruwe/james☭ @marxistphan.eurosky.social · 22/10/2026
dinner with my stupid absent fathers
plate of really slutty looking lasagne held up in front of a laptop playing a dan and phil video
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⚧︎ruwe/james☭ @marxistphan.eurosky.social · 22/10/2026
morning
Phil struggling to wake up in his tour bus bunk bed, clutching the duvet for strength, ehes hardly open.
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⚧︎ruwe/james☭ @marxistphan.eurosky.social · 20/10/2026
and it wasnt because he thought dan would judge him and he had to be cool for his new boyfriend it was because phil wanted to share something with dan and and felt safe trying new foods around him
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⚧︎ruwe/james☭ @marxistphan.eurosky.social · 18/10/2026
twins 😔
My result on the Total Spann-Fischer Codependency Scale (SF CDS) Score: 79. High codependency (unhealthy).
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⚧︎ruwe/james☭ @marxistphan.eurosky.social · 18/10/2026
like??? hello???
on the left: previously mentioned strictly contestant wearing a Protect The Dolls t-shirt. the shirt curves in a way that shows her chest sitting firmly on the upper side of her torso, like she's wearing a supportive underwire bra.

the edited image on the right: said contestant with the text from her t-shirt whitened out, it now looks like her breasts sag down to pretty much directly above her waist.
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⚧︎ruwe/james☭ @marxistphan.eurosky.social · 18/10/2026
not really any Halloween specific plans as we don't really celebrate it where i'm from but one of my siblings is celebrating their birthday on the 31st so yeah that's the plan!
are you doing anything fun for halloween? (if not anything else you're looking forward to)
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⚧︎ruwe/james☭ @marxistphan.eurosky.social · 17/10/2026
i really don't believe in any of that stuff & when it goes beyond innocuous personal practice and slips into promoting alternative medicine + rejecting conventional science - as does all religion once it becomes something someone wants to monetise, it's our moral obligation to point there is no
thoughts on witchcraft and spirituality?
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⚧︎ruwe/james☭ @marxistphan.eurosky.social · 17/10/2026
yeaaah i have and i used to be very sure i wanted pets but these days i am very scared of grieving the eventual death of a pet so idk. maybe in the future if i have a place big enough i could get fish tank or turtles, that seems more manageable
have you ever thought about having a pet?
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⚧︎ruwe/james☭ @marxistphan.eurosky.social · 17/10/2026
idk if standup counts but one of my favourite phrases ever is this bit from James Acaster youtu.be/eA0neTHUN6M?... "believe in yourself a little bit!"
do you have a favourite joke? or a joke you heard last
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⚧︎ruwe/james☭ @marxistphan.eurosky.social · 17/10/2026
i don't really engage with the personalities behind music very deeply or often but in terms of how much i appreciate the craft, Talking Heads is absolutely up there. Arctic Monkeys and the Strokes too. the fact that they have a different sound on every record is very enjoyable for me
what's your fave band and why?
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⚧︎ruwe/james☭ @marxistphan.eurosky.social · 16/10/2026
i have listened to Amnesty in full which i loved! I have also heard a good chunk of Graduation, Ethersea and Steeplechase - fell off Grad because it didn't hold my interest, fell off Ethersea because i got really busy while it was releasing and that happened w Steeplechase too. i am currently giving
have you listened to any taz series aside from balance? personally I'm in a steeplechase vibe rn (ily shlabethany)
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⚧︎ruwe/james☭ @marxistphan.eurosky.social · 16/10/2026
<3 it always makes me v happy when people ask questions abt my fanfic or if there's a tmi/political question i can give a funny-yet-sincere answer to but i tend to do these when i need a distraction. so rn it's hard to think of something i Want to talk abt bc the unwanted thoughts are taking over yk
is there a question/topic you're secretly hoping someone asks about? (please take this as an excuse for yaps if so)
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⚧︎ruwe/james☭ @marxistphan.eurosky.social · 16/10/2026
*zaps your brain to activate the grey matter" thiiink!! you can do it!!
um uh wait lemme think of something I suddenly have never wondered anything ever
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⚧︎ruwe/james☭ @marxistphan.eurosky.social · 16/10/2026
no because Why would i follow someone i hate. this is my timeline i decide what it looks like innit
Do you hate any of your mutuals???
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⚧︎ruwe/james☭ @marxistphan.eurosky.social · 16/10/2026
and here are the images linked to in that post for those who can't access imgur. the alt text for them are just the imgur captions.
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⚧︎ruwe/james☭ @marxistphan.eurosky.social · 15/10/2026
yeah that does look like something a non-lesbian would do to be fair
tumblr bio description saying the user is "not a lesbian" right before describing himself as "dyke of dionysus"
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⚧︎ruwe/james☭ @marxistphan.eurosky.social · 15/10/2026
this reminds of when in my shakespeare class someone was saying it was misogynistic that all the women in the plays we read were manipulative schemers & my (white woman) instructor was sagely nodding along like yes yes good point and i piped up like Well i mean. it was illegal for women to have real
tumblr post by kraniumet: the whole "women are evil because they're manipulative and scheming" thing is always so funny to me because what the fuck else can you do when you have very little structural power
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⚧︎ruwe/james☭ @marxistphan.eurosky.social · 14/10/2026
Screenshot of Dan Howell grabbing his chest with claw hands, with a mouth-open, eyes-narrowed expression on his face.
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⚧︎ruwe/james☭ @marxistphan.eurosky.social · 14/10/2026
never give up hoping
Dan and Phil youtube video: A year since we revealed our relationship
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⚧︎ruwe/james☭ @marxistphan.eurosky.social · 14/10/2026
omfg the UK is not a democracy! www.irishtimes.com/culture/book...
Headline from The Irish Times: Sally Rooney’s books will no longer be available in UK over her support for Palestine Action
Sub header: Faber blames UK antiterrorism legislation for decision to stop distributing bestselling author’s works.
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⚧︎ruwe/james☭ @marxistphan.eurosky.social · 13/10/2026
here it is
tumblr user cyncity2000 asks: 
hi! I apologize, I know this is a basic ass question but I haven't seen anyone ask about it on here- in general, when have they been telling gold & silver vips to arrive at the venue? I know the venue emails a few days beforehand and it can depend on the venue (I'm going to hartford ✨hardford✨ if it makes a difference, the site says 7:30 start time which looks to be the same as other shows) but they haven't emailed yet so I figured I'd ask here. ty!

hard-launch-tour answers: 
the gold arrival time should be at about 3:30pm, the silver arrival time at about 5pm. 
but as you were saying, please check the email your venue will send you for the actual details!
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⚧︎ruwe/james☭ @marxistphan.eurosky.social · 13/10/2026
it was oooough and also ough ough ough dan trying to find a tutor so he can do well on his exam to get into uni which he seemed not to care about before but then he met someone who actually cared abt him and encouraged him to try AHEEEEM HEEEEEM im gonna throw up
A digital doodle of an autism/tbh creature with its eyes really big and crying so many tears they're forming a puddle around its body.
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⚧︎ruwe/james☭ @marxistphan.eurosky.social · 12/10/2026
this slightly more concerned version is great too
Rhett from Rhett and Link looking to his side with a look of concern and confusion on his face.
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⚧︎ruwe/james☭ @marxistphan.eurosky.social · 11/10/2026
good morning
Phil in his tour bunk bed with his eyes barely opened, clutching the duvet for emotional strength.
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⚧︎ruwe/james☭ @marxistphan.eurosky.social · 10/10/2026
this is what i imagine it's like to follow me except i'm 27
tweet that reads: 13 to 16 year olds nowadays don't have a grey point, they'll say something like "racial issues prevail because the heads of the capitalist system are benefited by it" and three seconds later tweet something like "bob the builder owns my uwus" without batting an eye.
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⚧︎ruwe/james☭ @marxistphan.eurosky.social · 10/10/2026
good morning
Phil in his tour bus bunk bed with his hair messed up and eyes barely opened, clutching the duvet for emotional strength.
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⚧︎ruwe/james☭ @marxistphan.eurosky.social · 09/10/2026
the dread on phil's face is so real here like this is how i wake up every morning just completely resentful of the fact that i'm not asleep anymore
Phil in his tour bus bunk bed with his hair messed up and eyes barely opened, clutching the duvet for emotional strength.
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⚧︎ruwe/james☭ @marxistphan.eurosky.social · 09/10/2026
definitely some bugs left to be resolved but the dialogue in this game kind of rules
A character in the game Dressmaker named Prudence says: "such a spoiled, frivolous woman, always talking about 'art' and 'politics'." Prudence is a white lady and she looks very snooty.
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⚧︎ruwe/james☭ @marxistphan.eurosky.social · 06/10/2026
things that would take dan and phil another 16 years
Rhett and Link from good mythical morning cozied up on a double-bed sized air mattress under the comforter.
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⚧︎ruwe/james☭ @marxistphan.eurosky.social · 04/10/2026
"the bear pit?!"🥵
Phil looking a mix of shocked/confused/excited in this new ghost hunting video.
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⚧︎ruwe/james☭ @marxistphan.eurosky.social · 04/10/2026
Post by me that was too long to fit into a single post: 

when sexual violence scandals happen and people start talking again about how we need to murder every sex offender, the only way you're allowed to express youre opinion that it's a bad idea to kill people as a punitive measure is by being a Survivor which means being forced to disclose your sexual trauma. i'm sure this is a really good way to have conversations about sexual violence and justice.
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⚧︎ruwe/james☭ @marxistphan.eurosky.social · 04/10/2026
ok i'll bite for one of these every once in a while how does pinterest see u? look up the following words and download the first image that pops up -outfit -colour -character -core aesthetic
A white person with a brown baby mullet standing back and wearing white sneakers, medium-dark blue jeans, a white top and a greyish-light short-sleeve button up with a plaid check pattern. An even colour of very deep red.David Tennant as The Doctor looking at a kitten that's sitting on his shoulder.A white persons upturned palm with a lot of red ladybugs hanging out on it.
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⚧︎ruwe/james☭ @marxistphan.eurosky.social · 03/10/2026
i love the way rhett is always looking at link like he's trying to figure out an escape room puzzle
Rhett from Good Mythical Morning is a white guy with a beard and shoulder-length curly hair. He's sitting back in his chair a little bit and has a confused, seemingly deeply concentrated look on his face.
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⚧︎ruwe/james☭ @marxistphan.eurosky.social · 03/10/2026
you will literally never guess what this was said about
Mona at 22:58 on discord: ONG HELL YEAAAHHHH. unironically that's so chic.
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⚧︎ruwe/james☭ @marxistphan.eurosky.social · 03/10/2026
albums i grew up on albums that shaped my teenage years albums that are shaping my late 20s
A chart of 9 albums. 
Row 1: Back To Black - Amy Winehouse. Never for Ever - Kate Bush. Konk - The Kooks. 
Row 2: The Family Jewels - Marina & The Diamonds. Whatever People Say I Am, That's What I'm Not - Arctic Monkeys. Right Thoughts, Right Words, Right Action - Franz Ferdinand. 
Row 3: Imaginal Disk - Magdalena Bay. The New Abnormal - The Strokes. Selftitled - Blur.
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⚧︎ruwe/james☭ @marxistphan.eurosky.social · 01/10/2026
it's fucking ludicrously awful writing to 1) throw out accusations like this which have nothing to do with your initial claim and 2) pose it to be Reed's fault that trans people are stressed and ill-informed when most trans people don't even know who she is.
There is arguably a direct line between Erin Reed’s writing and our community’s own burnout and general inability to properly understand the threats we face. 

Her work explains why, before we started The Needle, when we asked our friends and community what they wanted out of trans journalism, the most common thing that both of us were told was “don’t be like Erin Reed”.
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⚧︎ruwe/james☭ @marxistphan.eurosky.social · 30/09/2026
i think we can really end all social media addiction arguments by all admitting that the core "addiction" here can be solved pretty easily once the user internalises this image:
Grover, the blue muppet from Sesame Street, is looking at his phone in one hand and holding up his other in the air. He is portrayed against a green background with text hovering above him, which asks the viewer: How much longer do you want to scroll? Is there something you set out to do when you picked up your device?
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⚧︎ruwe/james☭ @marxistphan.eurosky.social · 30/09/2026
for real though
The character Lore from Star Trek, an android played by actor Brent Spiner, has a crestfallen look on his face. Text arranged over his chest reads: fuck, man.
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⚧︎ruwe/james☭ @marxistphan.eurosky.social · 30/09/2026
i call this one "christian couple attributes their divorce to porn addiction"
fridgle, a wordle-inspired game where you compose fridge poetry from a set of given words that changes every day. 

champagne released, 
doomed marriage
moneyshot.
you lot to blame
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⚧︎ruwe/james☭ @marxistphan.eurosky.social · 29/09/2026
fridgle day 46
misunderstood selfhanging

tried felling.        it hurt 
pearls broke 
you needed leverage
sick hag, bonded lass, 
              someday selfliked
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⚧︎ruwe/james☭ @marxistphan.eurosky.social · 29/09/2026
new chaptered fic alert! archiveofourown.org/works/917338... ‼️E-rated ✏️Porn Star AU with the characteristic homegrownlesbian flavour, plenty of backstory to chew on, workplace relationship ensues.
Common People by homegrownlesbian on AO3
Summary: Phil is an aspiring author struggling to make ends meet. Dan is a successful performer in the adult video industry who recently signed with a new studio. When they meet, they each quickly find there's more to the other than what meets the eye.
Pull-quote: “The last thing I wrote was, ‘James D. says he never stops talking and that’s why he can’t find a boyfriend. I might be biased because he’s my fave, but I feel reasonably confident I can solve that problem for him.’ I mean—” Phil slides the copy of his application back to the other side of the table. “Provided he actually wants to solve the problem, that is.”
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⚧︎ruwe/james☭ @marxistphan.eurosky.social · 28/09/2026
fridgle day 45
guide to falling directly forwards

where i stand
you can talk.
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⚧︎ruwe/james☭ @marxistphan.eurosky.social · 25/09/2026
hashtag phannie friday
Selfie of Ruwe lying down on the sofa looking kinda sceptical into the camera. They're flat-chested, white, have very short hair, and wear glasses. They have on a sleeveless shirt that's rolled up to show some stomach and a pair of red boxer briefs but you can't see beyond their upper thigh. The sofa has a yellow blanket on it. The sleeveless shirt has a comic of a desert rock formation on it.Dan Howwell in pyjama pants eating pringles on a black sofa. He's wearing a tshirt thats "slut" on it in a Shrek-inspired font.
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⚧︎ruwe/james☭ @marxistphan.eurosky.social · 25/09/2026
hiii, this is what Dan asked for in the popbase interview right? archiveofourown.org/works/93255911 ✏️4.5k words ‼️E-rated! Key tags: Ancient Greece, Porn With Some Plot
Sacrifice Rewarded by homegrownlesbian on AO3. 

Summary: Phyuri set in ancient Greece where Phil is basically Sappho, Dan is the Oracle of Delphi, and a prophecy tells them that Phil simply must abandon her marriage and become a priestess serving the Pythia. You know, to appease the Gods!

Pull-quote: “You do not strike me as a woman who requires the Oracle’s blessing to divorce a man who mistreats you,” Dan states. She steps out of her chair to be at eye level with the woman, who is even more beautiful up close. Sweet Eros, it has been too long since her heart beat this way. What a merciful feeling. “Have you not raised your sons to be loyal to the woman who gave them life?”

“They are loyal, priestess. My husband is a good man. I have no real reason to leave him.” She still looks down, embarrassed. “But I am not… satisfied.”

And Dan has the feeling a young and lively Adonis would not adequately relieve her frustration.
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⚧︎ruwe/james☭ @marxistphan.eurosky.social · 25/09/2026
HELLPOSTING DELAYED i looked at the calendar wrong it's not until sunday
John Mulaney, a white standup comedian in a grey suit, stands against a blue-purple background and says: In terms of like, instant relief, cancelling plans is like heroin.
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