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Yeahhh, love that dumbass kind of thinking when it comes to anything really. Depression? Just get a grip and get over it. Hungry? Just ignore it. Anxious? Well, don't be :D I really really hate stuff like this

I'm really sorry to hear that ;-;

Yeah that's what I assumed ;w; And the person in the screenshot was saying that the YAB normals do *not* give that look. So I assumed it wasn't negative and was why I did not react ;w;

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I'll try to issue more official warnings in the future, thank you ;w; Ban for me is usually last resort, I need to work a bit on being harsher I guess x__x

Yeahhh, sadly there is a lot of ppl in this community and in this world that think that fat ppl somehow cannot be athletic, dealt with it my whole life back in school days when ppl would underestimate me just because I am fat and clearly couldn't do well at sports or anything :')

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I was literally replying to every single thing you are saying and addressing everything but okay

as for ridiculous I know it can be used negatively, but in this case 'ridiculous bodybuilder' to me genuinely sounds like 'a very big one'? Like it doesnt read negatively to me at all, which is why probably I did not react at the time. But if I see someone clearly being negative, I always react ;-;

The gigantic thing was addressed and the comment was deleted for a reason, as I said I do not tolerate negative comments about other bodies in my server. I *am* sorry someone said such a thing, but I cannot *prevent it*. All I can do is delete the comment and warn/ban people involved. ;-;

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Also the ''ridiculous body builder proportions'' was praising YAB's normals, the person said that you can use those to achieve the body of a not super huge bodybuilder, not them shaming other bodies in this community?

Speaking ''strangely'' is not a crime and none of the things they said were purely negative. They were expressing preference, albeit a bit poorly, but none of the comments they said were 100% negative? I'm also not present everywhere to ''nip everything in the bud'', but I do try my best to educate

I assure you I could go to any other body's server and find similar comments against Neolithe, is having a preference a crime now? They did not *insult* any other bodies or fat shame anyone. ALSO NONE OF THE SCREENSHOTS RELATE TO *ME* FAT SHAMING ANY BODY, which was the point of all this

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Like I assume bodybuilder/muscular =/= fat, no? Also the person in the screenshots wasn't even being negative??? They were just saying that they prefer NOT super muscular bodies or just bodies that are more proportionate to vanilla??? Having a preference =/= hating/shaming other bodies?

Okay, so there is a guy that doesn't like strong bodybuilder proportions or bodies that differ from vanilla too much. By ''ridiculous'' I assumed they meant over the top, is that purely a negative term? Genuine question. Where is the fatphobia or fat shaming here exactly?

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Right after release we received some feedback about the body both from people who use it and who do not, we tried our best to implement it and change things that were pointed out, nobody got a ban.

I also don't really have people joining Neolithe Hub just to be negative about it, but even IF they did as long as they are respectful and stop after being told they are breaking the rules, I do not see any reason to ban anyone.

I'll also add that NONE of the screenshots provided showcase ME as the person fat shaming any body. So I am still waiting for those.

People deserve a chance to get educated so they can do better in the future and not be pieces of shit anymore, if they are not willing to do better THEN they deserve a ban. So far that wasn't the case and every time people would simply apologize and never say such things again.

No? Rules are there for a reason, warnings were given. Have you ever moderated a bigger server before? Do you think everyone just gets a straight up ban the moment they break the rules? No, they usually get a warning and if it happens *again*, then it's a ban. Usually warning is enough.

As a fat person IRL I am TIRED of ppl telling me that just because I made yet another body mod that is pretty much skinny just like all the other bodies out there such as Bibo+, YAB and so on that I am now somehow fat shaming others. I do not tolerate ANY kind of negativity towards other bodies.

I did not mean it as ''fat'' or ''plus sized'' or ''bigger'', I mean it as ''the same as other bodies''. I do regret using that word, at the time I couldn't find a better one and was frustrated with all the accusations thrown at me and that are still thrown at me.

As for the ''medium'' thing - as an ESL person, I used ''medium'' as ''average'', ''base line'', ''similar'' to other bodies out there, which was supported by me posting comparison screenshots with other bodies to showcase that Neolithe is not any different from other available bodies such as Bibo+

♡ l y e @lyetamine.bsky.social · 27/05/2025

I hope you also looked at the reactions to any kind of negative comments that have been posted aside from just random ppl saying dumb things

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Ofc I got blocked and not even offered a response, there is NO proof of me fat shaming anyone so at the very least do NOT spread straight up lies about me

♡ l y e @lyetamine.bsky.social · 27/05/2025

As a fat person IRL that always provides previews of how my mods scale using C+ with my chubbier OC I really would like to see where did I *ever* say anything bad about other fat bodies out there