Baphomet the Balancer @lostboysdaddy.bsky.social · 05/10/2026That’s precisely why I’m going to delete this app. I’m here for D/s, not a bunch of narcissistic self adsorbed brats who can’t trust anyone but themselves. I’m moving on to a place where someone might trust me instead of bash me for having a desire for a meaningful relationship. 200
Baphomet the Balancer @lostboysdaddy.bsky.social · 05/10/2026Daily reflection journaling on Fetlife. 110
Reposted by Baphomet the BalancerCoach Chron @coachchron.com · 04/10/2026Show up through the panic attacks. Show up through the failures. Show up through the losses. Show up through the doubt. Show up anyway. That's partnership. 051
Baphomet the Balancer @lostboysdaddy.bsky.social · 04/10/2026Welcome to take this to DMs. With respect, I’m not sure you’re understanding my point. 000
Baphomet the Balancer @lostboysdaddy.bsky.social · 04/10/2026setting goals but absolutely suck at trusting another person to make decisions for them. Aren’t relationships about settings mutual goals? D/s is just another method of mutual goal setting. 100
Baphomet the Balancer @lostboysdaddy.bsky.social · 04/10/2026relationships with others can be an even more valuable skill to master. I think today’s society could use a bit more love and trust over pure goal setting. Keep in mind I’m speaking from the perspective of a Dom that has been through these tribulations. I’ve met several guys who are great at 100
Baphomet the Balancer @lostboysdaddy.bsky.social · 04/10/2026validation from external people. I’ve met plenty of subs who are reliant on internet validation. Younger guys are extremely susceptible to this dangerous mentality. I’m a person who values people’s ability to trust and put faith in another person. Self restraint is important but forming 100
Baphomet the Balancer @lostboysdaddy.bsky.social · 04/10/2026I’m saying it “has” to be a certain way. I’m just explaining the value of doing it together with someone else versus by yourself. I’m allowed to have my own preferences. I’m proud of people who can do it alone but even more proud to see a community come together. Seems like a bunch of internet 100
Baphomet the Balancer @lostboysdaddy.bsky.social · 04/10/2026It’s like training without a coach. The relationship between the coach and the athlete is what makes a team. We’re social beings that just perform better as a community. Self discipline works better with a coach involved. There’s accountability built into the practice. 210
Baphomet the Balancer @lostboysdaddy.bsky.social · 04/10/2026But no one can call you out when you cheat? For example. I’m a runner and I run better with a community of other runners who will hold me accountable. The same goes for relationships. Especially D/s. The sub finds it freeing to allow another trusted person to hold them accountable. 100
Baphomet the Balancer @lostboysdaddy.bsky.social · 04/10/2026But isn’t it like Valentine’s Day without a valentine? 100
Baphomet the Balancer @lostboysdaddy.bsky.social · 04/10/2026All these post of boys showing off a cage but not a Dom or keyholder in sight. What’s the deal? I understand self collaring but isn’t the goal to have someone else decide when you get to unlock? Isn’t part of the ritual of chastity to have a trusted Dom hold the keys and make decisions? 240
Baphomet the Balancer @lostboysdaddy.bsky.social · 03/10/2026You reminded me of a pair of ripped pants I’ve been meaning to sew. Instead they live in the ADHD corner of my home along with every other unfinished project I’ve ever worked on. 😂This is totally relatable. 111
Baphomet the Balancer @lostboysdaddy.bsky.social · 03/10/2026I’m not someone’s toy to play with for 30 days. I’m worth more than cage checks and one orgasm. Having dignity and self worth is freeing. I choose me this month. ❤️ Running my first official half marathon tomorrow morning. Wish me luck.🍀 3110
Baphomet the Balancer @lostboysdaddy.bsky.social · 03/10/2026So many silly boys out there flaunting their nub to a guy who barely knows them for a month and then dumping them. Yall practice Locktober like it’s Xmas. You get your gift on the last day and then forget about the person. I don’t have a sub this year for chastity checks for that exact reason. 270
Baphomet the Balancer @lostboysdaddy.bsky.social · 01/10/2026Giving the Dom control shows trust and empowerment. Doms feel deeply disrespected when their sub hands power to too many Doms. As a Daddy, I want security within my D/s relationships. I want a sub that acknowledges the sacred rituals of chastity. Play by the rules. No cheating. 050
Baphomet the Balancer @lostboysdaddy.bsky.social · 01/10/2026Why do some subs think doing cage checks for multiple Doms is a good idea? Only I get your keys. Only I get to see your caged dick. I own your penis for a month. Allow me to own you. Grant me power. Anything else is disloyal and disempowering. Respect the commitment to the Dom. Give them control. 160
Baphomet the Balancer @lostboysdaddy.bsky.social · 30/09/2026This little stinker has been huffy for three days now and wanted some friends to tease him on the playmate with his stuffie. 1230
Baphomet the Balancer @lostboysdaddy.bsky.social · 29/09/2026For those of you interested in relational work. Come join the Kink Collective. Here we learn how to make kink work instead catfishing and ghosting. Please join the movement that is redefining our ideas of kink. Back to the basics. ❤️ fetlife.com/events/2026/...fetlife.comLogin | FetLifeWelcome back, we've missed you! 041
Baphomet the Balancer @lostboysdaddy.bsky.social · 28/09/2026You wouldn’t let him change you even if he asked. Probably a stubborn little guy. 😅 110
Baphomet the Balancer @lostboysdaddy.bsky.social · 27/09/2026Checked him this morning. He accomplished his goal. All da paws are gone. 0211
Baphomet the Balancer @lostboysdaddy.bsky.social · 26/09/2026An enduring love, forged to withstand the relentless march of time, knows no doubt of loyalty. Trust in this bond, and you will find no regret. Only the promise of a lifetime intertwined. 050
Baphomet the Balancer @lostboysdaddy.bsky.social · 26/09/2026All of this means nothing without love. Jealousy crumbles when the pair holds the absolute certainty that the other will forever choose them. Their spirits recognize the place to which they belong, secured safe within each other’s embrace. 160
Baphomet the Balancer @lostboysdaddy.bsky.social · 26/09/2026A true Dominant doesn’t collect. Real Dominants select a submissive who has chosen them. They share an enduring level of trust, placing faith in each other. A bond that can only be forged under pressures as intense as the formation of diamonds. They are firm in reality, grounded, and resilient. 1150
Baphomet the Balancer @lostboysdaddy.bsky.social · 24/09/2026Perhaps pick one Dom, and keep the photos private between the two of you. Allow the Dom to have the control they desire and lean into true submission. 010
Baphomet the Balancer @lostboysdaddy.bsky.social · 24/09/2026My favorite good night story. Yes, I’m a horrible father who swears around his children. Doesnt mean I dont love you. ❤️ m.youtube.com/watch?v=teIb...m.youtube.comGo the f**k to sleep, read by Samuel L JacksonYouTube video by TheGedvis 190
Baphomet the Balancer @lostboysdaddy.bsky.social · 24/09/2026Tankatsu Ramenstatic.klipy.comDBZ Goku Eating RamenALT: DBZ Goku Eating Ramen 110
Baphomet the Balancer @lostboysdaddy.bsky.social · 22/09/2026You can do it! It’s a journey worth taking. 010
Baphomet the Balancer @lostboysdaddy.bsky.social · 21/09/2026Trail run in the woods today. The weather is absolutely gorgeous. 0240
Reposted by Baphomet the BalancerXeph @xephybun.bsky.social · 20/09/2026Playing with lighting and magic more with this one. Have a little baphomet. X3 013933
Baphomet the Balancer @lostboysdaddy.bsky.social · 21/09/2026I’d love to get my ropes on a sexy school boy like you 😈 Creative idea. Love it 010
Baphomet the Balancer @lostboysdaddy.bsky.social · 18/09/2026static.klipy.comBurro do Shrek SorrindoALT: Burro do Shrek Sorrindo 120
Baphomet the Balancer @lostboysdaddy.bsky.social · 17/09/2026Oh no it is. Someone needs protection for their leaky bladder. 020
Baphomet the Balancer @lostboysdaddy.bsky.social · 17/09/2026Whichever one makes you feel most happy. I’d say cars. 000
Baphomet the Balancer @lostboysdaddy.bsky.social · 17/09/2026Still looking for a chastity slave for Locktober. If you can handle 30 days of consistent checks, I might consider owning you. Any candidates up for the task? I will need to unlock you in person at the end of the month. 2100