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Lily Kasai

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Lily Kasai @lilykasai.bsky.social · 10/12/2024

There actually have been times when I expressed discomfort or shared my feelings about things I wasn’t okay with, even if I didn’t explicitly label them as boundaries or hard 'No's. It's because I doubted myself that I did not advocate for my 'no's. I confronted Lucy about this personally.

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Lily Kasai @lilykasai.bsky.social · 07/12/2024

Where I'm at: While I once hoped for an apology or private accountability from Lucy Sweetkill, I've accepted that such closure will never come. I understand that many will continue to support her despite my speaking out about the abuse I experienced under her mentorship. So why share my story?

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Lily Kasai @lilykasai.bsky.social · 07/12/2024

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Lily Kasai @lilykasai.bsky.social · 07/12/2024

When I told Lucy I didn't want to stop escorting- she threatened my living situation, the removal of my community, and the career that I was trying to build. So yeah, I could have said no but there were consequences.

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Lily Kasai @lilykasai.bsky.social · 07/12/2024

This is exactly the type of dismissal I went through after trying to privately get accountability from being harmed.

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Lily Kasai @lilykasai.bsky.social · 07/12/2024

Lucy Sweetkill was my abuser and what I went through under her as her mentee deserves to be heard. I asked for accountability privately since May of 2023 and no one has acknowledged anything.

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Lily Kasai @lilykasai.bsky.social · 06/12/2024

The way some (not all) dommes market their services under the guise of education, life coaching, and empowerment feels is pretty gross. (Feels like MLM) Charging a lot of money to SW newcomers in the name of "education" is exploitative and scammy.

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Lily Kasai @lilykasai.bsky.social · 06/12/2024

I have decided to come forward and name the person who has hurt me without taking responsibility. I believe it is crucial to share my experience and raise awareness, as I fear this individual may pose a risk to others. My former mentor, Lucy Sweetkill, is the person I am speaking about.

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Lily Kasai @lilykasai.bsky.social · 02/12/2024

I wrote about my experience in a BDSM mentorship that brought both growth and trauma. I hope to show the complex power dynamics that arise when personal and professional boundaries blur, particularly in mentorship relationships within marginalized communities. mylkpuff.substack.com/p/coming-soon

mylkpuff.substack.com

Trauma as Transformation: A BDSM Mentorship

Part One. CW: harm, self harm, ideation, etc.

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Lily Kasai @lilykasai.bsky.social · 02/12/2024

Responsible mentors don't curate selective positive testimonials while erasing unsavory feedback from others. My definition of informed consent in professional BDSM mentorships requires transparency about past experiences - both positive and negative.

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