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Unless we make these selfish folks see how these systems negatively impact them AS WELL, i don't think we'll make progress.

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My father is an excellent example of this. He's been a republican his whole life, drank the Trump kool-aid. In the last year, he has started complaining about the economy/billionaires/Trump bc it is directly affecting him! He still doesnt give a shit about changing is racism/sexism/homophobia.

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Maybe that's just me being a cynic but I don't see those issues moving in pos. directions any time soon bc racism/misogyny/homophobia are entrenched in US culture. Plus conservatives did such a great job of pushing young men further to the right in the last decade & we still have to contend w/ that

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I think there are different things that are making it seem that way, mostly conversations about wealth inequality. I only think that is happening bc folks can directly feel that affecting them. I don't think we are making the same progress in LGBTQ+, POC, or women's issues.

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Those reasons don't absolve her of the harm she is causing on a societal level, shifting the overton window of our culture further to the right (including here in gaylor circles) w/ her actions/inactions/folks she surrounds herself with. That deserves some critique in my book 🤷‍♀️

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Yup! I do not give celebrities the benefit of the doubt. They have so much💲/influence. Esp Taylor. She could go independent tomorrow & still be successful/famous & be able to speak about causes she cares about. She is actively choosing not to do that for reasons we don't know

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And yes, I am being a little salty/petty about this bc i have been dogpiled & blocked by so many gaylors for daring to critique the societal impacts of pop stars who are making important commentary, but not meeting their audiences where they are at w/ their critical thinking skills (or lack thereof)

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Reminder that even if Taylor does have a plan to burn it all down, her actions in the moment still do harm to those of us that do not have her wealth or influence to insulate us from that harm. With midterm voting happening in three weeks here in the US, that is more real now than ever before

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AP 💜💛🤍🖤 @lifeofap.bsky.social · 12/10/2026

Glad to see the timeline has caught up to where I was a month ago about being sick of this performance, but interesting to note that the only difference that is making it palatable is critiquing her circle instead of her directly 🤔

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I highly recommend. I picked up these silicone storage containers that portion them into four servings. I love it bc it means I can easily grab however many portions I need! The older I get, the more I recognize the beauty of meal prepping when the energy exists lol

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AP 💜💛🤍🖤 @lifeofap.bsky.social · 12/10/2026

Not soup, but currently making puff pastry chicken pot pie! My fall journey is making as many soups as possible & freezing them so I don't have as much food waste & can save myself time/energy this winter. I fully intend on hibernating 😌

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AP 💜💛🤍🖤 @lifeofap.bsky.social · 09/10/2026

Also finally hung the shroom!! I have had this fella for two years!! He finally gets to shine!!

A mushroom light, an A on canvas, a "Love is Love" on canvas, & a butterfly photo

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AP 💜💛🤍🖤 @lifeofap.bsky.social · 09/10/2026

Only took me four months to put her up 💀

The TS US Leg Eras Tour Tapestry with leafy lights hanging in front of it

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I have two meetings this afternoon, which means I have been waiting mode all day & barely got anything done today 🙃

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This is the same arrangement I have in my house. Dishes? No thank you. The best you're getting is me rinsing dishes & putting in a dishwasher. But i will dirty them all day to cook/bake. Folding laundry? Not unless someone is body doubling with me 🤣

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This has also been my experience. Which sucks bc i KNOW there are leftist crafters out there & i wanna make stuff with them!!!

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AP 💜💛🤍🖤 @lifeofap.bsky.social · 06/10/2026

I'm grumpy that it'll take that long, but I was just complaining to my spouse about this. I hate being tradwife adjacent in all of my hobbies bc people always assume that means conservative, which i def am not. I'm just a baking/cooking & thread witch, pls let me do craft in peace ✌🏻

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I hope Enamored Viewer on YT is okay bc she hasn't posted a video in three weeks 😔

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AP 💜💛🤍🖤 @lifeofap.bsky.social · 04/10/2026

This & men experiencing joy/being vulnerable. Every year my spouse & I watch The Nightmare Before Christmas during Oct. & seeing him turn into a giant kid always has me like 🥹

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AP 💜💛🤍🖤 @lifeofap.bsky.social · 04/10/2026

She's testing my resolve to see if I buy the clock, or continue holding out for the anticipation of a 3 am version that may never exist 🥲

AP 💜💛🤍🖤 @lifeofap.bsky.social · 03/10/2026

Brotherly loveeeee 👨‍❤️‍👨 Brotherly hateeeee 🙅‍♂️ Don't it sometimes 🕖 Feel like the same thing? ⚖️

He suffers from the same affliction every "apolitical" person has. It doesn't matter until it starts to affect him personally. I was hoping for better, considering his ties to the black community, but i am also not shocked

I think one of the biggest things that needs to happen is the dismantling of the patriarchy. Men would not feel entitled to women's bodies at the level they currently do if they did not feel such a superiority to them. You don't want to intentionally hurt the people and things you respect

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I'm so glad we can have convos like this bc i have carried shame for yrs for being pro-abolitionist, but also feeling in my soul that rapists/p*dos deserve to feel just as violated as they made their victims feel. Obvs I wouldn't do that myself, but it does show that we as humans contain multitudes

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Unfortunately, our system is not designed for that. Most of the time these folks never see accountability & when they are held "accountable" it doesn't feel like enough, as with this case.

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I also struggle with this topic as someone who has repeatedly had my boundaries violated by the boys/men in my life. I truly don't think theres a good answer. Best case scenario would be jail time in a system that focuses on rehabilitation. This would require therapy & education on SA

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I mean... it is pretty gross smelling & sticky, so i could agree

I have molasses on hand but it's bc i usually make some sort of gingerbread/snickerdoodle cookie for the holidays 😅

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Maybe she shouldn't have dropped the perfect high vibing album aka Midnights

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Miss "And not the kind of bake most artists do"

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I second what Kai says. Midnights, to me, is a scorpio vibes album. Plus, it started off this PA, which we largely believe is tied to uncovering the bad eggs in the industry

I am a flight person. If the decision can't be made in the moment, I need to go sit on it for three-five business days to see what my internal compass has to say It's awful for arguments bc i literally have to tell my spouse we have to shelf topics bc i need to process them longer lmao

I envy y'all bc you always seem to have a path in life & I'm "i exist purely on vibes, what are long term goals?"

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I wish I had any air placements. Just lots of water & earth placements & my two lonely fire signs holding on for dear life (Leo Venus & sag moon)

As someone who feels PERSONALLY VICTIMIZED by that song bc of my 1st house ♏️ stellium & 8th house ♋️ stellium (bc the scorpio placements weren't enough on their own), we are the birth/death/rebirth sign of the zodiac. It's exhausting always rising from the ashes 🙂‍↕️

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As a ♏️ rising, I also believe she is one of us. Esp if she actually IS planning a major uncovering of the 🎶 industry. One of my fave things to do is bitch about struct. inequalities Plus, you can't call yourself a phoenix & not be one of us w/ major scorpio placements. I don't make the rules 🤷‍♀️

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I complained two years ago to my bff that every time my spouse & I get to a spot where we feel financial stable, something happens with the economy & the goalposts get moved. I just wanna live comfortably, have savings, and make memories with my loved ones. I'm not asking for much over here

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Felt this. When I was on SAVE, my payment was $10/mo. Now it's over $550 a month. I know my financial situation has dramatically improved & I got married during that time, but damn. Basically all of my pay raises are going to this payment now & I get to go back to counting pennies between checks 😔

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I've seen the midnights promo photos & her pap photos during the quest love uno parties. Girlfriend can't fool me, she loves a little smoke 🤣

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I have a cat who loves anime, so I get it. He'll sleep through every other show, but you put on the japanese cartoons & he's gotta lock into his programs 🤣

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Due to Medicaid cuts coming through, I have been trained on how to sign folks up for it. This way, if they call into my customer service line and I see their Medicaid has lapsed, I can direct them to connect with MDHHS or check their account online. It's just one more task I don't have time for 💀

I have three & government names are rarely used lol Jaeger: Mr. Baby, Mr. Man, Jaeger baby, jaegermeister, nuisance, naughty baby Cheddar: Baby Biscuit, Cheddar Bay Biscuit, cheddy spaghetti, Mr. Biscuit Daisy: Daisy Baby, little weirdo. She's new & we're all still figuring each other out 😂

AP 💜💛🤍🖤 @lifeofap.bsky.social · 28/09/2026

I love seeing jowel wrinkles and crow's feet on women. 1) bc fuck the patriarchal beauty standards around aging & 2) it shows all of the joy they have lived ☺️

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AP 💜💛🤍🖤 @lifeofap.bsky.social · 27/09/2026

I also vote yes for reasons already stated & bc the books are just amazing. Susan Collins did such a marvelous job describing the complexities of war, oppressive governments, propaganda, gen. poverty & celebrity culture. I think she saw the route the world was heading and was trying to warn us

AP 💜💛🤍🖤 @lifeofap.bsky.social · 27/09/2026

* tw weight loss & ED I wish fresh food was not so expensive bc I've lost weight & felt so much better since switching to a mostly whole food diet. I am not ✨strict✨ about it bc I cannot be trusted & i love sweets too much lmao. just sucks not everyone has that same opportunity