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Lexci Sterling (Lust) YYJ/YVR 🇨🇦

@lexcisterling.bsky.social
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Victoria/Vancouver/FMTY Writer • Sex-worker • Mentor lexcilust.com Soft energy, sharp boundaries. www.substack.com/@lexcisterling linktr.ee/lexcisterling

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Lexci Sterling (Lust) YYJ/YVR 🇨🇦 @lexcisterling.bsky.social · 01/10/2026
How's the view from the back?
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Lexci Sterling (Lust) YYJ/YVR 🇨🇦 @lexcisterling.bsky.social · 28/09/2026
How are we doing now that fall has started?
A woman in purple and white lace lingerie, black thigh-high stockings, and heels kneels on an ornate rug beside a white sofa. She leans forward with her hands on the couch in a bright, elegant room with tall windows, soft curtains, and a large mirror in the background.
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Lexci Sterling (Lust) YYJ/YVR 🇨🇦 @lexcisterling.bsky.social · 25/09/2026
Sexworker Holiday Clothing Swap & Potluck! Bring a dish, clean out your closet, find some new-to-you goodies & enjoy good company. Come empty-handed if you like! Leftover items donated to PEERS Victoria. 💚 Victoria | Dec 15 | 430pm-7pm RSVP: lexcilust@gmail.com
A festive green and orange event poster for a “Sworker Holiday Clothing Swap & Potluck” in Victoria, BC. Guests are invited to bring a dish and swap clothing, shoes, jackets, lingerie, and accessories, with leftover items donated to PEERS Victoria. The event is Tuesday, December 15, 2026, with RSVP by email.
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Lexci Sterling (Lust) YYJ/YVR 🇨🇦 @lexcisterling.bsky.social · 23/09/2026
As you stare into my eyes. Try to remember what you were going to say 😏
A woman poses against a dark background in vivid blue floral lingerie with matching garter straps. One arm is raised above her head while her other hand rests teasingly near her lips. Her long auburn-brown hair falls over one shoulder, with tattoos visible on both arms as she looks directly at the camera.
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Lexci Sterling (Lust) YYJ/YVR 🇨🇦 @lexcisterling.bsky.social · 16/09/2026
Good morning from my nipples to you
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Lexci Sterling (Lust) YYJ/YVR 🇨🇦 @lexcisterling.bsky.social · 13/09/2026
September is *almost* fully spoken for 💋 I still have a little room left in October, and then I’m off gallivanting around East Asia for the entire month of November. If you want some time with me before I disappear, get those booking forms in now. ✈️💋 www.lexcilust.com
A woman poses against a dark background in an oversized, partially unbuttoned white dress shirt and white underwear. Her long brown hair falls loosely around her shoulders as she looks directly at the camera, creating a sultry, dramatic portrait with strong contrast between the white clothing and black backdrop.
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Lexci Sterling (Lust) YYJ/YVR 🇨🇦 @lexcisterling.bsky.social · 11/09/2026
"The Sexual Anthropologist: What sex work taught me about people that no classroom ever could—cultural conditioning, private desires, and who we become behind closed doors" lexcilust.substack.com/p/the-sexual...
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Lexci Sterling (Lust) YYJ/YVR 🇨🇦 @lexcisterling.bsky.social · 11/09/2026
"Don’t Burn Down Your Business Over a Slow Month: On navigating anxiety when the bookings slow down, being mindful of the scarcity and comparison trap, and remembering that sometimes business is just fucking slow." lexcilust.substack.com/p/dont-burn-...
Your phone has been suspiciously quiet. The inquiries you are getting aren’t converting. Someone who seemed ready to book suddenly disappears. Your regulars all seem to be busy at exactly the same time. You post your availability and hear crickets, then open social media and somehow everyone else appears to be at a five-star hotel holding flowers and thanking their clients for another incredible week.

It is incredibly easy to start spiralling when that happens.
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Lexci Sterling (Lust) YYJ/YVR 🇨🇦 @lexcisterling.bsky.social · 10/09/2026
This is where I'll be, soaking up the last of summer ☀️
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Lexci Sterling (Lust) YYJ/YVR 🇨🇦 @lexcisterling.bsky.social · 08/09/2026
Fall 🍂 is for fur coats 📷 @sh-photography.bsky.social
A woman kneels in front of a vintage white fireplace, wearing teal lingerie and sheer black stockings beneath a vintage dark fur coat. A long strand of pearls hangs around her neck, and her hair is styled in a tousled updo as she looks directly at the camera.
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Lexci Sterling (Lust) YYJ/YVR 🇨🇦 @lexcisterling.bsky.social · 06/09/2026
You walked in on me getting dressed for the gala… I’m going to need you to either help with this zipper or stop staring. 😉
A woman in a sheer deep-red dress poses in profile beside a mirror, leaning forward with one hand resting on her thigh. Soft natural light filters through white curtains, giving the intimate portrait a warm, moody, vintage feel.
A woman in a silky deep-red dress poses beside a white fireplace, leaning against the mantel and looking toward the camera. Her dark hair is loosely pinned up, with a floral tattoo visible on her shoulder. Soft, muted lighting gives the portrait a warm, vintage feel.
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Lexci Sterling (Lust) YYJ/YVR 🇨🇦 @lexcisterling.bsky.social · 06/09/2026
Day trip to Saltspring Island with my lovely client 😘 Thank you for the sauna and the flowers!
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Lexci Sterling (Lust) YYJ/YVR 🇨🇦 @lexcisterling.bsky.social · 03/09/2026
"If you asked me to take everything I’ve learned over the last 15 years and reduce it to one piece of advice for someone who wants longevity and success in this business, It wouldn’t be to have the perfect brand, take better photos, hustle harder..." lexcilust.substack.com/p/if-i-could...
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Lexci Sterling (Lust) YYJ/YVR 🇨🇦 @lexcisterling.bsky.social · 03/09/2026
Sweater season is creeping in and, as someone who deeply resents being cold, I’m accepting it reluctantly. Luckily, I can think of a much more enjoyable way to stay warm. Applications for personal space heater are now open. 😏🔥
A woman in an oversized cream cable-knit sweater and matching knee-high knit socks sits on a black couch, looking down as she pulls up one sock. Her hair is loosely swept back, creating a cozy, intimate portrait against a simple neutral background.
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Lexci Sterling (Lust) YYJ/YVR 🇨🇦 @lexcisterling.bsky.social · 01/09/2026
Every sex worker goes through slow periods, and I want to start there because when you are actually in one, it can genuinely feel like you are the only person experiencing it... lexcilust.substack.com/p/dont-burn-...
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Lexci Sterling (Lust) YYJ/YVR 🇨🇦 @lexcisterling.bsky.social · 27/08/2026
This picture is unedited. I love exploring my backyard, how lucky and blessed am I? 📍🌎 Saltspring Island, British Columbia
A wide view across calm blue coastal waters, framed by rocky, tree-covered shorelines beneath a dramatic sky filled with bright blue patches and sweeping white and grey clouds.
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Lexci Sterling (Lust) YYJ/YVR 🇨🇦 @lexcisterling.bsky.social · 21/08/2026
😏
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Lexci Sterling (Lust) YYJ/YVR 🇨🇦 @lexcisterling.bsky.social · 19/08/2026
See a booty, post a booty
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Lexci Sterling (Lust) YYJ/YVR 🇨🇦 @lexcisterling.bsky.social · 19/08/2026
Jazz clubs, cigars lounges, strong cocktails, and even stronger chemistry. Go ahead, whispersomething dirty in my ear
A smiling woman in a black satin slip sits beside a bright window, one hand holding a fur coat and the other holds a cigarette, raised playfully near her face. She wears pearl drop earrings and has visible tattoos on both arms.
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Lexci Sterling (Lust) YYJ/YVR 🇨🇦 @lexcisterling.bsky.social · 16/08/2026
Summer is slipping away faster than my stockings! My schedule is updated regularly on my website. I have one end-of-summer wish: DUOS! Because some things are better in pairs. Browse my favourite partners and start plotting accordingly: www.lexcilust.com/duos 💋
A curvy woman lounges across a white bed in a bright, sunlit bedroom, wearing a purple bra, white lace underwear, black thigh-high stockings and black heels. She stretches both arms above her head while smiling toward the camera. White curtains, a wooden nightstand and a tall green plant complete the airy setting.
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Lexci Sterling (Lust) YYJ/YVR 🇨🇦 @lexcisterling.bsky.social · 14/08/2026
Newest Article! The Sexual Anthropologist: What sex work taught me about human behaviour that no classroom ever could. On human behaviour, cultural conditioning and what people reveal behind closed doors. lexcilust.substack.com/p/the-sexual...
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Lexci Sterling (Lust) YYJ/YVR 🇨🇦 @lexcisterling.bsky.social · 14/08/2026
Proof that sometimes more really is more. 👯‍♀️🖤
Two women pose closely together in front of a couch in a warmly lit room. One has long dark hair and wears black lace lingerie with thigh-high stockings. The other has curly blonde hair, extensive floral and animal tattoos, and black thigh-high stockings. They have their arms around each other, creating a playful, intimate pose.
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Lexci Sterling (Lust) YYJ/YVR 🇨🇦 @lexcisterling.bsky.social · 12/08/2026
I love a really good matcha and thank you @datetaylorlove.bsky.social for finding this one in our neighborhood
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Lexci Sterling (Lust) YYJ/YVR 🇨🇦 @lexcisterling.bsky.social · 11/08/2026
I’ve put together a private resource library for sex workers featuring screening templates, booking guides, safety notes, cancellation policies, privacy basics, resources + more. Ask me for the password. Sex workers only. lexcilust@gmail.com
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Lexci Sterling (Lust) YYJ/YVR 🇨🇦 @lexcisterling.bsky.social · 10/08/2026
lexcilust.substack.com/p/a-communit...
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Lexci Sterling (Lust) YYJ/YVR 🇨🇦 @lexcisterling.bsky.social · 08/08/2026
Sweet summer moments ✨️
 A curvy woman poses bent forward over a dark ottoman in a sunlit apartment, looking back toward the camera. She wears a sheer black long-sleeved bodysuit, black thong, thigh-high stockings with garter straps and chunky platform boots. Large windows, leafy plants and a fireplace frame the bright, intimate scene.
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Lexci Sterling (Lust) YYJ/YVR 🇨🇦 @lexcisterling.bsky.social · 04/08/2026
@isabellewaldorf.bsky.social
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Lexci Sterling (Lust) YYJ/YVR 🇨🇦 @lexcisterling.bsky.social · 04/08/2026
This vacation was busy in the best way. So many of my favourite people, endless laughs, and memories I'll carry for a long time. Shambhala was MAGICAL! My heart feels so full. ❤️ I am back now and taking bookings until my next adventure. www.lexcilust.com
A smiling woman with long brown hair sits sideways on a modern chair beside a large window overlooking downtown high-rise buildings. She wears a black lace bra with red accents, a red plaid pleated mini skirt, and black thigh-high stockings. She playfully twirls a strand of her hair while looking toward the camera. Tattoos are visible on her forearm, upper arm, and thigh. Warm afternoon sunlight fills the bright studio, creating a cozy contrast with the urban skyline outside.
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Lexci Sterling (Lust) YYJ/YVR 🇨🇦 @lexcisterling.bsky.social · 03/08/2026
We are waiting... @datetaylorlove.bsky.social
Mirror selfie of two women standing side by side in a bright apartment. The woman on the right smiles with one arm raised over her head, wearing a light pink bralette, black underwear, glasses, and showing several tattoos on her arm and legs. The woman on the left, whose face is blurred by the phone, wears a white ribbed crop tank, white underwear, and white crew socks. Sunlight streams across the rug, with houseplants, framed artwork, and a white orchid visible around the large gold-framed mirror.
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Lexci Sterling (Lust) YYJ/YVR 🇨🇦 @lexcisterling.bsky.social · 29/07/2026
I am opening my books for August 5th and onwards. Fill out my booking form on my website! www.lexcilust.com
A woman with long brown hair lies stretched across a black-and-white houndstooth sofa, wearing sheer gold lingerie and pink heels. She rests her head on one hand and looks down with a soft, relaxed expression. The warm lighting creates an intimate, cozy atmosphere
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Lexci Sterling (Lust) YYJ/YVR 🇨🇦 @lexcisterling.bsky.social · 28/07/2026
Last night was magical ✨️ I am filled up with love and gratitude
A red sunset over smokey blue mountains and a highway flows into the distance
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Lexci Sterling (Lust) YYJ/YVR 🇨🇦 @lexcisterling.bsky.social · 28/07/2026
Shambhala was SO magical. 7 days in the Fractal Forest with my lovely Client. No words give this experience justice. I am forever thankful for the connections and adventures this career has given me!
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Lexci Sterling (Lust) YYJ/YVR 🇨🇦 @lexcisterling.bsky.social · 18/07/2026
I just received Pedicure from Anonymous via Throne. Thank you! throne.com/lexcisterling #throne
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Lexci Sterling (Lust) YYJ/YVR 🇨🇦 @lexcisterling.bsky.social · 17/07/2026
My vacation starts July 20 till Aug 3 I'll see you all when I'm back!
Person with long brown hair kneeling on a bed in a bright room, wearing a shiny magenta halter mini dress. They are leaning forward with a relaxed expression, and small tattoos are visible on their upper arm and thigh.
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Lexci Sterling (Lust) YYJ/YVR 🇨🇦 @lexcisterling.bsky.social · 16/07/2026
When you get both @datetaylorlove.bsky.social and I together, we keep the laughs going
Mirror selfie of two people posing together in a bright apartment, wearing casual loungewear and smiling, with plants and artwork visible in the background.
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Lexci Sterling (Lust) YYJ/YVR 🇨🇦 @lexcisterling.bsky.social · 15/07/2026
Daily walks in the forest, life's good
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Lexci Sterling (Lust) YYJ/YVR 🇨🇦 @lexcisterling.bsky.social · 14/07/2026
The only thing missing from this picture is someone to take the other side of the bed
A person wearing a bright pink velvet mini dress and matching pink heels kneels on a neatly made white bed, smiling warmly toward the camera. They have long brown hair and visible leg tattoos. The bright room has soft neutral décor, white bedding, and natural light, giving the photo a playful, inviting feel.
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Lexci Sterling (Lust) YYJ/YVR 🇨🇦 @lexcisterling.bsky.social · 12/07/2026
Yes, I own clothes. And yes, I'd love an excuse to wear them. 😉
A person sits in a rust-colored armchair, looking up at the camera with a direct expression. They wear a black and gold lace bra, a fitted black leather skirt, bright green high heels, and a white shirt draped off their shoulders. One leg is crossed over the other, revealing tattoos on their shin and calf. The room features a colorful geometric rug, a mustard-yellow ottoman, a round side table with a book, and warm ambient lighting.
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Lexci Sterling (Lust) YYJ/YVR 🇨🇦 @lexcisterling.bsky.social · 11/07/2026
Went for a walk in the woods
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Lexci Sterling (Lust) YYJ/YVR 🇨🇦 @lexcisterling.bsky.social · 09/07/2026
Not here to complicate your life... just your thoughts. 🤍
 A curvy person wearing a white sports bra, black Calvin Klein underwear, and glasses poses playfully over their shoulder in a sunlit living room. The photo is taken from a low angle, emphasizing their hips and thighs. Soft sunlight filtered through trailing houseplants casts leafy shadows across their skin, while colorful floral tattoos on one shoulder add a splash of color. A cozy couch with blue pillows and hanging white pendant lights complete the warm, relaxed atmosphere.
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Lexci Sterling (Lust) YYJ/YVR 🇨🇦 @lexcisterling.bsky.social · 06/07/2026
I just received Samsung Galaxy S26 from KJ via Throne. Thank you! throne.com/lexcisterling #throne
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Lexci Sterling (Lust) YYJ/YVR 🇨🇦 @lexcisterling.bsky.social · 06/07/2026
"People seem to crave certainty. They want to know whether sex work is empowering or exploitative, liberating or degrading, a choice or a last resort. They want a clean answer because clean answers are comforting..." open.substack.com/pub/lexcilus...
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Lexci Sterling (Lust) YYJ/YVR 🇨🇦 @lexcisterling.bsky.social · 04/07/2026
POV: I just remembered what we got up to last time 😈
A woman stands against a plain wall in warm afternoon sunlight wearing a royal blue lace lingerie set with matching garter belt, stockings, and decorative silver chain details. She has shoulder-length dark brown hair, round glasses, and one arm raised above her head while looking calmly toward the camera. Soft window light casts geometric shadows across the wall, creating a simple, elegant portrait.
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Lexci Sterling (Lust) YYJ/YVR 🇨🇦 @lexcisterling.bsky.social · 02/07/2026
Lexci Sterling has a nice ring to it, don't you think?
A woman kneels on a soft sheepskin rug in a bright room, leaning forward against a black upholstered bench. She wears a teal bra, garter belt, and thigh-high stockings with pale pink high heels. Looking back over her shoulder with a thoughtful expression, she poses in warm afternoon light. A potted plant and large windows create a calm, cozy atmosphere.
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Lexci Sterling (Lust) YYJ/YVR 🇨🇦 @lexcisterling.bsky.social · 30/06/2026
Beach days. Work family dinners. 5sums. Fundraisers for community. FIFA celebrations. Road trips. June, you were wonderfully chaotic in all the best ways. Here's to carrying that same joy into July. ☀️💕 @datetaylorlove.bsky.social and I are always available for duos 😉
Two nude babes hug on beach towels atop rocky shoreline under a bright blue sky. One wears a light baseball cap, the other a black cap and sunglasses with a floral arm tattoo. Calm ocean and coastal rocks surround them, creating a warm, intimate summer scene.
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Lexci Sterling (Lust) YYJ/YVR 🇨🇦 @lexcisterling.bsky.social · 29/06/2026
☀️ Vacation Notice ☀️ I'll be taking a proper summer holiday from **July 20 to August 4**. If you'd like to see me before I disappear for a couple of weeks, now is the perfect time to get in touch. Pre-bookings for before and after my vacation are always welcome. Priority to duos, trios and groups!
Woman with long brown hair and glasses smiles warmly at the camera while seated on a fluffy pink rug. She's wearing a pink floral lace babydoll lingerie set in a bright, cozy living room with sunlight, a grey couch, colorful pillows, and large wall art in the background.
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Lexci Sterling (Lust) YYJ/YVR 🇨🇦 @lexcisterling.bsky.social · 26/06/2026
"Boundaries don't appear overnight. They aren't something we're born knowing... They're built slowly, through uncomfortable conversations. Through disappointing people. Through learning, sometimes the hard way, what we're actually willing to tolerate." open.substack.com/pub/lexcilus...
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Lexci Sterling (Lust) YYJ/YVR 🇨🇦 @lexcisterling.bsky.social · 26/06/2026
Last night was so epic! Happy birthday @parkerearnest.bsky.social ! Look at the amazing cake @lenawoolf.bsky.social made specially for the occasion. And @datetaylorlove.bsky.social was the oerfect planner for a crazy birthday Orgy!
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Lexci Sterling (Lust) YYJ/YVR 🇨🇦 @lexcisterling.bsky.social · 22/06/2026
When he brings gifts on the plane from Europe 😍
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Lexci Sterling (Lust) YYJ/YVR 🇨🇦 @lexcisterling.bsky.social · 21/06/2026
One of my favourite things about longer dates is watching someone relax in real time. The stress melts away, the conversation gets easier, and suddenly hours have passed. It's special to spend unhurried time with good company, and having nowhere else to be.
A woman wearing turquoise floral lingerie reclines on a fur rug on a dark hardwood floor. She rests on one elbow with her hand in her hair, gazing downward in a relaxed pose. Behind her is a black chaise lounge, tall houseplants, and softly lit curtains, creating a warm, intimate atmosphere. Visible tattoos adorn her thigh and hip, while the teal and coral tones of the lingerie stand out against the rich wood flooring and moody interior décor.
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