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welcome to the dive bar on the east side. they/them, elder millennial, gaylor, #1 delicate fan, very left.

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it’s delicate @lavendermoon70.bsky.social · 02/10/2026
Not a post on the subreddit analyzing Cleveland as a reference to the women’s suffrage movement in Ohio lmfao…I fear we have lost the plot by trying so hard to find it. My kingdom for Gaylor community that doesn’t feel the need to make all her work into some grand statement or plan.
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it’s delicate @lavendermoon70.bsky.social · 22/09/2026
That 0000 is giving combination lock factory preset - when you get a lock for the first time, it will open on that code. Also, it’s midnight in military time.
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it’s delicate @lavendermoon70.bsky.social · 22/09/2026
Whoooaaaaaaaa
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it’s delicate @lavendermoon70.bsky.social · 21/09/2026
I feel that way too!! 😂 not alone at all.
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it’s delicate @lavendermoon70.bsky.social · 21/09/2026
💖💖 Absolutely! I was happy to see your post!
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it’s delicate @lavendermoon70.bsky.social · 21/09/2026
If she was acting this same way but with a woman we’d be falling all over it, but simply because it’s for a man people claim it’s obviously performative. I think Gaylors project onto her as much as Swifties do.
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it’s delicate @lavendermoon70.bsky.social · 21/09/2026
Yeah, I’ve always thought she’s bi. I think undeniably they benefit from it in a PR sense, and I am agnostic on whether it’s real, but I’m tired of the same old discourse of ppl twisting themselves into knots trying to explain every single moment in some grand theory.
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it’s delicate @lavendermoon70.bsky.social · 24/07/2026
Oh my god??? I’ve never seen this and holy shit that’s loud
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it’s delicate @lavendermoon70.bsky.social · 20/07/2026
OoooooOHHHHHHHHHKAY!!!! This is making more sense now
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it’s delicate @lavendermoon70.bsky.social · 20/07/2026
Wait I’m out of the loop, what’s the deal with red, purple and green?? I swear y’all’s minds move so fast 😩 I can’t keep up
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it’s delicate @lavendermoon70.bsky.social · 20/07/2026
Anne is just everything 😩
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it’s delicate @lavendermoon70.bsky.social · 20/07/2026
Do you guys think Taylor knows about Jimothy?
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it’s delicate @lavendermoon70.bsky.social · 19/07/2026
Paisley also goes on to call it one of the “least pretentious weddings I’ve ever seen.” That feels like a nice way of saying tacky 🤣 and the colors were peach, white and green…aka Showgirl colors? Uh huh.
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it’s delicate @lavendermoon70.bsky.social · 19/07/2026
Another quote: “‘They were very clear with the invite,’ Paisley said. ‘If you're getting this, you mean a lot to us.’” Ah yes, the 1000 guests who had to sign a multi-factor-authenticated NDA with “teeth” all mean a lot to them….? So romantic??!!!
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it’s delicate @lavendermoon70.bsky.social · 19/07/2026
“Thomas said guests first completed multi-factor authentication before signing nondisclosure agreements through DocuSign…’I won't get into the details of the NDA,’ Thomas said. ‘But it had teeth.’” So those rumors abt an NDA with no penalty weren’t true…
usatoday.com
Taylor Swift wedding NDA 'had teeth': Guest divulges invitation process
American Century Investments CEO Jonathan Thomas said guests signed strict NDAs, received digital invites and didn't know the venue until last minute.
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it’s delicate @lavendermoon70.bsky.social · 19/07/2026
I simply do not believe their vows were 20-30m long 🤣 I think all these people just had no concept of time bc they didn’t have their phones and it FELT that long which is an indicator of how boring the vows probably were in actuality lol
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it’s delicate @lavendermoon70.bsky.social · 09/07/2026
Is the knot in the room with us??? lol those are just two crossed lines. If anything it looks like the Jesus fish in a heart which gives me evangelical vibes 🤮
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it’s delicate @lavendermoon70.bsky.social · 07/07/2026
Overwhelmed by a supreme ADHD lack of motivation and feeling dramatic about it 🤪 supposed to try my third medication soon so hopefully this one works!!!!!
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it’s delicate @lavendermoon70.bsky.social · 07/07/2026
That part!!! That quote was a standout too.
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it’s delicate @lavendermoon70.bsky.social · 07/07/2026
I’m starting to think there weren’t actually 1000 guests.
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it’s delicate @lavendermoon70.bsky.social · 07/07/2026
But just speaking from my experience remembering being 21 and how the idea of having one career the rest of your life really gets sold to you and how that’s all fake!! You can do whatever you want! Most people I know have had multiple career changes! You can develop one while engaged in the other!
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it’s delicate @lavendermoon70.bsky.social · 07/07/2026
Hey, as someone in their late thirties, I’ve had many different careers and some at the same time. I noticed your age in your profile and just wanted to assure you that you have plenty of time to do so many things with your life. I hope that doesn’t come across as condescending or ageist 😅
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it’s delicate @lavendermoon70.bsky.social · 06/07/2026
Beta blockers can also be taken daily though. But they don’t need a build up in system to feel benefits the way SSRIs do.
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it’s delicate @lavendermoon70.bsky.social · 06/07/2026
Beta blockers are short acting and as needed, SSRIs are daily and long term to feel effects. They also target different parts of our physiology and beta blockers are usually invented for a different purpose like blood pressure or allergies and prescribed off label for anxiety, panic etc.
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it’s delicate @lavendermoon70.bsky.social · 06/07/2026
(This is mostly a shit post but also kind of not lol)
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it’s delicate @lavendermoon70.bsky.social · 06/07/2026
“The eyewitness did say "there were people at her house" in the late afternoon and during a firework display, around 9 PM ET. "Three to four people were seen on the roof, although it was hard to see who it was," the source said.” Aww, Tross and Tily were watching the fireworks together. T&T 💥 🥰
yahoo.com
A 1st Look at Taylor Swift & Travis Kelce’s Secret Newlywed Plans the Day After Their Wedding
Where were they?
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it’s delicate @lavendermoon70.bsky.social · 06/07/2026
That is the funniest thing abt it to me, it reads as so self involved - like treating your invitees as if they are fans instead of loved ones. Which based on the size of the guest list and who was invited, maybe a lot of them were more in the first category 😂
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it’s delicate @lavendermoon70.bsky.social · 06/07/2026
Reading, outdoor activities anywhere from a lil mental health walk to backpacking, also gaming (I love rpgs!)
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it’s delicate @lavendermoon70.bsky.social · 06/07/2026
This is a SERVE
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it’s delicate @lavendermoon70.bsky.social · 06/07/2026
This is a great read on the nature and effect of outrage over the wedding guests.
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it’s delicate @lavendermoon70.bsky.social · 06/07/2026
Also, the idea of this wedding as “absolute protection” for her - not only is her wealth protected & bolstered by it, but her narrative is protected as well. And she can change it, with less scrutiny - she can come out as bi casually if she wants, she can write about whatever… MY MIND IS ALIVE!!!!
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it’s delicate @lavendermoon70.bsky.social · 06/07/2026
WAIT OMG WTFFFFFFFFF
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it’s delicate @lavendermoon70.bsky.social · 06/07/2026
I don’t think this wedding was an inadvertent display—I think it was absolutely on purpose. She’s a storyteller, and it’s part of the narrative. To what end remains to be seen, but at least one of those ends is wealth and the security that comes from it—a wedding bolsters that.
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it’s delicate @lavendermoon70.bsky.social · 06/07/2026
“More than 50% of American adults call themselves Taylor Swift fans…Decades of economic research show that women who delay marriage, particularly past 30, earn substantially more over their lifetimes...Swift did not tell her audience to wait. But she inadvertently displays what waiting bought her.”
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it’s delicate @lavendermoon70.bsky.social · 06/07/2026
“For the women who have come to see marriage as a loss of agency, this venue and this wedding signal a different message entirely: a blueprint for absolute protection.”
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it’s delicate @lavendermoon70.bsky.social · 06/07/2026
Choice quotes: “The more consequential question isn't how much consumers will spend on dresses or venues. It's whether the world's most influential woman has subtly changed the economics of marriage itself.”
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it’s delicate @lavendermoon70.bsky.social · 06/07/2026
“On Friday night, a fleet of black SUVs carrying some of the biggest names in showbiz rolled into Madison Square Garden to watch Taylor Swift officially retire her career’s most lucrative narrative.” Well, this analysis is fascinating…
forbes.com
Taylor Swift’s MSG Wedding: A $20Million Trojan Horse
Taylor Swift's MSG wedding signals a change in how money, independence, and shifting expectations are reshaping marriage for a generation of women.
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it’s delicate @lavendermoon70.bsky.social · 06/07/2026
Be mad. It is upsetting. And also hold the tension of all that you do not know. Be aware of your assumptions and how the media and social platforms work to short circuit critical thinking and considered judgments.
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it’s delicate @lavendermoon70.bsky.social · 06/07/2026
I see a lot of people talking about how Taylor could invite some of these people without considering that Travis likely invited some of them too. We don’t know what the conversations were like behind the scenes. Without excusing it - I think it is better for critical thinking to hold the nuance.
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it’s delicate @lavendermoon70.bsky.social · 06/07/2026
Occam’s razor - which is something we use to justify the idea that Taylor is queer all the time - says that the most likely explanation is that Travis is close to him because he’s the father of his childhood friend, and that’s why he was invited. And he also happens to be doing horrible things.
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it’s delicate @lavendermoon70.bsky.social · 06/07/2026
This is one reason why I don’t fw a lot of these theories because of the way they bend over backward to make stuff like this fit into their narrative. For example, the idea that she invited these people as a way to highlight how awful they are?? Come on.
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it’s delicate @lavendermoon70.bsky.social · 05/07/2026
Look I just need to say that Donna Kelce gives me lesbian vibes. Am I the only one??? She’s like the variety of old lesbian that’s weirdly terfy and vaguely conservative. I don’t know if she even knows, or she’s just closeted. But it’s there.
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it’s delicate @lavendermoon70.bsky.social · 05/07/2026
Hieeeeeeee!
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it’s delicate @lavendermoon70.bsky.social · 05/07/2026
Omg hi!!
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it’s delicate @lavendermoon70.bsky.social · 05/07/2026
Hiiiii!
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it’s delicate @lavendermoon70.bsky.social · 05/07/2026
Agreed. That seems to be what she does most of the time. I feel like there are pockets and glimpses especially 1989-Lover where she seems more connected to who she is and I wish she felt more freedom to just be real. Whether it’s for a purpose or not, the spectacle is getting sad.
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it’s delicate @lavendermoon70.bsky.social · 05/07/2026
And for me believing some of it was PR and/or bearding, and she is some flavor of queer, makes way more sense and feels better than the alternative. But Swifties would rather believe she’s just incapable of being single…? Which would be wildly concerning?? But it probably validates their own stuff.
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it’s delicate @lavendermoon70.bsky.social · 05/07/2026
This is always what I come back to!! Like, I’m supposed to believe that she has been in a relationship basically continuously for 10+ years since Calvin Harris?? Either she is that unwell—because that IS unwell behavior no matter how normal it is for the cishets—or there’s something more to it.
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it’s delicate @lavendermoon70.bsky.social · 05/07/2026
Idk. Just some misc thoughts/feelings for now.
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it’s delicate @lavendermoon70.bsky.social · 05/07/2026
Are the lyrics real? Are the interviews real? Is the WAG life real? Is the person behind the scenes directing MVs real? Sure, people are complex but there’s a lack of consistency that concerns me and makes me sad. Other celebs come across as consistent even when changing, in a way she doesn’t.
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