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LA Bourgeois @lahousewyfe.bsky.social · 14/06/2026
Dear Newlyweds, Are you worried about the attacks on the LGBTQ+ Community? Just as a single strand of yarn becomes an afghan, the love you share weaves itself to become a life together. And your community shares that love with you. lesbianhousewyfe.substack.com/p/the-gay-ma...
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The Gay Marriage Afghan
Dear Newlyweds, Are you worried about the current attacks on the LGBTQ+ community? Just as the single strand of yarn knits together to become an entire blanket, your love weaves itself to become a lif...
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LA Bourgeois @lahousewyfe.bsky.social · 12/04/2026
Watching Batman vs. Superman for the first time and I just gotta say... I don't know that I'd stop going after my arch rival because his mother and mine had the same first name. Unless I was in love with him.
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LA Bourgeois @lahousewyfe.bsky.social · 11/04/2026
The healing power of doggy jealousy takes center stage in this next chapter of “Surviving (What Feels Like) the End of the World.” Enjoy! lesbianhousewyfe.substack.com/p/pet-pet-bo...
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Pet, Pet, BOW-OOO
Okay, everyone.
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LA Bourgeois @lahousewyfe.bsky.social · 07/02/2026
In which a job-job must be obtained and a rainbow shows me the way. Plus a special appearance by my Gramps! lesbianhousewyfe.substack.com/p/what-happe...
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What Happens When the Starving Artist Can't Starve Anymore?
Hi everyone!
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LA Bourgeois @lahousewyfe.bsky.social · 06/12/2025
What's delighting you right now? Let's share some joy! lesbianhousewyfe.substack.com/p/hope-and-h...
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Hope & Holiday Penguins
I’d like to introduce you to Jolly and Icicle, the penguins who live down the hallway.
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LA Bourgeois @lahousewyfe.bsky.social · 28/11/2025
In our relationship, my wife is the Rememberer. I am the forgetful Mad Hatter asking “What was that thing I was supposed to do?” and “If I can’t remember it, could it really have been that important?” lesbianhousewyfe.substack.com/p/the-rememb...
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The Rememberer
In our relationship, my wife is the Rememberer. I am the forgetful Mad Hatter asking “What was that thing I was supposed to do?” and “If I can’t remember it, could it really have been that important?”...
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LA Bourgeois @lahousewyfe.bsky.social · 20/11/2025
What do you eat when you're grieving? I go Full Sugar. lesbianhousewyfe.substack.com/p/weve-gone-...
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We've Gone Full Sugar
On Thursdays, I’m posting pieces from my next book, a memoir in essays that covers the period where I leaped off the cliff and ran toward my dream of being an author, consequences be damned!
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LA Bourgeois @lahousewyfe.bsky.social · 15/11/2025
What kind of animal are you? (+ a quick announcement for paid subscribers) lesbianhousewyfe.substack.com/p/evidence-o...
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Evidence of Dragons Among Us
Hey everyone!
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LA Bourgeois @lahousewyfe.bsky.social · 08/11/2025
Wrong answers welcome! lesbianhousewyfe.substack.com/p/three-ques...
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Three Questions
The only things keeping me awake right now are caffeine and hope. And my mother’s Arkansas farm family genes that wake me up at 4am. So here I am with three questions for you—
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LA Bourgeois @lahousewyfe.bsky.social · 06/11/2025
What is that floating past the window? Is it a silky scarf dancing through the air? A breath of frosty mist? Wait! I recognize it now! That’s my caution. I threw it to the wind last weekend when I cast on a new knitting project. Read on to discover the result….
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The Dangers of Gauge
What is that floating past the window? Is it a silky scarf dancing through the air? A breath of frosty mist? Wait! I recognize it now! That’s my caution. I threw it to the wind last weekend when I cas...
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LA Bourgeois @lahousewyfe.bsky.social · 01/11/2025
Click through to discover how Vanessa Lillie’s new book helped me realize that the indigenous folx in this country have a little something to teach us about how to survive the destruction of historic spaces. lesbianhousewyfe.substack.com/p/artifacts-...
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Artifacts Are Belongings
While The Bone Thief is a rollercoaster that pulls readers along on an adventure that features stolen remains, weird rites linked to an exclusive society, and a missing woman’s ghost, I always find my...
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LA Bourgeois @lahousewyfe.bsky.social · 31/10/2025
Do you like your writing craft books to be more picture than words? Maybe with fantastic essays from authors like George R.R. Martin and Nnedi Okorafor? Perchance a little spooky? Then check out the latest Book for Thriving Creatives - Wonderbook writersfunzone.com/blog/2025/10...
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Engage in a Writing Adventure with Wonderbook by LA Bourgeois · Writer's Fun Zone
Engage in a writing adventure with Wonderbook and discover Jeff VanderMeer’s vibrant, visual guide to creative storytelling.
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LA Bourgeois @lahousewyfe.bsky.social · 30/10/2025
Did you know that people can make their own cat litter? All the details + my experience with SNAP. Any time I’ve been on SNAP, I’ve worked 40+ hours/week on my own biz + a part-time job + caregiving for my wife, so if you think people on SNAP are lazy, please reconsider or bite my ass. Your choice.
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Who Knew DIY Cat Litter Was a Thing?
And that’s what made it feel ironic that, finally and only because I was at a nadir in my financial life, I began using shredded paper as kitty litter. I could always tell you that I decided to go DIY...
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LA Bourgeois @lahousewyfe.bsky.social · 25/10/2025
Looking for some fun reads to get in the mood for Halloween? Join me for magic and spooks! lesbianhousewyfe.substack.com/p/mystical-r...
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Mystical Reads To Celebrate Halloween
Besides purchasing bags of chocolate “just in case a trick-or-treater shows up” and sneaking the occasional candy bar after dinner (and lunch and snack time), my favorite pre-Halloween activity is rea...
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LA Bourgeois @lahousewyfe.bsky.social · 23/10/2025
In which journalism claims its role in my life, and the Russian invasion of Ukraine almost destroys a perfectly good sack of mandarins. lesbianhousewyfe.substack.com/p/putin-ruin...
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Putin Ruined My Marmalade
Many mandarin oranges sacrificed themselves as I listened to the US response to the invasion of Ukraine.
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LA Bourgeois @lahousewyfe.bsky.social · 22/10/2025
Do you feel like chaos is swirling right now? Click through and join me for a quick guided relaxation that will help you find stability. labourgeois.substack.com/p/climb-down...
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Climb Down the Tree
A Guided Relaxation to Access Stability Amidst the Chaos
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LA Bourgeois @lahousewyfe.bsky.social · 21/10/2025
@bethbarany.bsky.social asked me to be on her podcast, How to Write the Future! Listen and let me know if I made an entire fool out of myself or not. Or even if I helped in some small way....
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175. Tricking Yourself into Writing Habits with LA Bourgeois - How To Write The Future
“I am a horrible little goblin like that, and it's just what happens. So I have to trick myself and the ways that I trick myself are to really let myself see what I want to create.” - LA BourgeoisAbou...
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LA Bourgeois @lahousewyfe.bsky.social · 18/10/2025
Enjoy this delectable morsel after you rejoice in your local No Kings march! After all, it’s the most delicious way to celebrate the color purple. lesbianhousewyfe.substack.com/p/grape-jam-...
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Grape Jam Was Not Enough
During the first Fall that we lived in Ithaca, Gui came home from one of his farmland explorations with a grape pie he purchased at a roadside stand. I had never heard of such a thing and became immed...
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LA Bourgeois @lahousewyfe.bsky.social · 17/10/2025
@🏳️‍⚧️ SAVING THE GWORLS 🏳️‍⚧️ Would love your support 🏳️‍⚧️ #RENTAID 👉 Housing for Homeless Black Trans women. 💔 3 in 5 Black Trans Women are homeless. Lets get them all off the streets. ❤️❤️❤️ fundrazr.com/homelessblac...
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NATIONWIDE HOMELESS BLACK TRANS WOMEN FUND- 🏳️‍⚧️ SAFE HOUSING NYC PDX L.A PHIL
1. Please donate as much as you can - every little help. 2. Your donation helps thousands of Black Trans Women being affected by Homelessness nationwide. 3. Share with friends on all your social media...
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LA Bourgeois @lahousewyfe.bsky.social · 16/10/2025
Sourdough experiments turn me into a Nobel Prize-winning scientist in my lab. What better way to distract myself from the inevitable wait after hitting send on a pitch? Especially when the reward is a fresh warm slice of buttered bread! lesbianhousewyfe.substack.com/p/the-whole-...
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The Whole Wheat Distraction
On Thursdays, I’m posting pieces from my next book, a memoir in essays that covers the period where I leaped off the cliff and ran toward my dream of being an author, consequences be damned!
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LA Bourgeois @lahousewyfe.bsky.social · 15/10/2025
That Guilt Monster is a sneaky little bastard! Here’s a tip to defanging him in a way that works for YOU…. labourgeois.substack.com/p/defanging-...
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Defanging the Guilt Monster
The Guilt-Monster is a sneaky little bastard.
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LA Bourgeois @lahousewyfe.bsky.social · 11/10/2025
I got a little spooky for this year’s Coming Out Day post. Enjoy! lesbianhousewyfe.substack.com/p/emergence
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Emergence
Letting the Monster Out of the Closet for Coming Out Day 2025
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LA Bourgeois @lahousewyfe.bsky.social · 10/10/2025
Guess what?!? My new book, The Lesbian Housewyfe: Bigger, Broader, Delightfuller, is at Malaprops Bookstore & Cafe in Asheville, NC!!!!!! To all my Asheville area friends, please let your friends know that they can purchase my new book there (in person OR online). Yay for independent bookshops!
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Results for "bigger broader delightfuller"
Results for "bigger broader delightfuller"
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LA Bourgeois @lahousewyfe.bsky.social · 09/10/2025
On Thursdays, I’m going to be posting pieces from my next book, a memoir in essays that covers the period where I leaped off the cliff and ran toward my dream of being an author, consequences be damned! And damn. Were there ever consequences….
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What I Need is a Hero
The last time I gave up my dream was the worst one.
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LA Bourgeois @lahousewyfe.bsky.social · 08/10/2025
Time to play! Join me to “pop your brain” for inspiration with the creativity exercise, “The Most Precious Possession.” Enjoy! labourgeois.substack.com/p/pop-your-b...
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Pop Your Brain with a Precious Possession
It’s time to play!
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LA Bourgeois @lahousewyfe.bsky.social · 07/10/2025
Hey-hey! Catch me on a special live panel next Tuesday at the Queer Joy Summit! The topic is "Breaking Through: The Power of Queer Joy in the Face of Barriers." labourgeois.substack.com/p/more-queer...
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More Queer Joy News
Guess what!!! I'm speaking on a live panel at next week's Queer Joy Summit!
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LA Bourgeois @lahousewyfe.bsky.social · 06/10/2025
I’m so excited to be speaking at the Queer Joy Summit 2025! 🌈 3 days + 20 queer artists, healers, rebels, & dreamers = A week of laughter, truth-telling, and joy that sticks like glitter! 📅 October 13–15, 2025 💻 Free + online Come join us for messy, holy, fun healing! 🎟️ Grab your ticket here:
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Queer Joy Summit – Joy That Sticks Like Glitter
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LA Bourgeois @lahousewyfe.bsky.social · 04/10/2025
I think I might be obsessed….but I can’t be a stalker if I’m their pet mom, right? RIGHT? lesbianhousewyfe.substack.com/p/me-and-rod...
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Me and Roderick McWigglecuddy
Before we dive into today’s tale of wormy woe, I’m so excited to announce that I’m a speaker at this year’s Queer Joy Summit!
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LA Bourgeois @lahousewyfe.bsky.social · 03/10/2025
The government shut down. The people in charge won't end the shutdown because they are invested in denying healthcare and food to our most vulnerable populations. We have descended into fascism. And my brain just said, "Yay! It's Sock-tober!" Indulge in some joy before leaping back into the fight
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LA Bourgeois @lahousewyfe.bsky.social · 02/10/2025
Announcing the next Book for Thriving Creatives, and two opportunities to participate in some Queer Joy! labourgeois.substack.com/p/wonderbook...
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Wonderbook + All Kinds of Queer Joy
October’s pick for our Books for Thriving Creatives series is a writing instruction manual for those who love pictures, and a picture book for those who’d like to learn how to write fiction.
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LA Bourgeois @lahousewyfe.bsky.social · 01/10/2025
Yay! Thanks to @mrtroyfordauthor.bsky.social my rant about why all women should support trans rights is out in the world! Please read and share generously with all those who need to know! qstack.substack.com/p/why-all-wo...
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Why All Women Need to Defend and Support Trans Rights
A Qstack Talk from LA Bourgeois
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LA Bourgeois @lahousewyfe.bsky.social · 01/10/2025
“Should” can be a dangerous word. It fills us with the guilt that accompanies unmet expectations. Not great!! In this video, I gently guide you through a system of steps to begin the process of unhooking you from that “should” and moving out of stasis into action on your dreams. Enjoy!
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Shall We Stop Shoulding Ourselves?
“Should” can be a dangerous word.
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LA Bourgeois @lahousewyfe.bsky.social · 30/09/2025
And today on Writer's Fun Zone... An interview with @jbeansky.bsky.social and review of her fabulous book, The Nine Modern Day Muses and a Bodyguard! writersfunzone.com/blog/2025/09...
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Nine Modern Day Muses and a Bodyguard, and Jill Badonsky Interview by LA Bourgeois · Writer's Fun Zone
Discover Jill Badonsky’s Nine Modern Day Muses and a Bodyguard, a playful guide to overcoming creative blocks and thriving as an artist.
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LA Bourgeois @lahousewyfe.bsky.social · 30/09/2025
Looking for a playful and friendly way to dance with your creativity? @jbeansky.bsky.social's The Nine Modern Day Muses and a Bodyguard will wrap you in their arms and tango across the nearest wildflower-bedecked field! Enjoy this review and discover the next Book for Thriving Creatives.
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Time to Tango with Our Muses
A review of The Nine Modern Day Muses and a Bodyguard
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LA Bourgeois @lahousewyfe.bsky.social · 27/09/2025
Remembering dealing with Hurricane Helene from a distance, and finding solace in my backyard. lesbianhousewyfe.substack.com/p/an-anniver...
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An Anniversary of Cast Iron Resilience
When Hurricane Helene hit Asheville, we’d been gone for about a year and a half.
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LA Bourgeois @lahousewyfe.bsky.social · 24/09/2025
Starting this week - the new video series! These quick (fifteen minute or less) experiences, tips and techniques will delightfully guide you on your creative journey. First up - a guided relaxation to refresh & protect your energy... labourgeois.substack.com/p/now-in-stu...
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Now In Stunning LA-O-Vision
Hi everyone!
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LA Bourgeois @lahousewyfe.bsky.social · 20/09/2025
Settle in for a little chat about the houseplants, balcony garden, and some fun book recommendations for the upcoming spooky season! lesbianhousewyfe.substack.com/p/a-newsy-no...
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A Newsy Note from the Last Weekend of Summer
As I walked Mack the Dog the past few days, the leaves have joined the cooler air to let me know that autumn has arrived.
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LA Bourgeois @lahousewyfe.bsky.social · 19/09/2025
Thinking of Robert Redford and how some teenager out there is echoing my own “out-of-time” movie star crush…. lesbianhousewyfe.substack.com/p/have-you-e...
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Have You Ever Heard of Cary Grant?
Robert Redford’s passing this week immediately made me think of Cary Grant.
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LA Bourgeois @lahousewyfe.bsky.social · 19/09/2025
When @jbeansky.bsky.social was growing up, she wanted to herd imaginary friends. “Knowing the power of having my imaginary support system was what turned into the Nine Modern Day Muses and a Bodyguard.” A conversation with a muse to overcome an obstacle? Much more fun than doing it alone!
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Much More Fun than Doing It Alone
A Chat with the Inventor of the Modern Day Muses, Jill Badonsky
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LA Bourgeois @lahousewyfe.bsky.social · 13/09/2025
Farmer Gui hooked me up with Concord grapes! lesbianhousewyfe.substack.com/p/the-grapes...
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The Grapes of Joy
On a Friday in early September, Gui showed up at my door with a bag full of concord grapes. Grape Jam Ahead!
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LA Bourgeois @lahousewyfe.bsky.social · 12/09/2025
Sometimes the existential angst requires a dive into creativity. One past-its-prime peach and some frozen blueberries to the rescue! A single jar of jam may be all I can produce today, but that's enough. May you find your own enough in the chaos of this week. ❤️
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LA Bourgeois @lahousewyfe.bsky.social · 11/09/2025
@steevijane.bsky.social’s tale of how grief helped her rediscover her connection to her art inspires all of us to find that moment where we can thrive through creativity. If you’d like to write for the Thriving Creative, click through to find the guidelines. I’d love to share your tale!
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Speaking Through Clay
Today, we welcome Steevie Jane Parks, the first member of our Thriving Creative community to share her story!
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LA Bourgeois @lahousewyfe.bsky.social · 09/09/2025
If you had two full days of uninterrupted time, what would you read? Especially in a peaceful place where someone makes sure your mug stays full and cooks all the meals? The Reading Retreat for Everyone - September 26-29th at Birdy’s House in Delhi, NY. labourgeois.substack.com/p/a-magical-...
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A Magical Autumn Weekend for Reading All the Books
Just say yes to a weekend of reading in Delhi, NY
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LA Bourgeois @lahousewyfe.bsky.social · 06/09/2025
Rellenos away! Read on for an easy way to preserve these gems, plus a couple of serving options. lesbianhousewyfe.substack.com/p/hatch-chil...
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Hatch Chiles All. Winter. Long.
The memory of these freshly roasted Hatch chile peppers seemed so entrenched in Colorado that my chiropractor’s announcement that they would be here in Ithaca stunned me.
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LA Bourgeois @lahousewyfe.bsky.social · 05/09/2025
A little taste of the new essay collection, Old Wilding Lesbian Housewyfe, available exclusively to paid subscribers! If you like it, consider becoming a paid subscriber and get fifty essays that take you on the journey to our new home town! lesbianhousewyfe.substack.com/p/jam-its-po...
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Jam? It's Possible
Celebrating the launch of Old Wilding Lesbian Housewyfe, the newest essay collection!
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LA Bourgeois @lahousewyfe.bsky.social · 04/09/2025
Our next Book for Thriving Creatives is this imaginative and wise book by my KMCC teacher, @jbeansky.bsky.social - Nine Modern Day Muses and a Bodyguard! Plus, a new opportunity from @bethbarany.bsky.social and an announcement of a new direction for this newsletter. See you after the click!
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A New Opportunity & Nine Modern Day Muses + Their Bodyguard
The next book in our series for Thriving Creatives and an opportunity for a Creative Writing Professionals Apprenticeship
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LA Bourgeois @lahousewyfe.bsky.social · 30/08/2025
Even if all hope is lost, an old joy can unexpectedly return to delight you. lesbianhousewyfe.substack.com/p/roasted-ha...
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Roasted Hatch Chiles Found in…Ithaca?
When my wife and lived in Denver back in the 90’s, we would drive down South Federal where the chile roasters set up in abandoned spaces and on the edges of parking lots. Now they were at Wegmans?
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LA Bourgeois @lahousewyfe.bsky.social · 29/08/2025
From realizing the dream you want to pursue to selecting a business structure to finding buddies to accompany your creative journey, Margo has something to teach you about building a creative online business—and she entertains as she does it! writersfunzone.com/blog/2025/08...
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How Margo’s Money Troubles Teach Us All About Building a Creative Business by LA Bourgeois · Writer's Fun Zone
Discover how Margo’s Money Troubles reveals lessons on building a creative business, selling your writing, and thriving as an author.
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LA Bourgeois @lahousewyfe.bsky.social · 28/08/2025
Things you do when you’re young, dumb, and imaginative. lesbianhousewyfe.substack.com/p/that-time-...
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That Time I Repelled a Predator
Back when I was in college, I lived by myself in a ground floor studio apartment for the summer and fall quarter of my senior year.
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LA Bourgeois @lahousewyfe.bsky.social · 28/08/2025
Along with being an utterly entertaining piece of fiction, Rufi Thorpe’s Margo’s Got Money Troubles is a brilliant roadmap for building a creative business. And who doesn’t love learning new information from a novel? Click through and enjoy! labourgeois.substack.com/p/the-most-f...
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The Most Fun Way to Learn Anything is With a Novel
Along with being an utterly entertaining piece of fiction, Rufi Thorpe’s Margo's Got Money Troubles is a brilliant roadmap for building a creative business.
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