iiinova — where your digital self keeps evolving

Lahim Lamar @lahimlamar.bsky.social · 25/05/2026

Was there a way I could pull the curtain back so they could see the entire work of art, the detailed brushwork? The sun was just right… open.substack.com/pub/lahimlam...

The opticians were busy that day.

Optics, I'm in Love

Lahim Lamar @lahimlamar.bsky.social · 07/11/2025

Autumn for me in three images. A little reflection for the last week of October. A little devastation. A little sunrise. open.substack.com/pub/lahimlam...

Reindeer, Spider, Mist

...it's a circle

Lahim Lamar @lahimlamar.bsky.social · 07/11/2025

It’s cuffing season, darling! Time to snuggle up and make bad choices, darling! So your girl is a-diving back into the apps. Miss Tonka Truck thinks my profile is too high-minded but I need to let these children know. #dating #cuffingseason #dragqueen open.substack.com/pub/lahimlam...

Miss Layla Prada Dada Goes A-hunting...

It’s cuffing season, darling!

Lahim Lamar @lahimlamar.bsky.social · 25/08/2025

In this post, I talk about my experience with Scrivener. After being stuck for a minute, I downloaded Scrivener and I have a few things to say about it… lahimlamar.substack.com/p/found-an-app

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Found an App

She's armed and dangerous

Lahim Lamar @lahimlamar.bsky.social · 15/08/2025

I wrote a little something about grief. Happens to all of us but this year in particular has been a challenge for my meditation practice. Hope this finds or leads you to good spirits… open.substack.com/pub/lahimlam...

In its current form, grief is a slow moving column of water.

Good Grief

Lahim Lamar @lahimlamar.bsky.social · 06/07/2025

Have you ever experienced writer’s block? Well, hello friends. I’m stuck! A frustrating, maddening, knee deep in the muck stuck. A transformative, messy and eye-opening stuck. None of these feelings are singular. They are three-headed, they bite at each other… open.substack.com/pub/lahimlam...

Art, Constipation, Reality TV & Cake

Another take on writer's block...

Lahim Lamar @lahimlamar.bsky.social · 11/06/2025

I could cry my tears, joyful and bittersweet, without holding back. I could look at the clouds and unfold. A few thoughts on the movie Sing Sing. Colman Domingo #moviereview #SingSing #theatre open.substack.com/pub/lahimlam...

What I'm Watching: Sing Sing

Art as rehabilitation, Oscars, and clouds...

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Lahim Lamar @lahimlamar.bsky.social · 20/05/2025

The revision process can be daunting and scary and exciting and triumphant. Here’s my first post on my progress as I revise my novel. I think there's something here for all writers, queer or black or brown or otherwise blessed, to consider… #queer #writing #revision open.substack.com/pub/lahimlam...

Revision and Editing: Queer Revision

A journal following my revision process....

Lahim Lamar @lahimlamar.bsky.social · 07/03/2025

I wrote something based on a recent event I read about on an LGBTQ+ cruise. A brief thought on the nature of ‘refugee,’ safety, memory, and empathy. #refugee #gay #cruise open.substack.com/pub/lahimlam... open.substack.com/pub/lahimlam...

I spent third grade running away from Ryan Harlan.

Refugee Song

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Lahim Lamar @lahimlamar.bsky.social · 14/02/2025

A post about rage-baiting, death, dogs, Trump, love and distraction. open.substack.com/pub/lahimlam...

Ben Franklin was right...

Death, Dogs and Taxes

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Lahim Lamar @lahimlamar.bsky.social · 10/01/2025

reading this book feels like remembering something I knew already, like wiping condensation from a mirror. a little preachy at times but pretty spot on about technology and relationships. The anxious generation / Jonathan Haidt #technology #bookrecommendations

Lahim Lamar @lahimlamar.bsky.social · 11/12/2024

It's that time of year again. Here are the top 5 books that I read from 2024. Some good ones this year imho... #books #bookreview #scifi #gay open.substack.com/pub/lahimlam...

Top 5 Books of 2024 (that I read)

as if I know anything...

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Lahim Lamar @lahimlamar.bsky.social · 18/11/2024

Glad to be here but it's really hard to see links and buttons in dark mode on @bsky.app #accessibility

Lahim Lamar @lahimlamar.bsky.social · 15/11/2024

A man must dream a long time in order to act with grandeur, and dreaming is nursed in darkness. —Jean Genet #quotes

Lahim Lamar @lahimlamar.bsky.social · 13/11/2024

"Today is movement meditation, so we all dance. Hand drums under Hindustrani melodies. He’s dancing like he’s alone in his bedroom, brazen, shameless, soul-full, through us like a curling wind, everywhere and nowhere... " #meditation #writing lahimlamar.substack.com/p/day-four

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Day Four

an examination of import