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Milo ❤️ @komaxtose.bsky.social · 09/05/2026

Being weirded out by it is a completely understandable feeling but bringing it under a criminal label when it is in fact a completely separate thing can be a very harmful take

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Milo ❤️ @komaxtose.bsky.social · 09/05/2026

Linked to my point right before that, abdl is a consesual thing between grown adults and are harmless as it is specifically an adult space that is in no way targeting actual children

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Milo ❤️ @komaxtose.bsky.social · 09/05/2026

In ethics the "Harm Principle" means that an individual's actions should only be limited to prevent harm to others. If an activity (abdl) involves consenting adults in private spaces and does not infringe on the rights or safety of others, it does not meet the ethical criteria for being "bad."

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Milo ❤️ @komaxtose.bsky.social · 09/05/2026

Okay so then if you want arguments Conflating a specific lifestyle or roleplay interest with predatory behavior is a straight category error. There is no clinical or statistical evidence bringing that these interests are linked to a lack of moral compass or a desire to harm minors in any way.

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Milo ❤️ @komaxtose.bsky.social · 09/05/2026

Whatever you think honestly, clearly there's no grounds of understanding between us here

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Milo ❤️ @komaxtose.bsky.social · 09/05/2026

All while pushing that, because you've had bad experiences, you can make the same generalizations that have been done against the very same community both you and I are part of, community that has been fighting against this very similar issue

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Milo ❤️ @komaxtose.bsky.social · 09/05/2026

I don't want to change your opinion it's not my job to do so, you have your own and I respecr you having them What I am talking about it how your messages have came off as the "kink police" trying to dictate who wears what and not, while directly interacting with the community around it

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Milo ❤️ @komaxtose.bsky.social · 09/05/2026

You have been actively pushing a biased take on abdls being pedos and arguments have been put multiple times, Ill leave that there

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Milo ❤️ @komaxtose.bsky.social · 09/05/2026

You refuse to take factual informations and arguments for the sake of your own personal experience and fight us off into our own spot of the internet because of your bias. Your opinion isn't the ultimate truth, neither is mine, step down and look around for a second.

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Milo ❤️ @komaxtose.bsky.social · 09/05/2026

Whether you have an opinion or not, I'll be entirely frank : I couldn't care less, you have you, you do you, at the end of the day when I close my phone my memory won't even keep you. But don't come into our space and try to regulate what we do and what we wear out of your biased POV.

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Milo ❤️ @komaxtose.bsky.social · 09/05/2026

"From my experience" isn't a factual point. You are biased and decide to associate everyone to your own bad experiences. You are pushing the same arguments that have been used against any marginalized group. You having a bad experience doesn't apply to every single member of a community.

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Milo ❤️ @komaxtose.bsky.social · 09/05/2026

But it doesn't make sense to both push this argument and be an active furry community member!!! There's always gonna be bad seeds in every community which sadly affect other members but just like furries are not zoos, ABDLs ARE NOT PEDOS.

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Milo ❤️ @komaxtose.bsky.social · 09/05/2026

Glad to see people explaining this way better than I did, I definitely need to express myself better kfbfkfblgng-

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Caled🔜BFC🎃 @kit-stripes.bsky.social · 07/05/2026

A not so comprehensive list of awesome events that are not tolerant of bullying :) She may be not be allowed to go to some of these 😇

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Milo ❤️ @komaxtose.bsky.social · 06/05/2026

Surely it'd have the same backlash, at least I'd think so

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Milo ❤️ @komaxtose.bsky.social · 06/05/2026

Im not one so I don't really know the WHYs but perhaps the comfort or coping mechanisms or stuff like that Im not entirely sure if Im honest when it comes to this But it does make me question how does that translate for say, some of those popular dildos that are directly inspired off fr animals?

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Milo ❤️ @komaxtose.bsky.social · 06/05/2026

While I completely agree with not exposing anyone who could be potentially unwilling, it's like presence here on bluesky, something might pop up that wasn't meant to be outside the circle of the community but it happened It goes both ways, not exposing to unwillings, and learn to move forward

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Milo ❤️ @komaxtose.bsky.social · 06/05/2026

Not wanting them right around you is perfectly understandable, completely agree with you there! Even myself who's part of the community just keep it in my room because honestly I personally dont want to do anything else than that But that's also the reason it's in a separate pannel and all

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Milo ❤️ @komaxtose.bsky.social · 06/05/2026

Just as kids are expected not to enter the adult furry spaces, I think we should upkeep the same values and restrictions for the diaperfur things, not more, not anything else led by personal bias

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Milo ❤️ @komaxtose.bsky.social · 06/05/2026

Maybe the name is badly perceived by a lot but then I think it's a lack of TRYING to understand it, most of the uncomfortability around it is due to a lack of education on the subject and more importantly a refusal to try and understand, which would at least be fine if they didn't spread hate after

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Milo ❤️ @komaxtose.bsky.social · 06/05/2026

Precisely! Having an opinion of it is entirely fair and in that case I think a lot of us agree that if you're uncomfortable by it we're glad to do our stuff in our own corner of the con, exactly as it is now, we'll just shake hands and all go our own way in it

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Milo ❤️ @komaxtose.bsky.social · 06/05/2026

For the name honestly Ive got no real opinion of my own, I don't go to FWA and I suppose I could see how some people perceive it I just want to make sure that unlike a lot of people have been doing, the discourse isn't just "Diaperfurs are pedos, final"

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Milo ❤️ @komaxtose.bsky.social · 06/05/2026

In the end we're all members of the same community, I just wish the hypocritical arguments against eachother would cease, especially when both have been fighting an exact similar fight for long

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Milo ❤️ @komaxtose.bsky.social · 06/05/2026

Just as clarification because you took it that way, I was stating an example of how hypocritical it sounds, I apologize if you took it as a personal attack towards you of course

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Milo ❤️ @komaxtose.bsky.social · 06/05/2026

The thing is it matters little whether you do it or not, it still happens, and there are NSFW pannels about furries OBVIOUSLY in a furry con, therefor it's still very relevant. For an example of what I mean : "I just think if you gonna act like an animal it should stay at home" See what I mean?

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Milo ❤️ @komaxtose.bsky.social · 06/05/2026

I'd even dare and say that if you can look yourself in the mirror after having sex in a fursuit at a furcon room party then you can't SERIOUSLY be throwing shade at a community sister to yours in concept

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Milo ❤️ @komaxtose.bsky.social · 06/05/2026

It can be said however times that acting like a kid blablabla But it's the same arguments made by anti-furries that "Acting like an animal is blablabla" ezpecially with how sexually loud the furry community has been and continues to be. It's hypocrisy, blatant hypocrisy

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Milo ❤️ @komaxtose.bsky.social · 06/05/2026

The A stands for Adult, because no minor should ever be brought in this community for any reason and by any means, consensual adults do their stuff and if anything Ive met more people actively fighting off pedophilia in this community than outside. Because we're being treated like them wrongfully.

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Milo ❤️ @komaxtose.bsky.social · 06/05/2026

See the problem with this exact mindset is that it's super hypocritical in a community like the furry community. We've been fighting for ages against the allegations of furries being zoophiles yet there is no difference in this context with the allegations made towards ABDL folks

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