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KnownToBite @knowntobite.bsky.social · 25/08/2026

Just because YOU aren't being abused or see abusive behavior from the person doesn't mean the abuse didn't happen, it just didn't happen to you. It doesn't negate the fact the trauma DID HAPPEN. Out abusers!

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KnownToBite @knowntobite.bsky.social · 15/03/2026

My service dog in training - a full blooded solid black German shepherd puppy like my last girl. He's 9wks old. Super smart little guy, very driven! His ear finally stood up! Lol #servicedogintraining #SDIT #germanshepherd #GSD #servicedog #blackgermanshepherd #disabled

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KnownToBite @knowntobite.bsky.social · 09/03/2026

New service dog in training. 9wk old full blooded solid black German shepherd. I miss my last girl so much. I've had him a little over a week now and he has already picked up the commands sit, down, come, stay, NO! And working on a few other commands. He's so smart! 🐾🐕‍🦺 #servicedogintraining #sdit

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KnownToBite @knowntobite.bsky.social · 17/12/2025

Its time to recognize this pattern & to start believing survivors, no matter who the abuser is. Its time to listen to their stories, to validate their experiences & to support them in their healing journey. It's time to hold abusers accountable, regardless of their status, position or relationships.

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KnownToBite @knowntobite.bsky.social · 17/12/2025

This kind of response is not only damaging to the survivor, but it's also a powerful tool for the abuser. It allows them to maintain control and silence their victim, while also discrediting them in the eyes of others. It's a toxic cycle that perpetuates abuse and silences survivors.

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KnownToBite @knowntobite.bsky.social · 17/12/2025

making them feel like they're the ones who are wrong.

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KnownToBite @knowntobite.bsky.social · 17/12/2025

But the truth is, abusers are often hiding in plain sight. They're the charming, charismatic people who are loved and respected by their friends and family. They're the ones who know exactly how to manipulate and control their victims, and they're experts at gaslighting and

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KnownToBite @knowntobite.bsky.social · 17/12/2025

The abuser is often portrayed as a "good guy" who would never do such a thing, and the survivor is left to wonder if she's the one who's crazy.

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KnownToBite @knowntobite.bsky.social · 17/12/2025

This phenomenon is often referred to as "himpathy," where the perpetrator is given undue sympathy and the survivor is left to face skepticism and blame. It's a powerful example of how societal norms and expectations can silence survivors and protect abusers.

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KnownToBite @knowntobite.bsky.social · 17/12/2025

Yall ask women to expose their abusers but when it turns out to be your friend, boyfriend, or family member suddenly she's lying. Its a cruel irony that the very people who claim to support survivors often turn out to be the first ones to doubt and discredit them when the abuser is someone they know

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KnownToBite @knowntobite.bsky.social · 16/12/2025

And naming it for what it is matters. Because silence protects abusers. But truth restores dignity to those who were hurt when they needed care the most. “Andy Burg” #fblifestyle #abusivepartner #abusiverelationship #abusiveex #razrskarr #synkardis #healingabuse #healingtrauma

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KnownToBite @knowntobite.bsky.social · 16/12/2025

It speaks only to the moral failure of the person who chose cruelty when compassion was required. To harm someone at their lowest point is not just abusive—it’s a violation of basic humanity.

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KnownToBite @knowntobite.bsky.social · 16/12/2025

And often, the abuser will later claim ignorance. “I didn’t know it was that bad.” “I was going through things too.” But trauma is not an excuse to traumatize others—especially not those who were already bleeding. What happened says nothing about the victim’s worth, intelligence, or strength.

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KnownToBite @knowntobite.bsky.social · 16/12/2025

Someone who didn’t provoke, manipulate, or attack. Someone whose only “fault” was being open, trusting, or too exhausted to fight back. That kind of abuse rewires a person. It teaches them that safety is an illusion, that kindness is dangerous, that vulnerability invites punishment.

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KnownToBite @knowntobite.bsky.social · 16/12/2025

Targeting someone in that state isn’t strength—it’s predation. It’s choosing power over empathy, dominance over decency. There is something especially dark about harming someone who never intended you harm.

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KnownToBite @knowntobite.bsky.social · 16/12/2025

What makes it even more disturbing is the imbalance. A person in trauma is not on equal footing. Their nervous system is already overwhelmed. Their defenses are down.Their capacity to protect themselves is compromised.

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KnownToBite @knowntobite.bsky.social · 16/12/2025

and decide that is the moment to apply pressure, control, humiliation, or harm—reveals something seriously broken in the abuser. That isn’t a loss of temper. That isn’t a misunderstanding. That is a conscious choice to compound pain.

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KnownToBite @knowntobite.bsky.social · 16/12/2025

It shows a willingness to exploit vulnerability rather than protect it. To look at someone who is already hurting, already fractured, already doing their best to survive—

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KnownToBite @knowntobite.bsky.social · 16/12/2025

Abusing someone who was never malicious to you—especially while they were already drowning in the hardest trauma of their life—isn’t just cruel. It’s profoundly sadistic and deeply disturbing.

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KnownToBite @knowntobite.bsky.social · 16/12/2025

Stop telling women to STFU when they’re brave enough to share how they survived an abusive man! That is NOT drama. It’s not tea. She is NOT the problem .. he is. Let her share whenever and however she’d like for as long as she wants. There is healing and awareness for others in that!

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KnownToBite @knowntobite.bsky.social · 24/11/2025

Been with my husband 10yrs.... was with the ex 9yrs(live-in bf of ours we were with for about 2yrs) ... never have i acted the way i did then due to the abuse i was dealing with from them both..... wild how that works, right? lol

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KnownToBite @knowntobite.bsky.social · 06/11/2025

And they block you and ignore you so they don't have to be held accountable or apologize for their heinous actions lmao doesn't change the fact you're STILL an abuser. Doesn't matter if it was last week or a decade ago... you STILL did and said what you did, that doesn't change facts or witnesses.

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KnownToBite @knowntobite.bsky.social · 06/11/2025

Early birthday presents to me ordered and on their way! Also I HAD to get the Pentious with eggbois figure to go in our hognose snake SirPentious's enclosure lol Too bad they dont make anything for Malice from Human Resources for our leachianus, Malice lol #HelluvaBoss #Loona #Pentious #sirpentious

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KnownToBite @knowntobite.bsky.social · 06/11/2025

#abusiverelationships #toxicrelationships stop protecting and defending abusive people! Just because they presented themselves differently to you doesn't mean they didn't hurt the ones who are speaking out!

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KnownToBite @knowntobite.bsky.social · 05/11/2025

I have Yootooz 16in weighted plush of both Bee and Loona on the way. Just ordered this outfit for my upcoming bday. I think there's a theme lol

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Kasey Gifford @kaseygifford.bsky.social · 09/10/2025

Drawtober Day 9: Candy Corn Or Candicorn in this case #drawtober #Halloweenie

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KnownToBite @knowntobite.bsky.social · 31/03/2025

Why? Luckily, I think he deleted his account on fb but I think he's still on here

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Fyrreheks @fyrreheks.bsky.social · 23/01/2025

Want to do some doodles/experimental art. Anyone want to share their character ref? All are welcome! Can't guarantee I'll draw everyone or how it'll turn out, but just want to draw a little bit.

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KnownToBite @knowntobite.bsky.social · 26/02/2025

Paid off car, paid off house, paid off credit card, home repairs planned for next month, got Arden's bday plans taken care of and my business is doing really well! Hubby got a better job too! Damn feeling blessed!

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KnownToBite @knowntobite.bsky.social · 20/12/2024

AMEN! Many are "popufurs" in the fandom lmao

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KnownToBite @knowntobite.bsky.social · 21/11/2024

Repashy is the brand of the vitamin a supplement she recommended that I add to the calcium powder now! Also don't mind the dinosaur in the background lol General Malice is lurking, she's 10.5in long! Lol

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