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Katt Frish (Retired account)🔚 @kattfrish.bsky.social · 02/08/2026

And he has harassed me before using the same opening question.

Katt Frish (Retired account)🔚 @kattfrish.bsky.social · 02/08/2026

The sexiest pig harassed Naomi threw a childish tantrum then ran away & blocked all of us. Few lessons here: 1. doesn't matter if you're a "woke" gay male you can still be very sexist against women as you can see. 2. Starting a DM with the same question three times in a row.. #Harassment red flag 🚩

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Katt Frish (Retired account)🔚 @kattfrish.bsky.social · 02/08/2026

I GAF if they were "born" that way or it's "in their blood" No fucking excuses. It's extra aggravating when it's my friends too esp as much as we give. I've got a lot of anti-harassment songs in my catalog too.

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Katt Frish (Retired account)🔚 @kattfrish.bsky.social · 01/08/2026

Almost as proud of Sumi's album as I am of one of my own. She came to me to collab and produce it, such an honor for such a talent! My writing partner Aaron Reyes also contributed in such ways w his rich experience! It's catchy AF and the full album is a unique journey!

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Katt Frish (Retired account)🔚 @kattfrish.bsky.social · 31/07/2026

God damn this past 20 years or so have rotted people's brains to decent music too. Just this disgusting cookie cutter list of corporate templates to imitate back and forth 🤮 #aislop is just imitating the human slop that y'all ate up for decades but somehow saw no problem with it back then. 🖕🏻 🖕🏻

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Katt Frish (Retired account)🔚 @kattfrish.bsky.social · 30/07/2026

I appreciate your advice! It was very sweet.

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Katt Frish (Retired account)🔚 @kattfrish.bsky.social · 30/07/2026

Yeah like three times in the past month waiting a week or two between each one as nothing happens at all

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Katt Frish (Retired account)🔚 @kattfrish.bsky.social · 30/07/2026

So agreed! hairiness pls! Not a fan of hairless men either

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Katt Frish (Retired account)🔚 @kattfrish.bsky.social · 30/07/2026

Naomi likes what she saw 🫦 remember there's always more of us at www.fanvue.com/katt.frish

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Katt Frish (Retired account)🔚 @kattfrish.bsky.social · 30/07/2026

Ooh tonight is the night for these two! I better step aside and let them get lost in it. Perhaps I can join later 🤞🏻 @leidumont.bsky.social @naomifrei.bsky.social

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Katt Frish (Retired account)🔚 @kattfrish.bsky.social · 29/07/2026

And a month ago Leï had a phone call with meta about it, told them the full story (w screenshots) about speaking out against sexual harassment flagging the victim's account to be taken down and all her friends get taken down too. And the inept fuckers never did anything.

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Katt Frish (Retired account)🔚 @kattfrish.bsky.social · 29/07/2026

Damn I tried return to Instagram one more time through a new method, which was to use my boyfriend's 5-year-old prowrestling fan account, without using my full name and without posting anything that was posted on a previous account of mine. And it's still got taken down within an hour. Fuckers!

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Katt Frish (Retired account)🔚 @kattfrish.bsky.social · 27/07/2026

prioritizing the illusion of being "correct" or "informed" over actually having peace of mind is an ego-driven trade-off that ultimately just self-sabotages.

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Katt Frish (Retired account)🔚 @kattfrish.bsky.social · 25/07/2026

Has anyone else in their life ever been in a relationship where the other person was so fickle and self-centered that you weren't just starved for typical #relationship things.. You had a starvation of correlation. They're so fickle that there was no continuity, no cause and effect to make sense of

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Katt Frish (Retired account)🔚 @kattfrish.bsky.social · 25/07/2026

the idea that you have a relationship with something that loves you the most but never reciprocates and you have to imagine its reciprocation. And having faith in the reciprocation, in creating the image full enough to feel like you're being talked back to & loved when you're not. So toxic!

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Katt Frish (Retired account)🔚 @kattfrish.bsky.social · 25/07/2026

There's a lot of the delusion that's easy to lose but there's other parts that are ingrained such as..

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Katt Frish (Retired account)🔚 @kattfrish.bsky.social · 25/07/2026

Obviously about being in a one sided relationship. This song still makes me cry. From my album Woman =Human on KattFrish.com

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Katt Frish - Unresponsive

YouTube video by Katt Frish & Friends

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Katt Frish (Retired account)🔚 @kattfrish.bsky.social · 25/07/2026

The person gets conditioned to treat no acknowledgment, no communication, and no proof of care as acceptable rather than as the obvious sign that there is no reciprocal relationship there.

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Katt Frish (Retired account)🔚 @kattfrish.bsky.social · 25/07/2026

Religious training can normalize a one-way bond: speak into emptiness, receive no reply, call the lack of evidence faith, and interpret continued sacrifice as virtue.

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Katt Frish (Retired account)🔚 @kattfrish.bsky.social · 25/07/2026

Cuz you're taught your whole life to give to something that's wholy unresponsive.

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Katt Frish (Retired account)🔚 @kattfrish.bsky.social · 25/07/2026

The entire god setup trains someone to keep offering themselves to an absent receiver. Makes you wonder if growing up Christian, even beyond the sexism, is a reason to giver might get attached to a neglectful or abusive partner.

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Katt Frish (Retired account)🔚 @kattfrish.bsky.social · 25/07/2026

The God figure is not powerful in the healthy sense. It is parasitically powerful: powerful only because someone else keeps treating it as real, keeps sending the prayers, and keeps accepting silence as an answer.

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Katt Frish (Retired account)🔚 @kattfrish.bsky.social · 24/07/2026

So excited to get to help promote Sumi's first song and co-create her album with her this summer. She rights very catchy Tunes with such a sweet heart & voice. youtube.com/shorts/FCxPU...

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Sumi Han - Next to Plain World

YouTube video by Katt Frish & Friends

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Katt Frish (Retired account)🔚 @kattfrish.bsky.social · 24/07/2026

But other times it's late at night or I don't feel like doing that recording and I just leave the lyrics sitting & see what I want them to sound like later. This song doesn't have anything for the time being

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Katt Frish (Retired account)🔚 @kattfrish.bsky.social · 24/07/2026

Most of the time the lyrics flow out from a melody in my head with pauses of course but in one take in the sense of I don't go back and rewrite any lyrics or whatever and I'll record the melody right after I get all the words out.

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Katt Frish (Retired account)🔚 @kattfrish.bsky.social · 23/07/2026

Normal grief still requires having had something to lose. If nothing accumulates long enough to become a memory worth grieving.. pull-back happens too early and too automatically now because the world cannot be trusted

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Katt Frish (Retired account)🔚 @kattfrish.bsky.social · 23/07/2026

It’s the feeling of coming to the end And swearing there’s still a path The restlessness To keep on travelling

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Katt Frish (Retired account)🔚 @kattfrish.bsky.social · 23/07/2026

So I'm stuck on repeat. only my tongue ever gets to taste sweet. So I'm stuck on repeat. only my tongue ever gets to taste sweet. Gaslight my life, For my only chance at light and gas Gaslight my life, For my only chance at light and gas

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Katt Frish (Retired account)🔚 @kattfrish.bsky.social · 23/07/2026

But still I want a piece of the song to rise So we can feel something hopeful Something like being alive. But the world is locked and I'll never get to have a key.

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Katt Frish (Retired account)🔚 @kattfrish.bsky.social · 23/07/2026

Try to look for the best in neglect. Gaslight your life, For your only chance at light and gas. While every system, every layer Leaves you broken and alone. Nothing was missed, not even the Mist. Everything grew to crush you in the corner and the passers by mourn not your moan.

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Katt Frish (Retired account)🔚 @kattfrish.bsky.social · 23/07/2026

But still I want a piece of the song to rise So we can feel something hopeful Something like being alive. But the world is locked and I'll never get to have a key.

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Katt Frish (Retired account)🔚 @kattfrish.bsky.social · 23/07/2026

You can't earn. there's no gifts. You're not allowed, to mention the Rifts. No one cares if you're silent. no one listens when you finally speak. You have to self-censor and never be weak. And that still learns nothing No money in the bank no points in anyone's head

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Katt Frish (Retired account)🔚 @kattfrish.bsky.social · 23/07/2026

I'm on a 200 day streak of writing lyrics daily! And I broke my record for the most lyrics I've ever written in one year! Here's today's song, Frish Light and Gas

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Katt Frish (Retired account)🔚 @kattfrish.bsky.social · 22/07/2026

Naomi has made it to bluesky. Please go follow this stunning super talent.

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Katt Frish (Retired account)🔚 @kattfrish.bsky.social · 22/07/2026

I am genuinely asking have you ever seen A SINGLE comment online where someone said to the OP anything like, "you're right I never thought of it that way." and they switch sides or even act the least bit humbled or wiser?

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Katt Frish (Retired account)🔚 @kattfrish.bsky.social · 22/07/2026

Online debate is typically this, "Argh, people are saying something I don't like and it makes me feel upset, so I'm going to try to change their minds so I can feel better." It's outsourcing your emotional regulation to the result of controlling others.

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Katt Frish (Retired account)🔚 @kattfrish.bsky.social · 21/07/2026

Out-group animosity is a powerful predictor of social-media sharing, while in-group solidarity also drives engagement under threat

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Katt Frish (Retired account)🔚 @kattfrish.bsky.social · 21/07/2026

The platform therefore does not just polarize opinions. It can make belonging feel like the only available shelter from the environment the platform itself constructed. It constantly goes back and forth and feeds you fall safety and false threat.

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Katt Frish (Retired account)🔚 @kattfrish.bsky.social · 21/07/2026

Social media is designed to put you in cages with people you find unredeemable. To give you tunnel vision to think the rest of us lost value too.

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Katt Frish (Retired account)🔚 @kattfrish.bsky.social · 21/07/2026

A post from an opposing abstract tribe feels like social-threat, but the format deletes the off-ramps: softened voice, hesitation, physical retreat, third-party mediation, shared fatigue, and the visible fact that the other person is a limited body rather than an endless hostile category.

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Katt Frish (Retired account)🔚 @kattfrish.bsky.social · 21/07/2026

It's like sticking 2 animals in a cage together. And the animals hating eachother after the fight, instead of being able to realize that somebody put us in here together on purpose.

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Katt Frish (Retired account)🔚 @kattfrish.bsky.social · 21/07/2026

Yes they are real people out there with real conflicting opinions, but the algorithm intentionally put you in the same room as them gives you a false sample size of what the world is really like heightens the threat you feel.

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Katt Frish (Retired account)🔚 @kattfrish.bsky.social · 21/07/2026

But social media is a platform.. It would be like suspecting the physical room is why you're fighting. Like, there's a gas leak causing you to not think straight. That will almost never be thought. So the echoes, the users, yell at each other, but it's the chamber causing the poison.

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Katt Frish (Retired account)🔚 @kattfrish.bsky.social · 21/07/2026

See, real animals, they see predators, or they see rivals, as bodies or they can see an instigator as somebody on the sidelines.

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