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K-ghislaine

@k-ghislaine.bsky.social
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Dating and Relationship Coach by day, writer by night. And a lover of the oxford comma, forever! Just a sex positive girly, trying to make the world a better place one written word at a time. May contain randomness.

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K-ghislaine @k-ghislaine.bsky.social · 9h
We now own a puppy mansion that hopefully will be comfy enough for our pup in her cone to sleep. I need sleep. But first trying to stay awake and alert for board game night.
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K-ghislaine @k-ghislaine.bsky.social · 19h
Had one precious REM cycle and of course my body threw nightmares at me. My poor sweet pup is having a hell of a time getting comfy after her knee surgery. Well, my shift begins watching her so he can rest.
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K-ghislaine @k-ghislaine.bsky.social · 07/10/2026
There is a ginormous spider on the ceiling in my kitchen. So... no dishes will be cleaned today.
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K-ghislaine @k-ghislaine.bsky.social · 07/10/2026
Ok, something must seriously be in the water because I've now been contacted by 3 (male) friends I haven't talked to in years.
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K-ghislaine @k-ghislaine.bsky.social · 07/10/2026
That look of complete betrayal when dropping off a pup at the vet. Oh my heart.
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K-ghislaine @k-ghislaine.bsky.social · 06/10/2026
Well, tomorrow I take my pup to get her knee replacement surgery. The poor thing has been a tripod for nearly a month, but a happy one, so there is that. But hot damn, I am not looking forward to her recovery. I struggled with knee surgery as a human!!! Hopefully she heals faster than I did.
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K-ghislaine @k-ghislaine.bsky.social · 06/10/2026
Today, the only body part I'm truly proud of is my hands. Figured you might enjoy the backdrop. Either way, the full pictures will go up on my Patreon page shortly. Be kind ...
Hand model on top of boy shorts selfie
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K-ghislaine @k-ghislaine.bsky.social · 05/10/2026
Quote of the Day BreakingAwayFromRelationshipNorms.com
No one can make you feel inferior without your consent - Eleanor Roosevelt
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K-ghislaine @k-ghislaine.bsky.social · 05/10/2026
How many more times do I have to say no Muse before it goes away??? This is exactly why consent education matters. No, means no!!! You just know some executive is sharing stories of breaking someone down, that it works, and telling them to keep selling it. Grumble Grumble grumble.
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K-ghislaine @k-ghislaine.bsky.social · 05/10/2026
Quote of the Day BreakingAwayFromRelationshipNorms.com
No one can make you feel inferior without your consent - Eleanor Roosevelt
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K-ghislaine @k-ghislaine.bsky.social · 05/10/2026
I try and be really accommodating when it comes to coaching but... if you ghost an appointment for 3 days without even an explanation then we are done.
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K-ghislaine @k-ghislaine.bsky.social · 05/10/2026
Grab your morning coffee and have a read of my latest. Yes there is a trigger warning for it because, well, it is timely.
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K-ghislaine @k-ghislaine.bsky.social · 05/10/2026
Happy Monday! Today I start putting all my overthinking energy into... well ... something more tangible. Or I guess someday tangible? Maybe I need more coffe? Or a sexy snuggle? Who knows.
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K-ghislaine @k-ghislaine.bsky.social · 03/10/2026
I'm actually really excited to be slinging pints again. Turns out that I missed people. Weird.
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K-ghislaine @k-ghislaine.bsky.social · 03/10/2026
Firsthand, I know the allure of belonging. I can see how it happens that voices go silent. The task now is to find a way to overcome this. Talking about what really happens is only the first step...
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K-ghislaine @k-ghislaine.bsky.social · 02/10/2026
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I Almost Married a Frat Boy
And Know the Power of Being One of the Boys
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K-ghislaine @k-ghislaine.bsky.social · 02/10/2026
After a missed coaching session, the thing I did not expect to have to do is a virus check of my computer. But, apparently this is the world we live in and you cannot trust anyone.
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K-ghislaine @k-ghislaine.bsky.social · 02/10/2026
Last night my hair caught around my neck and almost choked me. Today, I am struggling with a pinched nerve as a result of this calamity. Why do I have long hair again??? Seriously considering the big ole chop right at this moment.
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K-ghislaine @k-ghislaine.bsky.social · 02/10/2026
Just saw a real estate ad where they said it was a price improvement rather than a reduction. What a spin!
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K-ghislaine @k-ghislaine.bsky.social · 02/10/2026
Coordinating in full flamingo for the happiest Friday!
Selfie with flamingo mug.
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K-ghislaine @k-ghislaine.bsky.social · 02/10/2026
Happy Friday!!! What are you all up to this weekend???
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K-ghislaine @k-ghislaine.bsky.social · 01/10/2026
Well, my jotted notes were for an article about sexual freedom, but here I sit writing about almost marrying a frat boy instead. Oh, the memories just keep flooding back, and it feels weird to put pen to paper on this one. But with everything going on, this one feels important to write.
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🌈Dr. Frizzle @swilua.bsky.social · 01/10/2026
Holy shit I did not know this Incredible insight into Western Higher Education, going back to Oxford and Cambridge and still seen today from @harikondabolu.bsky.social
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K-ghislaine @k-ghislaine.bsky.social · 01/10/2026
Yesterday, I chatted with a spam caller for over 4 minutes. Nearly the whole time I was stating that I was just keeping him on the line to save someone else, meanwhile he was asking me what my favorite sexual position was. It was super weird, and finally someone in the call center made him hang up.
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K-ghislaine @k-ghislaine.bsky.social · 01/10/2026
Good Morning!!! It is the most wonderful time of the year... spooky season. Sure I hate being scared, but getting dressed up holds a magical place in my heart. Have you started figuring out your costume yet?
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K-ghislaine @k-ghislaine.bsky.social · 30/09/2026
And with that... the 2026 self love challenge is complete. Thank you to everyone who liked, shared, commented, and even the lurkers who just wondered what the heck was going on. Thank you all!!! And if September was crazy busy, I'd love to read your responses if you decide to try it in October!
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K-ghislaine @k-ghislaine.bsky.social · 01/10/2026
Just re-watched The Prestige, and truly forgot how dark and disturbing it was. Perhaps it's more so because I've seen it before.
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K-ghislaine @k-ghislaine.bsky.social · 30/09/2026
And with that... the 2026 self love challenge is complete. Thank you to everyone who liked, shared, commented, and even the lurkers who just wondered what the heck was going on. Thank you all!!! And if September was crazy busy, I'd love to read your responses if you decide to try it in October!
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K-ghislaine @k-ghislaine.bsky.social · 29/09/2026
The plan is to start doing yoga again tonight with my boyfriend. We always fall off the yoga wagon during our busy summers, so I am both excited, and a little sad that camping season is over.
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K-ghislaine @k-ghislaine.bsky.social · 29/09/2026
I saw a person rant about how Meta and AI stealing personal info is R#pe culture. Yeah no. No one forces you to have a phone, social media, etc... the whole sexual assault part is stealing the use of your body without your consent. They are NOT the same. Do not dilute the term R%pe ....ever!!!!
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K-ghislaine @k-ghislaine.bsky.social · 29/09/2026
Good Morning all. My last two days were so magical! Trying to bring the joy, light, and calmness into the start of this new year for me. Let's see how it goes :)
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K-ghislaine @k-ghislaine.bsky.social · 27/09/2026
Today was a much needed couch day. Tomorrow, I get whisked away for a night away to celebrate my birthday with my love.
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K-ghislaine @k-ghislaine.bsky.social · 26/09/2026
Getting dolled up to celebrate 925 day... and have a few early bday beers. I hope Dolly would be proud of the sheer volume of people who absolutely adored her and the positive influence she had on so many.
Cleavage shot in a hot pink western shirt  celebrating Dolly Day
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K-ghislaine @k-ghislaine.bsky.social · 24/09/2026
Good Morning all! I think I am going to kick off my birthday weekend early. Picking up some beer, and might get a little "pantsdrunk" tonight. Maybe I'll even take a few pictures, who knows!
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K-ghislaine @k-ghislaine.bsky.social · 23/09/2026
Wowza...the amount of spam emails I'm getting for marketing my coaching business utilizing an AI summary of my website is actually alarming. I am at a loss for how to prevent this or even respond. I suppose this is the modern mlm scheme.
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K-ghislaine @k-ghislaine.bsky.social · 22/09/2026
I wrote this post a few years ago, at a time when the facebook group required complete secrecy to remain safe. Today, almost all of those groups, created with the best of intentions seems to be gone. It sucks, the group wasn't perfect, but I dearly with that when I was single I knew it existed
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K-ghislaine @k-ghislaine.bsky.social · 22/09/2026
Ok body, get all this pain out of your system now, because when my birthday arrives I am going to be healthy, happy, and pain free! Or else I will get very very drunk, and it will be all your fault! Love you.
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K-ghislaine @k-ghislaine.bsky.social · 22/09/2026
Thought I was exhausted and needed a nap. My brain decided it was the perfect time to flush out a new medium article. Oh, the creative brain just doesn't understand what rest is for.
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K-ghislaine @k-ghislaine.bsky.social · 22/09/2026
This morning I was reminded that sometimes rejection letters can be lovely and heartfelt. Sending gratitude into the world for small acts of kindness.
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K-ghislaine @k-ghislaine.bsky.social · 21/09/2026
Enjoying an incredible and hot fall day. Now, to get writing!
Sunshine, sunhat selfie
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K-ghislaine @k-ghislaine.bsky.social · 20/09/2026
Happy Sunday all! Today I am forcing myself out of the house to go write on my favorite patio. It's a tough job, but somebody has to do it.
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K-ghislaine @k-ghislaine.bsky.social · 19/09/2026
Oh, just my crazy ass neighbor screaming at the birds that his mom feeds. I cannot wait to move. Come on universe, start throwing some good news my way pretty please.
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K-ghislaine @k-ghislaine.bsky.social · 19/09/2026
Just over a week till my birthday and my bodies like "guess what? You're never too old for zits". Thanks body!
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K-ghislaine @k-ghislaine.bsky.social · 18/09/2026
Day 18
❤️Self Love 30 Day Challenge

Day 18

Sometimes life comes at you fast, and all we can do is hold on. Yesterday's challenge was designed to remind you that just accepting how your feeling is often the best we can do in that moment. It is not realistic to always be looking at the bright side, nor is it healthy to always be living a pessimistic life. Practicing just being, and accepting our emotions is important. Now it is time to reflect on how yesterday went. Will you try it again?

#BreakingAwayCoaching #SelfLoveChallenge #SelfLove #reflection #acceptance
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K-ghislaine @k-ghislaine.bsky.social · 18/09/2026
Apparently I now get irrationality angry when people ask reddit things they asked AI first. Or maybe it's rational? Or a sign I'm getting older and becoming more of a curmudgeon. Either way.
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K-ghislaine @k-ghislaine.bsky.social · 18/09/2026
How did today's challenge go?
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K-ghislaine @k-ghislaine.bsky.social · 17/09/2026
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Mid-Life Crisis... Here I Come!!! | Breaking Away from Monogamy
Yeah, I have lamented about this before. So, I'll get to the point, I feel the career mid-life crisis weighing on my very soul.
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K-ghislaine @k-ghislaine.bsky.social · 17/09/2026
Why did I just read the term pheremone-maxxing??? Showering before a date seems like the bare minimum doesn't it??? And yet, here we are...
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K-ghislaine @k-ghislaine.bsky.social · 17/09/2026
Breakfast cheesecake! Tis the best morning.
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K-ghislaine @k-ghislaine.bsky.social · 16/09/2026
My go to is always the band Queen. There is always a song that will pull me out of a funk, or just keep a smile on my face.
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