Strauss @jsdanube.bsky.social · 16/09/2026I don't know if I have much sage wisdom, but you're not alone in feeling like social media/being enough/confidence/shame are difficult to manage online and in person. So I'll tell you what I'd hope to hear for myself: you have so much to offer by being exactly who you are. 010
Strauss @jsdanube.bsky.social · 16/09/2026I really appreciate where you're at and the journey you're on! I've really struggled with the question in the past too of what I bring to the table, and there are times that ABDL has felt like an agent for creating distance from others in my life, rather than connection. The shame is real. 110
Strauss @jsdanube.bsky.social · 07/09/2026This is soooo real. I pride myself on my independence, but when my middle/little side comes out, I'm just a silly nerdy needy puddle of boy who wants daddy to take care of him. Amazing what it tells us about what we need in the rest of our lives. 000
Strauss @jsdanube.bsky.social · 07/09/2026Yeahhh I can't let my photos apps attempt any kind of album, because...well yeah, it'll just be me in my diapers.me.me 010
Strauss @jsdanube.bsky.social · 18/08/2026Whoops! Somebody pooped their pull-ups! Did you do it because it felt good? 020
Strauss @jsdanube.bsky.social · 18/08/2026Something functional and delightful that became a way to sluttily show off more skin to boot? 020
Strauss @jsdanube.bsky.social · 16/08/2026And I also mean morally: there's a privilege that comes with more mainstream kinks that have already been normalized. Sometimes that can be played with (i.e., taboo kink), but it puts small communities at greater risk of attack and less likely to be defended by, like, dudes who just like leather. 010
Strauss @jsdanube.bsky.social · 15/08/2026Relatedly, there's a respectability politics within the kink/bdsm world. Many people feel that the number of people interested in a kink is a direct indicator of how "good" a kink is to have. And they look down at some of the niche or "controversial" kinks and don't defend us from anti-kink attacks. 1120
Strauss @jsdanube.bsky.social · 15/08/2026As an ABDL, the thing I constantly see is people who can't understand that consenting adults can do whatever they want that doesn't hurt others, and that that openness can be a valuable space to process some of the most complicated emotions and experiences we (all) have. 070
Strauss @jsdanube.bsky.social · 12/08/2026Oh absolutely, as are the rise in ABDL and pup play generally imo. You mean to tell me that generations constantly missing the "traditional" benchmarks of what it means to be an adult (stability, homeownership, etc.) aren't gonna process it sexually sometimes? 000
Strauss @jsdanube.bsky.social · 02/08/2026Congratulations! Waking up wet again and again has to be the most wonderful feeling. 010
Strauss @jsdanube.bsky.social · 25/07/2026The twist in this story is that it's actually sweat making your pull-up wet 000
Strauss @jsdanube.bsky.social · 24/07/2026I...I think, after all these years, I'm starting to get messing-curious. 🫣🫣 Anyone have any advice for the new feelings? 1303
Strauss @jsdanube.bsky.social · 11/07/2026🙋♂️ I could use one of those slow, tender fucks, please! (please.) 000
Strauss @jsdanube.bsky.social · 07/07/2026Being instructed to breed bedwetter butt would be one of the only ways I could successfully top these days. 010
Strauss @jsdanube.bsky.social · 03/06/2026Would daddy want me to poop my diaper before I nurse on him? 000
Strauss @jsdanube.bsky.social · 02/06/2026I guess that means I really need a daddy to pump me full of his service. 000
Strauss @jsdanube.bsky.social · 31/05/2026The way you put me into a headspace and I was instantly a shy, blushy little boy was intoxicating 010
Strauss @jsdanube.bsky.social · 29/05/2026Ooof that upward spring makes missionary feel like heaven 000
Strauss @jsdanube.bsky.social · 27/05/2026I'd recognize that sweatshirt anywhere from a video that made me among the huffiest I've ever been 🥵 110
Strauss @jsdanube.bsky.social · 21/05/2026🥴🥴🥴 I just want daddy to make me leak from my tip uncontrollably 010
Strauss @jsdanube.bsky.social · 17/05/2026Well being a little boy after a rave is such a world of emotions and feelings, no wonder they ended up in your diaper! 020
Strauss @jsdanube.bsky.social · 16/05/2026Oooh getting my legs spread and being diaper humped like that is my favoriteeee, feeling exposed in your diaper is the best feeling ever 040
Strauss @jsdanube.bsky.social · 10/05/2026Oh my God it looks like my favorite playroom rugs ever 😍😍 110
Strauss @jsdanube.bsky.social · 01/05/2026Whoa buddyyy that's a big experience to share! Pushing away everything as he holds you. 020
