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Joanna @joannasf.bsky.social · 18h
You’re incredible at organizing Puddle and we all admire and respect you and we will celebrate what we’ve accomplished on Sunday 🥂
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Joanna @joannasf.bsky.social · 08/10/2026
I’ve seen them so many times, they’re always fantastic
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Joanna @joannasf.bsky.social · 08/10/2026
Good week for shows - Menzingers last night, Dresden Dolls tonight, Mastodon on Friday 🤘
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Joanna @joannasf.bsky.social · 07/10/2026
Relatedly, Menzingers were fucking brilliant at Great American tonight
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Joanna @joannasf.bsky.social · 07/10/2026
jfc attending a show alone is not sad. What is sad is missing an awesome show because you can't find anyone to go with.
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Joanna @joannasf.bsky.social · 06/10/2026
Hard agree. Not sure if I told you this but the neuropathy I’m currently experiencing was caused by nitrous use. It’s a lot more dangerous than people give it credit for.
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Joanna @joannasf.bsky.social · 03/10/2026
The Dresden Dolls changing venue for their SF show from the Warfield (capacity 2400) to the Great American Music Hall (capacity 700) says a lot about how toxic Amanda Palmer is right now
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Joanna @joannasf.bsky.social · 30/09/2026
Got home after a Folsom afterparty and slept for 36 hours, apparently I needed that
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Marghoul @marghoul.bsky.social · 26/09/2026
Rounding up all my unemployed tech friends and starting a firm specifically to unweave garbage llm bs from companies sold snake oil
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Midnight Coffin @midnightcoffee.bsky.social · 20/06/2026
Doomer trans girl, you have to go to the punk show. You have to. Restore your faith in humanity.
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Joanna @joannasf.bsky.social · 26/09/2026
Working with Puddle over the past year has been such a great experience. It's been so nice to find a team of really competent people who just want to throw a good party.
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Caræsten 🇵🇸 @cara.city · 20/09/2026
fucking has to be done ritualistically for it to be a sex cult, otherwise it's just sparkling straight polyamory
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Gillian Branstetter @gbbranstetter.bsky.social · 15/09/2026
I don't think people really understand the psychic impact of knowing that multiple times a day every day your friends, family, coworkers, neighbors, and everyone who could ever have any power over you is being flooded with agitprop designed to make them hate you
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Joanna @joannasf.bsky.social · 16/09/2026
I would like this to be an "estrogen is magic!" post, but to be real, it's just one tool in the toolbox of ways you can shift people's perception of you. Take your girl juice, for sure, but don't forget about hair, makeup, clothing, voice, mannerisms, social connections, etc.
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Joanna @joannasf.bsky.social · 16/09/2026
I missed posting this on my actual traniversary because *gestures* but here's me on the left at Burning Man 2023 taking estrogen for the first time, and on the right at Neotropolis earlier this year. Still fucking around in the desert, but now with tits!
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Joanna @joannasf.bsky.social · 11/09/2026
ISTG if I knew the top shortage was this bad I’d never have become a bottom
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Joanna @joannasf.bsky.social · 11/09/2026
Looking for a topless bar? That’s, like, literally any queer bar in the city.
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Joanna @joannasf.bsky.social · 10/09/2026
My HRT doctor messaged me on Grindr because of course she did
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Joanna @joannasf.bsky.social · 10/09/2026
Anyway, here’s an evergreen meme
Meme of a cow labeled “I am not hot enough to be this much of a disaster” faced with two paths labeled “I need to get my shit together” and “I need to get hotter”. Both paths lead to “my inevitable death at the hands of the state”.
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Joanna @joannasf.bsky.social · 10/09/2026
How do I fix this? How do I gain a sense that I am enough when I’ve been told the opposite my entire life? I genuinely don’t know. After this month I’m going to take some time off from producing events while I figure it out.
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Joanna @joannasf.bsky.social · 10/09/2026
Part of fixing my own shit requires a realization that I don’t have inherent self-worth and I’ve been relying on external validation instead. It’s gotten worse as I’ve transitioned and compared myself to those around me. I am surrounded by so much love and connection and can’t access any of it.
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Joanna @joannasf.bsky.social · 10/09/2026
It’s humbling to know that as an organizer of whatever experience, you can and will fuck up from time to time. Fixing this requires a lot of willingness to listen and deep examination of how you got to this place. It’s not fun.
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Joanna @joannasf.bsky.social · 10/09/2026
Def stay away from the puppy girls, they have rabies as well
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Joanna @joannasf.bsky.social · 10/09/2026
Just tryna get through my four score years and ten thank you very much
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Joanna @joannasf.bsky.social · 07/09/2026
It’s the moments of hilarity that keep me coming back to play parties. Last night a friend of mine insisted on watching a live Formula 1 race in the middle of the orgy at 6am while surround by people fucking. Gotta respect someone who has their priorities straight.
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Joanna @joannasf.bsky.social · 05/09/2026
Anyway, hopefully y'all will get to hear this at some point if my guitar-playing abilities ever come back; currently, I'm struggling with neuropathy caused by B12 deficiency, and my fingers won't do what I tell them to. Recovery could take months, so I'm programming drums and synths in the meantime.
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Joanna @joannasf.bsky.social · 05/09/2026
I ran the album I'm working on through Gemini to see what it had to say. This is the sort of response that makes me super wary of using AI for artistic decisions. It didn't feel pleasure parsing through my lyrics because it can't feel pleasure, and adding "honestly" doesn't change that.
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Joanna @joannasf.bsky.social · 04/09/2026
I am currently working through that for the first time, holy shit
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Joanna @joannasf.bsky.social · 31/08/2026
I wanna look like Hunter Schafer / Then I wanna fuck Hunter Schafer @damag3.bsky.social killed it tonight in SF!
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Joanna @joannasf.bsky.social · 17/08/2026
Sometimes when writing music you just have to go into the studio and record the goddamn thing. No retakes, no repeats, first cut goes on tape and that’s it. You can double track stuff if you like but no going back and obsessing over whether the performance could have been better.
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Joanna @joannasf.bsky.social · 16/08/2026
It’s cuz u r art 🎨
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Caræsten 🇵🇸 @cara.city · 15/08/2026
hey if you're a trans person and you do this I just want you to know we all fucking hate you
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Joanna @joannasf.bsky.social · 15/08/2026
I feel like 2026 is just going to be one of those years where everyone in tech lost or gained multiple jobs
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Night Fae @femmeandfauna.bsky.social · 14/08/2026
Whoooaaaa new Puddle Splash Social event just dropped? Wanna catch me, @cara.city, and the rest of the Puddle gaybies? Come thruuuu
A flyer saying 
Puddle: Splash Social
Beeryland, September 14 6PM
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Joanna @joannasf.bsky.social · 14/08/2026
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Joanna @joannasf.bsky.social · 14/08/2026
Love it when people try to blackmail me using publicly available photos. My dude, I posted those lewds on Instagram. If you want the good stuff you can subscribe to my Onlyfans for $9.99/month. The advantage of being a public slut is that no one can out you for being a slut. It’s all here already!
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Joanna @joannasf.bsky.social · 14/08/2026
Or sometimes both
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Joanna @joannasf.bsky.social · 13/08/2026
Yeah you have ✨
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Hellvetika 🏳️‍⚧️ ⚧ @hellvetikaseraph.bsky.social · 13/08/2026
Isn't our universe incredible?
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Disco Elysium Quotes @discoelysiumbot.bsky.social · 11/08/2026
You’re pushed on by numbers and punitive measures: pain, rejection, and unpaid bills. You can either play or you can crawl under a boat and waste away -- turn into salt or a flock of seagulls. Your enemies would love that. Or you can fight. The only way to load the dice is to keep on fighting.
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Joanna @joannasf.bsky.social · 11/08/2026
It was a decent party, though somewhat marred by the Sandwich Incident. A bit short on tops, but then such is always the challenge with these things.
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Joanna @joannasf.bsky.social · 11/08/2026
I go to one of the two queen beds and start fooling around with the other people on the bed. The femboy nervously approaches and asks if he can join. I ask if he wants touch; he says yes, I wrap my arms around him, and he shivers. “I needed this” he whispers. Y’all, this is why I go to sex parties.
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Joanna @joannasf.bsky.social · 11/08/2026
So the reason I was in the suburban hellscape that is South SF was for an orgy. Enter the hotel room and immediately clock a femboy who is nervously sitting by himself. Once I’m settled I go up and introduce myself. He asks if I want to hug; I say yes, we embrace, and he clings to me for dear life.
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Joanna @joannasf.bsky.social · 11/08/2026
This isn’t even the first time I’ve been accused of stealing since transitioning. People make all sorts of assumptions when they see a fucking tranny. Of course then I couldn’t buy a sandwich, which was the actual reason I went into the gas station, because I’d just told the cashier to fuck off.
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Joanna @joannasf.bsky.social · 11/08/2026
Stopped by a gas station in South SF and the cashier said “hey, didn’t I catch you stealing a sandwich a few weeks ago?” My dude, I’m 41 and make tech money, why would I steal a sandwich from your shitty ass gas station?
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Joanna @joannasf.bsky.social · 08/08/2026
Sage is an incredible human who deserves to feel good in her body, as we all do. Please donate what you can!
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Joanna @joannasf.bsky.social · 06/08/2026
Thank you!
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Joanna @joannasf.bsky.social · 05/08/2026
What’s the dosage for T-gel? I have some but it was obtained through non-official channels.
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Sage Deviant 🏳️‍⚧️ @trans.bsky.social · 04/08/2026
the old world is dying, and the new world struggles to be born: now is the time of homosexual amphibians
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Joanna @joannasf.bsky.social · 01/08/2026
This is just a fact
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