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Jason 🌈🏳️‍🌈 @jjemcdonald.bsky.social · 6h

Tops. There aren't enough of them.

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Jason 🌈🏳️‍🌈 @jjemcdonald.bsky.social · 14h

SO MY BODY HAS ENOUGH WATER TO MAKE ME PUFFY… BUT NOT ENOUGH TO MOISTURIZE MY FUCKING HEEL?! wtf

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Jason 🌈🏳️‍🌈 @jjemcdonald.bsky.social · 14h

Babe. You’re not Autistic. You’re a bitch.

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Jason 🌈🏳️‍🌈 @jjemcdonald.bsky.social · 15h

cats have never once considered whether they're being unreasonable

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Jason 🌈🏳️‍🌈 @jjemcdonald.bsky.social · 17h

Eyeballs are wet cameras made of meat.

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Jason 🌈🏳️‍🌈 @jjemcdonald.bsky.social · 22h

There is no love greater than between a gay man and his cat babies.

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Jason 🌈🏳️‍🌈 @jjemcdonald.bsky.social · 05/10/2026

Did you know it's ok to interact with me. Haha

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Jason 🌈🏳️‍🌈 @jjemcdonald.bsky.social · 04/10/2026

Being raped isn't fun. Ask me how I know.

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Coach Thom @spark.fit · 03/10/2026

My next read.

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Jason 🌈🏳️‍🌈 @jjemcdonald.bsky.social · 04/10/2026

More fun from this morning. Did you know there is an entire store in downtown Concord dedicated to fitting bras on women?!

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Jason 🌈🏳️‍🌈 @jjemcdonald.bsky.social · 04/10/2026

Made a new little friend whilst sitting outside.

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Jason 🌈🏳️‍🌈 @jjemcdonald.bsky.social · 04/10/2026

I had a lovely and peaceful morning with my friend Chris. We had coffee, went to a bakery, sat outside in the fall breeze and sunshine.

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Jason 🌈🏳️‍🌈 @jjemcdonald.bsky.social · 04/10/2026

So many people claim to be a throat goat, but I...well, I am the esophagus hippopotamus.

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Jason 🌈🏳️‍🌈 @jjemcdonald.bsky.social · 04/10/2026

some of you will be given 5% of the context of a stranger’s life and immediately use your imagination to fill in the other 95% with whatever makes them the worst person possible. There’s no curiosity. No nuance. No “maybe I don’t know enough about this situation.”

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Jason 🌈🏳️‍🌈 @jjemcdonald.bsky.social · 02/10/2026

Kelly Clarkson is a sad good example that every person EVERY SINGLE PERSON will eventually let you down. Even the best ones.😔

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Jason 🌈🏳️‍🌈 @jjemcdonald.bsky.social · 02/10/2026

The greatest freedom is knowing I do not have to explain anything to anyone at anytime.

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Jason 🌈🏳️‍🌈 @jjemcdonald.bsky.social · 02/10/2026

imagine if boobs had the texture of ball sack

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Jason 🌈🏳️‍🌈 @jjemcdonald.bsky.social · 02/10/2026

You don't have to win the argument to establish your reality. If someone becomes enraged whenever you disagree, repeatedly trying to convince them that their characterization of you is wrong can keep you trapped in the dynamic.

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Jason 🌈🏳️‍🌈 @jjemcdonald.bsky.social · 02/10/2026

Your attempts to defend yourself can paradoxically be used against you. If you've been repeatedly invalidated or attacked, becoming angry, defensive, withdrawn, or emotional is understandable.

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Jason 🌈🏳️‍🌈 @jjemcdonald.bsky.social · 02/10/2026

Confirmation bias takes over. Once someone believes “James is the problem,” they may notice everything that supports that conclusion while discounting evidence that contradicts it.

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Jason 🌈🏳️‍🌈 @jjemcdonald.bsky.social · 02/10/2026

Coalitions can develop. When one person has greater influence within a family, others may align with them because challenging them risks becoming the next target, disrupting relationships, or creating conflict.

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Jason 🌈🏳️‍🌈 @jjemcdonald.bsky.social · 02/10/2026

People often protect the family system rather than investigate what actually happened. Acknowledging that someone has been mistreated can require other family members to confront painful things about themselves, their loyalties, or their past decisions.

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Jason 🌈🏳️‍🌈 @jjemcdonald.bsky.social · 02/10/2026

Families sometimes unconsciously assign one person the role of “the problem.” Conflict, dysfunction, resentment, or uncomfortable family history gets organized around that person. Once the role is established, ordinary mistakes can be interpreted as evidence that the person is fundamentally flawed.

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Jason 🌈🏳️‍🌈 @jjemcdonald.bsky.social · 02/10/2026

The group chat is stone silent this morning lol. There must be another, more-secret chat happening 😂

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Jason 🌈🏳️‍🌈 @jjemcdonald.bsky.social · 01/10/2026

Refusal to accept disrespect does not make you the villain.

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Jason 🌈🏳️‍🌈 @jjemcdonald.bsky.social · 01/10/2026

In dysfunctional dynamics there is an emphasis on role assignments. Everyone is pigeon-holed into specific roles in order to allow for control and power to be maintained. If and when someone in the group dynamic acts or speaks outside of their assigned role, isolation and punishment are utilized.

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Jason 🌈🏳️‍🌈 @jjemcdonald.bsky.social · 01/10/2026

unhealthy dynamics, such as scapegoating or favoritism

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Jason 🌈🏳️‍🌈 @jjemcdonald.bsky.social · 01/10/2026

It's shocking how much people ostracize you when discussing your rape. So weird.

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Jason 🌈🏳️‍🌈 @jjemcdonald.bsky.social · 01/10/2026

You can not live your life at the whims and follies and moods and expectations of someone else. Just live your life, do your thing, and don't worry about how people feel about that. Honor yourself.

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Jason 🌈🏳️‍🌈 @jjemcdonald.bsky.social · 01/10/2026

Good morning, beautiful souls. ☀️ Follow what brings you alive today. Joy knows the way. ✨🦋

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Jason 🌈🏳️‍🌈 @jjemcdonald.bsky.social · 01/10/2026

Always ask yourself "who benefits from this behavior?"

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Jason 🌈🏳️‍🌈 @jjemcdonald.bsky.social · 01/10/2026

Ok off to bed I go. Tomorrow is another very very long day. The carousel never stops.

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Jason 🌈🏳️‍🌈 @jjemcdonald.bsky.social · 01/10/2026

So I switched from the Pixel to a Galaxy Ultra 26 and am still getting used to the layout and the slightly different ways to do things.

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Jason 🌈🏳️‍🌈 @jjemcdonald.bsky.social · 01/10/2026

When he was doing it he whispered in my ear "watching you bleed so much really turns me on". I have been watching this Cornell rape case very closely, because this exact scenario is one I found myself in (well, minus the group sex) on November 29, 2025...the day I was raped.

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Jason 🌈🏳️‍🌈 @jjemcdonald.bsky.social · 30/09/2026

Your daughter is 10000000x safer with drag queens than with frat boys btw

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Jason 🌈🏳️‍🌈 @jjemcdonald.bsky.social · 30/09/2026

The goal isn’t a life without storms. The goal is to become someone who can still notice wildflowers after the rain. Choose joy whenever it visits. It is never a betrayal of your struggles. 🦋

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