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Jeanie B

@jgbarry.bsky.social
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A Transwomen 🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈 trying to carve out a place at narrativecuriosity.co. I am a Teacher, poet, philosopher and novelist speaking my mind. linktr.ee/narrativecuriosity

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Jeanie B @jgbarry.bsky.social · 31/08/2026
Learning more about myself: accepting an ASD diagnosis. My recent autism diagnosis has left me reflecting on past struggles and re-evaluating life experiences. Once again I'm confronting some past feelings of… narrativecuriosity.co/learning-more…
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Learning more about myself: accepting an ASD diagnosis.
My recent autism diagnosis has left me reflecting on past struggles and re-evaluating life experiences. Once again I'm confronting some past feelings of shame and resentment. Finally, recognizing the toll of trying to fit in. Moving forward, I'm focusing on self-acceptance, prioritizing my well-being, and adjusting to new personal insights.
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Jeanie B @jgbarry.bsky.social · 29/07/2026
It seems bad things really do happen in threes The past month has been challenging struggles at work, a breakup, and car troubles all with in a few weeks. It's left me overwhelmed and unsure of my future. Despite this I'm trying hard to look after myself and take small steps....
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It seems bad things really do happen in threes
The past month has been challenging struggles at work, a breakup, and car troubles all with in a few weeks. It's left me overwhelmed and unsure of my future. Despite this I'm trying hard to look after myself and take small steps.
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Jeanie B @jgbarry.bsky.social · 01/07/2026
Latest from Down under: I’ve seen this somewhere before… The recent political landscape in Australia reveals a growing hostility towards trans rights, mirroring trends in the US and UK....
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Latest from Down under: I’ve seen this somewhere before…
The recent political landscape in Australia reveals a growing hostility towards trans rights, mirroring trends in the US and UK.
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Jeanie B @jgbarry.bsky.social · 26/04/2026
This month marks 4 years since I came out and started my transition. It has been a challenging road with some big changes and a few delays but I have reached a point where I am pretty comfortable in my own skin. #trans #Transgender #tgirl #transglowup #mtf #lgbt www.instagram.com/reel/DXk79k1...
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Jeanette Barry on Instagram: "4 years since coming out... so here is a snap shot o of how far I've come. Looking back it is hard to believe how much progress I've made and the changes along the way....
4 likes, 0 comments - jeanieb_nc on April 25, 2026: "4 years since coming out... so here is a snap shot o of how far I've come. Looking back it is hard to believe how much progress I've made and the...
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Jeanie B @jgbarry.bsky.social · 18/04/2026
It's been a while since I have posted anything and that's because 2026 has been full of significant stress and work place challenges. It's left me feeling very burnt out and questioning a few things. #burntout #stuggling #trans #transgender #Neurodiversity #parenting
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Dealing with being overloaded and burnt out
2026 has been full of significant stress stemming from work instability and personal challenges, including my son's ASD diagnosis. The lengthy and costly process of seeking support has been frustrating. It's also left me reassessing my own potential neurodiversity, to seek understanding and strategies to navigate their circumstances and support my son effectively.
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Jeanie B @jgbarry.bsky.social · 04/02/2026
Pride Marches are different to other community events. The history, the crowds on the side of the road, it all makes it special. To me it also means reaching a clear point where I am no longer ashamed of my identity, where I am proud… narrativecuriosity.co/a-march-for-s…
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Jeanie B @jgbarry.bsky.social · 31/01/2026
My 2026 contribution to The Pearl Prize all about owning ones identity and reclaiming language. An empowering story about a #Femboy fighting expectations and being uniquely true to himself. Available for all free subscribers to my blog alongside last year's story. #LGBT #LGBTstories #LGBTwriters
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A different kind of boy
My 2026 contribution to The Pearl Prize anthology all about owning ones identity and reclaiming language. An empowering story about a Femboy fighting expectations and being uniquely true to himself.
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Jeanie B @jgbarry.bsky.social · 26/01/2026
Great bite sized horror reads from Cassandra Khaw My continued exploration of horror has lead me to Cassandra Khaw's two novellas. A pair of great reads that are quite different but equally worth exploring.
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Great bite sized horror reads from Cassandra Khaw
My continued exploration of horror has lead me to Cassandra Khaw's two novellas. A pair of great reads that are quite different but equally worth exploring.
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Jeanie B @jgbarry.bsky.social · 22/01/2026
The past year has been fun as I have found my style and embraced my expression. However, in 2026 I need to get a bit more stability especially if I am going to continue to progress in my transition journey and grow my… narrativecuriosity.co/2026-is-going…
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Jeanie B @jgbarry.bsky.social · 10/01/2026
A little snapshot of my trip to NZ for New Years. It may have been a quick visit, but it was still full of plenty of new memories and new experiences. #trans #tgirl #transjoy #transisbeautiful #travel #newzealand #newzealandtravel #nztravel #transgendertravel vt.tiktok.com/ZS5VnTRAD/
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Jeanie B @jgbarry.bsky.social · 10/01/2026
Getting back from New Zealand I have been reflecting on how much has changed since my last overseas trip which helped me have such a more positive experience. #Trans #Transjoy #Tgirl #Transjourney #Translife #Transgendertravel
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A much better travelling experience
After getting back from NZ I have been reflecting a little on my last experience while traveling to Bali. In Bali, I was constrained and faced ongoing misgendering, affecting my enjoyment. In contrast, my New Zealand trip, after starting HRT and gaining confidence, allowed for authentic self-expression and with support from my boyfriend, a more consistent and enjoyable experience.
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Jeanie B @jgbarry.bsky.social · 29/12/2025
The last couple of months in Aus have been filled with division and dangerous right - wing populism. There have been a few small wins but with attacks on trans kids spreading to New Zealand and the NT it's all a bit bleak to end the year. #Transrights #LGBTQIA #Auspol #Australia #ProtectTranskids
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Latest from down under: A deepening divide
The last couple of months in Australia have been filled with division and dangerous right - wing populism. There have been a few small wins but with anti immigration rhetoric reaching new heights and attacks on trans kids spreading to New Zealand and the NT it's all a bit bleak to end the year.
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Jeanie B @jgbarry.bsky.social · 28/12/2025
On the 19th of December the QLD government extended their pause on blockers and GAHT for trans youth despite the contradictory advice of their own independent review. Clearly they are acting on ideology and not the public interest. #trans #transrights #protecttranskids #transkids #auspol #lgb
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Dear Queensland your conservative ideology is showing now more than ever.
In Queensland, a conservative government paused puberty blockers and gender-affirming care for new patients, facing criticism for prioritizing ideology over evidence. An independent review acknowledged limited evidence on treatments but highlighted potential benefits for mental health. Despite the advice for improved access, the government extended the ban, impacting vulnerable youth.
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Jeanie B @jgbarry.bsky.social · 27/12/2025
Trying something new to get back into reading I turned to some trans horror in Grace Byron's Herculine. An entertaining read that blends elements of trans experience with the supernatural for a captivating story. Read my extended take. #Trans #transhorror #horror #goodreads #bookrecommendation
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Any commune can hold dark secrets: Herculine review
In "Herculine" by Grace Byron, the unnamed narrator navigates life in New York, struggling with personal trauma and the challenges of trans identity. Seeking a fresh start at a commune, she confronts deeper issues of manipulation and supernatural threats. The novel blends supernatural horror with poignant themes, reflecting elements of trans experiences in an engaging read.
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Jeanie B @jgbarry.bsky.social · 20/12/2025
Trying something new, some temporary colour before taking the plunge and dye my hair. I'm still undecided. #trans #tgirl #transstyle #mtf #mtftransgender #transwoman #hairstyles #haircoloring
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Jeanie B @jgbarry.bsky.social · 18/12/2025
We are all hurting in Australia. Most of us still trying to wrap our heads a round the tragic events last Sunday. In part writing this was my way of trying to understand while hoping to help others. #Bondi #Australia #bondiattack #Auspol
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Latest from down under: Tragedy in Bondi
Our nation is hurting after the tragic events at Bondi as we deal with the worst mass shooting we have seen since Port Arthur. The government is clear in it's response with tighter gun laws on the way but the on going impact on our communities is far from clear. Meanwhile there are people trying to use this tragedy for their own ends. So here is where it all stands.
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Jeanie B @jgbarry.bsky.social · 04/12/2025
I am very humbled & proud to announce that once again, I have been short-listed for The Pearl Prize as part of Melbourne's Midsumma festival. It means a lot to be included alongside other LGBTQIA writers and explore Queer experience. #trans #lgbtqia #writing #lgbtqiawriters #lgbtqiastories
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Jeanie B @jgbarry.bsky.social · 30/11/2025
Starting a new relationship is terrifying and as a transwoman it really can be a leap of faith. However, a year on I have defiantly found a new source of joy and support which has me looking to the future. #trans #tramsfem #transjourney #relationships #dating #mtf #transgender #transwoman
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Finding joy in something different: Starting a new relationship.
Starting a new relationship as a transwoman in my 30s has been a transformative experience in many ways. It has given me a greater appreciation for the importance of emotional support and acceptance. The positive dynamics have helped foster some personal growth, shared interests, and flexibility, ultimately providing a sense of peace and optimism for the future.
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Jeanie B @jgbarry.bsky.social · 21/11/2025
Starting to finally like my body. Two years on HRT and I have reached an important milestone, I am fairly comfortable with my body. It's feminine and is finally feeling right when I look in the mirror. My journey is far from complete, but reaching this point dispell's some old fears and fills me…
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Starting to finally like my body.
Two years on HRT and I have reached an important milestone, I am fairly comfortable with my body. It's feminine and is finally feeling right when I look in the mirror. My journey is far from complete, but reaching this point dispell's some old fears and fills me with joy.
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Jeanie B @jgbarry.bsky.social · 16/11/2025
I've been sick all weekend, but nothing short of being bedridden was going to stop me from seeing AC/DC. Dosed up on meds, I managed to get to the MCG for some high voltage rock. So worth it. My highlight was 'Jailbreak', which they haven't played live since 1991. #rockchick #melbourne #acdc
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Jeanie B @jgbarry.bsky.social · 16/11/2025
Wearing a new outfit has become a new kind of fun this year that has brought me a lot of joy. It gives me real confidence and makes me glow all day. It's hard to believe I used to wear boring male clothes every day. #trans #transjoy #Transisbeautiful #transwoman #tgirl #mtf #newdress #transfem
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Jeanie B @jgbarry.bsky.social · 01/11/2025
There is nothing like a new dress to make me smile and feel good about myself, especially when I look this good. #trans #transjoy #transisbeautiful #mtf #mtftransgender #tgirl #transfem #transwoman #transstyle #newdress
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PAX Aus @paxaus.bsky.social · 16/09/2025
🎤⬆️ Testing... testing... Nintendo, XBOX, The Sims, Gearbox, Cult of the Lamb: Woolhaven, Rainbow 6 Siege X, Bethesda, Red Bull and Crunchyroll are headed to PAX Aus 2025! 🎤⬇️ Mic Drop! After more deets? We got you! Here is the URL we prepared earlier! 👉 aus.paxsite.com/en-us/info/n...
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Jeanie B @jgbarry.bsky.social · 06/10/2025
It's surprising at times what helps affirm our identity and triggers a little hit of euphoria. It's just a simple T-shirt, nothing really that different from what I wore as a guy. It is something similar but different. A symbol of continuity and change. #trans #transisbeautiful #transjoy #tgirl
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Jeanie B @jgbarry.bsky.social · 05/10/2025
Caught up with my parents this week, my dad made me laugh in a weirdly affirming way. He was a little concerned that I was going goth. I was not wearing any black, so it was just bizarre, but I also loved that we are at the stage. #trans #transjoy #transisbeautiful #lgbtqia #tgirl #transfem #mtf
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Jeanie B @jgbarry.bsky.social · 18/09/2025
It's bisexual awareness week, and I have been holding on to this since pride month and the explosion of Bi Erasure that was visible with Jojo Siwa and Billie Eilish. However, they are just the visible tip of a larger issue. #bisexual #BiAwarenessWeek #LGBTQIA narrativecuriosity.co/bisexual-era...
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Bisexual Erasure on ongoing issue within the LGBTQIA community -
The post discusses the persistent issue of bisexual erasure within the LGBTQIA community, highlighting the marginalization faced by bisexual and pansexual individuals due to binary thinking and societ...
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Jeanie B @jgbarry.bsky.social · 13/09/2025
Chasing some Trans Joy yesterday to end a challenging week on a high. I love everything about this look! #trans #transstyle #transisbeautiful #transjoy #mtf #tgirl #transfem
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Jeanie B @jgbarry.bsky.social · 11/09/2025
Hate is everywhere at the moment, and for trans people, it is sadly a fact of life. Even in supportive environments like Australia, it is part of our experience. #trans #transrights #TransRightsAreHumanRights #lgbtqia #allyship #transphobia narrativecuriosity.co/the-sad-real...
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The sad reality of trans experience and being hated. -
Hate is everywhere at the moment, and for trans people, it is sadly a fact of life. Even in supportive environments like Australia, it is part of our experience. It means that we regularly have to fin...
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Jeanie B @jgbarry.bsky.social · 06/09/2025
I used to go to concerts and envy all the girls in hot outfits. So... I became one, unleashing my inner attitude and some of those punk rock roots, I've learned to dress with a bit of an edge. #trans #transisbeautiful #transstyle #transjoy #rockchick #tgirl www.instagram.com/p/DOPTBK8kkP...
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Jeanie B @jgbarry.bsky.social · 02/09/2025
I started a new insta so it doesn't have my ex-wife scrutinising everything or family who message me about stories they find insulting while ignoring everything else. So I am posting with a bit more freedom. #trans #transisbeautiful #transjourney #transgender #mtf www.instagram.com/curiousjeani...
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Jeanie B @jgbarry.bsky.social · 29/08/2025
Wear it purple day calls on the community to show support for LGBTQIA youth. We have come a long way since I was at school, but recent events surrounding the AFL highlight the need for progress. #lgbtqia #Australia #transkidsmatter #pride #wearitpurpleday narrativecuriosity.co/days-like-th...
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Days like this matter to the most vulnerable people -
Wear it purple day, and others that call on the community to show support for LGBTQIA youth are important if we are going to continue to change culture. We have come a long way since I was at school, ...
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Jeanie B @jgbarry.bsky.social · 28/08/2025
Currently, as I am working on my latest story and trying hard to make the word count, I thought it was the perfect time to reflect on a couple of the challenges of writing for competitions. #writing #shortstories #writingprocess #WritingWorkshop #writingtips narrativecuriosity.co/making-the-w...
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Making the word count; the challenge of writing for competitions -
Currently, as I am working on my latest story and trying hard to make the word count, I thought it was the perfect time to reflect on a couple of the challenges of writing for competitions.
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Jeanie B @jgbarry.bsky.social · 26/08/2025
Matching eye-liner. Why not. Just because it's a work day, I don't have to be boring. #trans #tgirl #transfem #transwoman #transgender ##mtf #transstyle #transmakeup #makeup #eyemakeup #eyeliner
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Jeanie B @jgbarry.bsky.social · 19/08/2025
I know it is unlikely to do much good, but as a Lego fan that spend hundreds of dollars each year, I really wish they would stop their association with HP. At least I feel a little better for signing this petition. #transrights #TransRightsAreHumanRights #lgbtqia #pride chng.it/5LHz6f9VpZ
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Join the fight to end LEGO's relationship with JK Rowling and the Harry Potter franchise!
35 signatures are needed, let’s get there by the end of the day?
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Jeanie B @jgbarry.bsky.social · 01/08/2025
I really love a nice blue dress, and while I don't wear form-fitting stuff often, I feel like this is a good exception. #trans #transwoman #tgirl #nails💅 #transfem #mtf #transstyle #transjoy #transisbeautiful
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Jeanie B @jgbarry.bsky.social · 25/07/2025
It's been a tough 3 weeks filled with cancelled plans, non starters, and trying to organise things all while coping with some challenging circumstances. Normally, it wouldn't register, but things are compounding, so I found myself spiriling today. #poem #poetry narrativecuriosity.co/lines-compos...
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Lines composed out of frustration and depression -
The writer reflects on the loneliness of always being the organizer in social situations, feeling dejected when friends and family do not reciprocate. Despite the desire for connection and spontaneity...
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Jeanie B @jgbarry.bsky.social · 17/07/2025
A long day today deserved a nice stout with a good friend. Cheers. #trans #transjoy #beerlover #beer #stoutthursday #thursdaynight
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Jeanie B @jgbarry.bsky.social · 17/07/2025
One of the biggest parts of transitioning is finding out about yourself and learning new things. Experimenting and playing around with things can be so much fun, so here are some tips and personal experiences to get people started. #trans #transgender #mtf narrativecuriosity.co/the-ongoing-...
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The ongoing fun and growth of experimenting - Narrative Curiosity
Transition is a marathon, not a sprint, and this means that we are almost always learning. It's not all about introspection, and so much of this journey can be a lot of fun. Especially in the case of ...
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Jeanie B @jgbarry.bsky.social · 13/07/2025
My son and I adopted a new cat. Little Rex is a very adventurous and playful 1 year old who has adjusted amazingly quickly to his new home and found a favourite spot on the stairs. Welcome to the family little guy. #cat #catsofbluesky #pets #cats #catlover
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Jeanie B @jgbarry.bsky.social · 12/07/2025
After my Saturday night plans got derailed, I needed a little comfort. At least I had my Blahaj, Brody. #trans #mtf #Blahaj
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Jeanie B @jgbarry.bsky.social · 11/07/2025
One of the great things about spending some quality one on one time with my son is the opportunity to be a bit playful. This time, we enjoyed a nice winter's night out at Adventure Park. #trans #transjoy #transisbeautiful #parenting #holidayfun #transparent
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Jeanie B @jgbarry.bsky.social · 09/07/2025
The last few days, I have been playing around a bit with my hair care routine. A little leave-in conditioner and plopped have really helped bring out my curls. #trans #mtf #hairstyles #haircare #transwoman #transjoy
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Jeanie B @jgbarry.bsky.social · 03/07/2025
The last few weeks have been hard as I have had to see my ex more regularly. Each interaction has me frustrated & constantly thinking about her. This poem is me trying to express things and get out of my head. #relationships #breakup #seperation #poem #poetry narrativecuriosity.co/lines-compos...
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Lines composed to free my mind from the haunting shadows of things past - Narrative Curiosity
Struggle at the moment with lingering emotions after a long-term relationship while attempting to co-parent with my Ex. Weekly interactions reignite some complex feelings, leading to self-reflection a...
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Jeanie B @jgbarry.bsky.social · 03/07/2025
It's hard to beat a nice flowy dress. #trans #transjoy #transisbeautiful #transstyle #mtf
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Jeanie B @jgbarry.bsky.social · 01/07/2025
A little bit of the preppy look for work today. #trans #transwoman #transisbeautiful #transjoy #mtf
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Jeanie B @jgbarry.bsky.social · 26/06/2025
After seeing some concerning posts after the supreme court discission regarding terminology I felt driven to talk about gatekeeping in our community and the harm it does to vulnerable people. #Trans #Transrights #LGBTQIA #Transcommunity #TransExperience #gatekeeping #Transjourney #Pride
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The ultimate kick in the guts: Time to ditch the gatekeeping
Despite the positive interactions within the LGBTQIA community, rejection from within can be deeply painful. It's why gatekeeping can leave people completly crushed. We need to recognise the possible harm and continue to spread inclusivity and reject divisive views, particularly regarding the medicalization and identity of Trans individuals.
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Jeanie B @jgbarry.bsky.social · 11/06/2025
As a teacher, I get a yearly school photo and have found they are a good marker of my journey. Top left 2018: 4 yrs before coming out Top right 2023: 9 out but still boymoding at work Bottom left 2024: new job completely out & 2mths hrt Bottom right 2025: 1.2 yrs hrt & I like what I see. #trans
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Jeanie B @jgbarry.bsky.social · 07/06/2025
New dress and boots to celebrate 7 months together. I do love getting a chance to dress up a bit. #trans #transisbeautiful #transjoy #newdress #mtf #relationship
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Jeanie B @jgbarry.bsky.social · 28/05/2025
Deciding to date was a terrifying decision but a necessary step in rebuilding my life. Filled with nerves and being overly cautious, I found myself exploring the online #LGBTQIA dating scene. Thankfully, it has worked out. #Trans #Transjourney #dating #LGBT narrativecuriosity.co/venturing-in...
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Venturing in the scary unknown: Deciding to enter the dating game - Narrative Curiosity
At 35, I found myself a bisexual trans woman looking for a new start after my marraige. Breaking free of my lonelyness and misery I decided to venture into the online dating game. Excerising plenty of...
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Jeanie B @jgbarry.bsky.social · 22/05/2025
My latest YouTube video looks at the challenge and important step of finding our new name. A bit of advice as well as an opportunity to tell a bit more of my story. #trans #transjourney #transition #Transgender #names #identity #lgbtqia youtu.be/PaVN85qfTfE
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Finding A Name
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