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@jenduende.bsky.social
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Senior editor, The Atlantic. New York Times + Washington Post alum. 2012-13 Nieman fellow. Occasional writer, always a dancer.

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jenduende @jenduende.bsky.social · 17/09/2026
"The country’s parents need comprehensive reform, not this kind of regressive, zero-sum nanny-statism." @annielowrey.bsky.social nails it. www.theatlantic.com/ideas/2026/0...
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A Plan to Pay Married Mothers Not to Work
And make single moms pay for it.
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jenduende @jenduende.bsky.social · 14/09/2026
Governments trying to offer universal care typically run up against “a stubborn and formidable obstacle: babies.” @kendrahurley.bsky.social explains why paying people to keep their babies home could result in better child-care access for all—and happier parents: www.theatlantic.com/family/2026/...
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The Biggest Obstacle to Universal Child Care: Babies
Infant care is incredibly expensive to provide. But one solution could reduce the burden on both states and parents.
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jenduende @jenduende.bsky.social · 31/08/2026
"What one gathers from these misreadings is not so much that science fiction itself is nefarious, but that arrested development might be": @galbeckerman.bsky.social on the new Jill Lepore book and the teen-boy mind-set driving the takeover of ... everything: www.theatlantic.com/books/2026/0...
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We Are Living in the Fantasy World of 13-Year-Old Boys
Many of the tech billionaires who built our world have taken the wrong lessons from their favorite science fiction.
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jenduende @jenduende.bsky.social · 06/08/2026
Let the kids sent away to summer camp really be *away*, Russell Shaw argues: www.theatlantic.com/family/2026/...
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The New Parent Trap
At summer camp, the kids may be far from home, but technology is keeping many moms and dads tethered to them—and anxious.
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jenduende @jenduende.bsky.social · 04/08/2026
“Like the ‘moral good’ rhetoric, which assumes that having more babies is all upside, the ‘gift’ rhetoric ignores the fact that having one child may simply be the best decision for many families—including for solo children,” @amandaruggeri.bsky.social argues: www.theatlantic.com/family/2026/...
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Stop Calling Siblings ‘Gifts’
The term assumes that adding a child to a family is for the best. But that’s not always the case.
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jenduende @jenduende.bsky.social · 29/07/2026
“It’s hard for me to not believe that, like, we’re not priming these kids to just dump their money into FanDuel the second they have a checking account,” one parent told Connie Chang. She writes @theatlantic.com about the games cultivating compulsive behavior: www.theatlantic.com/family/2026/...
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Why Kids Can’t Quit Roblox
The mechanics of many games on the platform are nearly identical to those of slot machines and sports-betting apps.
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jenduende @jenduende.bsky.social · 29/07/2026
Ads preying on women’s insecurities are “designed to turn women against themselves,” @adamserwer.bsky.social writes. Manosphere content differs b/c it pressures men to “validate their manhood by harming others”—and has been adopted by Republicans as a policy plan. www.theatlantic.com/ideas/2026/0...
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The Masculinity Scam
The manosphere’s campaign strategy
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jenduende @jenduende.bsky.social · 25/06/2026
“...the little engine that could—only with wise eyes and a shiny snout and a tongue that is, it must be said, exceptionally tongue-y”: I had no idea what this was until yesterday and now, like Megan Garber and others @theatlantic.com, am smitten. www.theatlantic.com/culture/2026...
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Pant-Pant, Choo-Choo
Train Dog is the meme of the summer.
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jenduende @jenduende.bsky.social · 25/05/2026
James Magnussen "was impossible to look away from, his head balanced atop a bulging neck, traps spilling out like over-risen sourdough from his bronze swimsuit": The inimitable @elcush.bsky.social has thoughts about the Enhanced Games. www.theatlantic.com/culture/2026...
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The Sporting Event Where Doping Was the Star
Athletes at the Enhanced Games were bigger—but not exactly better.
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jenduende @jenduende.bsky.social · 16/05/2026
When @namimun.bsky.social told me this story, I said to her: You have to write it. An @theatlantic.com colleague who read this resulting essay said: It will save lives. Let’s hope so. www.theatlantic.com/family/2026/...
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American Women, Please Learn From What I Went Through
Some 21,000 of you will be diagnosed this year with ovarian cancer. Here’s what I wish I had known.
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jenduende @jenduende.bsky.social · 14/05/2026
Get your hot summer reading recs here! My choice was an oldie but a goodie: Azar Nafisi's "Reading Lolita in Tehran," a page-turner about literature—and one that feels timely for ... reasons. (h/t @emmasarappo.bsky.social for stage-directing this great project) www.theatlantic.com/books/2026/0...
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25 Sensational Books to Read This Summer
The Atlantic’s writers and editors have chosen fiction and nonfiction to match all sorts of moods.
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jenduende @jenduende.bsky.social · 21/04/2026
"People navigate the world with brains meant to protect them from the fanged beasts of the savanna. Now our predators stalk us with their phones": Read an adapted excerpt of Megan Garber's SCREEN PEOPLE—in bookstores today!—at @theatlantic.com www.theatlantic.com/culture/2026...
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The New Age of Performance Anxiety
With the rise of screen culture, all the world has stage fright.
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jenduende @jenduende.bsky.social · 08/04/2026
They're studs, and not just because they look good during space showers. As @sallyjenx.bsky.social writes, these are "people of accomplishment bringing expertise—not bravado—to difficult problems." Such a refreshing departure... www.theatlantic.com/culture/2026...
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The Artemis Astronauts Are Studs
Strength, courage, expertise, wonder: NASA’s moon-mission crew has reset the bar for greatness.
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jenduende @jenduende.bsky.social · 06/04/2026
Terrorized by the men in their lives, then terrorized by the state—a harrowing piece by @rosesheinerman.bsky.social. I keep hoping to wake up one day and not feel sick to my stomach, but no. www.theatlantic.com/politics/202...
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She Testified About Being Raped. Then ICE Showed Up.
Immigration officers are making arrests in sensitive locations, including family court.
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jenduende @jenduende.bsky.social · 25/03/2026
Americans have long used the “liberation” of Muslim women as justification for warfare and occupation. But “nothing about war” supports the efforts that actually lead to women’s safety and freedom. Meher Ahmad, sobering and true, in @nytopinion.nytimes.com: www.nytimes.com/2026/03/25/o...
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Opinion | ‘The First Losers in All of This Were Women’
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jenduende @jenduende.bsky.social · 21/03/2026
“A man,” a renowned Dutch gynecologist wrote 100 years ago—in a sometimes surprisingly spicy text—“must know how to make love.” But his book also promoted disturbing beliefs with “unsettling echoes in the present,” Anna Holmes writes @theatlantic.com: www.theatlantic.com/family/2026/...
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What a Century-Old Sex Manual Got Right
And very wrong
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jenduende @jenduende.bsky.social · 17/03/2026
"Men simply do not call each other on their shit." If only more of them would, how powerful that would be. @katemanne.bsky.social nailing it again. katemanne.substack.com/p/one-weird-...
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One Weird Trick for Being a Better Man
When a man is with other men, why does he lose his moral compass so reliably?
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jenduende @jenduende.bsky.social · 11/03/2026
Tickled to make my first on-page cameo in an @theatlantic.com story—a delightful, relatable confession by the hype-averse Anna Holmes: @annahttps://www.theatlantic.com/culture/2026/03/pop-culture-hype-aversion/686312/
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How Did I Become So Averse to Hype?
“The Pitt,” “Severance,” “Sinners,” you name it: For some reason, the more popular something is, the more likely I am to resist it.
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jenduende @jenduende.bsky.social · 04/03/2026
You might see a “career-ambition gap,” “museum-appreciation gap,” “anxiety gap,” or just about any other “gap” in a relationship—but what are these labels *really* saying? @faith-hill.bsky.social @theatlantic.com has a sharp take: www.theatlantic.com/family/2026/...
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The Tyranny of the Relationship Gap
Age gaps, swag gaps, woke gaps—where does it end?
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jenduende @jenduende.bsky.social · 04/03/2026
Co-sign @katemanne.bsky.social. katemanne.substack.com/p/if-we-care...
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If We Cared About Girls
The world would be unimaginably different
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jenduende @jenduende.bsky.social · 27/02/2026
"Misogyny rarely announces itself openly; instead, it very often emerges through small slights and insults": I'm not watching this show but I *am* here for this smart critique from Megan Garber @theatlantic.com: www.theatlantic.com/culture/2026...
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Love Is Blindsided
On Netflix’s hit dating show, the villain edit is out; the villain twist is in.
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jenduende @jenduende.bsky.social · 23/02/2026
In which @faith-hill.bsky.social @theatlantic.com says the quiet part out loud: "That this fact has been obscured—that women themselves have been obscured in this conversation—says a lot about who gets prioritized in American culture." www.theatlantic.com/family/2026/...
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Gen Z Women Are Having an Identity Crisis
They may be struggling even more than young men.
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jenduende @jenduende.bsky.social · 04/02/2026
"I was there. I was there. I was there. We were there." // That's the part where the lump came into my throat and wouldn't leave. A heartfelt, devastating portrait by @ashleyrparker.bsky.social @theatlantic.com www.theatlantic.com/politics/202...
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The Murder of The Washington Post
Today’s layoffs are the latest attempt to kill what makes the paper special.
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jenduende @jenduende.bsky.social · 05/01/2026
Moral of the story from @galuten.bsky.social: We could all probably use a bit more Gene Kelly... www.theatlantic.com/family/2026/...
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The Gene Kelly School of Life
I thought I was okay, until I started watching musicals with my daughter—and couldn’t stop crying.
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jenduende @jenduende.bsky.social · 17/12/2025
"This is, admittedly, not a terribly sexy topic," Stephanie H. Murray writes, but it is an intriguing one: She dives into some striking data showing how commutes affect women's employment and earnings, especially after they have kids—and thus the gender wage gap. www.theatlantic.com/family/2025/...
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‘Commuting Is Bad’—Particularly for Women
A growing body of research shows how longer travel times affect moms’ ability to work.
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jenduende @jenduende.bsky.social · 15/12/2025
"The reality is that we’re all on the 'dead people' beat now." Devastating and true, from @juliettekayyem.bsky.social. www.theatlantic.com/ideas/2025/1...
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Why the Brown Shooting Felt Different
I’m used to responding to sudden tragedies, but not ones this personal.
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jenduende @jenduende.bsky.social · 12/12/2025
“Instead of learning the textbook definitions of psychological disorders,” @olgakhazan.bsky.social writes, “laypeople are absorbing the oversimplified versions, then diagnosing their spouse.” Might this sound familiar? Then you need to read this good piece: www.theatlantic.com/family/2025/...
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Why Couples Therapists Are Sick of ‘Therapy-Speak’
What happens when spouses accuse each other of gaslighting? Nothing good.
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jenduende @jenduende.bsky.social · 11/12/2025
“An employer whose new hire ghosts before onboarding is inconvenienced; an applicant who’s ghosted by prospective employers over and over again can end up sleeping in their car.” Sharp analysis of the “job ghosting” phenomenon by Franklin Schneider: www.theatlantic.com/culture/2025...
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When Did the Job Market Get So Rude?
Employer ghosting is on the rise. Now candidates are punching back.
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jenduende @jenduende.bsky.social · 25/11/2025
Some sprout recipes "involve individually pulling all the layers of leaves off each one, which sounds like some kind of boarding-school detention." Now seriously second-guessing my Thanksgiving choices thanks to this delightful piece by @giladedelman.bsky.social. www.theatlantic.com/ideas/2025/1...
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Enough With the Brussels Sprouts Already
Cabbage is the better Thanksgiving option.
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jenduende @jenduende.bsky.social · 20/11/2025
Bless @sophiegilbert.bsky.social @theatlantic.com: "The past decade has been a gloomy lesson in how limited a proportion of men actually see women as equal human beings...The fish rots from the head. The pig is in the Oval Office." www.theatlantic.com/culture/2025...
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The Pig Is in the White House
This is what consequence-free misogyny looks like.
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jenduende @jenduende.bsky.social · 18/11/2025
“The assumption behind Cluely is that letting an AI pull a Cyrano yields better interactions than relying on your own brain,” @julieebeck.bsky.social writes. Her verdict after testing it: It's horribly inefficient—and could in fact harm your relationships. www.theatlantic.com/family/2025/...
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How to Cheat at Conversation
A new AI tool promises to improve social interactions but instead makes them worse.
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jenduende @jenduende.bsky.social · 18/11/2025
Now you, too, can count down to Christmas, @elcush.bsky.social writes, by unboxing: tea, designer lipstick, wine, weed, chili crisp, cheese, knives, crystals...toys for children, toys for cats, toys for dogs, toys for sex (or a daily thong). www.theatlantic.com/culture/2025...
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Advent Calendars Are Totally Out of Control
What began as a form of religious expression has morphed into a brand-a-palooza.
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jenduende @jenduende.bsky.social · 13/11/2025
“Without exposure to the normal variety of bodies, we may become less comfortable with our own.” A fun, fascinating @theatlantic.com piece by Jacob Beckert on the decline of mundane, everyday opportunities to get naked together: www.theatlantic.com/family/2025/...
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The End of Naked Locker Rooms
What we lose when casual nudity disappears
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jenduende @jenduende.bsky.social · 05/11/2025
"The political reality in 2025 is that our government is as stereotypically masculine as a dick-measuring contest in a weight room": @sophiegilbert.bsky.social @theatlantic.com wades into the "great feminization" debate and it is 🔥🔥🔥: www.theatlantic.com/culture/2025...
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No, Women Aren’t the Problem
America is rapidly becoming the manosphere, but, sure, let’s go after the “feminization” of culture.
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jenduende @jenduende.bsky.social · 04/11/2025
Some beautiful advice from James Parker @theatlantic.com as he wraps up his “Dear James” column: “If we can stay connected to the miraculous and fleeting fact of being here at all, we’ll have at least a chance of being—eventually—okay.” www.theatlantic.com/culture/2025...
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Dear James: So Long, Farewell
A reader keeps having to leave unsupportive support groups. And James Parker says goodbye to his column.
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jenduende @jenduende.bsky.social · 03/11/2025
"College is, among other things, an exercise in independence": I recommend this piece to any parents of rising freshmen who might be experiencing "an inability to let go, to allow children the gift of separation," as Russell Shaw writes: www.theatlantic.com/family/2025/...
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When Helicopter Parents Touch Down—At College
Hovering moms and dads are following their kids all the way to campus.
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jenduende @jenduende.bsky.social · 27/10/2025
Leni Riefenstahl’s 1938 film on the Berlin Olympics is dull in the way porn is, @sallyjenx.bsky.social writes: It has an obsession with "perfect" bodies; "monotony; repetitive floggings.” But a riveting new doc offers a better way to decipher her work—and Nazism: www.theatlantic.com/culture/2025...
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What Leni Riefenstahl’s Work Reveals About Fascism
The director’s collaborations with the Nazi government translated Hitler’s ideas to film, almost verbatim.
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jenduende @jenduende.bsky.social · 27/10/2025
"Convenience is like sex: Once you’ve had it, it’s hard to forget how good it is to have it," @elcush.bsky.social writes. So it has gone with restaurants and delivery—and the results are...not great.
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How Delivery Destroyed American Restaurants
We’ve become a nation of order-inners. Eating will never be the same.
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jenduende @jenduende.bsky.social · 24/10/2025
"How nice to read about a heist rather than a massacre"—especially when the article about that heist is by @caity.bsky.social: www.theatlantic.com/ideas/archiv...
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The Louvre Heist Is Terrific
Here was a dreamy little crime in which no one really got hurt.
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jenduende @jenduende.bsky.social · 21/10/2025
Many people have claimed that wealthy moms are "the most miserable and stressed." But Stephanie H. Murray, after a deep dive into the research on parental well-being, finds that in many instances, the opposite is true: www.theatlantic.com/family/2025/...
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The Rich-Mom, Poor-Mom Happiness Fallacy
Where commentary on parental satisfaction goes wrong
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jenduende @jenduende.bsky.social · 11/10/2025
Such a moving, powerful essay by Reem Kassis: "My grief from witnessing what has been done to my people is so vast, so relentless, that sadness over my grandmother’s death feels like something too indulgent. I am heartbroken, and I am ashamed of that heartbreak." www.theatlantic.com/family/2025/...
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The Cruel Calculus of Palestinian Grief
In times of mass atrocity, processing personal sorrow becomes more complicated.
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jenduende @jenduende.bsky.social · 06/10/2025
Where the grandparents are willing: Would you pay them for child care? Marina Lopes makes a persuasive case for doing just that: www.theatlantic.com/family/2025/...
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One Obvious, Underused Child-Care Solution
Pay grandparents.
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jenduende @jenduende.bsky.social · 02/10/2025
“I am absolutely terrified that they would take away what I do have…because they took away what I did have.” @nicolechung.bsky.social on birth mothers in open adoptions and what happens when their contact with their children is curtailed: www.theatlantic.com/family/2025/...
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When Adoption Promises Are Broken
Many birth mothers hope to maintain contact with their child. But their agreements with adoptive parents can be fragile.
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jenduende @jenduende.bsky.social · 17/09/2025
Parents and educators, please share with your schools: @theatlantic.com is offering U.S. public high schools FREE IP-based access to our journalism—an excellent way to improve news literacy and inspire a new generation of independent thinkers. For info, visit theatlantic.com/hsaccess.
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The Atlantic
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jenduende @jenduende.bsky.social · 05/09/2025
As a person who doesn't get invitations to reunions (because: didn't do normal high school), I'm fascinated by other people's—and am loving this essay by Jordan Michelman (h/t my @theatlantic.com colleague Serena Dai for shepherding) www.theatlantic.com/family/archi...
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What’s the Point of a High-School Reunion?
Social media should have killed them. Instead, they’re popular again.
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jenduende @jenduende.bsky.social · 02/09/2025
The inimitable @petridishes.bsky.social, saying it all out loud. www.theatlantic.com/newsletters/...
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Apologies: You Have Reached the End of Your Free-Trial Period of America!
Want rule of law? That’s premium.
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jenduende @jenduende.bsky.social · 02/09/2025
Excellent analysis from @katemanne.bsky.social katemanne.substack.com/p/why-marria...
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Why Marriage is an Appallingly Bad Deal for Straight Women
And the new explanation for why marriage rates are falling
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jenduende @jenduende.bsky.social · 26/08/2025
Loving this advice from James Parker to a 19-year-old pining for romantic attention: “You do not need to be thinner, smarter, or better. I don’t mean to be glib about the effects of generations of patriarchal damage and...consumerism, but—you’ve got to get that stuff out of your head. It’s poison.”
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Dear James: I’ve Got a Bad Case of Unrequited Love
I’m 19, and I’ve fallen deeply for a colleague. But he’ll never feel the same.
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jenduende @jenduende.bsky.social · 25/08/2025
A case against phones at school: Besides distracting kids from learning, phones are "a digital umbilical cord tethering students to their parents,” @gailcornwall.com writes—diminishing kids’ autonomy and setting an expectation that parents must always be on duty. www.theatlantic.com/family/archi...
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What Many Parents Miss About the Phones-in-Schools Debate
Some focus on reaching their children in an emergency—and overlook the devices’ everyday threats.
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jenduende @jenduende.bsky.social · 21/08/2025
ICYMI: Fascinating piece by @faith-hill.bsky.social sky.social @theatlantic.com on single men choosing to become dads, and how this plays out in their personal relationships + affects their sense of self. A nuanced look at tangly territory: www.theatlantic.com/family/archi...
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The Growing Cohort of Single Dads by Choice
For some men, fatherhood is an answer to questions about modern masculinity.
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