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Jacen Bowman @jacenbowman.bsky.social · 02/01/2025

PLEASE STOP making it seem like turning 40 means giving up on your dreams. It’s not normal. It’s limiting. It’s wrong. This is the age to thrive, not shrink. I’ll be 42 February 15 and I couldn’t be more proud of it !!

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Jacen Bowman @jacenbowman.bsky.social · 31/12/2024

I cherish Dead Roses as they live between the pages of this chapter of life. I believe, A fresh Rose is loved for its beauty but the dead one is beyond beauty. A fresh Rose is smelled for its scent but a dead one for the memories. 🥀

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Jacen Bowman @jacenbowman.bsky.social · 31/12/2024

Thou I admit there is still parts of that shell I looked at and wondered was it all real. It felt real, it felt like “Home” then I realize it was a reminder for all of the ways I’m never to allow myself to be loved again. I will never allow myself to not love ME !!

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Jacen Bowman @jacenbowman.bsky.social · 31/12/2024

Once I got to the root the only way I know how to address it is head on. So I did just that picked myself up. And pushed thru !!!

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Jacen Bowman @jacenbowman.bsky.social · 31/12/2024

I was redirected I was recentered I was realigned I was broken But I allowed myself to break So I can get to the root of the problem

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Jacen Bowman @jacenbowman.bsky.social · 31/12/2024

I looked at myself and didn’t recognize me. I had to leave Atlanta and come back home to Philadelphia. At first I was so defeated by it because I felt like at this old age what the hell I failed !! But then it clicked

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Jacen Bowman @jacenbowman.bsky.social · 31/12/2024

My biggest lesson for 2024 was let it go and that meant everything and everybody. I was completely broken to my core and fell apart unsure how or where to even begin to put me back together again.

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Jacen Bowman @jacenbowman.bsky.social · 26/12/2024

This year should be named "things I never thought could happen"

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Jacen Bowman @jacenbowman.bsky.social · 26/12/2024

I deserve to be loved. not liked, not lusted after, not settled for. loved.

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Jacen Bowman @jacenbowman.bsky.social · 20/12/2024

Tonight I went into the LGBTQ+ Hall Of Fame thanks to Council Member Rue Landau I’m so honored and so full 🥹❤️

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Jacen Bowman @jacenbowman.bsky.social · 17/12/2024

I gotta start remembering to use this app

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Jacen Bowman @jacenbowman.bsky.social · 07/12/2024

Red has always been my favorite color ❤️

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Jacen Bowman @jacenbowman.bsky.social · 28/11/2024

Random but I guess it’s safe to say Ice Spice done melted. She came and went

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Jacen Bowman @jacenbowman.bsky.social · 25/11/2024

Nothing frustrates me more than when someone calls and, after I pick up, they ask who I’m with. It feels like I'm constantly being put on the spot. So, I've decided that my new response will be, "I'm out." That way, there's no need for any questions—just call me back later.

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Jacen Bowman @jacenbowman.bsky.social · 24/11/2024

I need something else to watch now on tv any suggestions?

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Jacen Bowman @jacenbowman.bsky.social · 23/11/2024

Let me tell you something get on #AmazonPrime and watch #Cross Because whew !!! I legit sat here and watched every day episode !!!

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VONTÉ RIVALS @thewindgodvonte.bsky.social · 22/11/2024

PSA: haircuts should last a month, 3 days is unacceptable.

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Jacen Bowman @jacenbowman.bsky.social · 22/11/2024

I got an taste for some stuffed crust pizza and wings but whew lord at the same time I don’t feel good so that might not be a good mix

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Jacen Bowman @jacenbowman.bsky.social · 21/11/2024

This has been a week man I tell you

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Jacen Bowman @jacenbowman.bsky.social · 18/11/2024

New platform but same rules ‼️ This era is defined by: When I block, unfriend, or unfollow you, it’s not a mind game. I truly don't want to see your updates, and I’d appreciate if you stopped watching me too. It's straightforward—take it at face value.

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Jacen Bowman @jacenbowman.bsky.social · 18/11/2024

A lot of stuff ain’t really a secret. Just nobody’s business. Do what you want with that information.

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Jacen Bowman @jacenbowman.bsky.social · 18/11/2024

I’m going to bed cause @beyonce is not bout to stress me out

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Jacen Bowman @jacenbowman.bsky.social · 17/11/2024

Last night I had a light Friendsgiving and a lot of people are mad they weren’t invited. But honestly as I got older I realized that not every friend group mixes well together and that’s ok !!

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Jacen Bowman @jacenbowman.bsky.social · 16/11/2024