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It Girl Complex

@itgirlcomplex.bsky.social
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Life is complex. You double back on choices you swore were final and love people longer than you should. It Girl Complex is about the beauty in that state of being. 💖✨ Share advice on #ItGirlsHelp 🆘 Send anonymous submissions to: Itgirlcomplex@gmail.com

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It Girl Complex @itgirlcomplex.bsky.social · 19/05/2025
IT GIRLS!!! 🗣️🗣️
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It Girl Complex @itgirlcomplex.bsky.social · 19/05/2025
IT GIRLS!!! 🗣️🗣️
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It Girl Complex @itgirlcomplex.bsky.social · 18/05/2025
At the end of it all, you still win. So move boldly! Everything you desire is already aligning. Favor is on your side. ✨🔥💫
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It Girl Complex @itgirlcomplex.bsky.social · 18/05/2025
At the end of it all, you still win. So move boldly! Everything you desire is already aligning. Favor is on your side. ✨🔥💫
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It Girl Complex @itgirlcomplex.bsky.social · 13/05/2025
This chapter of my life is about truth, not performance.✨ I’m choosing authenticity, especially when it’s uncomfortable.🪞 🌸
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It Girl Complex @itgirlcomplex.bsky.social · 13/05/2025
This chapter of my life is about truth, not performance.✨ I’m choosing authenticity, especially when it’s uncomfortable.🪞 🌸
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mad1s5n.bsky.social @mad1s5n.bsky.social · 12/05/2025
yes youre fake, why you sending ss anyways?? apologize to her and then end the friendship🤷🏾
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Tired Lesbian Legendary Tomfoolery🥸 @choc0latteeee.bsky.social · 12/05/2025
I think if you in the chat defending her, then i don’t think she would block you. Whether you said it or someone else, you can’t call yourself her friend if you didn’t defend her. I do think you should tell the rest about what you did and her reaction though.
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it girl 🏳️‍🌈🇳🇬 @lavivasiren.bsky.social · 12/05/2025
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a woman in a tie dye shirt is saying `` girl , bye . ''
ALT: a woman in a tie dye shirt is saying `` girl , bye . ''
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It Girl Complex @itgirlcomplex.bsky.social · 12/05/2025
🆘 #ItGirlsHelp 🆘 I accidentally sent my friend a screenshot of a group chat where we were talking about her. She blocked me instantly. I didn’t say the worst stuff, but now the group’s a mess. Should I reach out & apologize or let the friendship die quietly? Am I fake for even being in the chat?
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It Girl Complex @itgirlcomplex.bsky.social · 12/05/2025
🆘 #ItGirlsHelp 🆘 I accidentally sent my friend a screenshot of a group chat where we were talking about her. She blocked me instantly. I didn’t say the worst stuff, but now the group’s a mess. Should I reach out & apologize or let the friendship die quietly? Am I fake for even being in the chat?
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It Girl Complex @itgirlcomplex.bsky.social · 25/03/2025
How To: Practicing Self-Care Like an It Girl 💅🏽🧖🏽‍♀️🌸 (a thread)
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It Girl Complex @itgirlcomplex.bsky.social · 03/05/2025
I am not for everyone, and that’s my power. The right rooms, the right eyes, & the right opportunity will recognize me at the right time. 💝✨🌷
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It Girl Complex @itgirlcomplex.bsky.social · 03/05/2025
I am not for everyone, and that’s my power. The right rooms, the right eyes, & the right opportunity will recognize me at the right time. 💝✨🌷
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It Girl Complex @itgirlcomplex.bsky.social · 21/04/2025
Stop repeating yourself. They heard you the first time. They will not change.
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It Girl Complex @itgirlcomplex.bsky.social · 21/04/2025
Stop repeating yourself. They heard you the first time. They will not change.
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It Girl Complex @itgirlcomplex.bsky.social · 20/04/2025
There’s a version of you that’s already living the life you dream about… she’s not waiting for permission, she’s not doubting her worth, and she’s definitely not playing small 💅✨ She’s just waiting on you to show up. Start now. Start messy. Start scared. Just don’t stay stuck 💖
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It Girl Complex @itgirlcomplex.bsky.social · 20/04/2025
There’s a version of you that’s already living the life you dream about… she’s not waiting for permission, she’s not doubting her worth, and she’s definitely not playing small 💅✨ She’s just waiting on you to show up. Start now. Start messy. Start scared. Just don’t stay stuck 💖
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It Girl Complex @itgirlcomplex.bsky.social · 17/04/2025
I give myself grace to grow. Consistency doesn’t mean being perfect. It means showing up for myself, again and again. My journey isn’t always linear, but I keep going. Every small step counts, and I’m proud of how far I’ve come.🌷🪞✨
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It Girl Complex @itgirlcomplex.bsky.social · 17/04/2025
I give myself grace to grow. Consistency doesn’t mean being perfect. It means showing up for myself, again and again. My journey isn’t always linear, but I keep going. Every small step counts, and I’m proud of how far I’ve come.🌷🪞✨
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It Girl Complex @itgirlcomplex.bsky.social · 11/04/2025
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🌊 Skeety McSkeeterton @ddotbest.bsky.social · 10/04/2025
"You are a breath of fresh air, light in a dark room, the calm in the middle of the storm, a ball of contagious laughter, an undeniably safe space. I'm better for knowing you"
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kelsey jaffer⚡️they/she @kelatonin.bsky.social · 10/04/2025
my voice therapist saying “Kelsey…you made it” after i told her about my background in theatre and opera school and what i do for a living now 😭😭😭
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Prince Rosalium, Parfum Nostalgique Dev🌹✨️ @princerosalium.bsky.social · 10/04/2025
my friend said this to me yesterday
discord message that says "you are the little jelly cup candy to me" with a picture of brightly colored jelly cups
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Offdaback ✊🏿 👑✨ @perpetualssence.bsky.social · 10/04/2025
“I have no doubt I’ll be working for you for one day” from an executive I was interviewing with at the time.
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jasmine👻 @jazzybean.blacksky.app · 10/04/2025
That my bubbly personality is refreshing and I light up a room when I enter
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It Girl Complex @itgirlcomplex.bsky.social · 10/04/2025
IT GIRLS, LET’S BRAG A LITTLE! ✨💅🏽 What’s the best compliment you’ve ever received? The one that made you feel so good about yourself. Drop it in the comments! 💬 Brag on yourself! You deserve it. 👑
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It Girl Complex @itgirlcomplex.bsky.social · 10/04/2025
IT GIRLS, LET’S BRAG A LITTLE! ✨💅🏽 What’s the best compliment you’ve ever received? The one that made you feel so good about yourself. Drop it in the comments! 💬 Brag on yourself! You deserve it. 👑
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It Girl Complex @itgirlcomplex.bsky.social · 08/04/2025
Focus on the present. The journey to your next level won’t be easy, but worrying about tomorrow won’t make you stronger today. Embrace where you are right now, and trust that each moment is preparing you for what’s ahead. Stay present, stay resilient. 💖✨🌸
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It Girl Complex @itgirlcomplex.bsky.social · 08/04/2025
Focus on the present. The journey to your next level won’t be easy, but worrying about tomorrow won’t make you stronger today. Embrace where you are right now, and trust that each moment is preparing you for what’s ahead. Stay present, stay resilient. 💖✨🌸
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*[V]ult Solari* 🐺 [Cool™ Edition] @shadowlightfx.blue · 07/04/2025
Accepting villainhood has given me more freedom than I ever thought possible. And a cool penguin army for some reason.
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It Girl Complex @itgirlcomplex.bsky.social · 07/04/2025
People love when you’re giving, stay silent when you’re hurting, and hate when you start choosing yourself. Funny how the second you put yourself 1st, you’re suddenly the villain. But here’s the truth: being the villain in their story just means you’ve finally decided to be the hero in your own. 🌱✨💫
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It Girl Complex @itgirlcomplex.bsky.social · 04/04/2025
I am in love with who I am and the life I’ve created. I am the sole architect of my happiness, and I design my world with passion and purpose. 💁🏽‍♀️💖✨
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It Girl Complex @itgirlcomplex.bsky.social · 04/04/2025
I am in love with who I am and the life I’ve created. I am the sole architect of my happiness, and I design my world with passion and purpose. 💁🏽‍♀️💖✨
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It Girl Complex @itgirlcomplex.bsky.social · 31/03/2025
I embrace the start of this week with positive energy and determination. I am ready to take on new challenges with confidence. I choose to move through this week with grace, creating space for growth and self-discovery. 💕 💫
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It Girl Complex @itgirlcomplex.bsky.social · 31/03/2025
I embrace the start of this week with positive energy and determination. I am ready to take on new challenges with confidence. I choose to move through this week with grace, creating space for growth and self-discovery. 💕 💫
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Aries Groove🦋 @ariesgr00ve.bsky.social · 29/03/2025
This is why you never propose to men! Honestly, you should’ve had the marriage talk before proposing. Now that you know he doesn’t believe in marriage, you need to leave him be and move on.
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It Girl Complex @itgirlcomplex.bsky.social · 15/03/2025
I release anger and welcome understanding and compassion 💖. I choose to respond with grace and patience, knowing that peace comes from within 🌸. My heart is open, and I meet every situation with love and clarity 🌿✨.
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It Girl Complex @itgirlcomplex.bsky.social · 29/03/2025
🆘 #ItGirlsHelp 🆘 UPDATE: I proposed to my boyfriend despite everyone telling me not to. It was a perfect proposal but he said NO in front of everyone and later said he “doesn’t believe in marriage” but he proposed to his ex years ago. Now I’m embarrassed & I don’t know if I should wait or leave?
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It Girl Complex @itgirlcomplex.bsky.social · 29/03/2025
🆘 #ItGirlsHelp 🆘 UPDATE: I proposed to my boyfriend despite everyone telling me not to. It was a perfect proposal but he said NO in front of everyone and later said he “doesn’t believe in marriage” but he proposed to his ex years ago. Now I’m embarrassed & I don’t know if I should wait or leave?
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It Girl Complex @itgirlcomplex.bsky.social · 28/03/2025
“Mocking me for pursuing my dreams won’t change the fact that you’re too scared to chase yours. Your opinion holds no weight when you’ve never had the courage to fight for something real. The only failure is never trying.” WISE WORDS FROM IGC FOUNDER 💖✨ @lavivasiren.bsky.social
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It Girl Complex @itgirlcomplex.bsky.social · 28/03/2025
“Mocking me for pursuing my dreams won’t change the fact that you’re too scared to chase yours. Your opinion holds no weight when you’ve never had the courage to fight for something real. The only failure is never trying.” WISE WORDS FROM IGC FOUNDER 💖✨ @lavivasiren.bsky.social
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Miracle @mirmikyla22.blacksky.app · 26/03/2025
#2 is my favorite! My sister always ask me “why are you dressing up you going grocery shopping”. I’m like girl I like putting on cute clothes
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it girl 🏳️‍🌈🇳🇬 @lavivasiren.bsky.social · 25/03/2025
6 is my personal favorite! ✨
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It Girl Complex @itgirlcomplex.bsky.social · 25/03/2025
How To: Practicing Self-Care Like an It Girl 💅🏽🧖🏽‍♀️🌸 (a thread)
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It Girl Complex @itgirlcomplex.bsky.social · 24/03/2025
Are you owed an apology? Yes. Are you going to get one? No. Move on. ✨ Not for them, for you. Peace is more valuable than closure. ✨
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It Girl Complex @itgirlcomplex.bsky.social · 24/03/2025
Are you owed an apology? Yes. Are you going to get one? No. Move on. ✨ Not for them, for you. Peace is more valuable than closure. ✨
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