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Online Predator Prevention Tips
Online predators use social media, games, chat apps, and messaging platforms to groom, manipulate, or exploit children and teens. Prevention works best through open conversations, strong privacy habits, supervision, and knowing when and how to report. Official guidance from DHS Know2Protect, the Department of Justice, FBI, and NCMEC emphasizes the same core practices. Tips for parents and caregivers Start ongoing, two-way conversations early and keep them going. Discuss privacy, healthy vs. unhealthy relationships, grooming tactics (flattery, gifts, secrecy, isolation, pressure for photos or private chats), and that a child will not be in trouble for coming to you. Review every app, game, and site before use. Pay extra attention to those with private messaging, video chat, file sharing, anonymity, or end-to-end encryption. Set devices, apps, and accounts to private. Turn off location services except for family-tracking apps you control. Use parental controls, time limits, and device check-ins. Keep devices in common areas when possible. Know who is on friend lists and remove strangers. Only allow real-life friends. Never let a child move a conversation off a game or platform with someone they do not know in person. Teach that anything posted or sent can last forever and be shared. Do not share full name, address, school, age, photos that reveal location, or other identifying details with strangers. Watch for behavioral changes: secrecy about devices, sudden mood shifts, new unexplained gifts or money, withdrawal, age-inappropriate sexual language, or obsession with a new online “friend.” Tips for kids and teens Set every account and app to private. Accept friend or follow requests only from people you know in real life. Remove strangers. Do not respond to messages from people you do not know. Never leave a game to chat on another app with a stranger. Do not share personal information, photos, or videos that could identify you or your location. Assume everyone online could be lying about who they are. If anything feels uncomfortable, secretive, or pressuring (requests for photos, meeting up, keeping secrets from parents), stop, block, save evidence (screenshots, usernames), and tell a trusted adult immediately. Do not delete messages. Trust your instincts. You have the right to say no, leave a chat, and ask for help. A safe adult will not ask you to keep secrets or ignore your boundaries. Red flags of grooming or predation Someone asking to move to a private chat, requesting secrecy, showering intense compliments or gifts, asking for photos or personal details, refusing video calls while claiming to be your age, or becoming controlling or threatening. Fake profiles often have few photos, incomplete information, or inconsistencies. Newer threats include sextortion (threats to share images) and violent online networks that coerce self-harm or explicit content. Never pay or comply with blackmail; report instead. If something happens Save evidence on the device. Do not delete or forward explicit images. Report immediately: NCMEC CyberTipline: report.cybertip.org or 1-800-843-5678 FBI: tips.fbi.gov Local law enforcement or 911 if there is immediate danger NCMEC’s Take It Down service can help remove explicit images of minors. Seek support for the child; it is not their fault. Resources like NCMEC NetSmartz (videos and guides by age) and DHS Know2Protect offer age-appropriate materials for continued conversations. Consistent habits plus a trusted adult relationship remain the strongest protections.