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A.P. -- they/them @intellectnflux.bsky.social · 02/09/2026

When I see natural body builder types, I immediately want them to steam roll on top of me and lay there as a human weighted blanket. Is that a kink? Or is that just me being neurodivergent 🤔

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A.P. -- they/them @intellectnflux.bsky.social · 20/08/2026

Is it safe to go to Cava? I neeeeeed it

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A.P. -- they/them @intellectnflux.bsky.social · 20/08/2026

I hope it's everything you need it to be!

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A.P. -- they/them @intellectnflux.bsky.social · 20/08/2026

The only time in my life I tried sucking 🍆 (again) it was perfectly clean 😂 and still had a taste. Why you think I didn't do it again?

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A.P. -- they/them @intellectnflux.bsky.social · 20/08/2026

Haven't had any in a while, but if I think on it, I can taste the 😸 from memory alone 😂 people don't just resist washing their face after for the aroma

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A.P. -- they/them @intellectnflux.bsky.social · 18/08/2026

I both love and hate watching Whitney sing All the Man That I Need (the Welcome Hereos set, 1991). Always brings me to tears. She has no business being gone fr.

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A.P. -- they/them @intellectnflux.bsky.social · 13/08/2026

There's been a lot of transparency and vulnerability today. I think it's from the planet party 😅 or whatever it's called

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A.P. -- they/them @intellectnflux.bsky.social · 09/08/2026

Why is Savannah James always with that woman who talks over everybody

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A.P. -- they/them @intellectnflux.bsky.social · 09/08/2026

I was randomly looking something up and stumbled across this woman who reviewed her first week on Feeld. She met up with this other woman and they got right to the fisting.

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Paul Rudd's Hmph Nod in Living With Yourself

ALT: Paul Rudd's Hmph Nod in Living With Yourself

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A.P. -- they/them @intellectnflux.bsky.social · 08/08/2026

I see more people talk about contracting stomach bugs in Mexico City. I don't think some are doing their best to avoid it tho 🤔

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A.P. -- they/them @intellectnflux.bsky.social · 07/08/2026

I wonder if Sam Reid will keep long hair forever, or if it's just for the Lestat era of his career. He's done other stuff recently with shorter hair. The Newsreader looked like a wig, though.

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Written by Uju ✍🏽 @writtenbyuju.bsky.social · 07/08/2026

There’s something unsettling about watching Black people make white acceptance a measure of their worth.

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Keezy Young🌼 @keezyyoung.bsky.social · 07/08/2026

notable that he thinks his fiance getting abducted by ICE is something that happened to him, as opposed to her

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Tressie McMillan Cottom @tressiemcphd.bsky.social · 06/08/2026

people with chronic pain warned us at the time but the criminalization of women and minority people’s pain after the opioid crisis is a public health disaster. I’ve had friends denied pain management after hysterectomies, dental extractions and broken bones.

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A.P. -- they/them @intellectnflux.bsky.social · 07/08/2026

That RFK no-gag-reflex clip is insane.

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A.P. -- they/them @intellectnflux.bsky.social · 07/08/2026

If I go see The Odyssey and Spiderman the same day, I'll feel like I'm clocking in and out of work. Movies too gotdamn long.

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A.P. -- they/them @intellectnflux.bsky.social · 07/08/2026

This has been a mentally stimulating 3 weeks of learning/relearning shit about developing a personal brand. I feel like my brain has new parts lol

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A.P. -- they/them @intellectnflux.bsky.social · 07/08/2026

You can't always trust your network to help you think outside of the box. Annual reviews are sometimes bullshit (full of subjective feedback). Or despite stellar ones, high performers get placed on PIPs to force ppl out without a layoff, cut overhead, and enrich stakeholders.

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A.P. -- they/them @intellectnflux.bsky.social · 07/08/2026

Even when people 1) have professional networks 2) work in a place that requires annual reviews and 3) have/had a sense of career direction, those things don't resolve all problems/questions re their futures.

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A.P. -- they/them @intellectnflux.bsky.social · 07/08/2026

What's the term for when this fails? I think it's "glass cliff" but I'm not 100% *goes to look*

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A.P. -- they/them @intellectnflux.bsky.social · 07/08/2026

Finding out Zohran has been making content online for years makes everything about him make sense 😂 he is a digital native for sure

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A.P. -- they/them @intellectnflux.bsky.social · 07/08/2026

But it stings when you've been so generous, they don't think to consider what you do for them as actual labor other people will pay you for.

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A.P. -- they/them @intellectnflux.bsky.social · 07/08/2026

Well, not just an idea, anything really.

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A.P. -- they/them @intellectnflux.bsky.social · 07/08/2026

I hate it when a friend makes me regret sharing an idea with them.

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cognitive dissonance is a helluva drug @hnysuklchocolat.blacksky.app · 07/08/2026

contrary to popular belief, it can be too moist sometimes

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A.P. -- they/them @intellectnflux.bsky.social · 04/08/2026

What's your favorite Evanescence album?

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Peter @notalawyer.bsky.social · 02/08/2026

truly a mystery who the party should appeal more to, a charismatic young influencer with millions of fans or a guy who sounds like a cartoon and is about to die

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Peter @notalawyer.bsky.social · 02/08/2026

my dude you’re 81 years old, you’re about to leave the party of natural causes

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A.P. -- they/them @intellectnflux.bsky.social · 02/08/2026

Adding to this: everyone would get their own journal And I'd want them to upload all the pics to one location so people could have something to look back on 😌

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Ma$on @masonfromtwitter.bsky.social · 01/08/2026

One thing my ex and I would say to each other when we were feeling bad vibes from the other was "be nice to me" it was our safe word to snap us out of however we were acting. Because we might have been in the mood and not realized saying that the way we were responding was not nice.

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Tressie McMillan Cottom @tressiemcphd.bsky.social · 01/08/2026

I like this notetaking example. it is a good case of how gender works. Notetaking has never been about producing a transcript. It is a bureaucratic skill in the 20th c. organixarion because it is SENSEMAKING. Those women socialized to take notes? They have been doing men’s metacognition for them

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A.P. -- they/them @intellectnflux.bsky.social · 01/08/2026

There would be pilates, tennis, volleyball...with people to teach lessons. There would be maybe a baking and mixology class. Also, definitely quiet hours options. There would be board games and movie nights. And matching pajamas 😂 All of this in a massive villa.

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A.P. -- they/them @intellectnflux.bsky.social · 01/08/2026

If I had a lot of money, I would use it to enrich my vacations. I'd probably host family on a large property (chosen + raised), and pay for chefs. For every "excursion" I'd pay the operators to do tours/presentations just for us. It'd be a mix of traditional fun (zip lines) + learning (history).

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A.P. -- they/them @intellectnflux.bsky.social · 01/08/2026

Finally watching Pillion and I can barely stand it 😭

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Phil Lewis @phillewis.bsky.social · 31/07/2026

There’s been a lot of conversation online about the dress code policy at Tuskegee. But current students have been largely left out of the discourse. So I talked with some of them:

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Tuskegee students sound off about dress code policy: ‘You barely see anyone in a bonnet’

“Right now, we are in a housing crisis. We are in a financial crisis,” one student explained.

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A.P. -- they/them @intellectnflux.bsky.social · 30/07/2026

Like woah, first off, I don't even completely agree with the take, but it's full of nuance and I respect that.

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A.P. -- they/them @intellectnflux.bsky.social · 30/07/2026

I understand the people horrified by the Clancy trial. I am, too. But the people clinging to the black and white, not embracing the nuance of the entire situation are so exhausting. I commented as much (on a video of the take of someone I don't even 100% agree with), and someone went "You ppl!"

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A.P. -- they/them @intellectnflux.bsky.social · 30/07/2026

One thing Belle Burden's book made me think about: people who don't really talk I assume people who don't express themselves with words have rich interior lives that are just kinda stuck there... Don't know if that's true for everyone tho 🤷🏽

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A.P. -- they/them @intellectnflux.bsky.social · 30/07/2026

We don't have the same infrastructure and opportunities for advancement that Boomers did. My mom mentioned bonuses earlier (as an incentive for loyalty). I had to break it to her that in 15 yrs, bonuses were only part of the comp structure in a couple of those roles.

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A.P. -- they/them @intellectnflux.bsky.social · 30/07/2026

Some are calling the work burnout recovery phase the "Great Millennial Pause." I saw at least one person say they want to liquidate their retirement accts and live off of that for a couple years while they figure things out. Some people are taking low-cognitive-load jobs in bookstores, etc.

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Peter @notalawyer.bsky.social · 28/07/2026

The New York Times wouldn't let me write about the Age of Diarrhea so I had to do it myself.

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Welcome to the Age of Diarrhea

The future is not knowing what ails you

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A.P. -- they/them @intellectnflux.bsky.social · 30/07/2026

Go online to reciprocard's website and check which libraries have reciprocal relationships with yours ✨

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Ma$on @masonfromtwitter.bsky.social · 30/07/2026

I feel like I'm cosplaying an adult

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A.P. -- they/them @intellectnflux.bsky.social · 28/07/2026

Been feeling the impending full moon 😌

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