✨Bel✨ @instinctivecharm.bsky.social · 11/08/2026Fandom would be one hell of a nicer place if anxious/insecure people stopped making assumptions & projections on others based on written interactions that lack tone. I know it's hard not to, but repeatedly seeing cognitive distortions is exhausting as someone who has been there and worked on them. 24612
✨Bel✨ @instinctivecharm.bsky.social · 20/07/2026If you're gonna make me choose... sortr.io/rankings/97f... 130
✨Bel✨ @instinctivecharm.bsky.social · 20/05/2026You're welcome to draw Gwyndolyn if you wish 💖 Her card is The Magician. She's practical, resourceful, and a survivor. She learned magic through stolen books over decades and uses it to charm people, essentially manifesting a better life for herself and others 020
✨Bel✨ @instinctivecharm.bsky.social · 01/03/2026Sweet sleepy flower Gwyn Surprise gift from @radiostacey.bsky.social Cutest 🌺 art by @cozydalia.bsky.social #Gwyndolyn #TavOC 0197
✨Bel✨ @instinctivecharm.bsky.social · 15/02/2026Happy Valentine's Day from Gwyn and Deeva ❤️✨ Thank you to @radiostacey.bsky.social for this adorable gift I didn't get around to posting on my birthday. I thought I'd save it for a special occasion 🥰 #LustLure #Gwyndolyn #Deeva 3105
✨Bel✨ @instinctivecharm.bsky.social · 15/02/2026The cards gave themes for Lyria and Astarion of struggling in their respective ways but that together they find home. Overall it suggests after all of that they should find their home together 120
✨Bel✨ @instinctivecharm.bsky.social · 15/02/2026The cards speak a lot of taking paths and freedom for Willow and Astarion so I would say yes, so long as they take time with each other 121
✨Bel✨ @instinctivecharm.bsky.social · 15/02/2026The cards brought up themes of dishonesty and balance for Nerys and Astarion. In this context, it suggests they need to be themselves and fully honest with each other. Essentially saying no one can be too much if they are all of themselves and to be otherwise is lonely 120
✨Bel✨ @instinctivecharm.bsky.social · 15/02/2026The cards answered that Orya and Astarion might be holding back in their own way but together they can continue to explore to find new things together 141
✨Bel✨ @instinctivecharm.bsky.social · 15/02/2026The cards answered that Gale is very much in his worries about it (being an overthinker) but Bella represents / enjoys their reunions, and together they'll be and provide the support the other needs 131
✨Bel✨ @instinctivecharm.bsky.social · 15/02/2026The cards answered that Glenn takes a lot of responsibility upon himself, Mer is loyal in relationships, and change is coming so they should prepare 120
✨Bel✨ @instinctivecharm.bsky.social · 15/02/2026The cards answered that Glenn needs to be more honest about his worries and Shadowheart is a good listener. Together they should act on impulses while they still have the courage 110
✨Bel✨ @instinctivecharm.bsky.social · 15/02/2026Well, for a question about a cup of tea, I got a lot of Cup cards. It says that Celia does her best and Astarion is stubborn but he needs to reconsider so they're both happy. (I think King of Cups might be a pun attempt...) 131
✨Bel✨ @instinctivecharm.bsky.social · 15/02/2026Funnily enough the cards said travel might be on the horizon for Blythe and Astarion needs to find a direction and together they'll have emotional closeness. 020
✨Bel✨ @instinctivecharm.bsky.social · 15/02/2026Interestingly the cards speak a lot about them communicating to get what they want and then acting quickly 🤭 120
✨Bel✨ @instinctivecharm.bsky.social · 15/02/2026So for this question, I asked it as a whole and well... the cards say that Iris is incredibly stubborn when it comes to cookies and Astarion seems to let it slide. 131
✨Bel✨ @instinctivecharm.bsky.social · 09/02/2026Speaking of polar opposites, the cards really called them out and said their dynamic is one of analysis and compromise. 140
✨Bel✨ @instinctivecharm.bsky.social · 09/02/2026The cards both read them both as very strong-willed apparently but happy together, yes 💕 030
✨Bel✨ @instinctivecharm.bsky.social · 09/02/2026Interestingly, the cards led me towards breaking of conventions, manifesting, and willpower. With a lot of time on their hands, it suggests there are new opportunities in store rather than keeping things the same 💕 131
✨Bel✨ @instinctivecharm.bsky.social · 05/02/2026It appears they're both romantics at heart but there's some burdens and struggles between them. The cards appear to say he is in a good place and a candidate but there's something to finish first 🫶 140
✨Bel✨ @instinctivecharm.bsky.social · 05/02/2026Difficult choice but I went with the question: What does Aeterna Amantas mean to them?💕 The answer: freedom, power, self-determination and control - together 140
✨Bel✨ @instinctivecharm.bsky.social · 03/02/2026💘 Valentine Tarot 💘 In the lead up to Valentine's Day, I'm offering followers a tarot reading using the relationship spread: OC | Dynamic | Partner Share a pic of the couple and a question you'd like to ask the cards. 184715
✨Bel✨ @instinctivecharm.bsky.social · 31/01/2026The #DaggerCharm story in stunning and detailed stained glass by the talented @anniris.bsky.social Thank you for depicting them so wonderfully 💕 More of their story can be found in my longfic "Hypnotic Gaze" archiveofourown.org/works/533801... 🗡️💗 #bg3 #bg3art #bg3fic #Gwyndolyn #Astarion 54417
✨Bel✨ @instinctivecharm.bsky.social · 30/01/2026You're welcome to draw Gwyn anytime 💕 Hope all goes well with your homework and you have fun with the drawing break 😊 120
✨Bel✨ @instinctivecharm.bsky.social · 04/01/2026✨ Golden lights for a new year ✨ Thank you to @aristenfromwarsaw.bsky.social for the lovely VP for our art trade #DaggerCharm #Gwyndolyn #Astarion #BG3VP #BG3 4258
✨Bel✨ @instinctivecharm.bsky.social · 01/01/2026Blessed by this wonderful piece @whirlinginroses.bsky.social wrote for me as part of an art trade. This snippet is perhaps my favourite as she captured their banter so well. Read the full piece here: tinyurl.com/whirlinginro... #DaggerCharm #Gwyndolyn #Astarion 182
✨Bel✨ @instinctivecharm.bsky.social · 01/01/2026My Goonies Secret Santa @sacredsymbol821.bsky.social surprised me with this cozy moment with Gwyndolyn and Astarion 🥰 These cuties by @meguart.bsky.social Thank you so much! I adore them 💕 #TavOC #BG3 #Daggercharm #Gwyndolyn 1184
✨Bel✨ @instinctivecharm.bsky.social · 24/12/2025It's officially Christmas where I am! It's been a hard year for many of us so whatever or however you celebrate may it be a joyous and peaceful good time with your loved ones 💕 Please see one of my first gifts of the season from @radiostacey.bsky.social with art by @israfela1.bsky.social!! 2196
✨Bel✨ @instinctivecharm.bsky.social · 24/12/2025Nothing like celebrating bouncing back from a rough patch with dappled sunlight on a warm day. Seems appropriate for my local summer holidays Art by the lovely @gresea.bsky.social #DaggerCharm #Gwyndolyn #BG3art 14214
✨Bel✨ @instinctivecharm.bsky.social · 29/11/2025#tavqotd not everyone's OC relates to their lived experience, but sometimes we write for catharsis, what is something you write about that is close to you? Gwyndolyn was originally created for a fic to explore experiences with CPTSD and trauma. Some of which are based on my lived experiences. 160
✨Bel✨ @instinctivecharm.bsky.social · 05/11/2025Cognitive distortions are ways that our thought patterns can distort what we see in the world around us, particularly in ways that negative As someone with CPTSD & anxiety from a terrible childhood & years after, I've engaged in nearly all of these, sometimes treating myself how others did 🥺 1123
✨Bel✨ @instinctivecharm.bsky.social · 05/11/2025Seeing a lot of people going through a hard time recently 🥺 I know not everyone can get access to mental health support so here'sa thing I learned: we're all susceptible to cognitive biases, especially when we're anxious & depressed Our minds work against us to confirm negatives about ourselves 13518
✨Bel✨ @instinctivecharm.bsky.social · 01/11/2025🎃 Happy Halloween 🎃 Adorable chibi by @radiostacey.bsky.social with the cutest little moustachioed Duck I've ever seen 💕 #Gwyndolyn #BG3art #TavOC 3219
✨Bel✨ @instinctivecharm.bsky.social · 01/11/2025🕯️ Bathed in Candlelight 🕯️ Magical shots by @mirufiyu.bsky.social that really capture the sweet and quiet moments these two have. Thank you so much 💕 #Gwyndolyn #Astarion #DaggerCharm #TavOC #BG3VP 2339
✨Bel✨ @instinctivecharm.bsky.social · 27/10/2025Thank you @ajsemprini.bsky.social for the stunning VP of these two getting creative 😏 They have a lot of time to explore together CW knifeplay #Gwyndolyn #Astarion #DaggerCharm #TavOC #BG3VP 33011
✨Bel✨ @instinctivecharm.bsky.social · 23/10/2025Feels rough to get this one after the day I've had 😂 150
✨Bel✨ @instinctivecharm.bsky.social · 19/10/2025Look at these sweet intimate moments of Gwyn and Astarion by the lovely @obsessedwhyyes.bsky.social!! 💕🥰✨ #Gwyndolyn #Astarion #DaggerCharm #TavOC #BG3 #BG3VP 33512
✨Bel✨ @instinctivecharm.bsky.social · 18/10/2025Meet my OC, Gwyndolyn ✨ 🎨 by the lovely @queenoftriforce.bsky.social 💖 Gwyn carries her spellbook, her old friend's thieves' tools, and her father's hand-carved wooden deer figurine. #BG3 #TavOC #artc0mm 3248
✨Bel✨ @instinctivecharm.bsky.social · 17/10/2025The cards themselves - extra note: the last card is the opposite of heartbreak, meaning recovery of something like that 110
✨Bel✨ @instinctivecharm.bsky.social · 17/10/2025The cards themselves - fascinating to see these knowing her patron too 110
✨Bel✨ @instinctivecharm.bsky.social · 09/10/2025The cards themselves CW for gore and cannabalism on the last card which represents consumption, desire and loss of self on the Lovers 110