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I_feel_old @iamoldaf.bsky.social · 12/04/2026
In Massachusetts there is a comparable and famous situation known as the "Big Dan Rape." It was a very complex issue that resulted in many protests and riots. A woman walked into a situation where she was at risk and was warned several times. I'm not sure if she's at fault. It's complicated.
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I_feel_old @iamoldaf.bsky.social · 12/04/2026
Things we will never admit but contribute to our awful culture. I'd like to speak to you not only to learn but defend and maybe make you understand me as I wish to understand you and communicate our findings to the rest of the world. I won't force it. Send me a DM so we can begin if you want.
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I_feel_old @iamoldaf.bsky.social · 12/04/2026
I come from a very adverse background from you. But despite my experience and surrounding voices telling me to just out right hate women I believe the opposite sex to have very valid complaints that the toxic men sphere not only ignores but men experience similar things.
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I_feel_old @iamoldaf.bsky.social · 12/04/2026
@emkelly.bsky.social I'm very serious. You seem like a very dedicated feminist and I would like to have a very serious conversation with you regarding gender and sexual issues. I believe we could learn a lot from each other and leave our world a better place if we can find some common ground.
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I_feel_old @iamoldaf.bsky.social · 12/04/2026
I almost gave you an ignorant response. I'd like to ask you to elaborate on that thought as clearly as possible before I respond. Other people are reading this and I want no ambiguity. Ambiguity is the central issue in these affairs. We don't understand each other. So please restate.
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I_feel_old @iamoldaf.bsky.social · 12/04/2026
I think that should change
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I_feel_old @iamoldaf.bsky.social · 12/04/2026
I am embarrassed to say there are an abundance of men who do not understand this. We should be there for each other before it becomes a problem but in the majority of cases we are not.
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I_feel_old @iamoldaf.bsky.social · 12/04/2026
Because you think I'm trying to excuse it. I'm not. No matter if he is gay or straight a man's urges are real and his responsibility. The same way a woman must come to understand her menstrual cycle a man must understand that his urges are natural but his responsibility.
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I_feel_old @iamoldaf.bsky.social · 12/04/2026
You know your pain I know mine. I believe they are not very different. But, like you I used to blame it on gender. Rather recently I realized that's not at all different from racism. Yes we have very different life experiences but we are humans and pain and fear are pain and fear.
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I_feel_old @iamoldaf.bsky.social · 12/04/2026
Men are but not all men. It's the same with women. Most women wouldn't make up an allegation for revenge because they are moral people. But are you Willing to say that no women would ever hurt a good man just because they feel they can get away with it?
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I_feel_old @iamoldaf.bsky.social · 12/04/2026
I invite this conversation but parts of it should be private. I know your pain.
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I_feel_old @iamoldaf.bsky.social · 12/04/2026
I'm going to reach here because I do not know you but I believe a man hurt you as only a man can hurt a woman. I had similar thoughts about women when she hurt me and my boy. ...she put him up for sale...I think this conversation will be heated. I think you're legitimate. Please dm me.
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I_feel_old @iamoldaf.bsky.social · 12/04/2026
I only speak for humans who crave peace for themselves and their offspring.
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I_feel_old @iamoldaf.bsky.social · 12/04/2026
Did I say it was harder? I will not pretend to know what a woman goes through. I only ask that you acknowledge we are not just goblins at the gate. We are people. People who want a more egalitarian existence but feel we will never have it. I'll grant you I do not speak for all men.
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I_feel_old @iamoldaf.bsky.social · 12/04/2026
I raised my boy despite many assaults and restraining orders against her and her revolving door of boyfriends. I was forced to sit in on several alanon meetings that were mostly women and three men. It is far harder to be a man who was abused in this society than a women. There's no sympathy for us.
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I_feel_old @iamoldaf.bsky.social · 12/04/2026
I don't want to give away to much of my personal information online but I am a man who raised a child on his own because his mother was very clearly abusive. I don't expect you to believe me, no one did until she was arrested for an unrelated issue which triggered an investigation but I assure you
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I_feel_old @iamoldaf.bsky.social · 12/04/2026
Must eternally be aware of through no fault of their own.
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I_feel_old @iamoldaf.bsky.social · 12/04/2026
If my comments made you feel that I am belittling the awful reality of the cards nature dealt you then I have no choice but to apologize for my lack of clear communication. Allow me to try again. I do not blame women I acknowledge they were born with a burden an unfair one but still one they
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I_feel_old @iamoldaf.bsky.social · 12/04/2026
Your murderer will truly appreciate that philosophy
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I_feel_old @iamoldaf.bsky.social · 12/04/2026
Irreverent joke but this is truly an issue I have spent the majority of my life researching and thinking about. Gender relations and fear of violation is not just a women's issue it's a human issue with many complex nuances. I'd enjoy a conversational partner with opposing ideas about them.
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I_feel_old @iamoldaf.bsky.social · 12/04/2026
Only a tiny fraction of those men were raised to and have the willpower to keep their own instinctual urges in check. Those are the men who actually have the ability to hold the other men accountable. If you truly want to talk about this issue to a solution I invite it. The 9mm comment was an
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I_feel_old @iamoldaf.bsky.social · 12/04/2026
Of course, anyone, man or woman Should be held accountable for harming another for personal gain or pleasure in a just world. However, a just world is one where every single person has a just conscience. There are 8.3 billion people on this planet, about half of them are men.
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I_feel_old @iamoldaf.bsky.social · 12/04/2026
9mm
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I_feel_old @iamoldaf.bsky.social · 11/04/2026
I mean if you walked into a place where you knew there was a high probability you were going to be shot and a vest was available to you then ya that is your fault.
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I_feel_old @iamoldaf.bsky.social · 11/04/2026
Assuming anyone survives to read history
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I_feel_old @iamoldaf.bsky.social · 11/04/2026
It's just Primus without vocals
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I_feel_old @iamoldaf.bsky.social · 11/04/2026
He really does make them look competent and it's sad.
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I_feel_old @iamoldaf.bsky.social · 11/04/2026
You believe the terrible reputation of China is just propaganda and I'm correcting you. China is a backwards little pigsty desperately trying to emulate the US and continuously failing at it despite how much more effective their propaganda is since we elected the orange one.
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I_feel_old @iamoldaf.bsky.social · 11/04/2026
That's where they're manufactured, silly. The designs still come from the states and the raw materials come from Africa and Australia. Of all the contributions in the creation of alternative energies China's is the most easily replaceable. US factory workers learned that the hard way.
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I_feel_old @iamoldaf.bsky.social · 11/04/2026
It is once you realize what they have been doing to the uyghur people since 2017. Not to mention the other numerous horrific crimes they commit daily at the state level. China is not a nice place
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I_feel_old @iamoldaf.bsky.social · 11/04/2026
By full economic might he means all the money him and the billionaires stole from the 98% of Americans who still work an inexcusable amount of hours to just eat.
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I_feel_old @iamoldaf.bsky.social · 11/04/2026
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I_feel_old @iamoldaf.bsky.social · 11/04/2026
But please by all means give me your interpretation of the data. I don't mean this in a challenging way I truly like hearing alternative perspectives. It's how humanity finds truth in the chaos of differing perspectives.
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I_feel_old @iamoldaf.bsky.social · 11/04/2026
You don't really understand how propaganda works.
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I_feel_old @iamoldaf.bsky.social · 11/04/2026
I did. I'm not sure you understand what it says.
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I_feel_old @iamoldaf.bsky.social · 11/04/2026
And then came Disney
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I_feel_old @iamoldaf.bsky.social · 11/04/2026
You're only supposed to build those when you're successful.
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I_feel_old @iamoldaf.bsky.social · 11/04/2026
So remove him and arrest them all.
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I_feel_old @iamoldaf.bsky.social · 11/04/2026
Thank you Donald Trump.....for not showing up to the landing.
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I_feel_old @iamoldaf.bsky.social · 11/04/2026
We spend more than the next 10 countries combined on our military. How bout we cut that down to 9 and solve health care?
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I_feel_old @iamoldaf.bsky.social · 11/04/2026
It's really not. There are two Chinas. You only see what they show you and that's where all the renewables are the rest is sweatshops and coal plants because that's still the driving force of there economy. That's why they've built so many vacant luxury buildings. It's north Korea times ten.
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I_feel_old @iamoldaf.bsky.social · 11/04/2026
Correct, the cost of supply skyrocketed because people had money to actually furnish their demands. Hence, exactly what I said. Learn effective control of externalities first.
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I_feel_old @iamoldaf.bsky.social · 10/04/2026
Medical* text book and yes I have which I understood the difference and you had to Google it. I'll reiterate, you're not good at this kid. I'm busy right now but when I have the time to address your bullshit you're going to regret it. Repent now.
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I_feel_old @iamoldaf.bsky.social · 10/04/2026
No.... it's just the rhinovirus. That's why there's a difference between getting a cold and the flu. Similar symptoms, totally different threat level and contagion risks.
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I_feel_old @iamoldaf.bsky.social · 10/04/2026
I assumed you were CCP, not asian necessarily. Mostly because you're riding that dick tater so hard that Winnie the poohs gonna give you pigglets
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I_feel_old @iamoldaf.bsky.social · 10/04/2026
Furthermore I'd quit while you're ahead little buddy you're not good at this.
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I_feel_old @iamoldaf.bsky.social · 10/04/2026
It's not baseless or racist at all. It's backed by every health organization and news outlet on earth and doesn't place blame on anyone of asian descent in the least but specifically at the CCP because it's an evil organization that the Chinese people themselves hate.
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I_feel_old @iamoldaf.bsky.social · 10/04/2026
It's not. The common cold is caused by something called the rhinovirus which is a completely different family from the Corona virus family a well known member of which is SARS. China has had several SARS outbreaks in the past few decades so they know the difference.
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I_feel_old @iamoldaf.bsky.social · 10/04/2026
Untrue, he worked for all those felonies and rightfully earned them.
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I_feel_old @iamoldaf.bsky.social · 10/04/2026
It all started with that fucking gorilla
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