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jai.be

@iamjaibe-darling.bsky.social
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Singer 🎼. Writer.✒️. Mama 👩🏿‍🍼. Lupus warrior 💜. Science #Blerd .🔬🧪🌌🔭. Art lover. 🖼️🎭. Chronic digital freelancer. Alive. Human. Vibrant. 🇺🇸 Born Full- blooded Ashanti Royalty.👸🏿🇬🇭 . Loves deeply 💖. Without apology. Striving for more wisdom every day 🙏🏾.|30+| NC|

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jai.be @iamjaibe-darling.bsky.social · 28/01/2026
It's a war, ain't it?
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jai.be @iamjaibe-darling.bsky.social · 28/01/2026
Every time I come back to this app, it looks completely different. Idk how to do anything anymore
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jai.be @iamjaibe-darling.bsky.social · 28/01/2026
Why do I feel like I'm living in a comic book movie?
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jai.be @iamjaibe-darling.bsky.social · 19/12/2025
"I'm all about my cheddar. Metaphorically too. Simply bring home plenty and I will surely love you!"
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jai.be @iamjaibe-darling.bsky.social · 19/12/2025
There are too many people out here mentally stuck in high school and I need someone to explain to me why this happens. Explain it as if I were 5.
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jai.be @iamjaibe-darling.bsky.social · 19/12/2025
I think it's time to accept that I'm going to be seeing the back of an ambulance every month because every month, almost without fail, I've been sick enough to have to call one. Even the strictest black grandma would've called the people herself- type of sick. And this is why lupus sucks.
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fluffy fairy 🧚‍♀️ @beigewunder.blacksky.app · 23/11/2025
Being smart or accomplished or wealthy or having a big, interesting life isn't enough to impress me. Good people who are still good despite adversity and pain impress me. People who are kind and show up and tell the truth even when it's hard impress me.
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jai.be @iamjaibe-darling.bsky.social · 18/10/2025
Hell I forget after I save them anyway because I forget ppls names so easily 😅
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jai.be @iamjaibe-darling.bsky.social · 07/10/2025
This man just told me that making sure my 4 yr old gets to bed at 8:30 pm and taking time for myself at night was lazy and bad parenting. WTAF?
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jai.be @iamjaibe-darling.bsky.social · 30/09/2025
"I'll be eatin' up a Pint of Chocolate Chip Ben and Jerry's, please, non-dairy, cause it's 2:45, in the morning, and I've got a new heartbreak I'm trying mend together... "
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KMJeezy @kmjeezy.bsky.social · 09/09/2025
Make your kids a library! Turn off the TV. Unplug the video games. Make them read! It doesnt matter what. I was reading Stephen King and Jackie Collins wayyy to young but I was enjoying myself.
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jai.be @iamjaibe-darling.bsky.social · 09/09/2025
Trying to catch your man in a lie because you've got trust issues... But you can't detect where that lie lies 🫠 But you know it's gotta be somewhere in there... 🤔 Lying in there somewhere
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jai.be @iamjaibe-darling.bsky.social · 26/08/2025
Merely being in the presence of a person can bring about an exchange of energy
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jai.be @iamjaibe-darling.bsky.social · 17/08/2025
Facts.
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jazmineduke @jazmineduke.bsky.social · 17/08/2025
no one loves a good man better than a woman who hates men 💅🏽
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jai.be @iamjaibe-darling.bsky.social · 17/08/2025
Right on time.
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jai.be @iamjaibe-darling.bsky.social · 25/05/2025
The older I get, the more heat intolerant I become. No. One. Prepped. Me. For. This 🥵😓.
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MenaP85 @menap85.bsky.social · 25/05/2025
Your peace matters more than your relationship status‼️Guard it like gold 🙌
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Chelle✨ @bomb-chelle.blacksky.app · 23/05/2025
It’s ok to go to therapy.
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jai.be @iamjaibe-darling.bsky.social · 24/05/2025
So then you get "victim- shamed and blamed" on top of it. Now you're looking like the crazy one when your ex is the real nutcase. 😭
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jai.be @iamjaibe-darling.bsky.social · 24/05/2025
Even worse, when you finally find the courage to file a report, they somehow get the police to think you lied- and have mental issues- when in reality you acted like a traumatized person who gave in to their attacker to avoid more pain 😭
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jai.be @iamjaibe-darling.bsky.social · 24/05/2025
When someone assaulted you and you finally find the courage to leave them alone and tell at least one person your story, why would they then turn around and try to paint you as some bitter ex to multiple people, when the reality is that you're deathly afraid of what they might try next?
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Suing Cynthia’s Garchomp @thebestatty.blacksky.app · 23/05/2025
And it’s not even what “snitching” is
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Wax Witch @waxwitch.bsky.social · 23/05/2025
Protecting people who terrorize you over some street code is dumb as fuck, folks need to grow up
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Wax Witch @waxwitch.bsky.social · 23/05/2025
They're just throw around terms to silence/shame people into allowing terrible behavior to go unchecked
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jai.be @iamjaibe-darling.bsky.social · 19/05/2025
If something happens to me, just know I did what I could. Or at least what I thought I was supposed to do.
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jai.be @iamjaibe-darling.bsky.social · 19/05/2025
Today I learned (again) in the harshest way the law really doesn't protect people. Police don't protect people. Only property. That is all.
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Sbooks @bemorelikeharper.bsky.social · 18/05/2025
Please come to me as a woman so we can jump him.
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jai.be @iamjaibe-darling.bsky.social · 17/05/2025
Need me a you around here, sir!
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Clitasaurus Rex 🦖 @naiijah.blacksky.app · 16/05/2025
all these black men being outed as abusers and no conversations about how they making the black community look bad? But there’s so much to say when it comes to black women being single mothers, wearing lashes/weave, and twerking
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jai.be @iamjaibe-darling.bsky.social · 17/05/2025
My ex on here poaching my followers & watching my posts for interactions so he can follow anyone that interacts with me. I'd block him but he's the type to kick in the door if you don't let him feel like he can at least see through the window 😭😭. Now that I've typed it, I see how crazy it all is 😭
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jai.be @iamjaibe-darling.bsky.social · 16/05/2025
My 3 yr old just looked me dead in my eyes and said " you fix you hair like a mama" 😭😭 how did I become this? 😭
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mamamoo @thelovelymc.bsky.social · 14/05/2025
yall are extremely uneducated about stockholm syndrome & it shows open up the schools
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jai.be @iamjaibe-darling.bsky.social · 14/05/2025
Don't threaten me with a good time, now! 😏🤭
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jai.be @iamjaibe-darling.bsky.social · 14/05/2025
Heavy Pressure! Only Real Lover Boys are encouraged to apply. 🤗
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𝒮𝒽ℯ-ℛ𝒶 @riptodeesse.blacksky.app · 13/05/2025
How do ppl that harm others don’t feel no way about hurting other ppl by their presence in other’s lives? You ok with that lmao?
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jai.be @iamjaibe-darling.bsky.social · 13/05/2025
I don't do nun but drink my ginger beer, & smoke my ouid. 💨
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jai.be @iamjaibe-darling.bsky.social · 12/05/2025
Anyways that last post is the closest I've come to publicly crashing out about this whole situation and I'm honestly so proud of myself 🥲.
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a woman is talking to another woman in a hallway while holding her hands together and says `` growth '' .
ALT: a woman is talking to another woman in a hallway while holding her hands together and says `` growth '' .
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jai.be @iamjaibe-darling.bsky.social · 12/05/2025
It's crazy how some women will really try to fight you or have confrontation with you over some dick that don't even belong to them, but will be somewhere proclaiming that they are a girl's girl with their full chest. Yeah. Ok, Barbara.
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jai.be @iamjaibe-darling.bsky.social · 12/05/2025
Yes! Yes! Yes!!!
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jai.be @iamjaibe-darling.bsky.social · 11/05/2025
Pay a bill for mother's day. It'll last longer than a bouquet.
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jai.be @iamjaibe-darling.bsky.social · 11/05/2025
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jai.be @iamjaibe-darling.bsky.social · 10/05/2025
Oh. My. God! Thank you Lord! Cause we were all collectively shaking in our boots for fear of nukes. 🙌🏾🎉
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jai.be @iamjaibe-darling.bsky.social · 10/05/2025
As you should! Because wtaf!! Focus on your marriage instead of bald headed games!
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jai.be @iamjaibe-darling.bsky.social · 10/05/2025
This is why I do NOT date. I don't even think I like being pursued atp. I was minding my business heavy. And I'm going back to minding my business heavy. There are whole serial killers in the dating pool. It's time to drain that bitch.
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jai.be @iamjaibe-darling.bsky.social · 10/05/2025
I'm dumping that man. Also, "Lock him up officer!" A whole nutcase in the highest degree! 😭😭
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