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Same for me. I think if anyone can do it, it's Geller. Certainly did more for me than any of my "friends" that assured me I was not drugged and held against my will at the time.

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Obviously we disagree, but I can understand feeling that way if an apology is not posted on every possible platform.

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To make their lives easier. That being said, I can't stop anyone from being mad, I just am not going to support these bizarre revenge fantasies. I didn't get half the respect and acknowledgement from my rapists that this victim got.

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As a rape victim this is the objectively correct position to have imo. Geller has been a positive influence on every sphere he's touched on. If anything I would love to see him do some community work with other survivors like me connecting with what suffering we still hold onto and volunteering 1/2

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Let's not assume whatever is best for the victim, that's up for them to decide. Anything else is conjecture to make us feel better about ourselves.

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You have been a positive influence in every sphere since then. And a positive influence on many of the people that listen to you, if not all of them. Your whole career has been making up for harm. Harm to our medial literacy, or morality, and political thought and discussion.

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As a victim of the exact situation you admit to, and in fact, probably more violent and cruel as I was not afforded any of the acknowledgement, and instead I was gaslit instead. Thank you for handling it in the best way you could've. You are allowed to be better, and you have been (1/2)

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Hoopity @hoopity.bsky.social · 27/09/2026

"punishment only exists to encourage growth away from negative behaviors." A profound and ridiculous admissal that you do not in fact know what you are talking about. The amount of pseudointellectual revenge fantasies do no one but your own feeling justice. Signed, a rape victim.

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"friends" is right if you've not switched over you're not Sashi's friend, what a total freak lmaoooo

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alargewoodenbadger @alargewoodenbadger.bsky.social · 11/09/2026

Lets Groove Tonight! With Bea and Sam

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Luscious Lioness @lusciouslioness.bsky.social · 28/08/2026

A quick tutorial in two steps on how to thank @siristhedragon.bsky.social for making project silverfish

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Hoopity @hoopity.bsky.social · 23/07/2026

Check out Deck of Delvers "Harmony": Tarot-Sized NPC Cards for 5e on @BackerKit! Genuinely one of my favorite, and one of the best D&D settings for queers, and furries. www.backerkit.com/c/projects/h...

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Deck of Delvers "Harmony": Tarot-Sized NPC Cards for 5e

A deck of lavishly illustrated, tarot-sized NPC cards for 5e, with artwork entirely by Korean artists and characters crafted by the Korean TTRPG community.

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Pasong @pasong.bsky.social · 25/06/2026

Alter Ego trend but bunny

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Hoopity @hoopity.bsky.social · 25/06/2026

Between playing Project Silverfish (The inspiration for this picture) and running my Delver's Guide to The Beast world game I haven't posted much. Here's something more recent!

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TateOfTot @tateoftot.bsky.social · 26/05/2026

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If you think there was any evidence of grooming beyond the dubious but legal (in most of the world) age difference. You did not read those documents thoroughly enough. What a pathetic joke. Come back in ten years, maybe then you can parse the lies and manipulation that was in them to begin with.

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Truly, it doesn't get more performative than that, word salad nonsense.

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Right, says the one that grossly misconstrued the issue with a meme instead of any good faith conversation. Really funny kiddo. Anyways, I've already gone in length on how I've felt but clearly you just wanted a hit to try to feel good about yourself, naturally. We just love pretending like we care

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Don't worry, I could tell.

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Sure, whatever you say kiddo, reading is hard

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Sonador @sonador.bsky.social · 29/04/2026

Sub 18 age? Yeah that tracks, good bait

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Nine Inch Nails feat. Boys Noize - Copy of a www.youtube.com/watch?v=APf3... I feel less and less like the original every day. #furry #secondlife #slfurry

An anthropomorphic raccoon furry, resembling a desaturated, crumpled piece of paper, surrounded by similar aspects themself.

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Hoopity @hoopity.bsky.social · 18/04/2026

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If there's something more you'd like to dig at, sure. hmu wherever

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dishonest framing helps anyone but the abuser? You've failed completely to address the lies, the admissals of that abuse, and the DARVO tactics in the same 2nd document and instead opt to uncritically engage with the situation. In a way that only enflates your ego, it is profoundly harmful.

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Mica is an a victim of abuse here, ultimately. And regardless of their mistakes anyone with a shred of "empathy" wants either of them to grow, get better, realize their mistakes, and ensure it doesn't happen to them or anyone else again. Do you think what you're doing with your dishonesty and- 1/2

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Spare me, hero. These are all childishly obvious things you COULD do as a third party observer bereft of the context that you continue to insincerely ignore. But they didn't, and as someone that does have empathy, I understand why, which has ultimately nothing to do with acceptance.

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Thank you for your time and patience to wait and read all of this- again this is a very serious issue that should not of happened in the first place. But I'll be damned if I'm going to be apart of supporting continued harm in the face of misteps under duress and abuse.

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- having their whole shot at getting money to get those and other needs met be attacked. As a survivor of sa, emotional abuse, and other fun things- I hope you can see where I'm coming from, and why my focus is on reformative justice, and why I only agree with mica on what are lies and what's not.

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"BEST" conversation choice during our headbutting here. I don't think it was a good thing to be in the situation to begin with, but I don't think it's worth attacking an abuse survivor. These people need motherfucking therapy, these people need motherfucking help, not- 8/?

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the unhealthy communication and interaction standards? Is it the abused that continue the cycle of unhealthy attachemnt and communication during the abuse while it's being constantly, admittedly reinforced? These are serious things to consider. You yourself have seen yourself now not make the- 7/?

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A still bonafide abuser utilizing the same narrative arguments and manipulation tactics to cause more harm. And Mica who had as far as I can tell, admitted that it was not good to let themselves be coerced in that situation anyway. So who's at fault? Is it singular? Is it the abuser that set- 6/?

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No. There is too much room for harm to happen. Do I think Mica's a monster for doing so? No, it's legal and pretty common for youth to make mistakes UNDER DURESS MIGHT I ADD. You're not magically emotionally intelligent and will never harm anyone at 18, and onward. I see only 2 people- 5/?

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- Like lying about statutory rape (A profoundly serious moral and legal breach), the emotional coercion and DARVO tactics being used. All I see is an ex abuser trying to harm their victim as they try to garner a modicum of success and money. Would I suggest anyone at 20 talk to a 17 year old? 4/?

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- Manipulative tactics that are not lost on me, these are ones I've experienced, I've lived with, so I take them very seriously. It is not a carte-blanche but the admissal of abuse changes how I feel this whole situation needs to be approached and dealt with. Ignoring things in the second- 3/?

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The second, which, if you read and analyze the language, is emotional coercive, it lies, and contradicts itself inside the own document. And in fact specifically admits to the same abuse outlined in the first. But then opts for trying to DARVO the full weight of responsibility back. These are- 1/?

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I hope that reveals to you the importance of understanding what people are more likely to do when they are already in an emotional state (In this case, argumentative) I want you to seriously, thoroughly read through both documents again. The first that Read posted outlines harm, abuse, coercion 1/?

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Putting words in my mouth really is not helping your case.

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Like let's take a moment to level with ourselves, let's kill the cop in our heads, let's care about human life and their health therein! The real question that you need to ask yourself: If you're getting coerced and subsequently abused emotionally do you think you're going to be able to healthily?

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Very cool I hope that makes you feel very good about yourself. Something clearly that you're only here to do. Like I told the other dilettante Clem neither of you really care about anyone here, you just want to get brownie points uncritically engaging with a profoundly serious issue. Wild, dog.

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And does nothing for either of these people, you people just smell blood in the water and want to win internet brownie points. You don't care about the lives and health of anyone here, because you refuse to take any of this seriously enough to read anything in full or critically engage with it.

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Come back and ask another when you've actually read both documents and can ask anything or have a good faith conversation.

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Would I have let myself get coerced by someone using suicide as a manipulation tactic to abuse my empathy into doing something? Genuinely, at 20? Anything! In fact it already happened, I was dating someone that was 22 at the time under the same coercion. Your insincere framing is profoundly harmful

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Hey I know it's really hard to talk about serious issues without ad-hom but if you saw the message you'd know I was just having some trouble for a second spacing out my text because the messages were exactly the same. Half the programs I use use CTRL + SHIFT + ENTER for line breaks.

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