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@hey-kay-away.bsky.social
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𝚅𝙸𝚅 𝙱𝚂 𝚟𝚒𝚜𝚞𝚊𝚕𝚕𝚢 𝚒𝚖𝚙𝚊𝚒𝚛𝚎𝚍 𝚟𝚊𝚖𝚙𝚒𝚛𝚎 𝚋𝚎𝚍𝚛𝚒𝚍𝚍𝚎𝚗 𝚜𝚙𝚘𝚘𝚗𝚒𝚎🪫 👩🏼‍🦯👩🏼‍🦼🧛🏼‍♀️ ᴅᴀʀᴋ ʜᴜᴍᴏʀ ɪꜱ ᴍʏ ᴄᴏᴘɪɴɢ ᴍᴇᴄʜᴀɴɪꜱᴍ

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'kay then。 @hey-kay-away.bsky.social · 04/02/2025
Financial assistance agencies: "Hey, we get that you're poor & disabled & already sent in tons of paperwork, but can you send it in again, in a stressful timeframe so we don't just throw your application out, to prove you're *still* poor and *still* disabled? K thx" #burnedout #poverty #disabled
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'kay then。 @hey-kay-away.bsky.social · 24/12/2024
youtu.be/hLeqbtaZf8M Thumbnail didn't pop up before
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To my un-adoptive mother: accountability
YouTube video by ᚹᛁᛏᚳᚻ×ᛒᛁᛏᚳᚻ
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'kay then。 @hey-kay-away.bsky.social · 24/12/2024
youtu.be/hLeqbtaZf8M #BlackLivesMatter #racism #classism #ableism #fuckwhitesupremacy
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This year, I was legally adopted as an adult, going to move to another state for better healthcare and cost of living, so my daughter and I could get the care we need. 

5 days before moving, my adoptive mom decided to leave us behind.. 

She had hidden her racism, classism, and ableism until AFTER the adoption. I wanted the adoption annulled after learning what kind of person she actually is, to protect my daughter.

December 5th is when it was officially annulled.
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Part of collective accountability of those with white privilege calling out the racism of each other.
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'kay then。 @hey-kay-away.bsky.social · 24/12/2024
cont. And for some dark humor 🍒🍨: Fueled by hatred? What can I say, I'm white—runs in my veins 😂 The work it takes to dismantle the system pales in comparison to letting things stay the same. I still have much to learn. Unlucky for you, I graduated Valedictorian. 😆 #fuckwhitesupremacy
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'kay then。 @hey-kay-away.bsky.social · 24/12/2024
cont. Fellow whites, you have only yourselves to thank I am now the villain you treated me as my whole life. "Thanks" to you, I have little to lose. I eat up white guilt's garmonbozia 😆 When you grow up being so isolated & neglected that hatred feels like love? Better believe it fuels me 😈
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'kay then。 @hey-kay-away.bsky.social · 24/12/2024
cont. ..thankful, because it is now impossible to NOT see the beast for what it is. Tearing down white supremacy isn't just part of my responsibility as a human being. It is also delicious vengeance, to see the shock in other white faces that one of their own WANTS to do this
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'kay then。 @hey-kay-away.bsky.social · 24/12/2024
cont. (flare-up interrupted my thought stream 🙃) So, being AuDHD + mirror-touch + CSAed + a pariah + becoming severely disabled (& treated like trash) + now learning how insidious white supremacy is, how it's part of EVERYTHING.. In a twisted way, I'm thankful all this happened..
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'kay then。 @hey-kay-away.bsky.social · 21/12/2024
cont. Mirror-touch = feeling others' emotions & physical sensations as my own. I did not understand I had this growing up. Nor did I understand others *didn't* have this. I knew I didn't fit in since I was 3. I didn't understand why until my therapist taught me.
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'kay then。 @hey-kay-away.bsky.social · 21/12/2024
cont. I am so grateful to her for blowing off the lid by teaching me about white supremacy. I still have so much to learn. What we've pieced together is that likely the whites around me *intentionally* kept their racism at bay around me. I'm a mirror-touch synesthete.
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'kay then。 @hey-kay-away.bsky.social · 21/12/2024
cont. I kept running into this issue, over & over: white friendships ending out of the blue. Even my autism wasn't making sense for why this kept happening. After my former therapist retired, I purposely sought a Black female therapist to teach me about intersectionality, for my daughter
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'kay then。 @hey-kay-away.bsky.social · 21/12/2024
cont. What's even worse is if you try to confront them w/ how their actions impacted you: they'll get defensive or dismissive i.e. your feelings DO NOT matter. I can't think of a single white person who hasn't acted like this to some extent, with the exception of my former therapist
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'kay then。 @hey-kay-away.bsky.social · 21/12/2024
"If you really want to know how just, how civilized a society is, you have only to look at how it treats its poor, its prisoners, and its most despised citizens." ~James Baldwin
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'kay then。 @hey-kay-away.bsky.social · 21/12/2024
I think any time Republican politicians or voters are *shocked,* this is just my go-to reaction:
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a man in a suit and tie is making a funny face and saying you don 't say ?
Alt: Nicholas Cage being iconic: "YOU DON'T SAY?😀"
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'kay then。 @hey-kay-away.bsky.social · 21/12/2024
Oo! Next edit: Trump is the ventriloquist dummy 💩
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'kay then。 @hey-kay-away.bsky.social · 21/12/2024
Having attended a K-12 Christian school that was also pro-gun.. and gifted a .22 on my 17th birthday.. 'cognitive dissonance' does not cover the feelings inside rn..
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spongebob squarepants is sitting at a table in a diner holding a cup of coffee .
Alt: SpongeBob SquarePants sitting at a table in a diner staring into space, by a steaming cup of coffee.
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'kay then。 @hey-kay-away.bsky.social · 21/12/2024
Your last sentence—had to swallow my laugh so I didn't wake my toddler up. How soon are dating profiles going to start including, "..and did I mention I'm NOT a mass murderer? 👉🏼😏👉🏼" 🫠💀
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'kay then。 @hey-kay-away.bsky.social · 21/12/2024
If real life wasn't horrific atm, this would make a great Sims 2 love triangle #MuskratLove 😂 #TrumpDumped #Plumbobezos
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'kay then。 @hey-kay-away.bsky.social · 21/12/2024
Never have I ever considered setting up a Ponzi scheme to fool a billionaire into giving up his money for the greater good might be the most ethical solution... but even I'm surprised sometimes 😳
That's Not Right re-posting Hillary Clinton's post: "If you're just catching up: the Republican Party, taking orders from the world's richest man, is on course to shit down the government over the holidays, stopping paychecks for our troops, and nutrition benefits for low-income families just in time for Christmas."

That's Not Right's commentary: "This is what an oligarchy looks like...

Elon Musk owns SpaceX, Tesla, and X, and is a major government contractor. As 'co-president,' he can steer billions of federal dollars toward his own companies.

How can we be sure what he's whispering to Trump is for the good of the country—not just good for himself?" @senwarren
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'kay then。 @hey-kay-away.bsky.social · 21/12/2024
I wouldn't be shocked if someone told me they took said funding agreement, folded it into a paper football, and made their next "decisions" based on wherever it landed on a roulette wheel.. #GOPolio
The GOP is confusing.. again.
@NoLieWithBTC
"Just so we're clear what happened:

Republicans tore apart their funding agreement with Democrats after Elon Musk told them to.

They created a new bill that defunded child cancer research.

And then they failed to pass that bill too."
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'kay then。 @hey-kay-away.bsky.social · 21/12/2024
When it seems so plausible you're not sure if it's satire or real life
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a man in a yellow shirt and tie is talking to another man with the words bears beets battlestar galactica
Alt: Jim Halpert pretending to be Dwight: "Bears. Beets. Battlestar Galactica."
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'kay then。 @hey-kay-away.bsky.social · 21/12/2024
If it weren't such a fustercluck I'd say what a great photo for Disney-esque portraits of villainy
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a cartoon drawing of cruella de vil from disney holding a cane
Alt: Cruella bending over in her evil, smoke-lunged cackle
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'kay then。 @hey-kay-away.bsky.social · 21/12/2024
Even Trump *winning* and his voters are losing their mind, except now in an "Oh crap" manner #FAFO
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Lulu🐸🇺🇸🐸🔬🧬🩺🚫👑🦋🇧🇧💙🏳️‍🌈✌🏻🐝🇨🇦 @luluinportland.bsky.social · 14/12/2024
#GOPolio
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'kay then。 @hey-kay-away.bsky.social · 20/12/2024
So the CEOs pulling this trash on ppl are asking us to include them in the wanted posters because they feel left out—that's what that means, right? 🤔
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'kay then。 @hey-kay-away.bsky.social · 20/12/2024
On the contrary, bigots are some of my greatest source of entertainment, without the ethical qualms. Because they can't be persuaded with logic or empathy, I just take them for a ride, poke at their ego in such a way that *they* look ridiculous if they complain. It's cathartic 😆😆
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'kay then。 @hey-kay-away.bsky.social · 20/12/2024
They can't handle the collective cognitive dissonance of themselves in the same room—no wonder they freaked about Y2K 😂 Now we know where the zombies from the zombie apocalypse come from (I am in a *mood* today 😆😒) #GOPstoppers (forgive me, Wonka 🙏🏼)
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'kay then。 @hey-kay-away.bsky.social · 20/12/2024
Let's clog up X with spoof accounts of Melon Tusk and Trumpster Fire (normally I'm not a proponent of name-calling, but that ship sailed with SpaceX 🤷🏼‍♀️) 😆😆 Let's see if we can convince them they've been cloned. #fuckwhitesupremacy #ifightdirty
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'kay then。 @hey-kay-away.bsky.social · 20/12/2024
In other words, time to clog up those phone lines and make them regret using tech past the 1800s 💪🏼😏😈 Be. Annoying. As. Possible. Have a lot of pent up anger about injustice? Well Uncle Sam just lent us a free ear 😆 #fuckwhitesupremacy #ifightdirty
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'kay then。 @hey-kay-away.bsky.social · 20/12/2024
This is my #HolidayReality2024 How's yours? 🫠 #housing #disability #USA #mom #poverty
This holiday season, I am doing my best to soak in every good moment.

I do my best to keep calm knowing that homelessness may become inevitable. 

Even though I'm on the Section 8 waiting list, I have no idea if they'll try to get rid of that.

I just won my disability case this summer, having been unable to work since 2021. I got exposed to black mold a month after my C-section, for months. I never got to be the mom I wanted to. My health has been declining since. I'm now bedridden most of the time.

I've gotten tested for cancer twice this year, both negative. However, it still doesn't explain what's wrong. 

I need palliative care. I don't have a diagnosis to qualify me for it. 

My village abandoned us over the years because of their unspoken expectations of what THEY THOUGHT I should be as a mom. It exposed their covert ableism, classism, and racism (my husband is Black, my daughter biracial). 

People think it's justifiable to punish someone for being unable to keep a clean home, even though I've BEEN ASKING FOR HELP for years, for most of which the responses have been either, "No," silence, or blocking me. And most of the ones who did help, instead of having a mature conversation and leaving on good terms, instead abandoned us with part of the rent in their name, utilities in their name, moving out in secret.

Motherhood has been pure hell. Not for being a mom itself, because my daughter is the absolute light and joy of my life, but because I was not at all prepared for the inhumanity that is the NORM for some reason. 

I expected judgment, but still thought people who claimed to love me, who had been in my life for YEARS, would still at least want to stay connected.

I could not have been more wrong.

Homelessness feels inevitable because they want to take away social security. And the circles I grew up in, whom I've excommunicated, who call themselves "Christians" (because what they follow is white supremacist ideals, not Christ), would be ecstatic to know that "lazy" disabled people such as myself are having our only source of income (which is WELL BELOW poverty level) taken away, so we aren't "feeding off" the system. Meanwhile they largely turn a blind eye to billionaires because they "worked hard" to get their wealth.

That we are coming up to a holiday that celebrates the birth of a child in poverty in non-humane conditions while simultaneously having our own housing conditions threatened is a cruel irony that is not lost on me.

#Christmas
#money
#housing
#mom

#Christmas
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'kay then。 @hey-kay-away.bsky.social · 20/12/2024
The kinds of circles I grew up in (and escaped) absolutely believe it's the church's responsibility to care for us #disabled They will happily remove our income w/out making sure there is any net to catch us. And this was pre-MAGA thinking. Who knows how bad it's gotten since? 💀
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'kay then。 @hey-kay-away.bsky.social · 20/12/2024
@jelaniya.bsky.social (I can't figure out if BlueSky has DM, sorry 🙃) I'm still figuring out how lists work—wanted to ask if I could add you as a user (the list shows that person's posts)? The link is pinned in my profile (because it's hard to write a fully thought-out message in ≤300 characters 😆🤦🏼‍♀️
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'kay then。 @hey-kay-away.bsky.social · 20/12/2024
Beyond fed up with white performativism, fragility, tears, centrism, forcing POC to carry OUR emotional labor of responsibility, etc. Anyone welcome: a space for unpacking complex feelings then doing more—not just feeling guilty. #listen #learn #fuckwhitesupremacy bsky.app/profile/did:...
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'kay then。 @hey-kay-away.bsky.social · 19/12/2024
I got excited when I looked up #NDIS and then realized it's AU, not US 🙃 I actually did want to move to AU, but at this rate, I'm lucky if I can just get out of this city. #disability #disabled #pwd #inaccessible #chronicillness
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'kay then。 @hey-kay-away.bsky.social · 19/12/2024
Raises lots of questions: there's a lot I love about AI, but when it comes to children, how will it interface with them? Can it recognize *why* a child might be struggling? How will *kids* feel if it's not a human they see? What is the criteria for determination? Efficiency ≠ better, necessarily
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'kay then。 @hey-kay-away.bsky.social · 19/12/2024
I needed that chuckle 😂 @theonion.com
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'kay then。 @hey-kay-away.bsky.social · 19/12/2024
"We can disagree and still love each other unless your disagreement is rooted in my oppression and denial of my humanity and right to exist." ~James Baldwin #quote #freedom #fuckwhitesupremacy
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More Perfect Union @moreperfectunion.bsky.social · 19/12/2024
BREAKING: The biggest strike against Amazon in U.S. history is happening right now. The Teamsters are picketing facilities across the country. The union has organized workers at 10 Amazon locations AND they're putting up picket lines at hundreds of other Amazon sites nationwide.
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'kay then。 @hey-kay-away.bsky.social · 19/12/2024
So Mitch McConnell thinks the people of Kentucky aren't Americans, I guess. 🫢
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'kay then。 @hey-kay-away.bsky.social · 19/12/2024
I have a feeling that the higher/more intense charges they bring against him, the more likely the jury will be nullified. This case has already been history in the making. #FreeLuigi
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BrooklynDad_Defiant! @mmpadellan.bsky.social · 19/12/2024
Millionaires and billionaires would be perfectly FINE not getting salary for 33 days, or even 333 days. The average American, folks like you and me working paycheck to paycheck, would not. Do NOT let billionaires make decisions for US. PASS IT ON.
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'kay then。 @hey-kay-away.bsky.social · 19/12/2024
😳 People really don't know how debilitating chronic illness is, and are opting their kids into it willingly.. Really glad I got my kid vaccinated already. Pretty sure Darwin awards have run out by now. #chronicillness #disability #chronicpain #disabled #vaccine #parent
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Daniel Rolph Author @danielrolphauthor.bsky.social · 18/12/2024
True luxury is found in the simplest moments.
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JmRoyle #LFC #YNWA #BLM #REJOINEU @myarrse.bsky.social · 17/12/2024
Should be in every newsagents window.
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Gabino Iglesias @gabino.bsky.social · 16/12/2024
Writing is an act of rebellion. Writing is an act of creation. Writing is an act of salvation. Writing is an act of exploration. Writing is an act of emotion. Writing is an act of confession. Writing is an act of speculation. Writing is an act of reflection. Keep writing.
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'kay then。 @hey-kay-away.bsky.social · 17/12/2024
Fixed it. #FreeLuigi #UnitedHealthcare #insurance #alt #health
'UnitedHealthcare' changed to 'UntiedHealthcare' with untied shoelaces on the logo and the 'alt' in 'Healthcare' underlined.
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'kay then。 @hey-kay-away.bsky.social · 17/12/2024
@bsky.app can you make sites/apps like YouTube and TikTok where you can control algorithms on those too? And call it BlueTube 😎 #BlueSky #socialmedia #YouTube #TikTok #app
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'kay then。 @hey-kay-away.bsky.social · 16/12/2024
Bluesky is the only place I actually feel like has a CHANCE of getting helpful info. #race #racism #whitesupremacy #BLM #fedup #help #support #online
Text-based photo: Are there online groups/forums by white people for white people (to not burden POC with more emotional labor) to VENT and talk about the mind fuckery of learning about white supremacy when it was actively hidden from you growing up? I'm wary of white performativism 🤢🤮 
I need to talk to white people who are just as angry, betrayed, and disillusioned with the system so much that changing is the only way forward. So damn tired of fragility and white tears.
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'kay then。 @hey-kay-away.bsky.social · 22/11/2024
Let's call a spade a spade.. and a (tryna be) dictator a dick tater.. Given how Trumpers have notoriously ignored the implications of what they voted for, do you think they'll mistake #TrotztTrump as singing his praise? 😆🤭
Satirical depiction of Donald Trump: he holds his fist in the air and has been given the Hitler 'stache with the background of the Nazi flag, the Swastika made of the cutout of his toupée.
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