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@hereagainwegoagain.bsky.social
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honestly kinda loathe social media in general, but still end up here anyway somehow. Here mostly for news since I had to sign up to view

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how it goes... @hereagainwegoagain.bsky.social · 6m
sidenote: sad part for me will be watching what trans people predicted happen happen as dolts realize trans people were never the enemy. GC have been useful tool for far rw. excluding trans women/gender policing won't make you safer. ex: that POS went is as a CIS MAN. no need to pretend to be trans
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how it goes... @hereagainwegoagain.bsky.social · 21m
2/2 one ex: if gc/terf/phobes get their way, given no gender neutral toilet, trans man looking as/more masc can be *REQUIRED to use ladies. we know real goal here is not to target abusers who are mostly cis men and don't care about incl/excl policy..Goal is demonize trans people just trying to live.
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how it goes... @hereagainwegoagain.bsky.social · 33m
quite literally does, all while specifically fostering patriarchy (better be pretty enough for the bigots, or else). by sheer numbers more cis women will be falsely accused/accosted/worse than trans women "caught"..and all while NOT solving the real problem: cis men. you not get contradiction?
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how it goes... @hereagainwegoagain.bsky.social · 9h
imo truly INSANE dems can't manage to turn this into an attack narrative around blatant assault on basic human/civil rights, freedom, and autonomy. e.g. "YES, transgender for everybody..Anyone trangender should be allowed to be as in America folk should have right and freedom to exist and thrive"
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how it goes... @hereagainwegoagain.bsky.social · 10h
well, those I know KNOW it happens and know it is NOT due to trans-inclusive policies because they can perform basic critical thinking/deduction while also knowing incessant anti-trans rhetoric/policies literally put cis women (everyone really) at HIGHER risk. as usual, phobia/bigotry won't solve it
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how it goes... @hereagainwegoagain.bsky.social · 10h
people don't claim it never happens, problem is actually exclusive policies do literally NOTHING to reduce things like this happening and in meantime set up systems of "gender policing" which increase risk for literally EVERYONE. Start dealing witht the REAL prob: cis men who do this S regardless!
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how it goes... @hereagainwegoagain.bsky.social · 14h
I think that'd make sense if Alito was a respectable justice rather than prejudiced liar. e.g. abortion needs are hardly abstract whereas contracts literally are mere agreements which get legally limited/regulated/voided all the time VS always "sacrosanct". imo he's talking in circles as bigots do.
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how it goes... @hereagainwegoagain.bsky.social · 04/10/2026
imo it's actually MUCH worse than "ignorance" and I refuse to anymore give benefit of doubt. The Rich/Those in charge leading anti-trans moral panic are NOT "stupid or ignorant" but self-serving flatly EVIL narcissist/opportunist sociopaths. Same logic applies if stupid (or at best ignorant) or evil
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how it goes... @hereagainwegoagain.bsky.social · 02/10/2026
only bit I might add is bills Newsom vetoed concerning protecting providers of gender-affirming care from forced extradition to states such care is illegal, is that was ALSO meant to include abortion providers. also can't be diminished Newsom vetoed that for fear it would reduce his executive power.
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how it goes... @hereagainwegoagain.bsky.social · 29/09/2026
hint..Burnham will not actually make a bargain with pensioners or seek moderate immigration/careworker policy etc..Burnham is merely new face for Labour to constantly move literally *EVERYTHING* more RW after lying to their base as they basically install Reform polices before Reform even takes power
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how it goes... @hereagainwegoagain.bsky.social · 29/09/2026
Labour has thoroughly proven it is entirely irrelevant what traditional/core parties "promise". Labour have literally done a 180 on many of their core values. the ONLY parties that actually give a S about things that actually make life better rather than fear-monger/scapegoat are LW like greens/LD
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how it goes... @hereagainwegoagain.bsky.social · 28/09/2026
I honestly believe it will end up among most significant stories in a generation as it's finally exposed how literally ALL this anti-trans moral panic was manufactured through top-down *LIES/manipulation and how GC infiltrated institutions to flatly override actual facts/experts/justice/empathy etc.
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how it goes... @hereagainwegoagain.bsky.social · 26/09/2026
hate to repeat, said before, will again, but I truly think it is worth note it is consistently made clear a CORE reason WHY gender-affirming-care is so heavily targted is it DOES, in fact, help trans people, not because it *doesn't. Set that as premise and this all makes sense..it's pure bigotry
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how it goes... @hereagainwegoagain.bsky.social · 25/09/2026
I didn't say anyone should automatically forgive..I said I PERSONALLY give benefit of the doubt to people like Parker Molloy who has been a staunch LGBTQ, esp trans, as well as disabled ALLY for fucking YEARS. then had a crisis and said some bad things. I PERSONALLY FORGIVE. now i'm an enemy I guess
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how it goes... @hereagainwegoagain.bsky.social · 25/09/2026
imo among most disgusting aspects is how fully predictible this has been. 2 year mandatory waiting list? surely they just "grow out of it", no biggie (or w/e made up reason). It will be truly sad story as SO many people eventually realize they should have listened to the trans canaries to begin with
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how it goes... @hereagainwegoagain.bsky.social · 25/09/2026
2/2 truly think for a second when last time you heard ANYONE on MSM say anything positive about trans people..you think that's mere coincidence it is literally day after day attacks? It is NOT the "experts" making these decisions, but specific political appointees. At some point you can't deny that.
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how it goes... @hereagainwegoagain.bsky.social · 25/09/2026
NO *EXPERTS* advise that..you exemplify MAJOR prob of "both sidesing" as bigots get equal time/presumption of truth REAL experts don't. Actual *EXPERTS can't even weigh-in now on trans issues or we'd have people arguing *FOR previous NCAA/IOC fact-based guidelines/GAC etc..but they are blacklisted!
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how it goes... @hereagainwegoagain.bsky.social · 25/09/2026
actual "experts" went by FACTS 30yrs ago to create fact-based trans/DSD-inclusive policy which DID actually serve as genuine compromise. That worked for 30+yrs in NCAA/IOC etc..then bigots decided they just don't like it. Politics changed, facts didn't, but instead increasingly favour inclusion. e.g
forbes.com
Transgender Athletes Could Be At A Physical Disadvantage, New Research Shows
An IOC-funded study published in the British Journal of Sports Medicine earlier this month suggests transgender athletes could be at a physical disadvantage.
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how it goes... @hereagainwegoagain.bsky.social · 24/09/2026
when I see someone clearly in crisis I do tend to advise practicing patience and forgiveness..I watched over like a week downward spiral/pile-ons. imo, hard to believe Parker Malloy is actually "ableist" VS reacted badly while in crisis mode. that won't excuse everything, but worth keeping in mind.
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how it goes... @hereagainwegoagain.bsky.social · 22/09/2026
It can be hard, but imo important we remember it can be natural reaction when put in existential crisis/fear to lash out negatively, maybe at any/everything at once..sadly loved ones/friends/accepting community etc can bear the brunt and/or react negatively themselves, some dealing with similar pain
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how it goes... @hereagainwegoagain.bsky.social · 20/09/2026
saddest part, imo, is after 14yrs of horrid tories, we got labour which basically became also horrid RW/tories, and UK pop just seem to never get maybe STOP moving to RW? comprehensive democratic LEFT-WING systems tend to work best..but no, surely more RW shifts will solve everything this time! ugh
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how it goes... @hereagainwegoagain.bsky.social · 20/09/2026
except the thing is actual feminists, including trans people, are actually trying to fight against things like this domestic violence scourge all while GC dolts are busing making it so all women need to be pretty enough for random bigots or else be at increased risk far beyond trans ppl ever posed.
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how it goes... @hereagainwegoagain.bsky.social · 20/09/2026
imo, no way around it: capitulate to fascists and become fascist..doesn't even matter issue you start with (support for anti-trans policy is becoming clear and reliable warning/canary). 2 options: fight fascism or join. Labour not only joined, but helps facilitate..I hope USA dems don't go same way.
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how it goes... @hereagainwegoagain.bsky.social · 20/09/2026
there is clear obvious answer here: just ruin a few more trans/immigrant/disabled etc lives to pander to RW fascists/fund religious dolts and SURELY we all wake up in a world all our problems are solved! See, domestic abuse isn't a real prob..clearly trans ppl in loos are a MUCH bigger safety issue!
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how it goes... @hereagainwegoagain.bsky.social · 20/09/2026
2/2 Burnham is proving how absolutely DAF brits actually are..just slap a new face on same old policies, pretend like it works, screw everyone over, rinse and repeat and UK will gladly keep swimming in/drinking the sewage-water. God it's pathetic watching all the predictable BS happen as dolts cheer
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how it goes... @hereagainwegoagain.bsky.social · 20/09/2026
Labour exemplify dangers of "nationalization" at this point as literally NOTHING they say/do can be trusted. ex: while Labour has been able to manipulate NHS stats, they actually made things MUCH WORSE for many people. This is "nationalization" to serve private profits and interests, not the people.
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how it goes... @hereagainwegoagain.bsky.social · 20/09/2026
I wonder how bad things get for UK pop to realize, "oh S, basically every MSM outlet/most leading politician for last 14yrs+ have outright F *LIED the whole time and it wasn't immigrants or trans people harming your life, but manipulators like Guardian UK/BBC/billionaires/UK Labour (now Burnham) etc
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how it goes... @hereagainwegoagain.bsky.social · 19/09/2026
imo hard to react (do what?) when we know that is direction those now in power in UK/USA increasingly move us toward as well. Sadly I'd bet w/in 2yrs USA/UK will be able to pull off raids like this on lgbtq groups. I wish that was hyperbole, but for ex USA already seeks to make trans ppl terrorists
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how it goes... @hereagainwegoagain.bsky.social · 19/09/2026
sadly there will be and we will need more and more robust studies like below to help track inevitable predictable preventable harm of anti-trans laws and incessant hostile language and encouraged bullying from every sector of society. it's persecution and is costing lives. can't let it be forgotten!
nature.com
State-level anti-transgender laws increase past-year suicide attempts among transgender and non-binary young people in the USA
Nature Human Behaviour - From 2018 to 2022, 48 anti-transgender laws were enacted in the USA across 19 states. This study shows that these anti-transgender laws increased past-year suicide attempts...
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how it goes... @hereagainwegoagain.bsky.social · 19/09/2026
imo, LONG passed time GAC providers even in blue states MUST find ways to set up independent care outside large hospitals/universities etc taking federal taxes. There was a time basic GAC needed/was beneficial to be attached to such systems but now they actively harm patients and NEED separated ASAP
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how it goes... @hereagainwegoagain.bsky.social · 18/09/2026
seriously is and has been time those who provide GAC to set up independent systems outside of large hospitals that take federal tax dollars. There used to be a time it was necessary for GAC to be attached to large hospital systems, but increasingly that is no longer needed and becoming impossible.
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how it goes... @hereagainwegoagain.bsky.social · 18/09/2026
imo also worth continual reminding those we would today call "transgender/nb etc" exist in literally all known recorded history in all regions and cultures impossible to connect..meaning by literal *DEFINITION trans/nb identity CAN'T be "ideology"..however, hate/bias/fear of them can ONLY be such!
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how it goes... @hereagainwegoagain.bsky.social · 18/09/2026
very interesting "GC/terf" "feminists" can't connect dots when the MOST hardcore RW fund religious bigots/literal neo nazis/fascists etc who would gladly reverse ALL womens rights cheer you on, you *MIGHT want to rethink your views! NOBODY is helping reverse women's rights more than GC useful idiots
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how it goes... @hereagainwegoagain.bsky.social · 18/09/2026
simple fact is facts don't support bans, you people are simply bigots and that's why in the end you will lose. You get away with it for now because most people are ignorant and don't have the energy/time to bother learning facts or caring about the issues you constantly obsess over to a sick degree.
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how it goes... @hereagainwegoagain.bsky.social · 14/09/2026
an example: I have gen Z relatives in rural Idaho, who have been bombarded with anti-trans propaganda for years now, and *MAJOR* fans of Harry Potter yet *STILL* decided, "nah, F this, JKR is bigot" and won't be watching. I personally will be cancelling HBO affiliated subscriptions when HP premiers.
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how it goes... @hereagainwegoagain.bsky.social · 13/09/2026
seriously has to be about only line of reasoning the AI tech bros would "slow" their own tech is to protect their investment..These CEOs sociopaths do not care at all about actual people..can't forget CORE goal of AI is take jobs..from CEO view a "slow down" now could help boil us frogs w/o noticing
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how it goes... @hereagainwegoagain.bsky.social · 11/09/2026
I hesitate to say "good news" even though I DO feel like "good riddance and I hope she totally leaves the scene"..but? it's practical guarantee she goes to WORSE outlet and UK Guardian replace her with someone even more specifically virulently anti-trans..I'll hope I'm wrong just for fun though lol
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how it goes... @hereagainwegoagain.bsky.social · 11/09/2026
fully agree and imo it's time we realize RW have NO solutions but harm ppl they hate/feel don't deserve help. Only bit I might add is these bigoted eugenicist fascists also can't be swayed by any actual facts..that's why they rely on propaganda/complicit MSM/politicians AND why compromise won't work
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how it goes... @hereagainwegoagain.bsky.social · 11/09/2026
another ex of how deeply integrated various bigotries are is when people go transphobic. e.g. SO many talking this way also claim to be Christian yet share similar sociopathic mentality that WILL harm (even kill) others, yet feel they have moral high-ground. imo? I'd bet Jesus doesn't like that much
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how it goes... @hereagainwegoagain.bsky.social · 11/09/2026
a huge data breach literally was JUST revealed. sorry, but people in charge of "age verification" do NOT have best interests in mind, nor your safety/privacy. this isn't some GD game, it's mass surveillance scheme and people running it basically F ADMIT it (all as AI gets to produce CSAM, no prob)
time.com
FBI Probes Report of Breach Exposing 153 Million Driver’s License Scans
If confirmed, the breach could be one of the most extensive leaks of government-issued ID documents in North America. How can you protect yourself?
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how it goes... @hereagainwegoagain.bsky.social · 11/09/2026
honestly after watching what Lab UK did it should be beyond obvious RW is using ignorance/transphobia etc to bring about a version of fascism. if USA dems can't realize this pattern, imo, they also deserve the pain. asking a group to sacrifice themselves should by now be a red line for decent ppl.
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how it goes... @hereagainwegoagain.bsky.social · 10/09/2026
I always wonder how it is so many like you can basically openly ask trans people put themselves on some sacrificial altar to vote blue nm who so others can "maybe" keep their own civil/human rights. honestly no, if willing to sacrifice any group, they deserve to suffer right along with who they harm
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how it goes... @hereagainwegoagain.bsky.social · 08/09/2026
imo amazing bit is how fast GC are dropping the facade. the same people who complain about this are who also spent years saying things like "nobody cares if a boy/man wants to wear a dress to justify talking about "legit concerns" have already moved to blatant "you can't dress in ways I don't like!"
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how it goes... @hereagainwegoagain.bsky.social · 08/09/2026
just shows again that trans people are literally being used as pawns, by every single party, including those who claim to be allies. There is ZERO actual effort to fight for trans people's rights, but a full-on battle to by each party how to capitalize on the utter destruction of trans lives. gross!
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how it goes... @hereagainwegoagain.bsky.social · 08/09/2026
MSM constantly need to scapegoat VS do real journalism/work to improve marginalized lives by exposing injustice etc. Imo, basic fact is for MSM it's lucrative to scapegoat then when harm is done, it'll suddenly be lucrative/noble to cover harm THEY helped cause..while wearing a nice new hot dog suit
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how it goes... @hereagainwegoagain.bsky.social · 08/09/2026
no..but they do know what it's like to fear, for no valid reasons, a trans person might be hidden among them based on made up/fantastical fears/phobias/biases/prejudice etc. I fear the worst, like fascist takeover, might be required to happen for enough cis ppl to wake up and by then? it's too late
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how it goes... @hereagainwegoagain.bsky.social · 06/09/2026
why would they? What other treatment would you stop cause it, by all facts DOES work (and is sought) rather than doesn't? cis ppl NEED to understand most probs raised around GAC are exactly cause GAC *does help trans ppl live their lives..not the opposite and THAT is why we have bans. pure prejudice
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how it goes... @hereagainwegoagain.bsky.social · 06/09/2026
truly amazing.."concerns over meeting basic surgery requirements"..surely then ALL seeking ANY surgery must go through multi-year wait-period right to be psychologically analyzed before deemed competent to consent..right? oh, no? that's JUST for trans people? gee, wonder why..? totally can't be bias
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how it goes... @hereagainwegoagain.bsky.social · 05/09/2026
Decision to utterly abandon trans people mere months from voting near unaminously to protect them is beyond disgraceful, especially for a Union! Absolutely disgusted as should be any decent person. The attacks on trans folk will eventually be remembered as persecution. You don't HAVE to participate!
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how it goes... @hereagainwegoagain.bsky.social · 04/09/2026
it's because, as trans people said, intent of this GC/anti-trans campaign has *ALWAYS been *GENOCIDAL..it was never hyperbole. there were never "good faith concerns". I so deeply hope people start realizing that ASAP! and keep in mind, cis dolts, this was also NEVER intended to stop at trans people.
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