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Helen Bonnick

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Founder of Holes in the Wall website. Patron of Capa First Response. Recently retired. Still posting about child to parent violence but expect more random stuff too!

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Helen Bonnick @helenbonnick.bsky.social · 25/08/2026
Great to read this! www.thursdaydailybulletin.es/en/2026/08/2...
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The Balearic Islands eliminate waiting lists for psychological support services addressing school bullying, child-to-parent violence and post-emergency situations - Thursday Daily Bulletin
The Balearic Islands have reduced waiting lists to zero for specialised psychological support services assisting victims of school bullying, families affected
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Dr Amanda Holt @amandaholt.bsky.social · 15/08/2026
www.lbc.co.uk/article/sons...
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Mothers are dying at the hands of sons - but warnings of violence are being missed | LBC
Sons were suspects in the deaths of one in five women last year, figures show
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NVRnorthampton @nvrnorthampton.bsky.social · 11/08/2026
Our popular ‘NVR in Practice’ Workshops are back next month - join us & our brilliant guest speakers as they share their expertise & unique experiences of applying the NVR approach across different contexts & varying levels of complexity. www.nvrnorthampton.co.uk/nvr-in-pract...
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Nikki Rutter @rutternik.bsky.social · 17/07/2026
New post at Holes in the Wall! The award winning Dr. Anu Adebogun shares her doctoral research on Black mothers experiences of child to parent abuse. This work fills a huge gap in the existing literature & has implications for practice holesinthewall.co.uk/2026/07/16/r...
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Reframing Child to Parent Abuse: What Black Mothers’ Experiences Reveal
By Dr Anu Adebogun Child to Parent Abuse (CPA) remains one of the most stigmatised and least understood forms of family harm. There is little empirical exploration of how this hidden harm is percei…
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Dr Amanda Holt @amandaholt.bsky.social · 13/07/2026
New article - free to download: "How do you even speak about it?": Understanding Harmful Sexual Behaviour towards Parents (2026) link.springer.com/article/10.1...
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"How Do you Even Speak About it?": Understanding Harmful Sexual Behavior Towards Parents | Journal of Family Violence | Springer Nature Link
Purpose Despite the huge growth in research over the past decade on physical, psychological and financial abuse towards parents, harmful sexual behavior (HSB) remains largely unrecognized in policy, r...
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Dr Amanda Holt @amandaholt.bsky.social · 14/07/2026
Piece in today's Guardian about my recent research: www.theguardian.com/society/2026...
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‘It’s so unthinkable’: the parents sexually abused by their children
UK support group says more women are seeking help for experiences that one mother calls ‘lifelong punishment’
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Helen Bonnick @helenbonnick.bsky.social · 16/07/2026
Always enccouraging to see the spread of understanding and of accessibilty of support for families #CPVA #StepUp www.ozaukeepress.com/content/taki...
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Taking on child-to-parent abuse
What goes on behind closed doors, down the street, in our neighborhoods? It’s not always good. Just ask Ashley Buckmaster, who has served as a behavioral health clinician with the Ozaukee County Depar...
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Helen Bonnick @helenbonnick.bsky.social · 16/07/2026
Great to see this! Congratulations to @fbsolutions.bsky.social enfielddispatch.co.uk/enfield-char...
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Enfield charity publishes book aiming to help people understand child-to-parent abuse
Family Based Solutions boss says parents often feel "isolated, ashamed and frightened to ask for help"
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Dr Amanda Holt @amandaholt.bsky.social · 07/07/2026
Summer Sale! Policy Press are offering 50% off my recent (2025) second edition of 'Adolescent to Parent Abuse' book with code BUP07. Now only £12.50 policy.bristoluniversitypress.co.uk/adolescent-t...
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Adolescent-to-Parent Abuse
Adolescent-to-Parent Abuse - Current Understandings in Research, Policy and Practice; Since publication of the first edition, awareness of, and interest in, adolescent-to-parent abuse has risen consid...
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Nikki Rutter @rutternik.bsky.social · 09/07/2026
New #HITW post! This time Chloe Booth reflecting on the SILENCED CIC Reframing Professional Practice conference, and Merseyside CAPVA conference holesinthewall.co.uk
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HOLES IN THE WALL
documenting parent abuse
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Sgt. Rasul T. Freelain (Ret.) @protectinglambs.bsky.social · 26/06/2026
The men and women of the OPPD worked extremely hard to protect Sheila von Wiese-Mack, while also trying to help her abusive child Heather Mack. Thanks to the WJ & Jessica Mackinnon for writing a great piece on the case.💙 #RememberTheVictims #domesticviolenceprevention #cpva #whenlambsbecomewolves
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Heather Mack case was red flag for Oak Park officer - Wednesday Journal
Rasul Freelain, a retired Oak Park police officer, devoted much of his career to working with dysfunctional families and troubled youth.
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Helen Bonnick @helenbonnick.bsky.social · 07/06/2026
www.frontiersin.org/journals/psy...
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Frontiers | Examining the complexity of the relationship between deviant peers affiliation and child-to-parent violence in young adults: the mediating role of drug use and the moderating role of famil...
IntroductionResearch on child-to-parent violence has expanded considerably over the last decade. Most of the studies have been mainly conducted with samples ...
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Helen Bonnick @helenbonnick.bsky.social · 07/06/2026
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An update from Durham Police and Crime Commissioner, Joy Allen
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Helen Bonnick @helenbonnick.bsky.social · 07/06/2026
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Survey aims to shine light on child-on-parent aggression
The Cleveland police and crime commissioner says it is a "hidden harm" going on behind closed doors.
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Helen Bonnick @helenbonnick.bsky.social · 04/06/2026
I’m always ready to explain about #CAPVA and have done so in some pretty bizarre places - but today I ended up having a long conversation with my Dad’s visiting dentist! Pleased that I was able to point them to the excellent resources on #HolesInTheWall! 😉
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capa1stresponse.bsky.social @capa1stresponse.bsky.social · 01/06/2026
🫂Parenting through #CAPVA is hard but you don’t have to do it alone. Join our FREE lunchtime drop-ins every Wednesday at 12:30. Ask questions, learn strategies, and connect with others who understand. 🔗 Book/more info: www.eventbrite.co.uk/cc/for-paren... #FreeParentSupport #ParentingHelp
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Al coates @alcoates.bsky.social · 27/05/2026
Episode 226 - CPV and Practitioner Anxiety + FASD Ireland Conf podcasts.apple.com/.../the.../i.... #CPV #CCVAB #AFCCA See less
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Episode 226 - CPV and Practitioner Anxiety + FASD Ireland Conf
Hello and welcome to this episode, it's action packed and we reunite after Scott's many travels! We start with a consideration about the recent FASD Ireland conference and the radio documentary that…
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capa1stresponse.bsky.social @capa1stresponse.bsky.social · 18/05/2026
🫂Parenting through #CAPVA is hard but you don’t have to do it alone. Join our FREE lunchtime drop-ins every Wednesday at 12:30. Ask questions, learn strategies, and connect with others who understand. 🔗 Book/more info: www.eventbrite.co.uk/cc/for-paren... #FreeParentSupport #ParentingHelp
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capa1stresponse.bsky.social @capa1stresponse.bsky.social · 11/05/2026
🫂Parenting through #CAPVA is hard but you don’t have to do it alone. Join our FREE lunchtime drop-ins every Wednesday at 12:30. Ask questions, learn strategies, and connect with others who understand. 🔗 Book/more info: www.eventbrite.co.uk/cc/for-paren... #FreeParentSupport #ParentingHelp
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capa1stresponse.bsky.social @capa1stresponse.bsky.social · 04/05/2026
🫂Parenting through #CAPVA is hard but you don’t have to do it alone. Join our FREE lunchtime drop-ins every Wednesday at 12:30. Ask questions, learn strategies, and connect with others who understand. 🔗 Book/more info: www.eventbrite.co.uk/cc/for-paren... #FreeParentSupport #ParentingHelp
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capa1stresponse.bsky.social @capa1stresponse.bsky.social · 27/04/2026
🫂Parenting through #CAPVA is hard but you don’t have to do it alone. Join our FREE lunchtime drop-ins every Wednesday at 12:30. Ask questions, learn strategies, and connect with others who understand. 🔗 Book/more info: www.eventbrite.co.uk/cc/for-paren... #FreeParentSupport #ParentingHelp
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respectuk.bsky.social @respectuk.bsky.social · 29/04/2026
Our April Newsletter is live 🐣 ow.ly/uE7750YRaN0 We covered: 🐣Respect's Competency Framework 🐣Merseyside CAPVA Conference 🐣Supporting Neurodivergent clients: A guide for practitioners facilitating domestic abuse perpetrator interventions And more! Subscribe : ow.ly/A3iz50YRaN1
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Helen Bonnick @helenbonnick.bsky.social · 25/04/2026
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Durham researchers win major European award for social work study - Durham University
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Helen Bonnick @helenbonnick.bsky.social · 23/04/2026
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We’re delighted to welcome Kyra Gonzalez to the Reframing Professional Practice - CPA Conference. Kyra is a specialist IDVA supporting elder people experiencing Adult Child to Parent Abuse (ACPA)… | M...
We’re delighted to welcome Kyra Gonzalez to the Reframing Professional Practice - CPA Conference. Kyra is a specialist IDVA supporting elder people experiencing Adult Child to Parent Abuse (ACPA). Hou...
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capa1stresponse.bsky.social @capa1stresponse.bsky.social · 20/04/2026
🫂Parenting through #CAPVA is hard but you don’t have to do it alone. Join our FREE lunchtime drop-ins every Wednesday at 12:30. Ask questions, learn strategies, and connect with others who understand. 🔗 Book/more info: www.eventbrite.co.uk/cc/for-paren... #FreeParentSupport #ParentingHelp
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Helen Bonnick @helenbonnick.bsky.social · 15/04/2026
A lovely review of the Merseyside #CAPVA conference this week. www.merseysidepcc.info/news-and-eve...
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“Hidden harm in the home” put under the spotlight at Merseyside conference tacking child to parent abuse - Merseyside Police and Crime Commissioner
More than 80 professionals have come together to put a spotlight on one of the region’s most complex and least visible forms of abuse – violence and harm by children and young people towards their par...
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capa1stresponse.bsky.social @capa1stresponse.bsky.social · 13/04/2026
🫂Parenting through #CAPVA is hard but you don’t have to do it alone. Join our FREE lunchtime drop-ins every Wednesday at 12:30. Ask questions, learn strategies, and connect with others who understand. 🔗 Book/more info: www.eventbrite.co.uk/cc/for-paren... #FreeParentSupport #ParentingHelp
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Helen Bonnick @helenbonnick.bsky.social · 07/04/2026
Check out this post from Jane Griffiths www.linkedin.com/posts/we-are...
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We are delighted to share that our CEO and Founder Jane Griffiths is speaking at the CPA Conference. Reframing the Conversation: A Landmark Conference on Child-to-Parent Aggression On 15 May 2026… |...
We are delighted to share that our CEO and Founder Jane Griffiths is speaking at the CPA Conference. Reframing the Conversation: A Landmark Conference on Child-to-Parent Aggression On 15 May 2026, a...
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Helen Bonnick @helenbonnick.bsky.social · 07/04/2026
Really looking forward to this! Not long to go 😃
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capa1stresponse.bsky.social @capa1stresponse.bsky.social · 06/04/2026
🫂Parenting through #CAPVA is hard but you don’t have to do it alone. Join our FREE lunchtime drop-ins every Wednesday at 12:30. Ask questions, learn strategies, and connect with others who understand. 🔗 Book/more info: www.eventbrite.co.uk/cc/for-paren... #FreeParentSupport #ParentingHelp
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Helen Bonnick @helenbonnick.bsky.social · 05/04/2026
www.bbc.co.uk/news/article...
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Durham and Darlington funding to tackle child violence
Support is being provided to families where parents or carers face violence from their children.
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Helen Bonnick @helenbonnick.bsky.social · 02/04/2026
Great news from Durham! #CAPVA #RYPP www.thenorthernecho.co.uk/news/2598499...
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Hundreds of families to receive support for child-to-parent violence
Dozens of families across County Durham and Darlington are to receive specialist support through the Respect Young People’s Programme.
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capa1stresponse.bsky.social @capa1stresponse.bsky.social · 30/03/2026
🫂Parenting through #CAPVA is hard but you don’t have to do it alone. Join our FREE lunchtime drop-ins every Wednesday at 12:30. Ask questions, learn strategies, and connect with others who understand. 🔗 Book/more info: www.eventbrite.co.uk/cc/for-paren... #FreeParentSupport #ParentingHelp
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respectuk.bsky.social @respectuk.bsky.social · 27/03/2026
Earlier this week we held our All-Party Parliamentary Group on Perpetrators of Domestic Abuse meeting, chaired by Jess Asato MP. In this meeting we discussed the issue of children & young people who cause harm to their parents & carers.
Photo of Jennifer, Donna and Justine.
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Helen Bonnick @helenbonnick.bsky.social · 27/03/2026
Some amazing speakers booked for the #CPA Reframing Professional Practice conference in May including @carriegrant.bsky.social @rutternik.bsky.social @alcoates.bsky.social Still some tickets available
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We’re excited to be building momentum towards the Child to Parent Abuse Conference – Reframing Professional Practice, taking place on the 15th of May 2026 in London. Over the coming weeks, we’ll be…...
We’re excited to be building momentum towards the Child to Parent Abuse Conference – Reframing Professional Practice, taking place on the 15th of May 2026 in London. Over the coming weeks, we’ll be ...
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capa1stresponse.bsky.social @capa1stresponse.bsky.social · 23/03/2026
🫂Parenting through #CAPVA is hard but you don’t have to do it alone. Join our FREE lunchtime drop-ins every Wednesday at 12:30. Ask questions, learn strategies, and connect with others who understand. 🔗 Book/more info: www.eventbrite.co.uk/cc/for-paren... #FreeParentSupport #ParentingHelp
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Helen Bonnick @helenbonnick.bsky.social · 25/03/2026
Last tickets available for this amazing opportunity in May! Maria has special offers on so grab yours now. This is a fantatic chance to hear from leading academics and practitioners in the field of #CPA #CPV and to learn how we can all work together to effect change
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We’re excited to be building momentum towards the Child to Parent Abuse Conference – Reframing Professional Practice, taking place on the 15th of May 2026 in London. Over the coming weeks, we’ll be…...
We’re excited to be building momentum towards the Child to Parent Abuse Conference – Reframing Professional Practice, taking place on the 15th of May 2026 in London. Over the coming weeks, we’ll be ...
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capa1stresponse.bsky.social @capa1stresponse.bsky.social · 16/03/2026
🫂Parenting through #CAPVA is hard but you don’t have to do it alone. Join our FREE lunchtime drop-ins every Wednesday at 12:30. Ask questions, learn strategies, and connect with others who understand. 🔗 Book/more info: www.eventbrite.co.uk/cc/for-paren... #FreeParentSupport #ParentingHelp
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respectuk.bsky.social @respectuk.bsky.social · 26/02/2026
Don't have this in your inbox? Subscribe to our monthly newsletter today: www.respect.org.uk/pages/subscr...
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capa1stresponse.bsky.social @capa1stresponse.bsky.social · 02/03/2026
🫂Parenting through #CAPVA is hard but you don’t have to do it alone. Join our FREE lunchtime drop-ins every Wednesday at 12:30. Ask questions, learn strategies, and connect with others who understand. 🔗 Book/more info: www.eventbrite.co.uk/cc/for-paren... #FreeParentSupport #ParentingHelp
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capa1stresponse.bsky.social @capa1stresponse.bsky.social · 23/02/2026
🫂Parenting through #CAPVA is hard but you don’t have to do it alone. Join our FREE lunchtime drop-ins every Wednesday at 12:30. Ask questions, learn strategies, and connect with others who understand. 🔗 Book/more info: www.eventbrite.co.uk/cc/for-paren... #FreeParentSupport #ParentingHelp
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Helen Bonnick @helenbonnick.bsky.social · 21/02/2026
Lots of #CAPVA learning opps coming up in the next months. Here’s one … www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/capva-chil...
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CAPVA - Child Adolescence to Parent Violence and Aggression (Lunch & Learn)
Child Adolescence to Parent Violence and Aggression (Lunch & Learn)
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capa1stresponse.bsky.social @capa1stresponse.bsky.social · 16/02/2026
🫂Parenting through #CAPVA is hard but you don’t have to do it alone. Join our FREE lunchtime drop-ins every Wednesday at 12:30. Ask questions, learn strategies, and connect with others who understand. 🔗 Book/more info: www.eventbrite.co.uk/cc/for-paren... #FreeParentSupport #ParentingHelp
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capa1stresponse.bsky.social @capa1stresponse.bsky.social · 09/02/2026
🫂Parenting through #CAPVA is hard but you don’t have to do it alone. Join our FREE lunchtime drop-ins every Wednesday at 12:30. Ask questions, learn strategies, and connect with others who understand. 🔗 Book/more info: www.eventbrite.co.uk/cc/for-paren... #FreeParentSupport #ParentingHelp
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Helen Bonnick @helenbonnick.bsky.social · 07/02/2026
youtu.be/zw6__4oTfos PhD opportunity studying Child to parent violence at Queens University Belfast! #CPV #CAPVA 📣
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Understanding Child to Parent Violence: A Family Wide Perspective
YouTube video by QUB Psychology
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capa1stresponse.bsky.social @capa1stresponse.bsky.social · 02/02/2026
🫂Parenting through #CAPVA is hard but you don’t have to do it alone. Join our FREE lunchtime drop-ins every Wednesday at 12:30. Ask questions, learn strategies, and connect with others who understand. 🔗 Book/more info: www.eventbrite.co.uk/cc/for-paren... #FreeParentSupport #ParentingHelp
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capa1stresponse.bsky.social @capa1stresponse.bsky.social · 29/01/2026
“I feel more like a sounding board than a punch bag.” This is what changed after 12 weeks of tailored 1-to-1 family support. Depth matters. Validation matters. And sometimes, group work just isn’t the right fit. #FamilySupport #CAPVA #RelationalParenting
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Helen Bonnick @helenbonnick.bsky.social · 29/01/2026
escnewsletter.org/archive/nikk.... Lovely to read this from @rutternik.bsky.social. Nikki’s work has been crucial in understanding the behaviour of younger children and she is a valuable member of the #HolesInTheWall team #CPV #CAPVA
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Esc Newsletter | Archive
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Helen Bonnick @helenbonnick.bsky.social · 27/01/2026
A reminder that the National Directory of #CAPVA services is held by @respectuk.bsky.social within their young people’s service. You can find help local to you here www.respectyps.org.uk/services/dir...
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Directory | Respect Young People's Service
National Child/Adolescent to Parent Violence and Abuse (CAPVA) Service Directory from Respect Young People's Service
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Helen Bonnick @helenbonnick.bsky.social · 27/01/2026
Really good to see the approach taken in this piece - not sensationalising and trying to hear what experts actually say! #CPV #CAPVA www.pressreader.com/uk/the-i-pap...
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