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Hecate

@hecate-findingok.bsky.social
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Artist, Variety streamer, host of Finding OK - a healing podcast for survivors of SA and any/all abuse. (They/Them) 🏳️‍🌈🍉

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Hecate @hecate-findingok.bsky.social · 12/08/2025
New Episode of Finding OK! Go check it out if you're looking for supportive and uplifting survivor talk! www.finding-ok.com/healing-hone...
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Healing Honestly
In this episode I speak with Alisa Zipursky about her book 'Healing Honestly,' a powerful resource for survivors of childhood sexual abuse. Alisa and I discuss the …
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Hecate @hecate-findingok.bsky.social · 02/07/2025
New Episode of Finding OK just dropped! Season 6 is finally here! Go check it out! Finding OK is an intersectional healing podcast for survivors of SA and any/all abuse. Survivors connecting and sharing with each other transforms lives and challenges the status quo. You are not alone.
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Healing Through Art and Navigating No Contact
In this episode of Finding OK, I interview Polish LGBTQ+ comic artist Monika, best known for her series 'My Secret Lesbian Comics.' Monika shares her journey as a s…
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Hecate @hecate-findingok.bsky.social · 16/03/2025
So anyway, I started blasting.
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Hecate @hecate-findingok.bsky.social · 01/03/2025
I'll be taking over Refinery29's Twitch channel on March 4th from 5-7pm as part of their Tuesday Takeover program uplifting women and nonbinary streamers! I'll be chatting and playing Gris, one of my favorite games! Your presence in chat would mean the absolute world to me! www.twitch.tv/Refinery29
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Refinery29 - Twitch
Yes, we're on Twitch! Hosted by R29 Entertainment Director Melissah Yang, our Thursday talk show covers gaming + beauty, fashion, entertainment, and culture. On Tuesdays, our favorite streamers take o...
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Hecate @hecate-findingok.bsky.social · 19/02/2025
"How to stop dressing like a millenial"...Everything is on fucking fire, why on earth would I give a shit if people can tell that I know what the tail end of the 80's smelled like?
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Hecate @hecate-findingok.bsky.social · 19/02/2025
New Episode! www.finding-ok.com/healing-is-a...
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Healing is a Revolutionary Act - Addressing the Rise of Fascism
In this episode of Finding OK, Hecate returns after a year-long hiatus to provide an update on the podcast and share personal insights on intersectionality, kyriarc…
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Hecate @hecate-findingok.bsky.social · 18/02/2025
New Podcast Episode! "Healing is a Revolutionary Act - Addressing the Rise of Fascism" is Available for Early Access on Patreon to Tier 3&4 Patrons 🫀
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Hecate @hecate-findingok.bsky.social · 09/02/2025
When you see footage of police treating literal fucking Nazis with civility, I want you to remember how they treat people protesting peacefully for an end to genocide, racial equality, or safe drinking water.
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YK Hong @ykhong.bsky.social · 05/02/2025
Trump acting like he is the CEO of the U.S. doesn’t mean he is. He literally is not allowed to do much of what he is declaring. He is neither the CEO nor king. Do not comply in advance.
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Wolf Conservation Center 🐺 @nywolforg.bsky.social · 29/01/2025
Kisses 😘
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Hecate @hecate-findingok.bsky.social · 28/01/2025
All doodles will be drawn by me (badly) for a good cause! You can find the link to my Twitch channel and the Tiltify fundraiser in my links. Free Palestine 🇵🇸 2/21/25 7:30-10:30pm EST (Alt text in comments)
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Carmen 📚 Latinx Book Influencer 📚 @tomesandtextiles.bsky.social · 27/01/2025
If you're feeling overwhelmed, it's intentional. They're calling it "flooding the zone." The intent is to overwhelm and exhaust us so we can not effectively resist. Something simple you can do right now now is to make sure to take breaks and rest.
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AltYellostoneNatPar @altyellonatpark.org · 26/01/2025
Today in Fox News No not the propaganda faux television outlet but real Fox News. Melanistic Fox are very very rare. This one is just stunning
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AltYellostoneNatPar @altyellonatpark.org · 26/01/2025
Wolves are essential
Black wolf trotting out of the forest into a field of summer grass
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Hecate @hecate-findingok.bsky.social · 27/01/2025
A message to all my fellow #nonbinary, #trans, and #intersex folks - I see you. You exist. I love you. You matter. I will fight for you. 🏳️‍🌈⚧️🏳️‍⚧️
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Hecate @hecate-findingok.bsky.social · 27/01/2025
Shout out to all my Queer folks anxiously sorting out official documents, identification, birth certificates, and passports.
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Hecate @hecate-findingok.bsky.social · 23/01/2025
Oh hey hi. Just letting you know that #nonbinary and #trans people do exist whether you like it or not. Always have. Always will. 🏳️‍⚧️⚧️🏳️‍🌈
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Hecate @hecate-findingok.bsky.social · 22/01/2025
Before and after I asked her if she wanted some whipped cream.
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Hecate @hecate-findingok.bsky.social · 22/01/2025
Me: I'm going to take a short bath Partner: So only three hours then? Me: 🤨 how dare! It is three hours later and I am typing this from the bath.
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Hecate @hecate-findingok.bsky.social · 20/01/2025
It will be harder for governments to convince the people of the world to meet each other on battlefields if we are united in friendship
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Hecate @hecate-findingok.bsky.social · 20/01/2025
I made my first friend on Red Note and it's fellow bird nerd. I love that. I don't know how long this will last (before changes are made with the app) but the cultural exchange and connection is so beautiful and exciting.
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Hecate @hecate-findingok.bsky.social · 19/01/2025
I was sick for a while and wasn't able to make it out to feed my crows much last week, they've been happy to see me and excited for peanuts in the recent snow 🐦‍⬛
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David Ho @davidho.bsky.social · 19/01/2025
There are so many things I would ban before TikTok, including SUVs and assault weapons…
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Amy @amzomac.bsky.social · 16/01/2025
All Eyes On Gaza. #FreePalestine🇵🇸
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Hecate @hecate-findingok.bsky.social · 16/01/2025
Starting my day with 50 min meditation. I've got a 77 day meditation streak going. This is a reminder that if a few minutes is what you can manage that's great! If you're hoping to work on your meditation practice this year, I believe in you! 🧘🏻‍♀️
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Hecate @hecate-findingok.bsky.social · 08/01/2025
My tarot cards wrapped in silk and ribbon with the skull bead from the Death ritual I participated in during Paganicon last year. I'm excited to be deepening my relationship with #tarot this year
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Hecate @hecate-findingok.bsky.social · 23/12/2024
Panicking and trying to find a last minute holiday gift for loved ones? Make a donation to Palestine in their honor! Click this 🔗 and contribute to the Palestine Children's Relief Fund, or to a family's GFM via Operation Olive Branch. Free Palestine and fuck capitalism 🇵🇸 linktr.ee/FindingOK
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Hecate @hecate-findingok.bsky.social · 22/12/2024
Happy Yule everyone! I had a wonderful stream with friends and now I'm having a cozy night by the fire as I wait for the sun's return 🕯
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Wolf Conservation Center 🐺 @nywolforg.bsky.social · 22/12/2024
Winter beauties 😍
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Hecate @hecate-findingok.bsky.social · 21/12/2024
Cute text from my partner today
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Hecate @hecate-findingok.bsky.social · 21/12/2024
I'm sending so much love to all my fellow survivors in the wake of the #GiselePelicot case, women and AFABs especially. This has been so powerful but so heavy and triggering. It's also been so painful and revealing about the men in our lives. 🧵
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Hecate @hecate-findingok.bsky.social · 20/12/2024
If you follow me on 🦋 or 🧵 and I follow you back, I just want you to know that it means I'll be able to see how you talk to women and Queer folks. Don't make me talk to you about it. That's not a threat exactly, I'm just very tired and done providing unpaid labor so I'll make it weird for you.
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Hecate @hecate-findingok.bsky.social · 19/12/2024
Having a rough PTSD day. I've been cleaning and organizing, old items are resurfacing and a few of them have been reminding me of one of my r*pist ex boyfriends. I had a Giger-esque nightmare last night and now I'm kind of a mess and haven't gotten out of bed today. 🧵
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Hecate @hecate-findingok.bsky.social · 17/12/2024
Partner: This turkey meat has got to go Me: It's too heavily seasoned for the crows, we'll have to toss it. Partner: 🤨 Me: I know you think birds eating birds is like Silence of the Chickens, but it's natural! Partner: It's creepy your crows can only say one word in English and it's, "Clarice".
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Hecate @hecate-findingok.bsky.social · 15/12/2024
Yourself, but as a cartoon
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a cartoon character named bmo is standing on the ground
ALT: a cartoon character named bmo is standing on the ground
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Hecate @hecate-findingok.bsky.social · 15/12/2024
Rewatching Lower Decks. It's so fucking good 😭🖖🏻
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Hecate @hecate-findingok.bsky.social · 14/12/2024
Found this stick and some water reminiscing about trees together on the ground today while walking Phthalo. One of my best friends lives in the UK and between poverty, mental illness, and Trump's Islamophobic travel bans- we haven't been able to see each other for over 10yrs. 🧵
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Hecate @hecate-findingok.bsky.social · 14/12/2024
Stairway in Rome. I love working with film and printing my own work in the darkroom. I'm hoping to set up a small darkroom in the art studio bathroom soon so I can experiment with cyanotype, film, and fabric a bit. This was shit and developed in 2011 and printed this year. #filmphotography
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elicia @elicia.bsky.social · 13/12/2024
Bringing it to 🦋 by request: People hate their own art because it looks like they made it. They think if they get better, it will stop looking like they made it. A better person made it. But there's no level of skill beyond which you stop being you. You hate the most valuable thing about your art.
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Hecate @hecate-findingok.bsky.social · 14/12/2024
Happy Friday the 13th meteor shower night everyone!
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Hecate @hecate-findingok.bsky.social · 14/12/2024
*Pulling sticks and leaves out of my hair in the mirror* No. We cannot become a tree yet. We have more work to do.
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Hecate @hecate-findingok.bsky.social · 12/12/2024
The folks out here saying, "He had a wife and family! You shouldn't celebrate m*rder!" I think what you're trying to say is that human life has value, and I think what you're missing is that we all agree with you - THAT'S WHY WE DON'T MISS HIM
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Hecate @hecate-findingok.bsky.social · 09/12/2024
Thank you. This. Calling creative work "content" feels like capitalism is definitely in the room with us and I can feel its breath on my neck in a bad way.
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Hecate @hecate-findingok.bsky.social · 09/12/2024
It doesn't matter who he is. Don't get stuck on that, they'll try to trip you with it. What we need is an endless united wall of the working class willing to stand up for what's right. Don't wait for the perfect leader, just grab the hand of the imperfect human next to you and do your best.
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YK Hong @ykhong.bsky.social · 09/12/2024
Koreans have been texting People Power Party members with tens of thousands of texts demanding the impeachment of Yoon such that the lawmakers’ phone batteries are draining too fast to use. Such great tech organizing.
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Hecate @hecate-findingok.bsky.social · 04/12/2024
Seeing your podcast tagged in people's Spotify wrapped is such an incredible feeling 🥰
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