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Heather Rasley @heatherrasley.bsky.social · 1m

It’s both beautiful and sad that there are currently *a lot* of beautiful, high-profile, ambitious women saying that they are better off single. Sheryl Crow is the latest I’ve heard, but also Shakira and many others.

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Heather Rasley @heatherrasley.bsky.social · 1h

Me and my fucked up jaw are in SF if anyone wants to get smoothies or soup or applesauce. 😅

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Heather Rasley @heatherrasley.bsky.social · 2h

Just landed in SFO. Lyft driver: “How high are you?” “Uhh” *driver gestures with his hand, holding it above his head* “Uh how... How high are you?” “Oh! I’m six feet tall.” “You look taller than that.”

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Heather Rasley @heatherrasley.bsky.social · 6h

The Centurion Lounge is a great place for remembering how many wealthy people there are who you will never know about. I don’t know who you are, ma’am, but I can tell by the sunglasses indoors and your whole demeanor that you think you’re a big deal and maybe you are to someone!

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Heather Rasley @heatherrasley.bsky.social · 6h

In the Centurion Lounge like “So, what brings you here? Alcoholism or a sensory processing disorder?”

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Heather Rasley @heatherrasley.bsky.social · 8h

Tfw you love the splendor of nature.

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Heather Rasley @heatherrasley.bsky.social · 10h

Before I leave on a trip >2 nights, I spend like two hours doing my future self a bunch of favors around the house. I do sometimes miss being an idiot in my 20s, though, coming back absolutely shocked that the fridge is nasty, etc…

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Heather Rasley @heatherrasley.bsky.social · 11h

I’m turning a new number in 10 days, and it’s not a very exciting number. The alternative is dying, though, so OK. 43 will be fine, probably.

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Heather Rasley @heatherrasley.bsky.social · 11h

I really want to make a Close Friends post about something on here, ugh.

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Heather Rasley @heatherrasley.bsky.social · 11h

The kind of stuff that shows up under New Releases when you’re a parent in 2026

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Heather Rasley @heatherrasley.bsky.social · 22h

Used a random free tarot site and part of the reading was like “leave the past behind, look forward” and the next bit was “Guess what, girl, your ex is coming back! And by that I mean *romantically*!!”

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Heather Rasley @heatherrasley.bsky.social · 01/10/2026

That girl who threw down in the pit in high school did a lovingkindness meditation today.

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Heather Rasley @heatherrasley.bsky.social · 30/09/2026

I've had this thing with my daughter for years where I'll ask if I can "check if her feet are still squishy," because little kids have squishy feet. One day not too long from now I'm going to check and they're not going to be squishy anymore. If you needed anything to cry about.

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Heather Rasley @heatherrasley.bsky.social · 30/09/2026

Might be time to re-read Brave New World

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Heather Rasley @heatherrasley.bsky.social · 30/09/2026

Funny thing about this whole discourse... I've been married and had other long-term partners and honestly I kind of can't remember ever being approached and "flirted with" in the way that people seem to be conceptualizing of it. Almost like "flirting" isn't the problem at all!

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Heather Rasley @heatherrasley.bsky.social · 30/09/2026

Oh right… My feeling that rituals are important, and my desire to physically touch the blinds in the morning to open them and turn the light switch to turn it on, was a genuine issue in my marriage. I do not want to automate my life. I want to participate in it and feel it.

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Heather Rasley @heatherrasley.bsky.social · 30/09/2026

My September playlist is fully like half the Tinashe album now. Queeen. open.spotify.com/playlist/3RO...

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Heather Rasley @heatherrasley.bsky.social · 30/09/2026

I once went on a date with a sales guy. My daughter’s tonsillectomy must have been around that time, because somehow it came up and he said “What are tonsils? Teeth?” He also got my name wrong and his explanation for why was that it was his high school friend’s mom’s name (lol).

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Heather Rasley @heatherrasley.bsky.social · 30/09/2026

My 8-year-old hit me with this one out of nowhere at 7:45pm: “How do you cure the plague?”

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Heather Rasley @heatherrasley.bsky.social · 30/09/2026

You know, it’s not too often that something leaves me speechless, but I can’t say I have a response for Josie.

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Heather Rasley @heatherrasley.bsky.social · 30/09/2026

My friend who knows I work in this space just sent me clips of the White House news coverage like “these your boys?” 🤦‍♀️

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Heather Rasley @heatherrasley.bsky.social · 30/09/2026

If you think you’re a deranged pervert, but you don’t listen to Comedy Bang Bang religiously, no you’re not.

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Heather Rasley @heatherrasley.bsky.social · 29/09/2026

These dudes want us to believe they represent the peak of masculinity and human achievement, yet will trip all over themselves to make Daddy Trump happy. Stupidest timeline.

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Heather Rasley @heatherrasley.bsky.social · 29/09/2026

If a middle-aged woman in your life has stopped being "nice," it's because with the benefit of hindsight they can see that people-pleasing for decades got them absolutely nowhere. They won't let you win no matter what you do. So you might as well be honest and hold boundaries.

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Heather Rasley @heatherrasley.bsky.social · 29/09/2026

Public elementary schools in Seattle get out at 1:10pm on Wednesdays. Every single Wednesday. Please invent an agent that solves that.

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Heather Rasley @heatherrasley.bsky.social · 29/09/2026

Ngl, kinda feels like our country's future is going to be determined either by gooners who read too many books during the pandemic or gooners who didn't read enough books during the pandemic. I'd like a third option!

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Heather Rasley @heatherrasley.bsky.social · 29/09/2026

I keep seeing 23-year-old white boys on X pronounce that they alone have figured out the "logical" solution to huge, complex societal issues such as addiction, poverty, and violence and it may be driving me insane.

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Heather Rasley @heatherrasley.bsky.social · 29/09/2026

Going to Stanford on Friday. Any cults I need to be aware of?

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Heather Rasley @heatherrasley.bsky.social · 29/09/2026

I’m gonna make a bold claim and say that the fact that it’s now a meme that wanting to oof yourself is a common baseline feeling means that something is, perhaps, wrong in America.

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Heather Rasley @heatherrasley.bsky.social · 29/09/2026

Punishing the left by taking away their ability to get student loans isn’t going to create fewer left-leaning people. It’s going to create angrier left-leaning people. Have fun reaping what you sow on this one!

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Heather Rasley @heatherrasley.bsky.social · 29/09/2026

In case anyone feels like coming off as smug and sassy is something I’ve intentionally cultivated as an adult, this is me looking at my friends at a party at my house in first grade. 😂😅

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Heather Rasley @heatherrasley.bsky.social · 28/09/2026

If you like Trump's rule denying student loans, then you're no longer allowed to admire Nikola Tesla or any other thinker who relied on funding from outside sources to complete their work.

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Heather Rasley @heatherrasley.bsky.social · 28/09/2026

"Is he crashing out?? What did bro do? Bro was raging!" - 8-year-old on the part in the Sonic movie where he's running around all the bases. I'm sorry, but it brings me great joy to hear girls talking like this in their cute little kid voices. 😂

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Heather Rasley @heatherrasley.bsky.social · 28/09/2026

I started reading this article thinking "What on earth could lead two elderly grandparents to take turns calmly murdering their son-in-law in public in broad daylight?!" and then the end of it answers that question. Horrible for all involved. sfist.com/2026/09/28/m...

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Man Identified As NYT Games Engineer Reportedly Killed By In-Laws In Dublin

A man was fatally shot Saturday at the Dublin Sports Grounds, and witnesses say that his in-laws, a couple in their late 70s, "took turns" shooting him.

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Heather Rasley @heatherrasley.bsky.social · 28/09/2026

It would be a perfectly sane move to tell your child that you can't support them going to a college in the US with a greek system for safety reasons. That's for all genders! What happened at Cornell is unconscionable, beyond words. U of Wisconsin, too, though less brutal.

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Heather Rasley @heatherrasley.bsky.social · 28/09/2026

Sorry folks, but I do need to see more people acknowledging the Cornell crime.

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Heather Rasley @heatherrasley.bsky.social · 28/09/2026

We gave the Lost Boys too much money and now they're reinventing psychiatry from first principles.

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Heather Rasley @heatherrasley.bsky.social · 28/09/2026

If your company's staff meeting doesn't involve a "paternity leave or LAN party?" discussion, I don't wanna work there. ♥️🎮

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Heather Rasley @heatherrasley.bsky.social · 28/09/2026

Ohh I know what happened. We haven’t had a new Solange album since 2019.

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Heather Rasley @heatherrasley.bsky.social · 28/09/2026

Pee doom is just another night at Berghain.

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Heather Rasley @heatherrasley.bsky.social · 28/09/2026

I like the chill nice-vibes twitter people and not the ones who are mean to the chill nice-vibes twitter people. So far this very scientific approach to the social scene surrounding AI is holding up well.

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Heather Rasley @heatherrasley.bsky.social · 27/09/2026

The allegedly brilliant mean man is posting about how women are disgusted by men, without realizing he’s completely outing himself as contemptible. This is so goofy, man. I can’t take any of it seriously, I’m sorry. If women are disgusted by you it’s probably because you’re you!

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Heather Rasley @heatherrasley.bsky.social · 27/09/2026

I grew up with a person who brags about their IQ. It’s 100% a narcissist trait. Let’s not normalize this red flag behavior fr.

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Heather Rasley @heatherrasley.bsky.social · 27/09/2026

Going to pay someone $30/hr to watch my kid so I can go to my fancy expensive gym, which I need because it helps me deal with the fact that everything is so expensive 😵‍💫😵‍💫

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Heather Rasley @heatherrasley.bsky.social · 27/09/2026

The backlash to this latest Taylor Swift release is impressive in how widespread it is. I need some essays from pop culture critics on this. What happened?

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