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Daddy Danger Wolf @headspacetex.bsky.social · 24/09/2026

I feel like I owe the #fcf tax early this week. So here y’all go.

Daddy Danger Wolf @headspacetex.bsky.social · 24/09/2026

Today I learned there are bots on Facebook that pose as funeral homes and post malicious links to folks’ posts grieving lost loved ones. Yeah. We kind of deserve the fire this time.

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Daddy Danger Wolf @headspacetex.bsky.social · 24/09/2026

I wonder how we arrived here as a society. And then I open a two-page PDF and Adobe Reader pops up with “this appears to be a long document - consider using an AI summary instead” and I suddenly get it.

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Daddy Danger Wolf @headspacetex.bsky.social · 23/09/2026

Almost replied to my boss’s inane request from her boss with “if <skip boss> would like to be reassured that I know how to do the very fucking basics of my job, I’d be happy to show him that,” and I…am very glad i have no meetings scheduled to the day.

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Daddy Danger Wolf @headspacetex.bsky.social · 23/09/2026

I’m watching Couples therapy and there’s an interstitial scene at a church where they are FLAGGING FOR JESUS and I am now deeply goddamn angry. Because that’s f***ot shit. That’s fairy shit. You don’t get to take that.

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Daddy Danger Wolf @headspacetex.bsky.social · 20/09/2026

Last night’s show has me going down a bit of memory lane of the house and trance that made me the 🚬 I am, and currently exceptionally grateful to my college friend KB, who took me to record stores, pointed at an album, said “buy this, and then we’re going for a drive to listen to it.”

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Daddy Danger Wolf @headspacetex.bsky.social · 20/09/2026

TMW you take your pill at an EDM show and realize your first time rolling was well before a large portion of the crowd was *born*. And you’re very very okay with being the dad who can still hang with the kids.

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Daddy Danger Wolf @headspacetex.bsky.social · 18/09/2026

A train of thought I’ve been following, thinking of how people - especially folks 10-15 years younger - think of nations, is that they’ve been born into a remarkably stable world. The last major shakeup of newly established nations was 35 years ago. Their understanding of geopolitics is…fixed.

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Daddy Danger Wolf @headspacetex.bsky.social · 18/09/2026

Had to take jewelry out for my colonoscopy today and it feels weird to look this…straight. (On the plus side, below 200 for the first time in almost two years this morning. Thanks, suprep!)

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Daddy Danger Wolf @headspacetex.bsky.social · 16/09/2026

One of those days where my balls smell way too fucking good to shower. Which means I definitely need to shower before I leave the house.

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Daddy Danger Wolf @headspacetex.bsky.social · 12/09/2026

The princess on her throne. (I promise I’ll get smutty again at some point but this baby giiiiiirl)

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Daddy Danger Wolf @headspacetex.bsky.social · 12/09/2026

I love when my hot and talented friends create art of my hot and talented friends.

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Daddy Danger Wolf @headspacetex.bsky.social · 10/09/2026

There’s an entire department at my office - who sit near me - who apparently every week discover something from 2019-2021 for the very first time and then spend an hour loudly sharing about it. “Have you heard about this show called Squid Game? It has subtitles but it’s worth it.” And I just…die.

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Daddy Danger Wolf @headspacetex.bsky.social · 10/09/2026

This morning on my walk from my L stop to the office, I saw no less than four people - none of them obvious tourists - stop in the middle of the street to take a photo of the sunlight bouncing off the buildings around them. I love that this city still makes people stop and wonder.

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Daddy Danger Wolf @headspacetex.bsky.social · 09/09/2026

I’m having to re-explain shit I went over in detail with my boss at the start of the fucking year today because *her* boss has the same wild hair up his ass about rhensake idea he had then, and I’m about to just attach two dozen emails to one and just let ‘er rip.

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Daddy Danger Wolf @headspacetex.bsky.social · 08/09/2026

One of those days I, as an Internet Oldie, deeply miss the longer-form content and audience tools of Livejournal, because neither here nor Instagram feel like the place to share my feelings about my childhood rabbi getting arrested in a sting trying to meet what he thought was a 14y/o boy.

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Daddy Danger Wolf @headspacetex.bsky.social · 08/09/2026

After Sunday’s unsurprisingly anticlimactic end to Dragon Heist campaign, I’m neither running nor prepping to run a game as DM for the first time in something like four years. Feels weeeeeeird.

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Daddy Danger Wolf @headspacetex.bsky.social · 08/09/2026

When an 80s kid binges The Shards and remembers that sometimes a classic preppy look is classic for a reason.

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Daddy Danger Wolf @headspacetex.bsky.social · 07/09/2026

On second thought - may just not leave the couch today.

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Daddy Danger Wolf @headspacetex.bsky.social · 07/09/2026

Trying to feel up for enjoying the day off after one of the hardest weeks I’ve had in a long time - hard personally, professionally, leather-wise… Having this sweet baby back home again finally has helped. A LOT.

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Daddy Danger Wolf @headspacetex.bsky.social · 03/09/2026

I’ve got to let someone go later today - part of a layoff - and it’s making it absolutely impossible for me to concentrate on the work I need to get done between now and then.

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Daddy Danger Wolf @headspacetex.bsky.social · 02/09/2026

My job is changing insurance providers as of next month: my therapist doesn’t take United so I’ll need to shop around. Googling every therapist’s name to see if we’ve exchanged dick pics or DNA is a Herculean task.

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Daddy Danger Wolf @headspacetex.bsky.social · 01/09/2026

Maybe it’s age, maybe it’s because the idea of being cruel as a personality trait is the backbone of the current conservative movement, but I’m just over people who see being publicly mean to people they say they care about aa a mark of intimacy. Theres a line between playful ribbing and being mean.

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Daddy Danger Wolf @headspacetex.bsky.social · 31/08/2026

My dearest friend @voltronchris.bsky.social gifted me this piece he commissioned from his sister last night. I miss that sweet grumpy old man every single day.

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Daddy Danger Wolf @headspacetex.bsky.social · 30/08/2026

There’s a particular oddness to being surrounded by folks who make money in some way off their bodies/sex and…not doing so yourself. I’m definitely not avoiding sex work because I think there’s something wrong with it, and i charge for access to my time and talents otherwise, so..why not sexually?

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Daddy Danger Wolf @headspacetex.bsky.social · 30/08/2026

I’m having a good dick weekend. (So come sit on it)

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Daddy Danger Wolf @headspacetex.bsky.social · 23/08/2026

There are worse ways to spend a Sunday afternoon.

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Daddy Danger Wolf @headspacetex.bsky.social · 21/08/2026

Got my time with water with a nice twelve mile ride on the lakefront.

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Daddy Danger Wolf @headspacetex.bsky.social · 20/08/2026

Haven’t had a getaway to just sit by a body of water for a while - may treat myself to a mini version of that and just walk to the lake later tonight, but it’s not the same thing as being *away from it all* for a bit, y’know?

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Daddy Danger Wolf @headspacetex.bsky.social · 18/08/2026

So of course now I’m at the gym and the pump is…making all of this from this morning seem so silly.

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Daddy Danger Wolf @headspacetex.bsky.social · 17/08/2026

It’s a day where I can very clearly see the way work and money and relationship stress and lack of sleep has played out on my body; not sure if it’s dysmorphia or just…recognizing I’ve fallen off the wagon and not liking what I see. I’m acknowledging my own choices and also needing a change.

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Daddy Danger Wolf @headspacetex.bsky.social · 17/08/2026

It’s a Monday, y’all, and I’m facing it with every bit of gumption Leia and Joni can give me from @voltronchris.bsky.social ‘s walls

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Daddy Danger Wolf @headspacetex.bsky.social · 15/08/2026

One of those lazy summer Saturdays where it’s just constantly maybe sort of threatening to storm so the world is just green and teetering on the edge of explosion into…something. Living in a fully liminal state where anything feels possible and nothing also feels like a valid choice.

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Daddy Danger Wolf @headspacetex.bsky.social · 05/08/2026

Forgot to pack socks so doing full dad mode squats at the office gym.

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Daddy Danger Wolf @headspacetex.bsky.social · 04/08/2026

Opened Facebook this morning to clear birthday notifications and was hit smack-dab with a relitigation of the Leo Frank case to dismiss the ADL - and further anyone who addresses anti-Semitism - as actually just being anti-Black and I fucking hate it here.

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Daddy Danger Wolf @headspacetex.bsky.social · 29/07/2026

Wondering how ironically I can post “who’s funding Dad’s Market Days” while being completely serious about mentioning that I’m under “geoffrois” on most money-exchanging platforms.

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Daddy Danger Wolf @headspacetex.bsky.social · 23/07/2026

See ya soon, San Francisco! (Fun fact: my bag sits exactly at the place Teddy decided to bite down *hard* as I welcomed him home last night.)

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Daddy Danger Wolf @headspacetex.bsky.social · 21/07/2026

I really wish I was someone who liked dressing up/turning a look more. I feel like I’ve arrived to my mid-40s choosing a “classic” look because I’ve refused to develop a personal style because I’m worried about looking silly - I need to invite whimsy into my wardrobe.

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Daddy Danger Wolf @headspacetex.bsky.social · 21/07/2026

Okay. Two days to Dore and my biggest concern is what to pack. I’m so used to traditional leather weekends - contests, cocktail socials, etc - and vanilla gay street fests - Market Days, Pride Fest, Midsommarfest - that my mind refuses to merge the two.

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Daddy Danger Wolf @headspacetex.bsky.social · 19/07/2026

Going to a “come as you were” birthday party tonight, and I love my friends who are littles, but this confirms I am in no way interested in age play for myself. 🤣

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Daddy Danger Wolf @headspacetex.bsky.social · 18/07/2026

Ope maybe turned myself on in the bar bathroom….

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Daddy Danger Wolf @headspacetex.bsky.social · 16/07/2026

Wildfire smoky selfie from a dad headed downtown on three and a half hours of sleep. Send coffee. And cash. Or just cash - this mustache doesn’t pay for itself. (Or like, just good vibes.) (The fact that I felt the need to put that is why I’m a terrible findom.)

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Daddy Danger Wolf @headspacetex.bsky.social · 14/07/2026

Y’all. The number of work communications I’ve almost sent today signed as “Danger”….

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Daddy Danger Wolf @headspacetex.bsky.social · 14/07/2026

I got very few photos from @chifetish-wknd.bsky.social this year, but getting to share what our team has built over the last four years with my favorite people in the world filled my fucking heart.

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Daddy Danger Wolf @headspacetex.bsky.social · 06/07/2026

I know I haven’t had enough to eat at the gym when I wade into a conversation about that terrible NYT op-Ed and just say “Jew here. Assimilationists were gassed along with the rest of us. They can get fucked.”

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Daddy Danger Wolf @headspacetex.bsky.social · 06/07/2026

Monday vibes, kiddos. Let’s make this work. Somehow.

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