iiinova — where your digital self keeps evolving

hautemess tom @hautemesstom.bsky.social · 09/10/2026

Finally doing the me and the 9 albums that made me trend long after it died.

A selfie of me in full Smokey purple glam looking off to the side.

My top 9 albums’ cover art in a simple 3x3 grid layout. Including

The Family Jewels by Marina
The Archandroid by Janelle Monae
Treats by Sleigh Bells
Night time my Time by Sky Ferreira
Spice by Spice Girls
Your hair is on Fire by Leslie Hunt
Devotion by Jessie Ware
The Fame by Lady Gaga
Pull My Hair Back by Jessy Lanza

hautemess tom @hautemesstom.bsky.social · 04/10/2026

Something I’ve been thinking about a lot recently is how confusing it is while transitioning to understand… how dating should work

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hautemess tom @hautemesstom.bsky.social · 02/10/2026

I am of the opinion that Dragula’s season should end right before Halloween. Not start. I think people would be down for it to start at the end of August to get hyped for fall.

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hautemess tom @hautemesstom.bsky.social · 30/09/2026

Lost my voice last night at church (the Muna concert)

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hautemess tom @hautemesstom.bsky.social · 18/09/2026

Believe it or not the doctor did NOT tell me I wasn’t trans enough.

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hautemess tom @hautemesstom.bsky.social · 11/09/2026

“If poop fall out my pants. I’m gonna get broke up with”

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hautemess tom @hautemesstom.bsky.social · 10/09/2026

Me: *streaming on Twitch* *notices that Twitch is trying to tell me something good is happening but I’m new to Twitch as a platform and a viewer so idk what it means* Chat what is a hype train?! (They answered btw you don’t have to explain to me here lol)

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hautemess tom @hautemesstom.bsky.social · 03/09/2026

It’s so crazy how we say rip but we don’t mean it. With all these celebrities dying over the last few weeks watching the reactions has been crazy.

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hautemess tom @hautemesstom.bsky.social · 26/08/2026

Alive and horribly depressed in the midst of the failure of the human experiment.

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hautemess tom @hautemesstom.bsky.social · 18/08/2026

Some nights I pray that when my eyes open I’m in the best timeline. Hasn’t worked but I won’t stop.

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hautemess tom @hautemesstom.bsky.social · 17/08/2026

I am so tired of opening my eyes and immediately seeing terrible news.

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hautemess tom @hautemesstom.bsky.social · 08/08/2026

My little baby girl Riott is really showing her age these days.

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hautemess tom @hautemesstom.bsky.social · 07/08/2026

I didn’t know what to expect getting into this game but.. oh my god? #dateeverything #twitch

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hautemess tom @hautemesstom.bsky.social · 06/08/2026

In easier breezier news I started streaming and my first game I’m playing is Date Everything! It’s a hoot and I’m uploading highlights to YouTube youtu.be/OD95ctRqGcE?...

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DATE EVERYTHING has me flirting with the wall and I can't stop

YouTube video by hautemess tom

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hautemess tom @hautemesstom.bsky.social · 06/08/2026

Roisin Murphy being a terf has hit my soul way harder than the JK Rowling of it all. I have every one of her records and I don’t think I’ll ever play them again. And then if I sell them I will just be selling them to someone like minded? Idk.

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hautemess tom @hautemesstom.bsky.social · 01/08/2026

Idk I just feel good about everything re content creation for the first time since like 2024.

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hautemess tom @hautemesstom.bsky.social · 01/08/2026

I also am done complaining about YouTube for the foreseeable. I’ve come up with some ideas to keep me sane and my makeup loving audience happy while I also explore different topics with my videos.

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hautemess tom @hautemesstom.bsky.social · 01/08/2026

Trying to figure out steam and twitch is giving me that feeling of the early internet. So much to learn and when things work it’s so satisfying.

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hautemess tom @hautemesstom.bsky.social · 27/07/2026

Traditionally attractive guys are so boring why are you yelling how many grams of protein you consume on Tuesdays between 11-1

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hautemess tom @hautemesstom.bsky.social · 25/07/2026

I always feel like a failure of a dog owner when I watch my parents’ dog. He’s so sweet and kind but no matter what the fuck I do when we babysit him he pisses and shits in my room. 🫩

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Mayor Zohran Kwame Mamdani @mayor.nyc.gov · 22/07/2026

Benjamin Netanyahu is a war criminal.

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hautemess tom @hautemesstom.bsky.social · 18/07/2026

Rupaul couldn’t even be fucked to get up from behind the judges table to crown the winner of all stars? Crazy.

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🔮👨🏻🪩 @mickeypalms.bsky.social · 17/07/2026

Rose Gray is allergic to making flops

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Big Joel @bigjoel.bsky.social · 11/07/2026

Ethan Klein’s flop lawsuits are as nectar to me

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hautemess tom @hautemesstom.bsky.social · 04/07/2026

I bought a digital camera with no screen and I’m still gonna be taking mostly selfies with it.

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hautemess tom @hautemesstom.bsky.social · 25/06/2026

I should clarify that I am also receiving more transphobia but that has been happening to me much longer than whatever this new thing is.

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hautemess tom @hautemesstom.bsky.social · 25/06/2026

Allow me to messily work something out here with you on Bluesky? I don’t think I have the right words for the thought but it is what I’m feeling.

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hautemess tom @hautemesstom.bsky.social · 17/06/2026

I wonder if I’m sadder now than I was in high school.

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hautemess tom @hautemesstom.bsky.social · 12/06/2026

The psychedelic 70s are back in indie pop girl music, and I haven’t landed how I feel about that yet.

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hautemess tom @hautemesstom.bsky.social · 07/06/2026

Body Dysmorphia and Dysphoria as a 1-2 punch is really something babe.

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hautemess tom @hautemesstom.bsky.social · 30/05/2026

I cannot believe they rigged a whole season for Ginger to win for Rupaul to forget that she had even been on the season.

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hautemess tom @hautemesstom.bsky.social · 16/05/2026

I’ve been struggling with my place in the world these days. So I made a video that felt as confused as I do. youtu.be/m-R8AXfKK5o?...

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a chaotic search for "it"

YouTube video by hautemess tom

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hautemess tom @hautemesstom.bsky.social · 12/05/2026

My relationship to content creation right now is … fragile.

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hautemess tom @hautemesstom.bsky.social · 30/04/2026

Washing your face while h*** is crazy work.

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hautemess tom @hautemesstom.bsky.social · 25/04/2026

Just two of the prettiest people you’ve ever seen tbh.

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hautemess tom @hautemesstom.bsky.social · 21/04/2026

I didn’t realize people were going cock out on close friends but I found out they were against my will in the weirdest way.

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hautemess tom @hautemesstom.bsky.social · 19/04/2026

My friend worked for years on this performance piece that she finally got to perform last week and it was so good I can’t stop thinking and crying about it.

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hautemess tom @hautemesstom.bsky.social · 17/04/2026