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Grumpy Cait Sidhe (she/her)

@grumpycatsith.bsky.social
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Long-legged socialist, smooth-skinned history MA, ethereal lesbian who wears mostly black. (icon: picrew.me/en/image_maker/376622)

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Grumpy Cait Sidhe (she/her) @grumpycatsith.bsky.social · 30/04/2026
Perhaps! Or maybe there are deeper senses of honor than in the eyes of the law as well. Like, the highwayman gets to boast of his battle prowess, and the ghost doesn't want to be undone by someone else's effort. (Can't remember how that worked for the woman though. I'm about a dozen years removed.)
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Grumpy Cait Sidhe (she/her) @grumpycatsith.bsky.social · 30/04/2026
Notably, after watching *In the Mood for Love*, my partner showed me this film. We never got a chance to finish the "series" before we drifted apart. I hope the movies are good for you.
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Grumpy Cait Sidhe (she/her) @grumpycatsith.bsky.social · 30/04/2026
Back to the movie, one point that was brought up that I found interesting was that all three witnesses, in one way or another, are incriminating themselves, blaming themselves for the death to defend some alternate source of esteem than lawfulness.
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Grumpy Cait Sidhe (she/her) @grumpycatsith.bsky.social · 30/04/2026
We were supposed to explore how disagreements between primary sources could itself be meaningful *aside* from purely trying to find their deviance from the truth. How can you make misinformation meaningful and more than mere noise to your signal?
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Grumpy Cait Sidhe (she/her) @grumpycatsith.bsky.social · 30/04/2026
Prof had us watch this and then listen to a podcast about a shooting that eyewitnesses were all wrong about. Then we wrote a paper examining an event about which eyewitnesses disagree.
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Grumpy Cait Sidhe (she/her) @grumpycatsith.bsky.social · 30/04/2026
I clearly need to spend more time on here, considering two of the first things I see are you talking about movies that I have strong memories of. I watched this one in the flagship course of my history degree, after I'd reinvented my life.
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Grumpy Cait Sidhe (she/her) @grumpycatsith.bsky.social · 30/04/2026
I think about it regularly to this day. Every now and then, I have to explain the scene where they are both pretending asking about an accessory of the other's, pretending to want to buy it for their own partner, just because it... For whatever reason, helps me make a point by analogy.
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Grumpy Cait Sidhe (she/her) @grumpycatsith.bsky.social · 30/04/2026
Second time was years later, very different place in life, with a partner of mine. Large age gap in the relationship, but we bonded over media we happened to have both seen despite being on very different timelines. This was one. We rewatched it. That was probably 2019. It's due for a rewatch.
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Grumpy Cait Sidhe (she/her) @grumpycatsith.bsky.social · 30/04/2026
(I think that was also the night I won a raffle and got a Chinese scarf that sat in a box for years waiting for my egg to crack, at which point I pulled it out and discovered it goes with none of my clothes so far.)
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Grumpy Cait Sidhe (she/her) @grumpycatsith.bsky.social · 30/04/2026
It's sooooo effin' good. I first watched it as part of an annual "Chinese film festival" thing that a professor and a student hosted in my state Uni's College of Media. That was probably in 2013. I recall that student saying that the movie probably wouldn't get made here due to it's ending.
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Grumpy Cait Sidhe (she/her) @grumpycatsith.bsky.social · 27/03/2026
Take care of your physical health and dexterity. I started really feeling the consequences of my bad posture and lack of self care around age 28. Maybe take up swimming? And don't hesitate to see physical therapists about even small problems, as they can help you care for your body holistically.
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Grumpy Cait Sidhe (she/her) @grumpycatsith.bsky.social · 03/03/2026
Not that directly? Despite him having direct connections to Israeli heads of state? Literally giving them advice to invest in Palantir?
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Grumpy Cait Sidhe (she/her) @grumpycatsith.bsky.social · 03/03/2026
I mean, Little Saint James has been bought. Has anyone checked on it since then? I kinda question the intentions of anyone who willingly bought it.
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Grumpy Cait Sidhe (she/her) @grumpycatsith.bsky.social · 18/04/2025
I literally just filed my f***ing taxes. I'm literally poly. 😒
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Grumpy Cait Sidhe (she/her) @grumpycatsith.bsky.social · 11/04/2025
👀
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Grumpy Cait Sidhe (she/her) @grumpycatsith.bsky.social · 10/04/2025
They are avoiding ice cream so they don't look gay. I avoid ice cream because I'm lactose intolerant. We are not the same. (Well, I'm also not a boy, but for the sake of the joke, set that aside.)
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Grumpy Cait Sidhe (she/her) @grumpycatsith.bsky.social · 10/04/2025
We're cool. We were talking past each other. This about vaginal fluids being estrogenizing is absolutely new, afaik. I was trying to say that being all sour-grapes about not getting off and ascribing mystical power to semen have a history. (The latter was satirized in Dr. Strangelove, after all.)
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Grumpy Cait Sidhe (she/her) @grumpycatsith.bsky.social · 10/04/2025
Okay. That's fine.
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Grumpy Cait Sidhe (she/her) @grumpycatsith.bsky.social · 10/04/2025
But the first I heard it, for the record, was in anti-masterbation discourse circa 2009. The phrase semen retention wasn't codified by then, but it was the same argument.
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Grumpy Cait Sidhe (she/her) @grumpycatsith.bsky.social · 10/04/2025
I don't know what post the other day you are talking about. This is a line of thinking I've seen around for quite some time now, not just from grifting influencer types, but from their more earnest followers. But okay, I don't need you to believe me.
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Grumpy Cait Sidhe (she/her) @grumpycatsith.bsky.social · 10/04/2025
I mean, many actually do think that semen retention makes you more manly.
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Grumpy Cait Sidhe (she/her) @grumpycatsith.bsky.social · 02/04/2025
Fwiw, Mudora *is legal* in Speed Duel. (Keldo is not, though.)
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Grumpy Cait Sidhe (she/her) @grumpycatsith.bsky.social · 02/04/2025
God... I loved the Ishizu cards... They remind me so much of old-school, single card threats, like Brealer or Kycoo in Goat format.
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Grumpy Cait Sidhe (she/her) @grumpycatsith.bsky.social · 31/03/2025
I imagine so.
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Grumpy Cait Sidhe (she/her) @grumpycatsith.bsky.social · 31/03/2025
@peepsygo.bsky.social Please bring this up on the podcast! I beg you!
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Grumpy Cait Sidhe (she/her) @grumpycatsith.bsky.social · 31/03/2025
That makes this so much funnier.
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Grumpy Cait Sidhe (she/her) @grumpycatsith.bsky.social · 27/03/2025
I will confess a potential bias. I am not a terribly happy person, so what seems subjectively happy, funny, or uplifting *to me* might seem less so to others. I would not be offended if you concluded that this made my suggestions invalid (not that I'd find out).
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Grumpy Cait Sidhe (she/her) @grumpycatsith.bsky.social · 27/03/2025
Movies: You've seen the 'Barbie' movie, right? It was good. 'See how they run' was a fun new take on Agatha Christie's works. Next, more of a farce/black comedy, but I enjoyed "Drive Away Dolls" a lot (maybe just because I'm gay). I think it is uplifting, but it is poking fun at darker tropes.
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Grumpy Cait Sidhe (she/her) @grumpycatsith.bsky.social · 27/03/2025
Reservations: *POV character of Komi (Tadano) has some weird insecurities about gender. It becomes clearer later that this is intentional and not a bias of the author. **Season 1 of Devil has some annoying fanservice. This stops in season 2. I suspect they realized their audience is mainly female.
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Grumpy Cait Sidhe (she/her) @grumpycatsith.bsky.social · 27/03/2025
"Komi Can't Communicate" is a fantastically empathetic and fun show about a nonverbal girl (probably autistic) trying to make friends and community.* "The Devil is a Part Timer" is a fun sitcom about Satan being stuck in a human body on earth, trying to get good marks at work.**
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Grumpy Cait Sidhe (she/her) @grumpycatsith.bsky.social · 27/03/2025
Their work is incredible!
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Grumpy Cait Sidhe (she/her) @grumpycatsith.bsky.social · 27/03/2025
🤣
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Grumpy Cait Sidhe (she/her) @grumpycatsith.bsky.social · 24/03/2025
For a second, I thought you were wearing a Grucifix.
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Grumpy Cait Sidhe (she/her) @grumpycatsith.bsky.social · 24/03/2025
Isn't that just *all* mirrors? (Given how selective human perception is.)
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Grumpy Cait Sidhe (she/her) @grumpycatsith.bsky.social · 24/03/2025
Weirdly timed. I just got muted in a group on a different website for saying that the term Doll isn't exclusively used by 'transmedicalists obsessed with passability politics', but also by people like me who get gatekept by them. (You look stunning, btw.)
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Grumpy Cait Sidhe (she/her) @grumpycatsith.bsky.social · 02/02/2025
media.tenor.com
a white cat with red eyes and wings is standing in front of a city
ALT: a white cat with red eyes and wings is standing in front of a city
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Grumpy Cait Sidhe (she/her) @grumpycatsith.bsky.social · 02/02/2025
"Meanwhile, she's been unable to finish her Master's thesis in 6 years."
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Grumpy Cait Sidhe (she/her) @grumpycatsith.bsky.social · 02/02/2025
"She's a [...], but she will disappear from a conversation for a few hours and then send a well researched and sourced wall of text in response to your one sentence question."
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Grumpy Cait Sidhe (she/her) @grumpycatsith.bsky.social · 02/02/2025
I've heard good things. A coworker of mine was listening to it back when we worked in an archive together.
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Grumpy Cait Sidhe (she/her) @grumpycatsith.bsky.social · 29/01/2025
Librarians need your support now more than ever before.
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Grumpy Cait Sidhe (she/her) @grumpycatsith.bsky.social · 29/01/2025
What the fuck!?! ....I don't think I can overstate how formative that movie was for me. It remains one of my absolute favorites. I already thought your tattoos were cool. But somehow this one had escaped my notice up until now. 😅
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Grumpy Cait Sidhe (she/her) @grumpycatsith.bsky.social · 25/01/2025
Immediately, I am consumed by shame for not thinking to connect this more directly to your previous posts by making it like a "nightshade plant girlfriend" joke instead...
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Grumpy Cait Sidhe (she/her) @grumpycatsith.bsky.social · 25/01/2025
There's gotta be a market for "poison dart frog girlfriend" erotica.
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Grumpy Cait Sidhe (she/her) @grumpycatsith.bsky.social · 24/01/2025
Any day now.... surely. Unfortunately, it seems that garbage makes for a long-lasting fuel. 😅
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Grumpy Cait Sidhe (she/her) @grumpycatsith.bsky.social · 24/01/2025
I only realized you left Twitter because I looked to see if you'd tweeted about this. 😅 Your post was actually the tiny shove I needed to switch over.
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Grumpy Cait Sidhe (she/her) @grumpycatsith.bsky.social · 24/01/2025
Oh hey! Nice to see this post is on here too!
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