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Hypatia @grrlwithaplan.bsky.social · 23/06/2026
I feel like most sex has been been with partners who treat me like an object to use.
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Hypatia @grrlwithaplan.bsky.social · 16/06/2026
Deeply relatable. It’s like all human connection has an expiry date - I don’t assume thing will end but both the relationships and friendships suddenly become too much when in fact you’re not doing anything to change but it doesn’t matter - they’re done with you.
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Hypatia @grrlwithaplan.bsky.social · 09/06/2026
Well said. Always new people to meet and amazing things to learn and experience ❤️
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Hypatia @grrlwithaplan.bsky.social · 09/06/2026
Stuck with an astronaut’s helmet while you observe the world and desperately try to take the helmet off, but you get tired and just try to make the best of living with a helmet on while you wait for your home planet to finally pick you up to take you home
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Hypatia @grrlwithaplan.bsky.social · 09/06/2026
When I’ve been honest when I feel uncomfortable I’m made to feel bad about it. Friendship is too many landmines and mercurial inconsisnty cruelty
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Hypatia @grrlwithaplan.bsky.social · 20/05/2026
I always say one of these could be managed, but two makes life a living hell and an exhausting disaster. I am so, so tired and soul weary and lonely
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Hypatia @grrlwithaplan.bsky.social · 17/05/2026
The joy of a Habs announcer announcing a Montreal goal is like flying
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Hypatia @grrlwithaplan.bsky.social · 01/05/2026
Yup. This is a level of loneliness that feels like a generational curse. I feel alone and forgotten on the wrong planet
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Hypatia @grrlwithaplan.bsky.social · 26/04/2026
This is going to be so useful for me snf I’m kind of blown away by having something that reflects so much of my health in one document
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Hypatia @grrlwithaplan.bsky.social · 02/03/2026
The hell of that situation isn’t worth it - walking away from limerance from someone who doesn’t choose you is so peaceful and such a better choice too
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Hypatia @grrlwithaplan.bsky.social · 30/01/2026
Thank you. I’m just saddened at how the people in my life don’t check up on me. They go to a rally to support folks. It don’t actually offer support to someone with multiple marginalized identified. I feel like a ghost.
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Hypatia @grrlwithaplan.bsky.social · 29/01/2026
I’m very lucky to have lots of events to go to - just trying to find ‘my people’ across multiple identities and communities feels tough. Pockets of people here and there
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Hypatia @grrlwithaplan.bsky.social · 28/01/2026
I also need to find more in person classes and sound baths. I feel like digital life is just not great - people don’t engage the same way. I can’t deal with emojis as a response any more. What’s needed is a deep healing hug.
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Hypatia @grrlwithaplan.bsky.social · 28/01/2026
Thank you - just feeling overwhelmed personally and with the news. Your message reminds me there are good ones out there ❤️
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Hypatia @grrlwithaplan.bsky.social · 23/01/2026
It can also be just hard to imagine devoting time to interests when battling the sensory overload of autism.
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Hypatia @grrlwithaplan.bsky.social · 23/01/2026
This is me. The life I once knew is gone. I can no longer take care of myself. This is over
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Hypatia @grrlwithaplan.bsky.social · 17/01/2026
One of us ❤️ welcome to the cottage, we have s’mores by the fire to help and plenty of ginger ale
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Hypatia @grrlwithaplan.bsky.social · 02/01/2026
Everyone says they accept you and support disabled people until you ask for help or respect and then we are ‘too much’
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Hypatia @grrlwithaplan.bsky.social · 02/01/2026
Absolutely resonates. It’s not just that we may miss social cues, many neurotypical people are comfortable acting on assumptions and mind reading as defaults. We’re told we have ‘no empathy’ which is also code for ‘there is a system in place and you’re ignoring it and not emoting accordingly’
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Hypatia @grrlwithaplan.bsky.social · 26/12/2025
As someone exploring getting PhD, it’s the loneliness that really worries me. It’s tough as it is right now let alone with a demanding program. Tired of being alone and feeling out of place like a rejected toy in the discount bin
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Hypatia @grrlwithaplan.bsky.social · 22/12/2025
Absolutely feel this - as a kid you think you’ll mask enough and somehow be convincing but you end up being found out in the end
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Hypatia @grrlwithaplan.bsky.social · 20/12/2025
Investigating these has been a new special interest and a crash course in biology and forced me into a forensic journalism degree too. I am tired. Can AI do all of this for me?
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Hypatia @grrlwithaplan.bsky.social · 08/12/2025
And and and… it’s just exhausting. And I found out I have another condition in addition to so many of the ones you listed and just feel overwhelmed and scared all the time now.
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Hypatia @grrlwithaplan.bsky.social · 07/12/2025
This poem found me when I needed it ❤️
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Hypatia @grrlwithaplan.bsky.social · 01/12/2025
Absolutely love this. I’m exploring a social impact idea for neurodivergent women and think about how much of this content would serve as the basis for care
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Hypatia @grrlwithaplan.bsky.social · 30/11/2025
There will always be something you are too much/not enough at. Walking away from trying to mask and please others is the only survival mechanism. The people who accept us are so few. Not in this lifetime.
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Hypatia @grrlwithaplan.bsky.social · 19/11/2025
It’s joining a club where your onboarding is to a door which you excitedly open when you find it - and the room is empty and you are once again alone. Forever.
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Hypatia @grrlwithaplan.bsky.social · 19/11/2025
Also Velveteen Rabbit
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Hypatia @grrlwithaplan.bsky.social · 14/11/2025
Haha you know it! I am trying not to over search anything - I won’t even look at pictures because hell no! But even know it’s manageable is making me feel reassured. I felt really alone and scared today. Thank you 🙏🏻
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Hypatia @grrlwithaplan.bsky.social · 14/11/2025
Literally being evaluated for POTS and they let me know about the mitral valve prolapse by seeing results on a portal. Trying not to freak out and have appointment in 3 weeks to discuss. I am tired of having a body with challenges
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Hypatia @grrlwithaplan.bsky.social · 12/11/2025
Deeply relatable and it’s sobering to realize the connections don’t exist and you are on your own, and you feel so fragile and vulnerable. At least we know our communities exist and support each other ❤️
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Hypatia @grrlwithaplan.bsky.social · 02/11/2025
This team is going to put me on blood pressure meds. I don’t think I can do it again.
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Hypatia @grrlwithaplan.bsky.social · 30/10/2025
I’m in a sports bar and we’re seeing so much clapping and happy voices and a guy who stands up and claps at the TV when we get a good thing happening. It’s just so beautiful, pure and healing
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Hypatia @grrlwithaplan.bsky.social · 28/10/2025
Relatable!
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Hypatia @grrlwithaplan.bsky.social · 27/10/2025
New low in dating discovered. It just gets worse
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Hypatia @grrlwithaplan.bsky.social · 25/10/2025
Well that is just so perfect 🥺❤️
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Hypatia @grrlwithaplan.bsky.social · 24/10/2025
And when you set boundaries or ask for accommodations you are immediately labeled as uncooperative. But if you say nothing and burn yourself out they’re happy to profit from you literally working yourself into burnout. Always a new neurodivergent widget from the warehouse we can wear down
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Hypatia @grrlwithaplan.bsky.social · 03/10/2025
It’s been sobering to realize they want the masked version and don’t share excitement on understanding the diagnosis or partner to support you. They hate us deep down and just wish we were ‘normal’
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Hypatia @grrlwithaplan.bsky.social · 26/09/2025
Thank you ❤️ I’m putting a portfolio together and trying to get more work finished entering it into contests. It’s ND focused but hope to share more of it soon.
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Hypatia @grrlwithaplan.bsky.social · 26/09/2025
It’s been a very tough week. Not a single person in my life has asked me how I’m doing considering the news about autism and ableist implications of it all. I have never felt so isolated, but at least I know. Focusing on goals and hobbies - my paints are there for me. Better to be alone.
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Hypatia @grrlwithaplan.bsky.social · 26/09/2025
And they will put you on the wrong medication for years that had lasting side effects. We should be able to sue those doctors.
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Hypatia @grrlwithaplan.bsky.social · 24/09/2025
The past few days are a reminder of how ableist this world is. The news yesterday was too much.
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Hypatia @grrlwithaplan.bsky.social · 24/09/2025
I so needed to have a good laugh today ❤️
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Hypatia @grrlwithaplan.bsky.social · 23/09/2025
After years of doing it o. Our own we just give up. It makes sense in a weird way. We get tired of everything
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Hypatia @grrlwithaplan.bsky.social · 21/09/2025
God all of this. I want a vacation from my brain. It’s not normal to have this level of overstimulation and tiredness.
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Hypatia @grrlwithaplan.bsky.social · 15/09/2025
That wish resonates 🫂
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Hypatia @grrlwithaplan.bsky.social · 02/09/2025
thank you for sharing this. How is this not a public health crisis on every news outlet?
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Hypatia @grrlwithaplan.bsky.social · 27/08/2025
Maybe we need summer camp for neurodivergent adults recovering from burnout. I’m severely burnt out and want to find community to share joy with again. To feel like I can heal
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Hypatia @grrlwithaplan.bsky.social · 27/08/2025
Yes on fire. That’s so accurate. Not feeling safe. Loneliness and isolation that is absolutely crushing. The bullying…
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Hypatia @grrlwithaplan.bsky.social · 27/08/2025
The way the insecure people are complaining on a day their engagement is announced says so much. Who looks at someone’s engagement photos and feels the need to says ‘yay backlash’?
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