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AJ 💖 @goheadjoyner.bsky.social · 08/12/2025

K’s mom is gorgeous, but there’s something about her that just feels off… it seems like she’s the type of helicopter mom who is living through her daughter. Idk I could be wrong. They could just be extremely close, but she just feels a little too involved #RHOP

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AJ 💖 @goheadjoyner.bsky.social · 08/12/2025

So wait you mean to tell me that Stacey basically did a carbon copy of Happy Eddy and then had the audacity to tell Wendy that it would be a conflict of interest to invite her to her launch??? #RHOP

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AJ 💖 @goheadjoyner.bsky.social · 07/12/2025

I want everyone who co-conspired with that maniac to be prosecuted. That yt lady should not be able to fly under the radar like this; she enabled the behavior. #diddydocumentary

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AJ 💖 @goheadjoyner.bsky.social · 07/12/2025

One of the most disappointing parts about this documentary is hearing from the jurors🙄 This trial had a psychologist break down the cycle of abuse that victims experience and how that impacts their mental state. #diddydocumentary #seancombsthereckoning

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AJ 💖 @goheadjoyner.bsky.social · 04/12/2025

I’m watching this Diddy documentary on Netflix and with friends like him, who needs enemies?? Mana really reverse-engineered the death of Biggie to work in his favor 😩 #seancombsthereckoning

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AJ 💖 @goheadjoyner.bsky.social · 01/12/2025

It's getting harder to watch Angel struggle each week 😩🫤🙄 #RHOP

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AJ 💖 @goheadjoyner.bsky.social · 01/12/2025

These scenes of Wendy at home with her family did nottt age well 😩🙈 I also hope her mom is not giving her a hard time and projecting her embarrassment onto Wendy because she definitelyyy played a role in her daughter feeling the need to keep up with the Joneses 😑 #RHOP

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AJ 💖 @goheadjoyner.bsky.social · 24/11/2025

I loveee Tia. Keep her 👏🏾👏🏾 #RHOP

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AJ 💖 @goheadjoyner.bsky.social · 24/11/2025

I’m glad that Gizelle kept it real about where Robyn was… if I was Robyn I would have called the best stylist and MUA in the DMV and pulled up in a luxury car service and PUMP. But ya know… Robyn 😅🤷🏾‍♀️ #RHOP

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AJ 💖 @goheadjoyner.bsky.social · 24/11/2025

I try to use the colorism card very sparingly when it comes to RHOP because at this point it’s just low hanging fruit😅. However, I find it very ironic that Angel is holding a grudge against Wendy for a comment that Gizelle made and she’s not even keeping half that same energy towards Gizelle #RHOP

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AJ 💖 @goheadjoyner.bsky.social · 23/11/2025

Does Elphaba get some justice in the new movie bc idk if I can sit through this long movie again if she don’t get her lick back 😩🙈 I’m not sure how the original musical played out, but the racial undertones were a lottt. The way they used, abused, and then tried to discard her was so bad #wicked

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AJ 💖 @goheadjoyner.bsky.social · 20/11/2025

I was really rooting for K 😩 I think a lot of the new girls, especially the ones who started off as friends of the show start to overcompensate to solidify their place and it’s just too much 🙈 #RHOP

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AJ 💖 @goheadjoyner.bsky.social · 18/11/2025

I can’t take Stacey seriously 😅 thing she refuses to do is read the room… Shayo is crazy work 😩😂 #RHOP

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AJ 💖 @goheadjoyner.bsky.social · 14/11/2025

Black people who don’t want to speak to other Black folks abroad are… interesting 😅 I’m always so excited to see my people living and enjoying themselves. When we’re in countries where we are the minority, you never know who you might need 😅🤷🏾‍♀️

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AJ 💖 @goheadjoyner.bsky.social · 10/11/2025

Everyone was talking about how good André 3000 looks, but Big Boy is also aging like fine wine. I love when you can tell Black men are taking care of themselves.. both mentally, spiritually and physically #rockandrollhalloffame

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AJ 💖 @goheadjoyner.bsky.social · 31/10/2025

I’m glad KB got to share her experience, especially as being represented as an angry Black woman. It takes a lot to navigate a relationship with Edmond. So I get her frustration; however, I think it’s important to understand that he just does not have the mental or emotional capability #loveisblind

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AJ 💖 @goheadjoyner.bsky.social · 31/10/2025

Why wasn’t Anna on the Love is Blind reunion?? We definitely needed to have a chat… especially about internalized racism, but I also know Nick and Vanessa weren’t going to even try to touch that subject.🙃 Patrick let her off way too easily and she definitely deflected #loveisblind

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AJ 💖 @goheadjoyner.bsky.social · 31/10/2025

I don’t like how they belabored the discussion around sparkle Madison’s new baby. Jordan was clearly trying his best to keep his composure but they just made it so awkward… It seemed intentional. The girl got pregnant had a baby right after the show wrapped.. Let’s move on. #loveisblind

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AJ 💖 @goheadjoyner.bsky.social · 31/10/2025

The way that Joe continues to objectify Madison is disgusting. And I don’t like how the audience and cast members were laughing about it. He is extremely immature🤷🏾‍♀️ #loveisblind

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AJ 💖 @goheadjoyner.bsky.social · 31/10/2025

Listening to Kacie’s vocal fry is already bad enough, but hearing her white woman victimhood activate within the first 3 minutes of her segment on the reunion is just nauseating. The fact that she tried to reverse engineer the situation is ridiculous yet not surprising. #LoveIsBlind

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AJ 💖 @goheadjoyner.bsky.social · 28/10/2025

I think it’s time for Love Is Blind to go back to the drawing board. I know all they care about is ratings but this structure ain’t it. #loveisblind

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AJ 💖 @goheadjoyner.bsky.social · 28/10/2025

I think material girls like Megan just have to be real with themselves… you have a lifestyle that you’re accustomed to and you knowwww you don’t wanna be flexible around that. Jordan is a down-to-earth parent who didn’t fit her vision #loveisblind

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AJ 💖 @goheadjoyner.bsky.social · 28/10/2025

Does production make them stay in their wedding clothes after they call things off at the altar?? It's sooo dramatic and awkward every season 🙈😅 I would have changed clothes immediately and called an uber 😂 #loveisblind

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AJ 💖 @goheadjoyner.bsky.social · 28/10/2025

Some blame KB, others think Edmond was at fault and shouldn't have been on the show. Everyone deserves love, howeverrrr, it takes the right person to handle mental issues. Despite KB’s social work background, I don't think she was equipped. #loveisblind

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AJ 💖 @goheadjoyner.bsky.social · 28/10/2025

It's always weird to see the contestants on Love is Blind crying and talking about how madly in love they are with their partners, then turn around in the next scene and say no at the altar 😅🙃 they need to stop acting like they just decided in that moment that it was a no #loveisblind

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AJ 💖 @goheadjoyner.bsky.social · 28/10/2025

We need more allies like Edmond’s teacher. She could’ve easily just written him off as just a “bad Black student” like a lot of people would have. But the fact that she has always stepped up for him throughout his life speaks volumes. #loveisblind

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AJ 💖 @goheadjoyner.bsky.social · 25/10/2025

There’s a lot of talk about Edmond being exploited on the show, but I think the same could be said about Annie because it’s clear she is extremely emotionally unstable. #loveisblind

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AJ 💖 @goheadjoyner.bsky.social · 17/10/2025

Going on Love is Blind within the current dating landscape is such a risk because the odds are just not in your favor in the real world or on the experiment. I prefer to face any potential embarrassment from these 🥷🏾s in private 😂🤣 #loveisblind

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AJ 💖 @goheadjoyner.bsky.social · 15/10/2025

Controversial take: I don’t think people with kids should do Love is Blind… hear me out. Most of these relationships don’t work out in the end. I know that most contestants have tried the traditional dating route and want to explore other options to find a spouse.

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AJ 💖 @goheadjoyner.bsky.social · 10/10/2025

I really like Keiarna but I feel like she’s making the classic mistake newer housewives tend to do. She’s coming too hot this season trying to solidify her spot. I preferred her when she was more chill 😩#RHOP

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AJ 💖 @goheadjoyner.bsky.social · 09/10/2025

Ashley does the best impression of Stacey 🤣😂 #RHOP

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AJ 💖 @goheadjoyner.bsky.social · 19/09/2025

Sylvie be pissing me off acting slow. All her lines are a question 😩🙈 #beautyinblack

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AJ 💖 @goheadjoyner.bsky.social · 07/09/2025

The thing with Katisha and Javen is, I wasn't expecting any other outcome. I just don’t know what she expected from him 😅🤷🏾‍♀️ He never even attempted to show her any real effort in the beginning. And even if Megan was embellishing, we saw him flirting with Sophie on camera #loveisblind #loveisblinduk

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AJ 💖 @goheadjoyner.bsky.social · 01/09/2025

Katisha is the definition of self-sabotage. When she said something about not knowing if she deserves good things, that was very telling. Javen told her who he was from the start and he was the only person she thought she deserved. He’s always given the bare minimum #Loveisblind #LoveisblindUK

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AJ 💖 @goheadjoyner.bsky.social · 29/08/2025

Patrick is very pushy and gives very “my way or the highway” type of vibes. I’ve been there with men like him. It doesn’t end well 😩 she clearly needs to feel comfortable to sing, and he keeps pushing it.. like bruv 🙃 #LoveisBlind #LoveisBlindUK

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AJ 💖 @goheadjoyner.bsky.social · 30/07/2025

Shamea and Marlo really set a bad trajectory for any friends of the show who may want to become full-time 😩 #RHOA

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AJ 💖 @goheadjoyner.bsky.social · 30/07/2025

Let me go on a little rant about my reality shows 😂…

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AJ 💖 @goheadjoyner.bsky.social · 21/07/2025

I really hate seeing the demise of Porsha and Shamea’s friendship. I know they have had a lot of issues building up that should’ve been resolved over the years. But they are childhood friends, and their friendship should not have been compromised due to this show #RHOA

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AJ 💖 @goheadjoyner.bsky.social · 10/07/2025

So Ironheart is projected not to get a season two because of “poor performance” and reviews. But it was really doomed from the start with racists writing negative reviews before the show even aired. #ironheart

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AJ 💖 @goheadjoyner.bsky.social · 07/07/2025

I’m so glad I graduated from college before the era of AI because these kids are lazy and too dependent on ChatGPT. It’s a flex to know that I’m actually an amazing writer when I need to be. But I don't always have to utilize that skillset, thanks to tech 🤷🏾‍♀️ but at least know how to proofread… Lord 😭

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AJ 💖 @goheadjoyner.bsky.social · 06/07/2025

The Chi is starting to feel like Tyler Perry is on the writers' team. It's always been filled with Black grief & pain, but watching these last couple of episodes, especially with the news about Jada is just too much 😩 Black people in Chicago don't just struggle🙈 just a little balance please? #thechi

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AJ 💖 @goheadjoyner.bsky.social · 04/07/2025

One thing I can say about Ginny & Georgia is that it's the one show that actually makes Black people look like the upstanding citizens. All the white people on the show are just a pure mess… besides Austin. He was just born into it 😩 #ginnyandgeorgia

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killer kung-fu wolf bitch is spooky 🎃 @gogoyubari888.blacksky.app · 02/07/2025

Fuck Diddy. Fuck everyone that helped and/or was complacent. Fuck the justice system. & Fuck bad boy as a staff, record label, and as a motherfucking crew. 🙂

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Leah McElrath @leahmcelrath.bsky.social · 02/07/2025

All I have to say about the Diddy trial verdict is I’ll never get over how much our society hates women.

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