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Gen X Cigar Bear @genxcigarbeargeek.bsky.social · 06/10/2026

Just survived yet another round of layoffs. I feel a little like Nathan Drake after he's just run through a group of enemies. Vision's blurry, things look like they're in black and white, and feel like one more shot is gonna get me.

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Gen X Cigar Bear @genxcigarbeargeek.bsky.social · 02/10/2026

I prefer Crocktober. Lots of soup. And chili.

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Gen X Cigar Bear @genxcigarbeargeek.bsky.social · 20/09/2026

If I like a post of yours, I'm potentially looking respectfully. If I comment, I'm probably not. If I'm trying to figure out how to slide into your DMs, I'm DEFINITELY not.

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Gen X Cigar Bear @genxcigarbeargeek.bsky.social · 15/09/2026

Anyone willing to play Daggerheart with me? One-shot to start and then... 👉👈👉👈

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Gen X Cigar Bear @genxcigarbeargeek.bsky.social · 31/08/2026

And now I apply for an interview for a promotion and get shot down in to minutes by a recruiter saying they have people with more experience already? Fuck that, meeting request with the hiring manager to find out the truth.

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Gen X Cigar Bear @genxcigarbeargeek.bsky.social · 31/08/2026

Lots of things I wish were easier/going better for me: Sex. I just don't have enough of a connection with folks here that I feel like I can get my groove on. Workout partner. Same situation, but less sperm and more testosterone.

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Gen X Cigar Bear @genxcigarbeargeek.bsky.social · 25/08/2026

I'm just... fucking tired. Everything, and I mean EVERYTHING, is stressing me out right now. And then Dolly passes. I. Didn't. Need. That.

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Gen X Cigar Bear @genxcigarbeargeek.bsky.social · 25/08/2026

Fuck. I'm sure you know why. My spirituality is a wild ride for me, but over of the few instances where I can definitely say I'd had an audience with the Divine was at her chapel in Dollywood. I fucking can't right now.

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Gen X Cigar Bear @genxcigarbeargeek.bsky.social · 30/07/2026

Anyone know of chastity cage manufacturers where the ring at the base is one where you can open it, put it in place, then clasp it together before locking? My balls hurt with trying to get them in a cock ring so would love to find something easier to put on

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Gen X Cigar Bear @genxcigarbeargeek.bsky.social · 26/07/2026

I don't think it's a whole lot to ask for a thick, furry, highly pierced dick to floor my guts for a couple of hours today.

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Gen X Cigar Bear @genxcigarbeargeek.bsky.social · 23/07/2026

Oh no, my Sims 4 version of myself in my 20s is hot, help.

A Sims 4 character wearing a black rubber tank suit with the crotch cut out, hairy and tattooed on the arms and legs, wearing an orange rubber hood and a black collar with a tag.

A Sims 4 character, naked with tattoos on his arms, chest, and legs, wearing a black collar with a tag on it. He is shaved headed and has red eyebrows and a red beard, with a septum ring, earrings, glasses, and nipple barbells.

A Sims 4 character wearing a Pride Flag-themed tank top and black shorts, with white socks and black sneakers. He is hairy, has tattos on his chest, arms, and legs visible, and is wearing a blue cap. He also has glasses, a red beard and eyebrows, a septum ring, earrings, and visible nipple barbells.

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Gen X Cigar Bear @genxcigarbeargeek.bsky.social · 22/07/2026

Not sure if it's just me getting older or if there's something psychologically going on, but I'm extremely gun shy about hooking up with people here. I don't know most of them, and I'm not feeling like broadening my circle. So it's a spiral. Any thoughts from the peanut gallery? Photo for fun.

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Gen X Cigar Bear @genxcigarbeargeek.bsky.social · 03/12/2025

Spotify top 5 includes Huntr/x 3 times? Me, hyperfocus?

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Gen X Cigar Bear @genxcigarbeargeek.bsky.social · 03/12/2025

My job is to help individual contributors solve people's payroll problems. We use a chat program for this since they're all over the country and world. One of them keeps calling me Sir (capitalized) in the chats. It's overtly disconcerting to me, but I can't explain why without getting heat for it

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Gen X Cigar Bear @genxcigarbeargeek.bsky.social · 31/10/2025

I think I'm just going to grab a loaf of bread and be the Ginger Bread Man for Halloween.

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Gen X Cigar Bear @genxcigarbeargeek.bsky.social · 11/10/2025

@teddywilder.bsky.social and Dr. Jane Goodall, the Venn diagram I never imagined existed

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Gen X Cigar Bear @genxcigarbeargeek.bsky.social · 26/09/2025

If I'd had this service growing up, going to the dentist would have been a LOT more tolerable than it was.

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Gen X Cigar Bear @genxcigarbeargeek.bsky.social · 17/09/2025

The Beard of Many Years has fallen. Welcome the Goatee with Mondo Stache

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Gen X Cigar Bear @genxcigarbeargeek.bsky.social · 01/09/2025

I hate what age is doing to my libido, not because it's slowing it down. Because it's acting like a petulant child and taking my brain hostage with it. Emotionally, I want to find and explore sexy times with people. Physically, I don't have the reactions. Mentally, my brain throws tantrums.

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Gen X Cigar Bear @genxcigarbeargeek.bsky.social · 22/04/2025

I can't do the Twink Death meme if I tried. At best, I was a clothes-wearing otter as a teenager. AT BEST.

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Gen X Cigar Bear @genxcigarbeargeek.bsky.social · 20/04/2025

I really wish my libido would make up its mind about what it wants to do. Walking me up at 5:30 am isn't helpful. When would it have been helpful? At the fucking naked pool party last night.

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a cartoon character wearing a hat is standing in front of a blue door holding a bouquet of flowers .

Alt: a cartoon character wearing a hat is standing in front of a blue door holding a bouquet of flowers .

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Gen X Cigar Bear @genxcigarbeargeek.bsky.social · 27/03/2025

OK, so I decided to try on my newer gear that I haven't really worn before. (If you want to share, you have to ask first, because I'm debating it)

A man with a beard wearing a transparent rubber surfsuit

A man with a beard wearing a transparent surfsuit with a black rubber muscle shirt over it

A man with a beard wearing a transparent rubber surfsuit with a black rubber muscle shirt over the top with his hands behind his head

A man with a beard wearing a transparent rubber surfsuit with a black rubber muscle shirt over the top lifting the shirt and showing his belly

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Gen X Cigar Bear @genxcigarbeargeek.bsky.social · 19/03/2025

There's that thing with bear-face photos where you see two people whose faces scrunch up in similar ways and you go "waaaait a second"

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Gen X Cigar Bear @genxcigarbeargeek.bsky.social · 10/02/2025

I was in my 20s, y'know. And I was a very, _very_ adventurous 20-something at that.

A Horny Bingo card where each space represents a type of sex or scenario in which one had sex. The card has 3 horizontal bingos, 3 vertical bingos, and one diagonal bingo.

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Gen X Cigar Bear @genxcigarbeargeek.bsky.social · 13/01/2025

I'm too gay for my own good. I woke up, saw this on my Facebook feed, and thought "who sells two-pack sets of poppers?"

Two bottles of honey with stickers that split their caps in half, looking like two smaller bottles

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Gen X Cigar Bear @genxcigarbeargeek.bsky.social · 04/01/2025

Ooookay. Lefties. Cishet lefties. Following me all of a sudden. Just a heads up, I don't do political posts (generally speaking) here. Peen is a possibility. Not a guarantee. But a possibility. You've been warned.

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GorillaBoy @snickersnatcher.bsky.social · 12/12/2024

Repost is you love big round hairy butts. … this is mine. 🍑

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Gen X Cigar Bear @genxcigarbeargeek.bsky.social · 09/12/2024

Back from when Santa really didn't give a shit about how fast the North Pole was working in the lead-up to Christmas, he just needed a bourbon, a cigar, and some alone time. (Fine to share)

A red-bearded man wearing a red Santa hat, sunglasses, suspenders, blue jeans, and boots reclines in a chair holding a glass of bourbon in one hand and a cigar in the other.

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Gen X Cigar Bear @genxcigarbeargeek.bsky.social · 09/12/2024

🎶Silver and gold, Silver and gold🎶 (This one, feel free to share around if you wish. Yukon Cornelius deserves his respect)

A man with a long red beard wearing a red knit wool cap, white earmuffs, and a blue coat holds a candy cane in one hand and a hammer in the other. He mimes licking the hammer.

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Gen X Cigar Bear @genxcigarbeargeek.bsky.social · 01/12/2024

So... yeah, this is scarily accurate. blueskyroast.com/roast/genxci...

blueskyroast.com

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Gen X Cigar Bear @genxcigarbeargeek.bsky.social · 29/11/2024

Let's try this again. Do NOT repost without asking, please.

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Gen X Cigar Bear @genxcigarbeargeek.bsky.social · 29/11/2024

And now I had to delete that last photo because some asshole who can't read reposted it without permission. FUCKING DON'T REPOST MY SHIT WITHOUT ASKING.

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Gen X Cigar Bear @genxcigarbeargeek.bsky.social · 29/11/2024

Hello from the me who passed out 4 hours ago after dinner

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Gen X Cigar Bear @genxcigarbeargeek.bsky.social · 25/11/2024

Not sure why all these politics-based accounts are following me here. This isn't a politics account. Nothing personal, but... no.

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Gen X Cigar Bear @genxcigarbeargeek.bsky.social · 22/11/2024

Also me. If you don't have anything beyond a default pic, I'm going to absolutely assume you have nothing to offer.

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Gen X Cigar Bear @genxcigarbeargeek.bsky.social · 19/11/2024

Yay, the content scrapers got me. Updated my damn profile to reflect that. *annoyed grunt*

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Gen X Cigar Bear @genxcigarbeargeek.bsky.social · 17/11/2024

If you follow me and don't have neither posts, a profile pic, nor face photos in your feed somewhere, you're going to get blocked. If you don't have a face photo in your feed somewhere, you're likely not going to get followed back. Simple as that. I want to have some fucking idea who you are.

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Gen X Cigar Bear @genxcigarbeargeek.bsky.social · 16/11/2024

I'm gonna move all the gaming/TRRPG stuff to a different account from this one. It's just getting too messy.

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Gen X Cigar Bear @genxcigarbeargeek.bsky.social · 15/11/2024

Just in case you haven't seen this yet, this wonderful person has rounded up a number of blocklist setups for the most egregious types of users.

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Danny THEE Himbo @br00taldan.bsky.social · 02/07/2023

RESKEET THIS IF YOU’RE QUEER, LIKE TABLE TOP/BOARD GAMES, YOU’RE HOT AND SEXY AF OR YOU’RE TIRED ✨🌈✨

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Hachi, the new guy in town @puphachi.bsky.social · 14/11/2024

Please spread this like wildfire

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Gen X Cigar Bear @genxcigarbeargeek.bsky.social · 13/11/2024

I hate that I'm at that age where my head hair doesn't grow long enough to feel the wind blowing through it, but my earlobe hairs grow long enough that my earlobes stretch when I'm pulling them.

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Gen X Cigar Bear @genxcigarbeargeek.bsky.social · 12/11/2024

This is one of my more favorite recent photos taken off me in my Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence manifestation. Me on the right, talking with the person on the left about what being a Guard is about, and in the middle a fabulously tall Goth Girl Sister passing judgement on us both

Three people are standing in a semi-circle.

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Gen X Cigar Bear @genxcigarbeargeek.bsky.social · 12/11/2024

Continuing my dive back into the Nylons, I didn't realize they'd made an actual music video for their song That Kind of Man. It's so 80s it hurts, but it definitely tells me that Paul Cooper was a proto-bear. Unf. youtu.be/q5tKHXZtV8s?...

youtu.be

The Nylons - That Kind Of Man (Official Video)

YouTube video by UnidiscMusic

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Xero now with 100% more 🎃 @artificer-ind.bsky.social · 12/11/2024

Streams this week:

A stream schedule for Wednesday (6pm mst), Thursday (6pm MST), and Friday (Noon MST). Wednesday and Thursday are minipainting, and Friday is Artificer Chat and more. The url reads twitch.tv/artificerind.

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Gen X Cigar Bear @genxcigarbeargeek.bsky.social · 12/11/2024

CW: Fetish discussion So, while ABDL play isn't especially my thing (doesn't bother me, but not seeking it out at all), it doesn't bother me if you follow. I'd just like to see more of who you are beyond the fetish if possible. Know more about the person than the persona.

Text of question: "How do you feel about weirdo diaper guys following you because you're a hot bear? Like, is that okay? Are you squicked? Just don't want to be too weirdo, you know?"

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