Not sure if this will be therapeutic, effective, or simply aggressive... But when I come across something in my house that someone didn't complete, I am snapping a photo, marking on it how long it took me to correct, and sending it our digital photo frame in the kitchen.
![A letter-size coil notebook is open on a blue couch, with a multi-colour striped blanket in the background. The notebook page says:
"Hey Fam, it's me, Mom. You know. The one who gets really anxious and snappy leading up to a trip because there are 73 kazillion things running through my brain, at least half of which are details that won't matter in the long run? Anyhoops... I don't want to get like that before our upcoming AWESOME trip to [redacted], so I need your help! I will need to have you do some tasks and prep that aren't "on Skylight".
How would this work best for you? Mark your name next to which idea you like most:
1: Give me the whole list at once, with a deadline marked on it
2: Give me 1-2 specific things to do each day
3: Pick a day (together) and we will get it all done at once
4: Something fun like all the tasks in a bucket and I will get them all done before the deadline.](https://cdn.bsky.app/img/feed_thumbnail/plain/did:plc:mh2hhygxjt4vmwuvo422h6dq/bafkreicyixwyuqwjehxhadz3zgfgksfuwanlq6dlq42xr2ghs27hs35hgi)
![A lined notebook with questions handwritten.
"Do you have any DS in stock?"
"What models and price?"
"What colour?"
"What time are you open until today?"
"Can you hold (blank) for me until the end of the day?"
"If asked for number / name - give [REDACTED]"](https://cdn.bsky.app/img/feed_thumbnail/plain/did:plc:mh2hhygxjt4vmwuvo422h6dq/bafkreibtfj37nwojeww5a6dxmuusfikw2e5cxqxsxsgnrhrjzwmq3x5qiu)
