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Gays & Confused @gaysandconfused.bsky.social · 26/09/2026

Very sad that I did not succeed in getting Carly Rae Jepsen tickets this morning. 😭

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Gays & Confused @gaysandconfused.bsky.social · 03/07/2026

When this new Madonna drops and if there’s a collab with Kylie, I am gonna be insufferable for the entire summer. ☺️

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Gays & Confused @gaysandconfused.bsky.social · 28/06/2026

I've put together a collection of certified bops to set the Pride celebration off. 🎉 gaysandconfused.com/queer-music-...

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Gays & Confused @gaysandconfused.bsky.social · 13/05/2026

Hey book babes, I just started The Charioteer by Mary Renault and I need us to talk about it. I didn’t know what to expect about this 1950s gay romance novel, but I’m loving it so far and excited to see where it goes. #QueerBookClub #BookSky

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Gays & Confused @gaysandconfused.bsky.social · 26/04/2026

Hey book babes, new #TBR just dropped. Join me if you’d like 🤓 What are you reading next? #BookSky

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Gays & Confused @gaysandconfused.bsky.social · 13/04/2026

Hey babes, the playlist is updated. 😎 I’ve had the new Slayyyter on repeat and really loving Haute & Freddy. What have you been listening to lately? Take a listen: bit.ly/4smgDpH

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Gays & Confused @gaysandconfused.bsky.social · 31/03/2026

Trying to decide what to read next. What’s on your #TBR?

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Gays & Confused @gaysandconfused.bsky.social · 14/03/2026

We got a taste of the good life with False Spring in NYC. I’m ready for sprawling out in the park with a bottle of wine and good times. This month, I curated a playlist of songs to slow down and bask in the sun to. 🎶 Give it a listen: bit.ly/4kz01Hy What’s on your playlists these days?

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Gays & Confused @gaysandconfused.bsky.social · 10/02/2026

I’ve been dying to read They Both Die at the End, and this February felt right. It’s a romance month with a Friday the 13th which calls for a love story with teeth. #QueerBookClub

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Gays & Confused @gaysandconfused.bsky.social · 08/02/2026

Hi babes, new playlist just dropped. 💕 And this one’s for the lovers. Kind of. I put together a few sensual jams and hyper pop bangers that I think make for a good time. Swipe for a little preview. 🎶 Give it a listen: bit.ly/4kz01Hy What’s on your playlists these days?

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Gays & Confused @gaysandconfused.bsky.social · 16/01/2026

I’m kicking off the year with All Boys Aren’t Blue by George M. Johnson, a memoir manifesto about growing up black and queer. It’s been on my reading list for a long while and I’m so glad I’m finally diving in. #BookSky #QueerBookClub

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Gays & Confused @gaysandconfused.bsky.social · 14/01/2026

Messy White Gays has been on my list to see for a few months and when I saw that it was closing, I booked tickets immediately. It’s a truly hilarious dark comedy with so many great one liners I wish I had been writing down throughout the show. Did you see Messy White Gays?

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Gays & Confused @gaysandconfused.bsky.social · 08/01/2026

Time to kick off the new year with a new playlist. 🎶 I curated a collection of high energy bops to boost your adrenaline and stomp along to on the dance floor. Give it a listen: bit.ly/4kz01Hy What are you listening to right now?

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Gays & Confused @gaysandconfused.bsky.social · 05/01/2026

Leaning into my #BookBro era 🌈 These are the first 3 LGBTQ+ reads for my #QueerBookClub this year. Join me if you want to read along and chat. One book a month, low pressure. What’s on your #TBR this year?

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Gays & Confused @gaysandconfused.bsky.social · 27/12/2025

It was a school night but #MelanieC was DJing in Brooklyn, so I just had to be there! The GLITA Ball was a nonstop dance party that ended with a slow dance to 2 Become 1 and a Spice Girls drag show.

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Gays & Confused @gaysandconfused.bsky.social · 16/12/2025

I’m trying to soak up the holiday spirit with hot bevys, cozy fits, and kicking back with holiday movies. If you’re looking for some festive #QueerCinema, I’ve put together a list of 12 gay holiday movies to make your season merry and bright: bit.ly/4aQ1mZb

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Gays & Confused @gaysandconfused.bsky.social · 14/12/2025

My brain is deep into Heated Rivalry and I was craving more MM romance reading with a holiday twist for the season. This week I started Recipe for Trouble, a grumpy/sunshine MM romance about food media and social video virality. #QueerBookClub #BookSky

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Gays & Confused @gaysandconfused.bsky.social · 06/12/2025

The next book I'll be reading is Recipe for Trouble, an MM romance for the holidays 😍 If you want to join my #QueerBookClub, you can pick up the book here: bookshop.org/a/3689/97818... (affiliate link)

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Recipe for Trouble: A Grumpy/Sunshine Queer MM Romantic Comedy

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Gays & Confused @gaysandconfused.bsky.social · 22/11/2025

On the hunt for a queer holiday themed book to read next. What are your recs? #BookSky

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Gays & Confused @gaysandconfused.bsky.social · 21/11/2025

I’m standing with our trans siblings in love and solidarity. If you’re an ally like me, use your voice, your wallet, and your vote to make the world safer for trans lives.

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Gays & Confused @gaysandconfused.bsky.social · 15/11/2025

Hi babes, new playlist just dropped. Inspired by chillier nights and shorter days, I’ve curated a mix of dark and mid tempo dance songs. Give it a listen: bit.ly/4kz01Hy

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Gays & Confused @gaysandconfused.bsky.social · 12/11/2025

Our work whether it be creative, political, or personal has weight and power to it. Do work that matters. Vale la pena.

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Gays & Confused @gaysandconfused.bsky.social · 11/11/2025

A little late for spooky season, but my new #QueerBookClub pick is “Black Flame” by In 1980s New York, we follow Ellen, a film archivist who’s restoring a cursed horror movie called “The Baroness.” I went to film school, so this premise really piqued my interest.

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Gays & Confused @gaysandconfused.bsky.social · 08/11/2025

Earlier this week, I finally had the chance to see #SophieEllisBextor in concert and it was a true disco dream!

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Gays & Confused @gaysandconfused.bsky.social · 06/11/2025

Went into Prince Faggot not fully knowing what to expect. It takes a look at what queerness looks like inside the halls of power. Get tickets before it closes December 13! bit.ly/3LrzDDy Have you had a chance to see Prince Faggot? What were your thoughts?

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Gays & Confused @gaysandconfused.bsky.social · 01/11/2025

A little behind schedule but we’ve finally reached the end of Giovanni’s Room. #QueerBookClub #BookSky Hella’s finally back and David’s doing the absolute most to convince himself he’s straight and prove his masculinity. It’s unraveling Giovanni in the process.

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Gays & Confused @gaysandconfused.bsky.social · 31/10/2025

In need of last minute costume ideas. Please help 😧 #halloween

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Gays & Confused @gaysandconfused.bsky.social · 25/10/2025

Babes, we got so many great releases this week. What are you listening to? #QueerMusicClub #NewMusicFriday

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Gays & Confused @gaysandconfused.bsky.social · 24/10/2025

A few weeks ago, I caught one of the final shows of Julio Torres’ Color Theories, not an off-Broadway show but an East Village thing. It was like an origami dreamscape that’s part comedy and part art installation. Hope it streaming soon!

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Gays & Confused @gaysandconfused.bsky.social · 19/10/2025

It’s been an exceptionally busy week, but hoping to see a few more movies at #NewFest before the festival ends! #FilmSky

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Gays & Confused @gaysandconfused.bsky.social · 13/10/2025

TBH my Scorpio soul is fed by dark synth pop. To celebrate the spooky season I’ve updated the playlist with a collection of moody and dark but still danceable tracks. What have you been listening to lately? Take a listen: bit.ly/4kz01Hy

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Gays & Confused @gaysandconfused.bsky.social · 12/10/2025

Spending this rainy Saturday watching queer films with NewFest! I’ll be sharing my picks from the festival all weekend long. Are you seeing any films at the festival or streaming with a virtual pass? There’s still time to get yours: bit.ly/3VXNSlF #FilmSky

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Gays & Confused @gaysandconfused.bsky.social · 07/10/2025

#SpookySeason is one of my favorite times of the year 👻 and to celebrate, I’m watching a few queer horror films. First up, 2022’s “They/Them,” a queer slasher from Blumhouse set in a conversion therapy camp. It’s giving “But I’m a Cheerleader” meets “Friday the 13th” Spoilers ahead… #FilmSky

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Gays & Confused @gaysandconfused.bsky.social · 06/10/2025

A few days late, but I’m back with a check-in on Giovanni’s Room (pages 85–118). The layers of tension and unease are building and I’m struck by how David keeps circling the same fears and desires but never lands anywhere solid. #QueerBookClub #BookSky

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Gays & Confused @gaysandconfused.bsky.social · 03/10/2025

Okay, what other new music are you listening to today? #NewMusicFriday

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Gays & Confused @gaysandconfused.bsky.social · 03/10/2025

Okay #booksky, looking for a spooky gay read for this month. 👻

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Gays & Confused @gaysandconfused.bsky.social · 30/09/2025

Calling all #podcastlovers 📢 I’m on the lookout for new queer podcasts to listen to! What are your favorites? #NationalPodcastDay

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Gays & Confused @gaysandconfused.bsky.social · 30/09/2025

Coffee is one of my favorite daily rituals ☕️ and I’ve rounded up a list of LGBTQ+ owned coffee brands to sip, support, and celebrate. Who’s tried one of these? #NationalCoffeeDay

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Gays & Confused @gaysandconfused.bsky.social · 25/09/2025

Motherhood, Secrets, and Spanish History: Why Parallel Mothers Matters gaysandconfused.com/almodovar-paral…

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Gays & Confused @gaysandconfused.bsky.social · 23/09/2025

Come for the art, stay for the afters. 🕺✨ Berlin is a queer playground where every night feels like an adventure. #LGBTravel What’s your must-do here?

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Gays & Confused @gaysandconfused.bsky.social · 22/09/2025

It’s the first day of fall and just like that time for the #bookbros to shine. What’s your autumn vibe?

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Gays & Confused @gaysandconfused.bsky.social · 21/09/2025

#PedroAlmodóvar is one of my fave filmmakers and I’ve wanted to challenge myself to see all his movies. What I love about Almodovar’s films are the colors in the production design, the strange-yet-normal situations, the campy melodrama that somehow makes serious topics hit even harder. #FilmSky

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Gays & Confused @gaysandconfused.bsky.social · 20/09/2025

September’s playlist drop is Hard Feelings. A playlist for dancing in your feelings, voguing it out, and maybe catching a crush on a pop music boy or two. Give it a spin: bit.ly/4kz01Hy What are you listening to these days? #QueerMusicClub

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Gays & Confused @gaysandconfused.bsky.social · 17/09/2025

Back for more of Giovanni’s Room! I found this next section super interesting as we delve deeper into David and Giovanni’s relationship and get more of a peek at queer life in the era. #QueerBookClub

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Gays & Confused @gaysandconfused.bsky.social · 07/09/2025

I’ve been swooning over Spanish Leather by #Guitarricadelafuente all summer long and I needed to yap about it. #QueerMusicClub

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Gays & Confused @gaysandconfused.bsky.social · 06/09/2025

It’s been a few weeks but just in time for #ReadABookDay I’m finally ready to start getting into Giovanni’s Room by #JamesBaldwin. If you’d like to follow along, my goal is to finish reading this in the next 4 weeks at an easy pace of about 40 pages weekly. Join me for this #QueerBookClub

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Gays & Confused @gaysandconfused.bsky.social · 05/09/2025

TGIF. Remember babes, life is the story. So go out this weekend and write your messy, fabulous, gay little autobiography. 🤗

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