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@gandalf-eflow.bsky.social
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Professional Kinbaku educator in Shanghai. Organiser of Embodied Flow.

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Gandalf @gandalf-eflow.bsky.social · 29/08/2026
In this article from Ljaljuy, excerpted from her presentation at the second Asia-Pacific Symposium on kink, she shares her personal journey exploring communication, neurodiversity, kink, and cultural identity through her interactions within and beyond kink communities.
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Gandalf @gandalf-eflow.bsky.social · 29/08/2026
这是我的新公众号,欢迎大家分享给朋友们,让我们再次找到彼此吧!今天为大家分享的是拉嘉露依在今年亚太禁羁讨论会上的研究。这篇文章关于一个自闭倾向者如何在BDSM社群中学习沟通,也关于在神经多样、KINK、和民族身份交织的生活里如何积极勇敢地面对不同。愿更多人可以听到她的故事~
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Gandalf @gandalf-eflow.bsky.social · 06/05/2026
公众号申诉没有通过,要暂时说再见了。从2019年的KinkyFeminist到现在的E-Flow,有近一万名读者在文字中找到了共鸣,也有几千人在线下和我们一起创造了温馨安全的活动现场。我想我做了一件很美好的事情,难过的是很多读者是关注了几年才有机会在线下相见,不知道是否还有机会找到ta们。人生难免有离散,期待着再次找到彼此~
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Gandalf @gandalf-eflow.bsky.social · 01/04/2026
四月,我们将欢迎欧洲最具影响力的绳缚教师Tamandua @tambaku.bsky.social 和搭档Kitten 做客E-Flow,为我们带来紧缚现场与教学工作坊。在接下来的访谈里,让我们来听听Kitten在绳缚背后的故事吧~
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Gandalf @gandalf-eflow.bsky.social · 25/03/2026
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Gandalf @gandalf-eflow.bsky.social · 22/03/2026
在四月初的“绳缚初体验”工作坊,我们将和大家一起探索触觉,在一个温馨、有趣、内向者和酷儿友好的下午开启美妙的绳缚旅程~欢迎大家! At the beginning of April, let us explore touch together an d begin a wonderful journey into the world of Kinbaku~
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Gandalf @gandalf-eflow.bsky.social · 13/03/2026
In ropes: Wei Still from private session
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Gandalf @gandalf-eflow.bsky.social · 09/03/2026
Enjoy this hogtie! Remember that you can learn to tie and be tied like this on Mar 21st at our Progressive Gyaku-Ebi workshop series. Scan the code for info. 请享用这一驷马缚~三月21日我们会在“逆海老缚:循序渐进的游戏”主题工作坊中学习这样绑和被绑。扫码阅读详细讯息。 In ropes: Ida (Hinako edition)
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Gandalf @gandalf-eflow.bsky.social · 08/03/2026
祝大家国际妇女节快乐! 愿你可以不必美丽不必年轻不必成功,可以不温柔不善良不正义,可以不被骚扰不被删帖不被炸号,可以没有婚姻没有子宫没有乳房,可以混乱不堪离经叛道,可以同柔共弱也可以披荆斩棘,你的选择被庆祝而不是被谈论,不同着、连接着、冲突着、抱持着。
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Gandalf @gandalf-eflow.bsky.social · 01/03/2026
From Co-Perception Life Drawing Workshop Hosted by Amber Model 樊扇
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Gandalf @gandalf-eflow.bsky.social · 30/01/2026
这个情人节,来加入一场特别的约会吧。我们将学习如何使用衣服进行捆绑,把分隔彼此的布料变成拉近距离和相互了解的亲密途径~欢迎大家! Tying with clothes is back! This time with two sessions for you to select. Scan the code for info.
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Gandalf @gandalf-eflow.bsky.social · 29/01/2026
This will be a fine April. A very warm welcome to @tambaku.bsky.social and FaerieBruises to E-Flow! Stay tuned for some sensual and elegant Kinbaku.
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Tamandua @tambaku.bsky.social · 25/01/2026
Asia tour coming up! Workshops, performances & talks TBA soon. I'll be available to book for intimate sessions, private tuition and prof. collabs as well. Limited, so be quick!
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Gandalf @gandalf-eflow.bsky.social · 10/01/2026
A sample of my work today~ In ropes: Naomi Photographed by Amber, edited by me
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Gandalf @gandalf-eflow.bsky.social · 09/01/2026
缠绕(或交束)是我在绳缚中非常享受的事情,每每为我带来美妙的心流体验。在本期工作坊,我们将一起探索缠绕的愉悦,并认识许多绳缚中常用的基本绳结~一起来玩耍吧!
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Gandalf @gandalf-eflow.bsky.social · 08/01/2026
It’s like they finally discovered “上火”
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Gandalf @gandalf-eflow.bsky.social · 04/01/2026
去年术士在安亭路摔倒了两次,伤疤现在还刻在胳膊和手机壳上。在摔倒的过程中一度感觉时间过得很慢,总觉得有更多可以做的事情来减轻伤痛。期待在下一次摔倒前,我已经上了这珍贵一刻~推荐给大家!
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Gandalf @gandalf-eflow.bsky.social · 27/12/2025
It feels like I’m the Uncle Roger of Kinbaku. Whenever someone says “tension 3” or whatever I immediately have a headache and want to yell “just use feeling”. The real violence of numbering tension happens when it replaces the moment to moment exchanges between partners.
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Gandalf @gandalf-eflow.bsky.social · 20/12/2025
Instead of seeing tension as a structural necessity, we may approach it as a game that enriches our rope conversations. In this workshop, we will explore how to create interesting flows in a session by internationally embracing unstable and ever-changing tensions.
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Gandalf @gandalf-eflow.bsky.social · 14/08/2025
Anecdoche: 一个所有人都在讲话但没有人在听的对话
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Gandalf @gandalf-eflow.bsky.social · 14/07/2025
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Gandalf @gandalf-eflow.bsky.social · 14/05/2025
This is the scariest handle I’ve seen….
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Gandalf @gandalf-eflow.bsky.social · 26/04/2025
参加“心意”绳缚入门团体是什么样的体验?让我们来听听往期的伙伴们怎么说~ How does it feel to join our introduction to Shibari workshops? Let us hear from past participants :)
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Gandalf @gandalf-eflow.bsky.social · 02/04/2025
我一定是被安亭路诅咒了 今天又在这里摔倒了 摔得一点都不慢 这次的觉察是 还好有手机壳
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Gandalf @gandalf-eflow.bsky.social · 19/03/2025
今天久违地摔倒了,在印象里除了在舞蹈和格斗中摔倒,已经很久没有在坚硬的地面上摔跤了。不过一个惊喜的觉察是,坠落是一个如此缓慢的过程。意识到自己失去平衡,意识到自己即将摔倒,看到即将碰撞的表面,感受最先与马路接触的位置,每一个过程都有时间去觉察和思考。Instead of falling from grace, one can indeed fall with grace.
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Gandalf @gandalf-eflow.bsky.social · 19/03/2025
Stills from private session today
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Karada House @karada-house.de · 07/03/2025
Quick early announcement: ESC- European Self-Tie Conference is happening July 11–13 at our beautiful house in Berlin 🏡🌳 2.5 days of in–person self–tying! @dasniyasommer.de @bunnydough.bsky.social @ceciferox.bsky.social will be there! Programme arrives April 😍💯 karada-house.de/events/esc-2...
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ESC - European Self-Tie Conference - Karada House
ESC- European Self-Tie Conference is a 2.5 day in-person self tying conference at the beautiful Karada House in Berlin.
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Gandalf @gandalf-eflow.bsky.social · 04/03/2025
Stills from my studio Photography by 宇晓
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Gandalf @gandalf-eflow.bsky.social · 13/02/2025
Throwback to last week’s birthday gathering~
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Gandalf @gandalf-eflow.bsky.social · 12/02/2025
I wish I knew this sooner….I get very angry at people’s chewing sounds and I try very hard to suppress them or apologise to loved ones for suddenly being frustrated. If Joel Berger’ hypothesis is supported, then my monophonic may actually help me with tying in a weird way.
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Gandalf @gandalf-eflow.bsky.social · 07/02/2025
New article on DeepSeek, large language models, hallucinations (bullshit), and Shibari: mp.weixin.qq.com/s/FoJqslFuxM...
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