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Friendly Sex Shop Worker @friendlysexshopman.bsky.social · 08/08/2026

How do you celebrate when Pride and an anime convention are happening at the same time?

A tentacle dildo with a progress pride flag

Friendly Sex Shop Worker @friendlysexshopman.bsky.social · 13/04/2026

In videos and in the book, I talk about supplement pills you can find at sex shops. Some are just energy supplements. When pills promising Viagra/Cialis results are behind the counter? Steer clear of them! youtube.com/shorts/r_36s...

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"Male-Enhancement" Supplement Accident 🥶

YouTube video by Chubbyemu

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Friendly Sex Shop Worker @friendlysexshopman.bsky.social · 11/04/2026

PSA Time! When a retail employee tells you they are closing in X amount of minutes, this means you have that quantity of time to get what you came for and leave to enjoy your evening. Dicking around for that amount of time, especially without buying anything, makes you an asshole. Thanks!

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Friendly Sex Shop Worker @friendlysexshopman.bsky.social · 30/03/2026

Good news!! The illustrations for the book are done! Tonight, I'm going to start layout for Print On Demand and EPUB variations. Self publishing will be easier than getting an agent with this subject. As much as I don't want to use KDP for the physical edition, it may be the accessible option.

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Friendly Sex Shop Worker @friendlysexshopman.bsky.social · 09/02/2026

Sometimes dildos aren't for self pleasure but for breaking the ice without breaking the bank! This is where TPE and low cost PVC dildos really shine! Just be sure to dispose of them properly. Be safe!

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Friendly Sex Shop Worker @friendlysexshopman.bsky.social · 09/02/2026

I don't often open on weekdays, but I am this week due to scheduling requirements and it has been very slow today which is obviously disconcerting for any business. That said, my own projection models for the last month and a half have been incredibly out of whack. It's weeks of feast or famine. 🪡

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Friendly Sex Shop Worker @friendlysexshopman.bsky.social · 09/02/2026

Hey y'all! Since it's the week leading up to Valentine's Day, I'm gonna give you a good buyer's guide to help you pick out what to get your significant other! 🪡 1) Gift card/certificate. Autonomy is sexy and shows you care about their needs. Get it in advance and make a date shopping together!

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Friendly Sex Shop Worker @friendlysexshopman.bsky.social · 06/01/2026

An After Dark episode on what to do when you buy leather goods at a general sex shop! For more information on leather care, check out @buckharder.bsky.social 's YouTube channel, youtube.com/@thefriendly...

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Friendly Sex Shop Worker @friendlysexshopman.bsky.social · 30/12/2025

OMG What even is this thing? Who is it for? And does OMG even exist anymore? New video time!

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Friendly Sex Shop Worker @friendlysexshopman.bsky.social · 24/12/2025

Tentaclaus and I would like to wish you all very happy holidays, whether they've just passed (Hanukkah, Yule) or are pending (Xmas, New Years)! Be safe, have fun, see you in the store! Today is the last day for the holiday playlist!

A man with a white beard in a Santa hat next to a silicone tentacle, also wearing a Santa hat.

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Friendly Sex Shop Worker @friendlysexshopman.bsky.social · 28/11/2025

Hi everybody! I know it's been a bit so I'll explain what's up: The studio stuff has arrived for the new videos. I'm still working on scripts to get them right. I'm editing the book, page by page, and there are a lot of changes to make! I put out an album called Felt... But...

disintegrationist.bandcamp.com

Felt, by The Disintegrationist

14 track album

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Friendly Sex Shop Worker @friendlysexshopman.bsky.social · 28/11/2025

This is just a friendly reminder to be kind and patient to retail workers today. Thanks!

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Big Dumb Animal @bigdumbanimal.bsky.social · 21/11/2025

Hey you know what would be awesome? Supporting this Kickstarter to bring this classic gay documentary back to life! There are only a few days left! www.kickstarter.com/projects/163...

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small town gay bar redux

‘small town gay bar’ is a documentary about two bars in the Deep South fighting for diversity in the face of adversity

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Friendly Sex Shop Worker @friendlysexshopman.bsky.social · 10/11/2025

On the train for a day trip, editing the book.

A mechanical pencil and pink highlighter sit on a page

A man sitting on a train holding a mechanical pencil

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Friendly Sex Shop Worker @friendlysexshopman.bsky.social · 01/11/2025

I know I'm recycling previous costumes, but i can't see shit out of the Adam Maitland costume.

A large man dressed as the scary ghost version of Adam from Beetlejuice

A man dressed as Captain Haddock from Tintin

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Friendly Sex Shop Worker @friendlysexshopman.bsky.social · 27/10/2025

After a few months, a concussion, and an album, it's time to edit!

A man in a sweater and glasses holding a highlighter and a duotang full of paper

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Friendly Sex Shop Worker @friendlysexshopman.bsky.social · 13/10/2025

Double enders can be crass or class, But should not be inserted into ones' ass Without a flared base, it'll disappear fast And you'll need medical help to get it to pass

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Friendly Sex Shop Worker @friendlysexshopman.bsky.social · 13/10/2025

Hi everybody!! I know it's been a bit and a half as I was recovering and focusing on a different creative endeavor for a month (disintegrationist.bandcamp.com) but I have some exciting news! We ordered a bunch of studio equipment so I can start working on new videos soon 👷🏻‍♂️❤️

disintegrationist.bandcamp.com

Felt, by The Disintegrationist

14 track album

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Friendly Sex Shop Worker @friendlysexshopman.bsky.social · 15/09/2025

So aside from the selfie museum, it's been a few weeks since I've done much of anything, post wise. There are 2 reasons for this: First, I've been recovering from a concussion. That put me out of commission for a couple of weeks while I built my strength back up.

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Friendly Sex Shop Worker @friendlysexshopman.bsky.social · 06/09/2025

New episode! The Selfie Museum Is Down The Street

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Friendly Sex Shop Worker @friendlysexshopman.bsky.social · 11/08/2025

Bluesky gets the uncovered edition. This is not how you dispose of toys.

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Friendly Sex Shop Worker @friendlysexshopman.bsky.social · 03/08/2025

Costume and prop check for an upcoming series. Want to know more? Join my Patreon! www.patreon.com/thedisintegr...

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Friendly Sex Shop Worker @friendlysexshopman.bsky.social · 02/08/2025

It's important to recognize when you're wrong about something. In this case, PVC.

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Michelle Keep @jmkeep.bsky.social · 28/07/2025

There's a petition to drop this bill in ourcommons that Canadians can sign. It takes like 2 seconds and is super easy. We, the undersigned, citizens and residents of Canada, call upon the Government of Canada to immediately withdraw Bill C-2 in full. www.ourcommons.ca/petitions/en...

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Petition e-6627 - Petitions

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Friendly Sex Shop Worker @friendlysexshopman.bsky.social · 05/07/2025

A video covering the last couple of posts. Fuck yeah @leatherboycarl.bsky.social Read the book on Patreon: www.patreon.com/thedisintegr...

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Friendly Sex Shop Worker @friendlysexshopman.bsky.social · 05/07/2025

It's a possible look idea for the safety videos I'm writing with help from the absolutely fucking wonderful @leatherboycarl.bsky.social. I didn't buy it, I'd rather have more orange, or black with reflective stripes. Also the 'stache is gone.

A fat, mustachioed man in a white t shirt and reflective safety vest

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Friendly Sex Shop Worker @friendlysexshopman.bsky.social · 05/07/2025

I'm going on vacation for a couple of weeks after today's shift. Since I'll be spending a lot of time on trains and presumably up late at night while everyone else is asleep like usual, I'm hoping that I'll have the text of the book done or close to it. Then i can start the art/chart phase.

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Friendly Sex Shop Worker @friendlysexshopman.bsky.social · 04/07/2025

While working on the book and taking a break from making the sex shop videos, I've been toying with ideas for sexual safety in a broader sense. Not in a medical way, mind you, but staying safe while hooking up, high risk solo play, and first steps into kink to avoid hurting yourself and others.

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Friendly Sex Shop Worker @friendlysexshopman.bsky.social · 17/06/2025

A Cage Of Ones' Own This is going to be the last video for a while as I continue to work on the book and other creative endeavors. Thank you all for your support thus far, see you soonish ❤️ #chastity

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Friendly Sex Shop Worker @friendlysexshopman.bsky.social · 13/06/2025

Come on and join the patreon! www.patreon.com/thedisintegr...

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Friendly Sex Shop Worker @friendlysexshopman.bsky.social · 12/06/2025

Just a reminder: if you are carrying hard drugs when walking into a sex shop or any shop or open establishment for that matter, please make sure you have them on your person before you leave.

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Friendly Sex Shop Worker @friendlysexshopman.bsky.social · 10/06/2025

That's (Adult) Entertainment A strong, regulated porn industry is proof of a healthy society.

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Friendly Sex Shop Worker @friendlysexshopman.bsky.social · 21/05/2025

I wrote and recorded an episode tonight about porn, the importance of physical media, how an above board porn industry is a sign of a healthy, expressive, free society, and how "obscenity" is used to target marginalised communities. Sex is political, and the queer joy i get from this is survival.

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Friendly Sex Shop Worker @friendlysexshopman.bsky.social · 21/05/2025

Dildos and Dildon'ts Here's how you pick your next dildo, enjoy!

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Curry @owlcurry.bsky.social · 15/05/2025

Found this neat but the OG Post doesn't seem to have an ALT text - so repost with ALT text added

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