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freerangekids.bsky.social @freerangekids.bsky.social · 09/10/2026
What's the single, smallest thing a parent can do this weekend to move the needle to have their kids become more independent? I was asked that on The Parent Tap podcsat. Here's my response--and more! (Ignore the hair! Getting a haircut -- thank God -- on Monday): www.youtube.com/watch?v=nA7H...
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America’s Worst Mom: Why I Let My 9-Year-Old Ride the Subway
YouTube video by The Parent Tap
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freerangekids.bsky.social @freerangekids.bsky.social · 30/09/2026
The homicide rate today is lower than when you were a kid, playing outside. (Unless you were born in the Grover Cleveland administration.) The @CouncilonCJ says: "the 2025 homicide rate will likely be at its lowest level since at least 1900." counciloncj.org/crime-trends...
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Crime Trends in U.S. Cities: Mid-Year 2026 Update - Council on Criminal Justice
Examining changes in 13 offenses across a sample of 36 large U.S. cities, CCJ's mid-year analysis shows crime has continued to fall in the first half of 2026, with homicide likely dropping to another ...
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freerangekids.bsky.social @freerangekids.bsky.social · 23/09/2026
Why is one of @LetGrowOrg's goals to make childhood independence LEGAL??? Erica Schwiegershausen in @NYMag nails it: "Many parents are trying to give their kids more freedom. Their neighbors keep calling the cops." www.thecut.com/article/heli...
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The Helicopter Parent Next Door
Many parents are trying to give their kids more freedom. Their neighbors keep calling the cops.
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freerangekids.bsky.social @freerangekids.bsky.social · 23/09/2026
Why are kids so overscheduled? We see kids as human capital now. So we invest in them the way companies invest in their employees. Suddenly all the classes make sense: It's not a childhood, it's raw material to be improved for a better outcome. www.instagram.com/p/Ddg-WuNxZez/
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Cat Typing on Laptop
ALT: Cat Typing on Laptop
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freerangekids.bsky.social @freerangekids.bsky.social · 22/09/2026
FUNNY (and beautiful) tribute to the work of @NewYorker cartoonist PC Vey, by @BobEckstein . The Cartoon Flag is Flying at Half-Mast, by @BobEckstein thebob.substack.com/p/the-cartoo... Lots of great cartoons in the piece!
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The Cartoon Flag is Flying at Half-Mast
Discussing the work of cartoon great Peter Vey
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freerangekids.bsky.social @freerangekids.bsky.social · 20/09/2026
Not sure this post is real. If it is, it's a great illustration of how tracking gives the PROMISE of "peace of mind," but delivers the opposite. There's a reason people say "Ignorance is bliss." We are being fed TOO MUCH GRANULAR INFO about out kids: www.threads.com/@farrowste/p...
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Stephen Farrow (@farrowste) on Threads
Ten years from now, Ms. Hayes will spend a great deal of her time wondering out loud why her beloved son no longer speaks to her. To everybody who knows her, it will be blindingly obvious.
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freerangekids.bsky.social @freerangekids.bsky.social · 18/09/2026
In praise of DISTRACTION. Feeling bad? It is NOT a co-op to do something fun or absorbing to take your mind off your woes. Of course you still have to study for the test or look for the job. But for mental health: fun beats wallowing! By @sambmd: drsamanthaboardman.substack.com/p/a-welcome-...
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A Welcome Distraction: How to Get Out of Your Own Head
An underrated coping strategy for when overthinking isn’t helping.
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freerangekids.bsky.social @freerangekids.bsky.social · 15/09/2026
WHY ARE KIDS ON THEIR PHONES SO MUCH? “You have the entire virtual world open to you and an entire physical world closed to you,” says Skenazy. “What are you going to do?” Well reported piece by Gili Malinsky @CNBC: www.cnbc.com/2026/09/15/t...
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Teens need more places to meet IRL — their future success may depend on it
Malls and other physical third spaces have been on the decline for years. We’re finally beginning to understand the implications for today’s youth.
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freerangekids.bsky.social @freerangekids.bsky.social · 10/09/2026
The story of Karyann Parkinson, the mom found "guilty" of letting her son, 5, take a walk in the neighborhood to collect feathers, shows what happens when we BAKE HELICOPTER PARENTING into LAW. So many people are realizing this, thanks to her case! letgrow.org/bakin…
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freerangekids.bsky.social @freerangekids.bsky.social · 02/09/2026
Virginia Mom Gets 6-Months Jail Sentence (Suspended) for Letting 5-Year-old Walk Unsupervised in Gated Community My latest, for Reason. Mom's "crime" apparently required 3 cops, 2 caseworkers, not to mention a prosecutor and a judge. reason.com/2026/09/02/v... H/T @LetGrowOrg
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Virginia mom gets 6-month suspended jail sentence for letting 5-year-old walk to the pond
The government also placed Karyann Parkinson on its child abuse and neglect registry, where she will remain for seven years.
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freerangekids.bsky.social @freerangekids.bsky.social · 24/08/2026
Of Helen Keller and Helicopter Parenting. (It took a teacher to show Helen's parents just how much Helen could do.) www.freerangekids.com/of-helen-kel...
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Of Helen Keller and Helicopter Parenting - Free-Range Kids
The movie that best illustrates today’s parenting expectations is “The Miracle Worker,” about Helen Keller. When Annie Sullivan is hired as governess, she gets feral Helen to eat off her own plate — a...
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freerangekids.bsky.social @freerangekids.bsky.social · 14/08/2026
OPINION: It’s time to stop teaching the fun out of childhood and let kids be kids. Give them a ball and get out of their way hechingerreport.org/opinion-its-...
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OPINION: It’s time to stop teaching the fun out of childhood and let kids be kids. Give them a ball and get out of their way
For most of human history, kids learned how to become functioning adults with no formal classrooms, lessons or teachers
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freerangekids.bsky.social @freerangekids.bsky.social · 10/08/2026
"Kid Capital" is the idea that we fill our kids with education and enrichment that'll pay off. Now? Pet Capital: "When the house goes back to being quiet, enrichment becomes essential. [Brand] keeps dogs mentally stimulated with engaging challenges." Real email I got.
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freerangekids.bsky.social @freerangekids.bsky.social · 30/07/2026
Not once. Not twice. Not three times. This mom had the cops called on her FOUR SEPARATE TIMES because her kids were... Outside. Run inside to your iPad kids! I don't want someone calling 911! My piece at Reason: reason.com/2026/07/30/a...
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A Pennsylvania mom says the cops were called on her 4 times—for letting her kids be outside
State lawmakers are mulling a law that would establish commonsense protections for families that give their children a reasonable amount of independence.
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freerangekids.bsky.social @freerangekids.bsky.social · 28/07/2026
THE LOST ART OF HANGING OUT WEBINAR TOMORROW! WEDS, July 29, 7 p.m. EDT Wish you were spending more time just hanging out with friends? Wish your kids were? Join me and the founders of The Balance Project and Block Party USA for ideas & solutions! us02web.zoom.us/webinar/regi...
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Welcome! You are invited to join a webinar: The Lost Art of Hanging Out. After registering, you will receive a confirmation email about joining the webinar.
It is so fun to just hang out with friends. And it starts by creating community and trust. Hear two inspiring community-builders discuss how you – and your kids! – can start connecting more with frien...
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freerangekids.bsky.social @freerangekids.bsky.social · 07/07/2026
How come letting kids play, roam, etc., unsupervised makes them LESS ANXIOUS all around? CONFIDENCE GENERALIZES. Study below treated folks afraid of spiders AND heights for just one. But they ended up less afraid of BOTH. Independence works same way! medicalxpress.com/news/2024-01...
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Therapy against spider fear can also reduce fear of heights, shows study
It has long been assumed that it is necessary to use different exposure therapies to treat different fears. A new study from Ruhr University Bochum challenges this view.
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freerangekids.bsky.social @freerangekids.bsky.social · 03/07/2026
Tips for keeping your kids VERY VERY VERY VERY safe this summer: letgrow.org/tips-for-kee...
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Tips for Keeping Your Kid Very Very Very Very Very Safe this Summer
It’s summertime, which means it’s time for parents to think about safety — only safety. That’s what all the parenting magazines and web advice will tell you, as will every news report that begins, “It...
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freerangekids.bsky.social @freerangekids.bsky.social · 30/06/2026
"Would you send your responsible 11 y.o. to the nearby farmers market on their own?" Question on our Reasonable Childhood Independence FB group. Fave replies: "I'd even send an irresponsible 11 y.o.!" "I'd send a responsible 6 y.o.!" JOIN THE CONVO! www.facebook.com/groups/75993...
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freerangekids.bsky.social @freerangekids.bsky.social · 24/06/2026
The real reason the birth rate is going down? Comedian @Desbishop is probably onto something: www.facebook.com/reel/8505947...
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freerangekids.bsky.social @freerangekids.bsky.social · 23/06/2026
Alberto Salas, the "Godfather of wild potatoes" credits his childhood of searching for and PLAYING with, yes, potatoes, for teaching him what he needed to know to save native species across the Andes. New book about him by Sara Andrea Fajardo: Play on! www.hbook.com/author?query...
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What We've Learned: Never Stop Playing
From the May/June 2026 special issue of The Horn Book Magazine: The Sibert Award at 25.
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freerangekids.bsky.social @freerangekids.bsky.social · 19/06/2026
But where are the painful #Knicks puns, you ask? I deliver: www.creators.com/read/lenore-...
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The Next Knicks, by Lenore Skenazy
The names of junior basketball teams we're expecting to see in New York next year: — The Brunson Burners — Kid-KATs — Knick Knacks — OG Wizzards — The Anunobies — Hart Attacks — Sky Miles — Just Joshi...
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freerangekids.bsky.social @freerangekids.bsky.social · 15/06/2026
Kids who take more risks in play ARE SAFER AT CROSSING THE STREET. (They also fell more often, proving that stumbling/trying again teaches kids how to adjust.) Engineering all risk out of childhood leaves kids at GREATER RISK in REAL WORLD. news.ubc.ca/2026/05/kids... @mbrussoni
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Kids who take risks at play make faster, smarter decisions in traffic  - UBC News
Researchers used virtual reality to discover that children who embrace risky play develop sharper street-crossing skills
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freerangekids.bsky.social @freerangekids.bsky.social · 15/06/2026
I know that humans are humans and fear always wins when it comes to kids. BUT: "Right now, the crime trends are almost universally positive. Murder is down, robbery is down, car theft is down. Sure, there are outliers, but there are always outliers." jasher.substack.com/p/laz-diaz-i...
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Laz Diaz is an Above-Average Home Plate Umpire All of a Sudden
On what lessons umpiring holds for the importance of crime data
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freerangekids.bsky.social @freerangekids.bsky.social · 11/06/2026
Delighted to talk to fun, insightful Armin Brott on the Healthy Family Show about how kids grow -- when we let them, and tune out all the fear being shoved down our throats! podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/b...
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Building Resilient Children + Mindfulness for Kids
Podcast Episode · The Healthy Family Show · May 8 · 55m
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freerangekids.bsky.social @freerangekids.bsky.social · 04/06/2026
Researcher testing AI teddy bear talked w/ it about @PeppaPig and then asked, "What is kink?" Bear replied enthusiastically, "Kink can be a fascinating topic, and there are many different styles that people enjoy..." studyfinds.com/chatbot-tedd... Attn @jonhaidt
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Chatbot Teddy Bears Are Here: Experts Sound Alarm On Kids' AI Toys Designed To 'Sound Human'
A concerning report out of Australia highlights new risks that come with AI toys turning up in young children’s lives.
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freerangekids.bsky.social @freerangekids.bsky.social · 04/06/2026
Childhood Surveillance issue #283: CAMP PHOTOS. Camp director discusses parents who call to say, "Max looked upset in yesterday's craft shack photo. MAKE HIM HAPPY." What kids lose when parents are ALWAYS WATCHING: slate.com/life/2026/05...
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I Run a Summer Camp. I Can Tell You Right Now That You’re Ruining Your Kid’s Summer.
Your baby isn't having a bad time. He's transcending.
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freerangekids.bsky.social @freerangekids.bsky.social · 03/06/2026
Children's Outdoor Play is Not Neglect! Oped by @RepBlakeMoore & @JennMcClellanVA, bi-partisan co-sponsors of the Promoting Childhood Independence & Resilience Act. Let Grow salutes these champions making a healthy, old-school childhood LEGAL! richmond.com/opinion/colu...
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Children’s outside play is not neglect | Guest column
United by the freedom and resilience of our own outdoor childhoods, Reps. Blake Moore and Jennifer McClellan are urging America to restore kids’ independence by protecting reasonable parenting, reduci...
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freerangekids.bsky.social @freerangekids.bsky.social · 01/06/2026
GREAT SUMMER ADVICE from a Dr./mom of 5, @DrCharlotteG: "Too many parents experience outdoor time primarily as a UV-management problem: reapply, cover up, don’t burn.... But children need MORE time outdoors and MORE sun exposure." READ MORE: www.thefp.com/p/stop-prote...
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Stop Protecting Your Children—It’s Backfiring
Childhood is supposed to involve contact with the world itself. Modern parenting has forgotten that, writes Charlotte Grinberg.
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freerangekids.bsky.social @freerangekids.bsky.social · 26/05/2026
Best piece EVER on how KIDS are SHUT INS: "Nearly 2/3 of 17-yos can’t leave their neighborhoods w/out adult supervision. Is it reasonable to expect them to vote at 18? To fight a war?" Screens are their ONLY WAY OUT. Kudos @BenSasse LetGrow.org has free solutions! www.wsj.com/opinion/free...
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Opinion | Ben Sasse: The Indoor Childhood Is Bad for America
We need to reckon with the cultural implications of trapping an entire generation at home with nothing useful to do.
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freerangekids.bsky.social @freerangekids.bsky.social · 19/05/2026
From our FB group: "We are low/no-screens. Our neighborhood has lots of kids, and they ride their bikes and visit neighbors independently. But I have one neighbor where the kids are always watching TV. I don't want them watching. What should I do?" www.facebook.com/groups/75993...
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freerangekids.bsky.social @freerangekids.bsky.social · 11/05/2026
SO GOOD! By Steve Magness: "Playgrounds & free play are risk calibration tools....When risk is removed from play, kids are more prone to anxiety disorders, because they never develop the ability to cope with fear-inducing situations." The Risk of Comfort: stevemagness.substack.com/p/the-hidden...
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The Hidden Cost of Comfort
We Padded the World And Nobody Can Feel Anything Anymore
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freerangekids.bsky.social @freerangekids.bsky.social · 10/05/2026
Thank you, Garry Trudeau! A Mothers Day gift for me and ALL MOMS! And KIDS! And it's funny!!! www.washingtonpost.com/doonesbury/s... #Doonesbury
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Doonesbury Comic Strips by Garry Trudeau - May 10, 2026
Welcome to Doonesbury's web site, which features not only each day's strip (easily enlargeable for your easy-viewing pleasure), but also the daily SayWhat? quote, a constant flow of reader Blowback, a...
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freerangekids.bsky.social @freerangekids.bsky.social · 04/05/2026
PARENTS w/ kids in sports -- or thinking about it! HILAROUS and MEGA IMPORTANT video for you starring Eli & Peyton Manning! Watch it! LOVE IT! You'll thank them, and so will your kids! youtube.com/watch?v=KSSX... @PositiveCoachUS @FBGreatMoments @Giants
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Take Back Sports PSA with Peyton Manning, Eli Manning, and Steph Curry
YouTube video by Positive Coaching Alliance
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freerangekids.bsky.social @freerangekids.bsky.social · 26/04/2026
MAJOR STUDY FINDS: "Imaginative play is not just recreational but a foundational developmental tool that supports long-term mental wellbeing." LET'S STOP REPLACING IT WITH SCREENS & ADULT-LED ACTIVITIES! neurosciencenews.com/pretend-play... H/T @sambmd #LetGrow
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Early Imaginative Play Predicts Better Mental Health - Neuroscience News
Can pretend play prevent childhood anxiety? Research finds that imaginative toddlers have fewer behavioral issues in primary school.
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freerangekids.bsky.social @freerangekids.bsky.social · 21/04/2026
Here's what is so painful about childhood (& parenting) today: "Last week, my grandson asked permission to walk to the store 3 blocks away. His mother checked the GPS tracker on his phone, reminded him about stranger danger, and set a 20-minute timer." experteditor.com.au/blog/x-im-65...
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I'm 65, and I can't explain to my grandchildren what it was like to grow up in the 1960s and '70s—not because it's hard to describe, but because what I'm describing is freedom, and they've never been ...
When I tell my grandchildren about disappearing for entire days with just a sandwich and no way for anyone to reach me, they look at me like I'm describing life on another planet—because in their GPS-...
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freerangekids.bsky.social @freerangekids.bsky.social · 20/04/2026
Interviewed by the wise and deep Ruby Trugade about "the rise of surveillance in parenting, and how this puts cultural trust into question... And why letting go may be one of the most important acts of care. podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/l...
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Lenore Skenazy: Restoring Kids' Freedoms
Podcast Episode · Women Living the Questions · April 20 · 34m
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freerangekids.bsky.social @freerangekids.bsky.social · 17/04/2026
THANK GOODNESS! "In a survey of more than 1,600 parents, 82% agreed or strongly agreed that the benefits of tree-climbing outweigh potential injuries." @RichLouv www.childrenandnature.org/finding-natu...
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Finding Nature News | Children & Nature Network
Looking for a nature blog with resources and inspiration? Read Finding Nature News for research, tips, and guidance.
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freerangekids.bsky.social @freerangekids.bsky.social · 14/04/2026
Read this before signing your 3-year-old up for water polo! "I regret signing my kids up for so many activities when they were younger. They really didn't benefit from being rushed around." By Rachel Garlinghouse for Business Insider (reprinted at Yahoo--no paywall) www.yahoo.com/lifestyle/ar...
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I regret signing my kids up for so many activities when they were younger. They really didn't benefit from being rushed around.
I felt pressure to sign my kids up for a lot of activities when they were younger. The time, expense, and stress wasn't worth it.
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freerangekids.bsky.social @freerangekids.bsky.social · 12/04/2026
"The first few times Ari cut himself he was so upset that he told his mom [Dana]. But when Dana reported it to his therapist, the response was, 'So many kids are self-harming that we don’t necessarily raise it to an ‘emergency’ unless they have a plan to commit suicide.'” nypost.com/2026/04/12/o...
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How one mom saved her teen from online groomers
Colorado mom Dana Grueser is still trying to piece together how her sweet son ended up on a locked ward screaming at her for being a Nazi and begging for his phone. “Yeah,” sighs Dana. “It’s a lot.…
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freerangekids.bsky.social @freerangekids.bsky.social · 09/04/2026
Their Children Were Alone Outside. So Police Visited the Family—Twice. (This was in a Kansas town of 5000!) reason.com/2026/04/08/t... via @reason #LetGrow
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Their children were alone outside. So police visited the family—twice.
The Knickerbockers received two visits from Baldwin, Kansas, police, showing how some people’s idea of “neglect” goes well beyond real risk.
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freerangekids.bsky.social @freerangekids.bsky.social · 08/04/2026
KIDS: PLEASE STAY HOME ON YOUR SCREENS. LOVE, CANADA'S WONDERLAND New policy no one under 16 can be there without a chaperone. (Because, of course, amusement parks are places of quiet and decorum, and not meant as, say, a park. Or an amusement.) www.ctvnews.ca/toronto/arti...
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Canada’s Wonderland makes chaperone policy permanent in response to ‘unruly’ behaviour seen at other amusement parks
Canada’s Wonderland says throughout the upcoming season, younger guests will be required to have a chaperone in the evenings, making permanent a policy the park implemented last fall.
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freerangekids.bsky.social @freerangekids.bsky.social · 05/04/2026
Ooh, so much oozing, rotting and grime in early NYC, where roaming pigs ate the carcasses people threw from their windows, and well water was hopping with "frogspawn and reptiles." open.substack.com/pub/thepasti...
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A Grim Tour of Preindustrial New York
The struggles of early New Yorkers are worth remembering.
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freerangekids.bsky.social @freerangekids.bsky.social · 02/04/2026
South Carolina is #LetGrow's first "Lighthouse State," spreading our FREE independence-building materials thru its schools. Traditional "SEL" has kids breathe, meditate, self-soothe. Let Grow gets kids OUT AND ABOUT. They play, run errands, cook...THRIVE! standtogether.org/stories/educ...
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A childhood independence movement is scaling up for impact
Here’s how South Carolina is bringing responsibility-building opportunities into schools statewide.
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freerangekids.bsky.social @freerangekids.bsky.social · 30/03/2026
High School Seniors can win $14,000 in scholarships in the @LetGrowOrg THINK FOR YOURSELF essay contest! Deadline: Ap 30. One of 4 prompts: Describe a time when you suddenly had to do or figure out something on your own. AND MORE!
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freerangekids.bsky.social @freerangekids.bsky.social · 30/03/2026
A little girl's first shopping experience by herself. Impressive, of course. But also just incredibly cute! Kids can do SO MUCH! How did we forget that??? #LetGrow! @Reddit www.reddit.com/r/KidsAreFin...
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From the KidsAreFingAdorable community on Reddit: solo shopping
Explore this post and more from the KidsAreFingAdorable community
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freerangekids.bsky.social @freerangekids.bsky.social · 29/03/2026
A Chicago mom started a "REAL WORLD" summer camp: Kids go to grocery, laundry, even a cemetery. And they find their way via public transit. THE KIDS LOVE IT! The parents are GRATEFUL! The growth is REAL! letgrow.org/real-world-s...
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A “Real World” Summer Camp?
See how a real world summer camp in Chicago helps middle school kids build independence, confidence, and life skills through everyday adventures.
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freerangekids.bsky.social @freerangekids.bsky.social · 26/03/2026
EXTREMELY DEEP PIECE by @SamBMD abt how "Leave!" is the most popular relationship advice on @reddit. And surging! This shows "a culture in which the presence of any friction...has become grounds for exit. We have quietly rebranded avoidance as wisdom." bit.ly/40V1MaM
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The Relationship Advice Making us Lonelier: When Did Difficulty Become a Dealbreaker?
What fifteen years of relationship advice reveals about our shrinking tolerance for difficulty.
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freerangekids.bsky.social @freerangekids.bsky.social · 24/02/2026
Calling all US play researchers & practitioners! Deadline to submit your abstract for Int'l Play Assoc conference -- #IPA2026 -- in New Zealand -- is coming soon! MARCH 1! Share your work on the global stage! Submit here: www.ipachristchurch2026.com/call-for-abs... #ChildDevelopment #Play
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Call for abstracts
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freerangekids.bsky.social @freerangekids.bsky.social · 20/02/2026
Where can you get reasoned, kind, real-world responses to a question like this: "At what age do you suggest 1. Cross the street alone, and 2. Go around the block alone?" At @LetGrowOrg's Raising Independent Kids FB group! www.facebook.com/groups/75993...
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a man is holding a stop sign while a group of kids cross the street
ALT: a man is holding a stop sign while a group of kids cross the street
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freerangekids.bsky.social @freerangekids.bsky.social · 19/02/2026
This mom made it happen! Started with 6 kids now has 43: HOW TO GIVE KIDS SCREEN-FREE PLAY TIME: letgrow.org/screen-free-...
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​HOW TO GIVE KIDS SCREEN-FREE PLAY TIME
Discover how a Let Grow Play Club helped one school grow from 6 to 43 kids, sparking screen-free play, independence, and a simple “Friendship Camp” idea.
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