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Franubis (comms open see pinned) @franubis.bsky.social · 05/10/2026

Big synth daddy COMMISSIONS for JANUARY, last slot left! 1st come 1st serve+free cum alt+pay in January❤️ forms.gle/K3vkStc3kBGQ...

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jusFono 💬 @jusfono.live · 30/09/2026

i read books sometimes 🍂 🎨 @crunchchute.bsky.social

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Fono 🔞 @fono-ad.bsky.social · 31/07/2026

Tbh it wasn’t even that, just the awkwardness of meeting in the flesh made me hesitant towards the idea of “making it real” in the future, whatever it might be

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Fono 🔞 @fono-ad.bsky.social · 31/07/2026

I tried meeting somebody local once and I think it made me more asexual ngl 😭 lmfao

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Fono 🔞 @fono-ad.bsky.social · 30/07/2026

Debating whether a shirtless pic is too fruity to post

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Fono 🔞 @fono-ad.bsky.social · 28/07/2026

You’re dodging bullets if they don’t even have the balls to tell you exactly what the reason is Finding those who have the ability to genuinely communicate is so hard You’ll likely notice when you finally meet that person, and that’ll be a shot out of this feeling Might be a while, but eventually

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Fono 🔞 @fono-ad.bsky.social · 28/07/2026

i think that's a valid defence mechanism when it comes to dealing with attachment i fear even befriending anybody who's already with a partner, out of fear that I'd get too attached to them it's not ideal, but I suppose there's not much else we can do. these things happen even to the best of us 💔

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Fono 🔞 @fono-ad.bsky.social · 27/07/2026

and everybody else I tried to get close to since then has just not felt the same I just, don’t know what to do I’ve dealt with it for so long, that I must be nearing some kind of limit. I’m really trying my best, but it gets harder & harder I hate to be a crying bitch, but it’s genuinely not fair

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Fono 🔞 @fono-ad.bsky.social · 27/07/2026

I NEED TO BE OVER IT. I can NEVER have that with them again, so I need to get over it.. and yet it still just hurts to think about. It’s like a betrayal. It was so long ago, yet the impact it had on me was life-changing. It’s kinda hard to forget when it makes up the very foundation of your being

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Fono 🔞 @fono-ad.bsky.social · 27/07/2026

I’m over it, I’m not over it, I’m over it, I’m not over it, I’m over it, I’m not over it, I’m.... It’s that kind of loop. I feel that I want them, I recognise that I can’t, then come up with logic that I shouldn’t want them. So why doesn’t the logic fucking work 😭

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Fono 🔞 @fono-ad.bsky.social · 27/07/2026

I sometimes find myself stuck on a crush that I feel I shouldn’t have anymore I get these strong feelings of wistfulness, akin to betrayal; it wasn’t fair then, it again isn’t fair now.. But my logical side recognises that I maybe wouldn’t want that relationship now; it’s not the same as it was..

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Fono 🔞 @fono-ad.bsky.social · 27/07/2026

Uh oh I’ve been comprised Red spy is in the base ...now how am I supposed to vent without making it obvious as to who it involves xd

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Circe [Rat] @pankallisti.bsky.social · 25/07/2026

Always funny when people go "I can't be puritan! look at all the kinks *I* have!!!" My fellow creature on this planet, puritanism isn't about the kinks you permit yourself- it's about judging people for others. You can be a super ultrakinkmaxxer, it is STILL puritanical if you go "oh ew yuck, vore"

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Fono 🔞 @fono-ad.bsky.social · 25/07/2026

What the fuck is this lmfao

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Fono 🔞 @fono-ad.bsky.social · 25/07/2026

how it feels to be a kinky asexual

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Fono 🔞 @fono-ad.bsky.social · 11/07/2026

Thanks, I appreciate the thought ✨

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Fono 🔞 @fono-ad.bsky.social · 11/07/2026

this surely has to be some of u, right

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Fono 🔞 @fono-ad.bsky.social · 11/07/2026

so all-in-all... I feel ashamed of myself for liking what I like. It has made it hard for me to trust people. But In order to fix that, I'd need somebody to trust. Don't you people love having somebody to fix? I've fixed people. Dated them. So what about me? Can you please be the one to fix me?

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Fono 🔞 @fono-ad.bsky.social · 11/07/2026

i've been wired to see any dissonance in mutual likes as a fight or flight response, whether it's the kinks or even something benign. so when I actually get to like somebody.... like, if that's you, buy a fucking lottery ticket. like DO YOU REALISE JUST HOW FUCKING LUCKY YOU ARE? 😭

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Fono 🔞 @fono-ad.bsky.social · 11/07/2026

I don't want to mingle with someone taken. got trauma there too I've gotten real close to breaking out of this loathsome bubble due to finding the "right person". But in the end, they ended up being taken already... yeah. i've noticed that everybody worth dating is likely already dating someone 💔

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Fono 🔞 @fono-ad.bsky.social · 11/07/2026

the trauma has already affected me, i can't just ignore it. In my professional traumatised opinion: I think that in order to fix me, i'd need somebody I could get genuinely close to. NOT SOMEBODY TAKEN. THE AMOUNT OF PEOPLE WHO HAVE FLIRTED WITH ME DESPITE HAVING A PARTNER IS FUCKING ASTOUNDING.

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Fono 🔞 @fono-ad.bsky.social · 11/07/2026

do none of them stop to think for one moment and feel any disgust? how do they suspend their disbelief? how do they.... the answer starts with being open about these things. I would have to understand that i can like this about myself, and that others can like it too. but i can't hope to do that.

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Fono 🔞 @fono-ad.bsky.social · 11/07/2026

and then I see others discuss and share these things so easily, finding people who can relate, and i come to feel hapless. how the fuck can they do it? how do they feel ok with themselves? how does everyone else who sees it feel ok with it?

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Fono 🔞 @fono-ad.bsky.social · 11/07/2026

this is also part of the reason why i consider myself asexual nowadays. i had kept info on my kinks and likes modest - out of the way unless people specifically searched for them - and i was laughed at and ridiculed anyway. congratulations, now i hate feeling horny. IN THE FURRY FANDOM! fuck you.

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Fono 🔞 @fono-ad.bsky.social · 11/07/2026

I still have a hard time trusting others with knowing what i'm into. It's also made me skeptical: "do they actually like XYZ, or are they merely tolerating it?". LET ME BE CLEAR. I DON'T WANT TO DO XYZ WITH YOU IF YOU DON'T FEEL THE SAME WAY ABOUT IT THAT I DO. I DON'T CARE IF YOU "DON'T MIND"

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Fono 🔞 @fono-ad.bsky.social · 11/07/2026

feeling wistful & ashamed once again ✨ genuinely hate kinkshamers with my entire damned soul. they've been far and few between - there hasn't even been one for a long time - but the few cases of it still leave me fucked up to this day I still don't feel good about getting turned on by these things

"this fucking sucks actually" meme, with a blurred image of a furry foot fetish artwork. there is no "literally the coolest thing ever" caption beside it, like the meme format would typically contain. Below the meme reads "(i don't mean the artist's work; they did great. this post is about hating myself, not the artist)". the artist is eljotafurro

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Fono 🔞 @fono-ad.bsky.social · 15/06/2026

Uh, I mean, this wasn’t about jealousy?

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Fono 🔞 @fono-ad.bsky.social · 15/06/2026

Daym, those are good scalies

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jusFono 💬 @jusfono.live · 14/06/2026

I did research turns out, there is something like this (at least for gender) My issue was: "Non-binary" ofc suggests a "binary", which doesn't sit right with me. It implies a 3rd thing, rather than nothing at all. So here is "apogender", which is to be entirely removed from this concept. [1/3]

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Fono 🔞 @fono-ad.bsky.social · 13/06/2026

i'm technically over it, but like.... well it's more like this xd

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Fono 🔞 @fono-ad.bsky.social · 13/06/2026

mixing alcohol and VRChat was a mistake lmfao not me witnessing my 6-year long crush get taken by someone right in front of me, live ✨✨✨✨💔 i'm not gonna make a big deal of it, but like.... man

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Fono 🔞 @fono-ad.bsky.social · 12/06/2026

FUCK YEAH!! Thank you so much :>

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jusFono 💬 @jusfono.live · 11/06/2026

chat, i think I might be non-binary but like, it kinda goes beyond that.... I don't wanna be described by my gender, my nationality, nor even my humanity. i'm just Fono I'm literally just a Fono, and that's who I wanna be seen as. I exist in my brain, not the shell the brain is in 💥

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jusFono 💬 @jusfono.live · 11/06/2026

If a (grey) aromantic starts to like you.... brother.. BROOOTHER.... THAT’S A FUCKING SIGN‼️

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Fono 🔞 @fono-ad.bsky.social · 11/06/2026

> “hmm, I should try to make friends my age” (18-22) > meets guys my age > socially inept; no humour. no quirks. no charisma. no curiosity. no reliability. no .. > “ohh, so that’s why...” I used to feel uncomfortable making older friends. Now I’m tired of limiting myself. Now I’ll date them, even

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